Men are the simplest specie I've ever handled in my life. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult.

If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man.
The right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with him!

1. MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off!

2. MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won't listen to you at all, snob you and treat you like trash!
A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instruction, that's not possible! He can't take everything. He will take the ones that makes sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.
He is the head. You can't force your ideas on him, you can only advise, the final decision lies in his hand, shikennah!

3. MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT: it's so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don't want that guy to have sex with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. I don't understand how a sane Christian sister will go to her fiance's house with a mini skirt and your laps thrown apart right in front of him! You also wore a low neckline and each time you bend, your big mammalian glands are staring menacingly at him and you tell him not to...not to do what? I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!
In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for sex, just one look at some wives, all the sexual desire the husband has flies right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc. Yet the man is surrounded by sweet smelling, well dressed, tantalizing, head swooning babes at work! You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married).

4. MEN WANT PEACE OF MIND: Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it all together.
Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of him till late in the night! Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or second wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces!

5. MEN LIKE QUALITY FOOD: unless he didn't give you enough money or he likes it, concoction rice with ground pepper, onions, coconut oil and maggi is an insult to him! Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!

6. MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: candidly, I love praising men, praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it all together and focus on my husband.
If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise!
Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and his song in his ears daily!
I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.

7. RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!

8. SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord."

9. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a HELPER?

10. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: the season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you be that kind of woman?

Tempulated:


Nonsense motivation and false hope. Na them. Ada won mo.

It's obvious you are off your dream's.You really cried more than the bereaved.

Calitoscassius:
What?! Please can you name these 4 airport owned by this Adabayo guy in the UK.



I think you mean leasing not own, even i don't own my house, even though i pay the mortgage and i still don't own the house i if finish paying the mortagage. I can only own the bricks and mortar.

His success is a pain to your eyes from your mischievous post.

Adebayo Ogunlesi is a Nigerian businessman and lawyer who acquired the following airports in the UK:

1. Gatwick Airport (2009)
2. Edinburgh Airport (2012)
3. London City Airport (2016)
4. Stansted Airport (2013)

He achieved this through his company, Global Infrastructure Partners (GIP), a private equity firm that invests in infrastructure assets worldwide.

Ogunlesi's accomplishments are a testament to his business acumen and entrepreneurial spirit!

John505050:
I've never been to the airport before, let alone traveling by flight. I feel like I'm a failure at this age. So sad.

The hardships of this life drives me really crazy at times. I work like an elephant, I get injured at building sites, I teach In private schools and yet, I eat crumbs like an ant. God when?

Relax young man, the funny thing is that most people like you facing this hardship do own Airports in years to come.
A Yoruba man called Adebayo Ogunlesi owns 4 Airport in Uk.
Don't give up on yourself,your future would be amazing.Keep hoping,hope is the womb of faith Omo Nla

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1. *Jeremiah 17:11*
The person who gets money dishonestly is like a bird that hatches eggs it didn’t lay. In the prime of life he will lose his riches, and in the end he is nothing but a fool.

2. *Proverbs 20:17*
Food gained by fraud tastes sweet, but one ends up with a mouth full of gravel.

3. *Proverbs 13:11*
Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears; wealth from hard work grows over time.

4. *Leviticus 19:13*
Do not defraud or rob your neighbour. “‘Do not hold back the wages of a hired worker overnight.

5. *Proverbs 28:22*
Greedy people try to get rich quick but don’t realize they’re headed for poverty.

6. *1 Timothy 6:9-10*
But people who want to get rich keep toppling into temptation and are trapped by many stupid and harmful desires that plunge them into destruction and ruin.
*Verse 10:* For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, in their eagerness to get rich, have wandered away from the faith and caused themselves a lot of pain.

7. *Micah 2:1-3*
Woe to those who plan iniquity, to those who plot evil on their beds! At morning’s light they carry it out because it is in their power to do it. They covet fields and seize them, and houses, and take them. They defraud people of their homes, they rob them of their inheritance. Therefore, the LORD says: “I am planning disaster against this people, from which you cannot save yourselves. You will no longer walk proudly, for it will be a time of calamity.

8. *Proverbs 10:2*
Ill-gotten treasures have no lasting value, but righteousness delivers from death.

9. *Proverbs 16:8*
It is better to have a little, honestly earned, than to have a large income, dishonestly gained.

10. *Ephesians 4:28*
Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.

*LET US TEACH OUR YOUTHS THESE AND MORE VALUABLE THINGS*

*Please copy to all platforms, especially Youth Platforms. Enough of ritual killings by the youths in the society. Our Communities will not witness evil any longer in Jesus Christ's name*
*Stay safe!*

1. Gets easily influenced by others.

2. Slaves to their addictions.

3. Afraid to say "NO".

4. Always gossiping about others.

5. Have a victim mentality.

6. Prioritize pleasure over everything else.

7. Not taking responsibility for their actions.

8. Addicted to P*RN.

9. Not able to handle criticism well.

10. Lack of discipline to take actions.

11. Constant excuses and whining about their problems.

12. Low self-esteem and low self-confidence.

13. Blaming others for their miserable life.

14. Always breaking their promises & can't back their own words.

15. Weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and not standing up for what they know is right.

During the times of medieval Europe, divorce was was nearly impossible. For those trapped in loveless unions, one drastic escape route beckoned: the divorce UFC ! This medieval clash of spouses, a perilous dance of death, was immortalized in the 1467 tome "Fechtbuch" ("Fencing Book" by German combat instructor and court adviser Hans Talhofer. This illustrated guidebook detailed the brutal choreography of these duels, a grim ballet where balance of power was paramount.

Given the natural physical prowess of men, the rules wanted a fair fight.
So, Husbands, wielding three hefty clubs, were confined to a waist-deep pit, roughly three feet in diameter. One arm was bound tightly against their bodies, further curtailing their mobility and reach. In stark contrast, wives roamed freely around the pit, each armed with three heavy stones wrapped in cloth, creating a medieval mace that swung with deadly force.

The weapons for both sides were matched in length, ensuring that neither could claim an unfair advantage. If a husband dared to touch the edge of his confining hole, he forfeited one of his clubs. A third infraction left him defenseless, relying solely on his wits and physicality to grapple his wife into the pit before her makeshift flail delivered a fatal blow.

Talhofer's manual did not merely outline the rules; it offered strategic counsel on attire, recommended combat techniques tailored to each gender, and provided a meticulous breakdown of how to exploit an opponent's vulnerabilities. Remarkably, the duels were crafted to be equitable, and history records numerous instances of women triumphing in these grim contests.

Victory, however, was bittersweet. The stakes of these duels were life and death. A wife's victory condemned her husband to execution, while a husband who prevailed faced the gruesome task of burying his wife alive. These brutal resolutions underscored the dire desperation that drove couples to such extremes, and the grim fairness that pervaded even the darkest corners of medieval justice.

The divorce duel, a stark testament to the harshness of the times, encapsulates the lengths to which people would go to sever ties that no longer bound them in love but in loathing. It’s a macabre chapter of history, where the quest for freedom often came at the ultimate price. Copied and edited by Bishop Tobi Eniigbega-Davies

*NIGERIA :*

The land of Generals without war,

Professors without discovery,

Politicians without ideology,

Wealth without prosperity,

Religion without piety,

Leaders without vision,

The oppressed without resistance nor worries,

Courts without justice,

Criminals without fears,

History without glory,

Heroes without honour,

Schools without learning,

Artists without taste,

Intellectuals without thought,

Terrorists without identity,

Appointees without roles,

Hunger without famine,

Change without progress,

Next level without foundation,

Democracy without citizens,

Democracy without freedom of speech.

Religion without conscience.

Land of money without amenities.

Unity without love,

Heroes without sacrifice,

Policies without plans,

Crime without culprits,

Saints without humility,

Integrity without performance,

Wars without enemies,

Billionaires without business,

Youth without dreams,

Elders without wisdom.

Rulers without sense.

THE 35 SACRED BRO CODES:
1. Don't rape.
2. A man doesn't cook delicious food, it's gayish.
3. Two naked men are not supposed to be in the same room.
4. A bro doesn't bath with hot water, he respect his 2 eggs.
5. A bro should know when to leave.
6. A bro should not ask a fellow bro his name, he should call him "Bro, Sir, Chairman, Mr, etc
7. As a bro when you remove your shoes, it must throw out a heavy, strong and intoxicating ordour into the atmosphere, your presence must be felt from a far distance like the stench of a he goat.
8. A bro must know the signal to leave the room when a bro's girl is around.
9. Never make funny of your bro just to impress women.
10. A bro must not pay for sex.
11. Your bro's Ex is your Ex.
12. Make money before you make love.
13. A bro must not watch a Korean drama.
14. No matter how beautiful your bro's sister is, she is your sister too.
15. A bro must not watch zee world, Nigerian movies and some petty content.
16. When money finally comes, don't change your woman, upgrade her.
17. Don't do husband duties while you are just a boyfriend.
18. A bro never gives up, the rest and continue.
19. If she say you are her planet, don't forget about other planets.
20. Always respect your father, he was your first bro. Respect your mother, she is your 001.
21. Never ever smash your bro's chick.
22. Never feed a horse that you don't ride.
23. A bro shall not gaze at a naked bro.
24. A bro never cries publicly or in front of any woman.
- A bro never use Snapchat filter, a bro must look ugly and gallant.
26. A bro never wears pink underwear.
27. If a bro asks another bro to keep a secret, he shall take that secret to his grave.
28. A bro is never offended if another bro fails to return a phone call or text.
29. It is never acceptable for a bro to sleep with another bro’s project or ex.
30. A bro never Gives another bro the silent treatment.
31. A bro never hold hands with bro while walking.
32. Bros DO NOT rush for selfies.
33. Never break up with the girl that bring food to the gang.
34. Even if you're caught red-handed, deny everything. 😎
35. Dress well, no matter the occasion.
Sup Bro 🤜🤛

Ogunlola was of Ibariba stock and descent. He came to the area now known as Ogbomoso in pursuit of his hunting profession. He stayed under ajagbon tree (still seen today by the side of the palace) and used the branches for hanging gears. The whole place was at this time (around the middle of the seventeenth century), a dense jungle. Ogunlola was an expert archer and brave hunter. Later he and his wife, Esuu, built their hut by the side of the ajagbon tree.

On a certain day, Ogunlola noticed smoke oozing from some nearby locations. He took courage and approached this place and discovered other hunters. The first hunter named Aale was found at a site now called Oke-Elerin quarters, the second called Onsile at the site now known as Ijeru quarters, the third Orisatolu at Isapa quarters and the fourth Akande quarters. The descendants of the first three of these hunters are still today the Bales of Oke-elerin, Ijeru and Isapa quarters respectively. However, there is no more Bale Akande. Esuu feared what might be her fate whenever she offended her husband; particularly when there was no one near their hut to act as check on him. She therefore designed a mound near the hut and by consensus they decided that whenever Ogunlola wanted to beat up Esuu, if she could escape and embrace the mound, whatever the nature of the offence, he must spare her.

This mound is named Lorungbekun (Olorun-gbo-Ekun) and is still within the Abata enclosure in the palace. The term of the agreement is Egbe Alongo (Alongo Society)

Ogunlola, after the discovery of these hunters, took the initiative to invite them to form the Alongo Society. The Primary objectives of the society were: Defence against Sunmoni (slave prowler) raids, Group hunting of wild animals, and Mutual assistance.

At the take off of the society. Ogunlola was, made the chairman. After each day’s hunting, they retired to Ogunlola’s hut where they were treated to beans and other meals and were served with sekete wine brewed by Ogunlola’s wife from fermented guinea corn. They also engaged in discussing current affairs and planning.

Later, other settlers came and built their huts and formed the nucleus of a small village. Ogunlola‘s hut became the place for setting disputes and other matters. He, Ogunlola had the final say. The groups of huts being on the north-south highway from Oyo-ile became popular as aroje (a place to stop for refreshment and other ‘knick-knack’ by travellers.

Esuu, the wife of Ogunlola introduced the worship of Orisapopon to Ogbomoso. This object of worship is the same as Orisala and is worshipped in different towns under different names. The worshippers are distinguished by white beads worn round their necks and wearing only white dresses. Drinking of palm wine is forbidden to them. The name orisapopo was probably derived from the fact that Ogunlola’s hut was on the north-south route therefore the Orisala being worshipped in the hut was name “Orisapopo” (idol by the highway).

The importance and influence of ‘Orisapopo’ among the citizens of Ogbomoso is immense. It can be described as the patron “Orisa” of Ogbomoso.

During the time the Ibaribas under the leadership of Elemoso attacked Oyo-Ile near Ilorin, Ogunlola was already in detention there, awaiting trial for an alleged offence of murder. Elemooso caused a devastating havoc among Oyo’s so much that they feared him in battle. Elemoso consequently laid total siege on Oyo causing famine and untold hardship among the people. Ogunlola therefore, told the Alaafin that if he could be released, he would kill Elemoso. This was granted and Ogunlola was shown where Elemoso camped. Ogunlola after studying Elemaso’s tactics took proper aim and shot him down from his hiding place. Ogunlola quickly beheaded him and brought the severed head to the Alaafin of Oyo. Elemeso’s army was therefore routed.

Alaafin was so impressed by Ogunlola’s prowess that he, the Alaafin, requested him to stay in the capital Oyo-Ile instead of returning to his settlement. Ogunlola politely declined saying “Ejeki a ma se ohun” meaning let me stay yonder” His majesty, the Alaafin, granted Ogunlola’s wish to return to his old settlement.

Later, travellers passing to and fro, used to refer to the settlement as that of who beheaded Elemaso meaning “ido eni ti o gb’Elemoso”. This was later contracted to Ogbomosho.

Eventually the authority of Ogunlola became greater and more respected. He was consequently made the head of the settlement under the title of Sohun to reflect his request from the Alaafin, ‘let me stay yonder’. His compound by the Ajagbon tree then became the Soun’s palace and a rallying point for all Ogbomoso citizens.

Ogbomoso, because of her strategic location, quickly grew from a village status to a medium size town. Her people were also reknown warriors. During the Fulani wars of the 19th century many towns and villages, about 147, were deserted while their people took refuge in Ogbomoso. The influx of people further enhanced the size and strength of Ogbomosho till date.

Avoid a relationship:

1. BASED ON PHYSICAL ATTRACTION ALONE
Aside the fact that both of you love each others looks, complexion, appearance, etc, there's nothing substantial about the relationship. You're always gushing about how beautiful or handsome your partner is, how long her hair is, and how hairy and broad-chested he is. You're in love with looks nothing more nothing less. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain.

2. BASED ON FINANCIAL GAINS ONLY
Whoever told you that a relationship is meant to be your poverty alleviation program lied to you. If you're in that relationship solely because of what you stand to gain financially, quit now before it's too late.

3. BASED ON S3X ALONE
Believers should keep the marriage bed UNDEFILED, holy, and pure. Once sex is involved, quit!

4. THAT MAKES YOU BITTER INSTEAD OF MAKING YOU BETTER
Any relationship that keeps serving you limes instead of smiles is doomed. Run away from any relationship that makes you share tears of sorrow regularly.

5. WHERE THE LOVE IS ONE-SIDED
The love has to be mutual. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner. Loving someone is effortless and comes naturally. Don't beg anyone to marry you nor should you marry anyone out of pity. If you're not feeling the love now, chances are that you won't feel it in the marriage.

6. WHERE THERE ARE OBVIOUS RED FLAGS
Red flags are like road bumps. So, the moment you start seeing different red flags in a relationship, match the break and do a U-Turn.

7. THAT MESSES WITH YOUR MENTAL HEALTH
Once your mental health is at stake, please take a walk!

8. WHERE DOMESTIC VIO.LEN.CE IS THE NORM
Quit with immediate effect once this is involved.

9. WHERE YOU'RE ONLY SEEN BUT NOT HEARD
Any relationship that silences you is not a healthy and Godly one.

10. THAT SEVERES THE CONNECTION YOU HAVE WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Once you can't freely relate with friends and family because of a relationship, this is a huge red flag!

11. THAT IS TO.XIC
Toxic relationships are deadly, avoid them at all costs.


12. WHERE YOUR PARTNER IS OVERLY CONTROLLING AND DOMINEERING
A controlling partner is dangerous and will frustrate you.

13. THAT IS CHARACTERIZED BY INCESSANT CONFLICTS
There will be conflicts but if they're the order of the day, that's a serious signal for you to take a walk.

14. WHERE YOU BOTH DO NOT SHARE THE SAME CORE VALUES
Your core values must align. Once this isn't the case, it's an invitation to future problems.

15. WHERE YOU BOTH HAVE CONFLICTING RELIGIOUS BELIEFS
A Christian should marry a fellow Christian. Don't mix up religions in marriage. Marry your type!

16. THAT DRAWS YOU AWAY FROM GOD
Your relationship with God comes first. Your spiritual life matters a great deal. If it's affecting your spiritual life, quit.

Remember, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

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Meet Sarki Abba from Kano State Nigeria, the genius that was made to rewrite WASSCE after scoring 9 distinctions.

In 1984, 16 year-old Abba, a student of Science Secondary School Dawakin Tofa, scored 9 distinctions (8 A1s and 1 A2) in his West African Senior School Certificate (WASSCE) Exams.

Examination authorities in Lagos didn't believe Abba made those excellent scores without cheating. The authorities provided a car that took Abba to Lagos in order to retake the exam.

Abba was made to take the 9 exams in a duration of 3 days, under heavy supervision. After marking the rescheduled exams, he scored 9 A1s (the only ‘A2’ he had in English Language before the retake, now became ‘A1’).

Faced with shock, the authorities apologized and instituted the National Merit Award. And, rightfully, Sarki Abba was the first recipient of the award.

In 1989/90 school session, Sarki Abba graduated as OVERALL BEST Medical Student, and OVERALL BEST Graduating Student at ABU, Zaria— he was just 21.

Today, he is a Professor of Urological Research, and Professor of Urology and Pathology at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, Chicago, USA.

He also serves as Co-Director of Cancer Global Health at the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center of Northwestern University IL, USA.

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Again, this is the headline of the Daily Times on Thursday, October 9, 1969, the day after Wole Soyinka was released from 22 months of imprisonment for advocating for Biafrans. Fifty-five years later, the children of those he fought for are insulting him and saying things like, 'You no go die better', 'Your father!' and 'Stomach Infrastructure'.

Peter Obi was eight years old on that day. He is one of the children Soyinka was fighting for. Wole Soyinka will be ninety in six weeks. Even if you cannot respect him for his age, at least revere him for what he did for some of our people and their parents when the whole world had abandoned them. Please fact-check me. Soyinka fought for food relief to be sent to Biafra.

Yusuf Datti Baba-Ahmed should consider this before threatening to "destroy" Professor Soyinka. If General Gowon, with fifty thousand soldiers, could not destroy Wole Soyinka, I seriously doubt that Baba-Ahmed can destroy the Nobel laureate even if he attacks with fifty thousand Obidients.

And to those saying Soyinka 'has no future' in Nigeria, please note that if not for men like Soyinka, who fought for justice and human rights, perhaps Peter Obi would not have had a future after the Nigerian Civil War.

As for stomach infrastructure, I encourage you to Google the prize money that comes with the Nobel Award. Money is the least of Soyinka's concerns.

Reno Omokri

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*INTRODUCTION*
Drawing from Matthew 19:12, it is evident that human sexual behavior, inclinations, capacities, and conditioning are influenced by three primary factors:

1) *Innate or Inborn Factors:*
These encompass hormonal and genetic makeup, physiological or biological characteristics, sexual responses, and the like.

2) *Societal or Environmental Factors:*
Cultural norms, relational dynamics or past relationships, upbringing, agents of socialization, and so forth.

3) *Self-Determinant Factors:*
Personal determination, decision-making, orientation, rigidity, and mindset regarding sexual matters.

*Benefits of Marital Intimacy*
- Pleasure and enjoyment
- Procreation and family planning
- Strengthening of emotional bonds and marital unity
- Contribution to cardiovascular health
- Enhancement of overall happiness and well-being

*Biblical Perspectives on Marital Intimacy*
- Sex is a divine gift bestowed by God.
- Premarital sexual relations is a sin.
- Adultery is a sin.
- Sex is spiritual that transcends the physical.

*FEW TYPES OF SEX*
▫️ *Dutiful Sex*: It implies a lack of personal desire and rather something that you feel you ‘have to do’ to fulfill one's responsibility to marriage.
▫️ *Pleasurable Sex*
It is borne out of desire and urge.
▫️ *Adventurous sex*
Trying something new in terms of position/style, new place, unusual time...
▫️ *Planned Sex*
This is based on schedule as a result of family, job or career narure or any other reason
▫️ *Spontaneous sex*
Happening from nowhere..with no premeditation (Lairotele)
▫️ *Quickie*
As the name implies. Straight to the point, short and precise😂.

*GENERAL ADMONISHMENT*
▫️Accepts the uniqueness of your partner. Love them as they are. Adjust what you can..live happily with what you can't change.
▫️Whoever has a higher libido should help the other by targeting the erogenous parts to jumpstart the other quickly.
▫️Build a family that permits freedom of expression.
▫️Anyone's feelings and expressions are valid.
▫️Be teachable. You're not the creator of sex. There is something you may not know.
▫️ Let your spouse feel free to correct or share their feelings in and out of the ACTION🤭.
▫️Money is crucial in marriage. We must ensure we manage financial challenges maturely so that it won't affect sexual desire.
▫️Be creative.
▫️Dressing is important in sex and helps sexual drive and attraction.
▫️Man and woman must be neat.
▫️Be seductive.
▫️Be grateful..sex is work.😅
▫️Improve and give feedback.
▫️Wife or husband has the right to ask for sex anytime.

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Olusegun Awolowo
LLB Law & International Baccalaureate…

Published Sep 19, 2016

*June 3, 1971.*


*My dear Commander-in-Chief,*

*You will recall that in a statement made by me and published in the SUNDAY TIMES of March 30, 1969, I declared, among other things, as follows:*

*“Even at the federal level, I have no desire whatsoever, and I certainly cannot be tempted or induced to develop one, to head, or participate in an unelected or even an electoral-college elected civil administration in a military or any setting. At the moment, I am participating in the activities of the military government because I have been invited, and I also think it is right, so to do. I am, therefore, obliged, morally and for the purpose of keeping Nigeria united, to take part, as fully as I can, in any measure designed, in particular, to keep the Ibos as a constituent ethnic unit in the federation of Nigeria, enjoying equal and identical status and benefits with other ethnic units, and in general, to preserve Nigeria as an economic and political entity.”*

* I should have, in accordance with this declaration, relinquished my present offices soon after the end of the civil war in January last year.

* But one main matter decided me against such an immediate course of action.

* As you know, before January 1970, the four-year development and reconstruction plan had been under active preparation, and it had been hoped that it would be launched early in the 1970/71 fiscal year.

* It was my strong desire to participate in the consideration of this plan.

* As it turned out, however, the plan was not actually considered until August 1970.

* By that time, three other factors had supervened.

* First, the capital estimates for 1970/71 had been delayed until the launching of the four-year development plan, which did not take place until November last year.

* At this late stage, I decided that the capital estimates of 1970/71 should be incorporated into those of 1971/72.

* Second, by November 1970, the time for the introduction of the 1971/72 budget was only some four months away.

* Third, as from September 1970, our foreign exchange position had started to undergo an unusual rapid deterioration.

* It occurred to me, in all these circumstances:

*That it would be untidy for me to leave without completing the budget for 1970/71;*

*That it would be hardly fair to my successor for me to leave at a time when preparations for the 1970/71 budget had actively begun under my direction,* and;

*That it might be interpreted in some circles as an act of bad faith for me to leave at a time when our foreign exchange was in such a bad state, and no sensible formula had been found for arresting its deterioration.*

* Now with the peace and unity of our great country fully restored and firmly re-established; with the four-year development plan already considered and launched and the capital estimates for 1970/71 completed; with the 1971/72 budget done and a reasonable solution devised for our acute foreign exchange, *I feel free to act in accordance with one of my fundamental beliefs, referred to in paragraph 1 above, and publicly declared on March 10, 1969-EIGHTEEN CLEAR MONTHS before the military government’s political programme was announced by you on October 1, 1970.*

*I would, therefore, like to notify you that, with effect from July 1, 1971, I am no longer willing to continue in the offices of Federal Commissioner for Finance and Vice-President of the Federal Executive Council.*

*Supplementary to the forgoing, there is another important reason for my present action. After four truly (I hesitate to say exceedingly) exacting (though thoroughly stimulating and educative) years in the Federal Ministry of Finance which, throughout the period, was incessantly beset with fiscal and monetary problems of unprecedented dimensions, and of peculiarly complex and tantalizing nature, I deem it to be in the interest of my continued good health to have a complete change of full-time occupation.*

* As to my future plan, I have decided to go back to legal practice.

*I also want to seize the opportunity, which the military government’s six-year political programme provides, to write, if my professional engagement permit, three books which have always been very much on my mind.*

* The research connected with two of these books will take me to selected developing countries in Asia, Africa, and Latin America, as well to ECA and OAU secretariats in Addis Ababa, the offices of some United Nations agencies in New York, and London University.

*I would like to state that though, by this resignation, I am leaving your government and literary activities as mentioned above, it does not mean that I am completely relinquishing all public services to our country and people.*

* On the contrary, *it is my resolve to continue, in all circumstances and until my life’s end, to see the best interests of our fatherland, and promote the welfare and happiness of our people, in every way possible.*

*In this connection, I would like to assure you that I shall always be willing, on a purely AD HOC basis and providing my professional commitments permit, to render, at your request and without any remuneration whatsoever, any particular service which is within my competence to give.*

* After my appointment in 1967, *I submitted to you a STATEMENT OF AFFAIRS (i.e. OF MY ASSETS AND LIABILITIES) as at June 30, 1967. In keeping with the code of conduct to which I subscribed, I am obliged to send you my statement of affairs as at June 30, 1971.*

* It is, however, not possible to send the statement along with this letter. *But my accountants are already working on it and as soon as it is finalized up to June 30, 1971, I shall forward it to you.*

* In closing, I would like, in all sincerity, to say two things:

*Firstly, I have tremendously enjoyed working with you; and it is not without considerable reluctance, therefore, that I have to take this step.*

*Secondly, I will always remember with deep gratitude, your kindness to me in releasing me from prison, and in giving me, within a year of my release, an opportunity to serve our people of Nigeria once again in a ministerial capacity, and at a time when the very existence of our fatherland was in grave peril.*

*With best wishes to Victoria and your good self, and love to Ibrahim.*

Yours very sincerely,

*OBAFEMI AWOLOWO.*


*GENERAL YAKUBU GOWON'S REPLY:*

*My dear Chief,*

*I wish to acknowledge the receipt of your letter dated June 3, 1971, intimating me of your decision to relinquish your appointments as the Vice-President of the Federal Executive Council and Federal Commissioner for Finance with effect from July 1, 1971.*

*For some time, there have been rumours about your leaving the government, but I was sure, however, that if there was such an intention you would have not hesitated to notify me.*

*Since I know that you must have taken your decision after the most careful consideration, no useful purpose would be served by any attempt to make change your mind.*

*It is, therefore, with the greatest regret and reluctance that I have to concede to your request.*

* In accepting your decision, I would like to place on record my personal appreciation of your most valuable contribution to our achievements during the last four years.

*You have earned for yourself respect from all of us who have seen you at close quarters, for your patriotism, coupled with a strong well-meaning conviction on issues of national importance.*

*I respect your maturity, objectivity, and sagacity, all of which you placed at my disposal; above all, for your advice and co-operation at all times.*

*Your outstanding performance as this government’s Commissioner for Finance during one of the most critical and turbulent periods of our history will always be remembered. You demonstrated, consistently, great courage, forthrightness, leadership, and a spirit of understanding which helped us to get out of our financial disaster.*

*That we did not succumb to the temptation to devalue our currency during the crisis and were able to win the war entirely out of our own resources and face resolutely the immediate post-war problems of rehabilitation, reconstruction and reconciliation was due, in no small measures, to your skill in the management of our finances.*

*I am aware that your position in this government, particularly as Commissioner for Finance, will be difficult to fill. However, I have a consolation in the fact that during your tenure of office, you laid a sound foundation on which your successors could build and carry on the good work.*

*I have no doubt that, at this moment, you will have the feeling that you have done your best. I share your feelings, too; and wish to extend my appreciation of the contribution of your dear wife who had had to bear more than her share of domestic burdens as a result of your public assignment.*

*I am glad to note and to accept your offer to hold yourself in readiness for assignment which the Federal Government may consider necessary to give you even when you will no longer be directly associated with public life.*

*Since there will be occasions soon for me and your colleagues in government to state our assessment of your contribution to the service of this nation in the last four years, I now merely wish to say how sorry I am to lose your services. We will miss your great sense of humour, your debating ability and useful suggestions at all times.*

*On behalf of myself, your colleagues on the Federal Executive Council, and the people of our great country, I wish you many more years of useful life.*

*My wife and Ibrahim join me in wishing you every success in your next sphere of life.*

Yours most sincerely,

*MAJOR-GENERAL YAKUBU GOWON*


*COMMENTS*

*These letters should become national assets for the politicians to study and discern the spirit of service, patriotism and desire to make Nigeria great again.

Precious Igbokwe
*The tenses. The Structure. This is a well written letter. Brilliantly worded. Not all these recent nonsense. Politicians don't take grammar seriously. Very Wrong.*

*I have read this letter severally and I am still wondering on what aspect to comment*

*Should it be on the mutual respect between the two leaders, or the appreciation of service rendered, or the emotion of parting*

*This correspondence surely tells us more about the personality of the late Chief Awolowo when General Gowon in his acceptance letter described him thus;*

*"You demonstrated, consistently, great courage, forthrightness, leadership and a spirit of understanding .............."* Paragraph 7.

*"We will miss your great sense of humour,your debating ability and useful suggestions at all times"* Paragraph 12.

*Like I stated initially I still find it difficult to write a comprehensive comment but it is a must read for all.*

*Late Chief Obafemi Awolowo was an embodiment of service to humanity. I am a proud beneficiary of his party (UPN) free education programme which formed part of his political manifesto for our Nation. But unfortunately the cabal did not allow him to ascend to the political hegemony of our great nation - Nigeria. All the LOOBO states benefited fully from the free education project. Baba Awolowo so much believed in Educating the masses to liberate them from oppression.*

*The same judicial system that got him incarcerated in the First Republic also schemed him out and prevented his becoming the Nigeria President in the Second Republic through a non-scientific mathematical formula of 2/3 of 19 states. No apology to Richard Akinijide who later became the Minister of Justice/ Attorney General of the Federation during the 2nd Republic.*


*Nigeria will never have people like Chief Awolowo again and that's why Nigeria is in a quagmire in dire straits a Giant that's wounded and struggling. The bad people killed Chief Awolowo's son to dispirit him, they hated him, jailed him, incacerated him but he still came out good he is the greatest Nigeria ever.*

Nigerians are a unique and vibrant people with a rich cultural heritage, and there are many factors that make them special in Africa. Here are a few examples:

1. Cultural diversity: Nigeria is home to over 250 ethnic groups, making it one of the most culturally diverse countries in Africa. This diversity has given birth to a rich cultural heritage, with many different languages, customs, and traditions.

2. Resilience and adaptability: Nigerians are known for their ability to thrive in challenging circumstances, and their adaptability has enabled them to succeed in various environments.

3. Entrepreneurial spirit: Nigerians are known for their entrepreneurial drive and innovative spirit, with many starting their own businesses and contributing to the country's economic growth.

4. Musical and artistic talent: Nigeria is renowned for its vibrant music and arts scene, with many world-renowned musicians, artists, and writers hailing from the country.

5. Cuisine: Nigerian cuisine is flavorful and diverse, with popular dishes like jollof rice, egusi soup, and suya enjoyed across the continent.

6. Warm hospitality: Nigerians are known for their warm hospitality and welcoming nature, making visitors feel at home.

7. Strong sense of community: Family and community ties are very important in Nigerian culture, with many people prioritizing the needs of their loved ones and community.

8. Rich history and heritage: Nigeria has a rich cultural and political history, with many important historical figures and events shaping the country's identity.

9. Natural resources: Nigeria is blessed with an abundance of natural resources, including oil, gas, and mineral deposits.

10. Vibrant diaspora community: Nigerians have a strong presence in the global diaspora, with many making significant contributions to their host countries in fields like medicine, science, technology, and the arts.

These are just a few examples of what makes Nigerians special in Africa. Their unique blend of cultural heritage, resilience, and entrepreneurial spirit has made them a vital part of the continent's fabric.

When my wife and I first got married and I had not recovered from the initial "gragra" (that overwhelming excitement of marrying someone you love), It was as if there was no other woman in existence aside her. No matter how beautiful another woman is, I wouldn't even notice. I spent most of my time with her, and I spent the few hours I was away from her to talk about her to the people around me. The babalawo wey do that juju for my wife sabi work 😃🤣😄

I'm sure no woman would agree to associate with me as of that time because I talk about my wife for a living. Imagine having a conversation with a lady for the first time, and all I have to say to her is "My wife this, my wife that"😄😃🤣
The lady would definitely get irritated. Meanwhile, I wasn't intentionally doing that to provoke others, I was too excited about getting married to the love of my life, I couldn't help it but talk about her always.

About 2 years later, when marriage challenges and responsibilities had increased, and I had recovered from the initial gragra, I discovered that, once again, I had tolerance for associating with other ladies and if I give too much chance, there's possiblity of developing feelings for another woman.

This began to bother me because I had made up my mind that I would be faithful to my wife. So, I decided to talk to one of my mentors. He's an elderly man with an enviable marriage and a serving Pastor in RCCG.

I went to his office one day and I asked him one question..."Sir, you have been married for more than 15 years, have you ever cheated on your wife?"

He took a deep breath and said "By the grace of God, I have never cheated on my wife"

Me: Sir, how did you do it? I am only two years married and I have started noticing other fine girls around. Sir, do you walk with your eyes closed?

He smiled and said: John, you must understand that no man is invincible. Personally, there were times that I have had to deal with strong temptations, I would have even fallen if not for God that has been helping me.

Me: Now surprised..."Sir, you don't mean it"

He continued "There's a young lady here in my place of work that is sexually appealing to me. Surprisingly, this lady is also obviously fond of me. She's always looking for opportunity to be close to me"

He put his hands on his table and said "There were times I had imagined inviting her into my office, lock all the windows and door and have a quick one with her on this my office table. In fact, I had thought of how sweet it'll be. The funny thing is, my wife also works here. Trust me John, if I tell my wife that we should have sex on this table, she wouldn't say no, but it seemed to me like sex with my wife on this table wouldn't be as pleasurable and adventurous as sex with this lady I'm telling you about"

Me: Wow

He: The thing is, satan has a way of deceiving men to believe that sex with women other than their wives will be more pleasurable, but in reality, it is a big lie from the pit of hell. That's why the book of Proverbs 9:17 says “Stolen water is sweet, And bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”

"John, the fact that you love your wife does not mean you'll not be tempted by other women, but the Holy Spirit is an enabler. In as much as the spirit of God still dwells in you, you'll always overcome".

I thanked him, we prayed together and I left.

Dear married men, it is possible to find another woman attractive, but do not let the devil fool you, your wife is enough for you. THERE'S NO PLEASURE ANOTHER WOMAN CAN OFFER THAT IS NOT IN YOUR WIFE. Remember that the word of God says every man must drink from his own well (Proverbs 5:15). Also, Proverbs 5:18 says "So be happy with your wife and find your joy with the woman you married" (GNB). Contentment is a great gain.

There's a prayer point that married men should not joke with..."Lord, let my wife be enough for me in all aspects".

For as many of us that desire to be faithful to our spouse, may God release His grace upon us in the mighty name of Jesus.

#Repost

Photo Credit: Ali Julius & Peace Ayuba

© John Adesogan

In my office, I receive more than 1,000 letters and mails every month.
All these letters and mails pass through my hands.

I stay awake almost all nights reading and responding.

After my promotion, I had to move into a new office and take over some special duties in addition to my schedule of duties.

In the new office, I saw letters that were dumped somewhere. No one has touched or open the letters nor read the letters

I wondered how the letters got there.

The envelopes used for the letters were very dusty. About nineteen letters from the same person.

It has same name.

Same phone number.

Same address.

Same request.

And same handwriting.

When our cleaners wanted to dispose them, I stopped him and requested him to bring them to me.

I opened and read one.

It was a letter written to the accounts and finance department of our company by a labourer in November 2019.

The letter was a request.

The worker was humbly requesting the head of accounts department to pay him, his salary that he is critically sick and needs the money for urgent treatment. In the letter, he stated that he had hepatitis which affected his liver.

I read the second letter. It was the same request. Looking at the letter, one will know that it was written in tears. The drops of tears were still visible on it, since the letter was inserted in an envelope.

I read the third letter and saw the same thing.

I read the fourth letter, it was still the same request.

He has been writing and sending in letters since November 2019 and the last letter was written on 10 August 2020, in which the writer stated that the accounts department should have mercy on him and his family and unblock his line and answer his calls.

It was confusing.

Who blocks people's lines here?

I decided to call.

I used my phone and dialed the number on one of the letters, which was the last letter written on 10 August 2020.

It ranged.

No one picked.

I redialed it.

It ranged again.

Someone picked.

I spoke first.

“Hello,” I said, “Good afternoon.”

“Good afternoon.” a female voice answered. It was the voice of a middle aged woman.

I told her my name and where I was calling from.

She kept quiet.

I told her that I am calling to speak with the person who bears the name on the letters.

She started sobbing over the phone.

“He is lying down here.” She cried.

“Who?” I asked to reaffirm.

“The person you want to speak with.”

“Can I speak with him, please?”

“He can't talk anymore. He is only breathing. He can't move. He doesn't even know that someone is sitting beside him. I am his wife. We have been writing letters and calling but you people said we should not disturb you anymore. Our lines were blocked. His money was withheld. We sent people to you people's office but they came back with nothing.” She cried, “We are just waiting for him to go and rest.”

I couldn't say a word.

I was just dropping tears because of the way she spoke.
She continued.

“He is dying day by day. The person receiving our calls and letters threatened us not to write or call again. My husband have been a worker in you people's company for more than seven years. He laboured there. He worked as if the work was his life. He didn't miss any day even when he was sick. But see how he has been abandoned. What has he done to deserve this treatment? God sees everything. We have been going around to ask for money but no one wants to help. We have to leave town and return to the village. No money to treat him. No money to eat. No money to pay rent. I spent my business money and nothing...” She sobbed.

I guess there was an error somewhere. Maybe something I am not aware of. The company I work for are not known for this narrative.

I asked her their village and home address. She told me.

I went to the village. It is a village between Osino and Begoro. I lost my way several times before getting to their house.

I saw the man. He was lying down on a mat in front of their house. The wife was sitting next to him on the mat. She was chasing flies around him. She just finished cleaning him up in front of their house.
He was looking dried and tired.
No emotion.
No movement.
He can't talk.
He can't hear.
His eyes were just opened, eye balls were merely rotating.

He is a middle aged man. At his early fifties. The sickness have taken the greater part of him and has left him dropping tears bit by bit which his wife constantly cleaned. I guess he noticed that a stranger was around.

I didn't know him when he was working with us. I did not think it was only the sickness his wife told me that brought him down to this state. What I saw was more than liver disease.

His wife in tears spoke to me saying;
“Even if he dies today, I am already comforted. He needs to go and rest. He has suffered a lot. Maybe, I will join him later. I have nothing else. I just came to this world to bury people I love.” I left there with tears and heavy heart.

On getting home, I sent foodstuffs and beverages from my house to them because I had no money with me.

As I got to work next day, I told my boss about the man. I also met the head of accounts department concerning the sick man. To my dismayed, the head of accounts department have been approving the man's salary every month non stop but the accountant in charge of payment was not sending the money to him, since he noticed he was not coming to ask for it. The accountant was embezzling the money. Sadly enough, the accountant was also close to the man, so the letters and calls were going directly to him. The sick man and his wife trusted him and they were using him as a middle man to reach the head of accounts on their behalf. My pain arose more when I found out they were even from the same community.

He has been signing and collecting the man's money for about two years now without delivering the money to the sick man.

He was arrested and charged.
He payed off the money in a day from his life savings.
He was then suspended.
But I have made an enemy.
An enemy that doesn't know that he is an enemy of himself.

Two of our Directors visited the sick man and his wife. They arranged for him to be taken to the hospital for better treatments. He was admitted into the hospital last weekend for better treatments.

This morning.
I received a call.
It was the man's wife.
Her voice choked on the phone.
She was sobbing.
Bitterly.
She then spoke.
“Thank you so much. Thank you so much for fighting for my husband. Thank you so much for your efforts. At least I heard his voice again. He smiled at me. Now that I am speaking with you sir, he is gone to be with the Lord. God bless you, sir.”

MY TAKE: Who are you sitting on his/her salary, progress etc.

Who are you assassinating his character, because you're envious of him?

This speaks volumes about who we are, as individuals (Pastors, Imams, Elders, Mosque Committee, Church members Jama'), as a Nation. The problem is not all about the President, Governors or government but all as a people. Some are more wicked than the devil himself. The change needed must begin with individual.

Emmanuel Noble Okereke

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People’s need to change towards others .

Women are naturally unpredictable

In 2006, The then EFCC Chairman Nuhu Ribadu, came before the Senate and Listed 5 Most Corrupt Governors in Nigeria..
They include:
1. Orji Kalu, Abia State.
2. Ahmed Bola Tinubu, Lagos State.
3. Ahmed Sani Yerima, Zamfara State.
4. George Akume, Benue State and
5. Chimaroke Nnamani, Enugu State.

Today, In 2024, 18 Years After.
a) Orji Kalu = Serving Senator.
b) Bola Ahmed Tinubu = President of Nigeria.
c) Ahmed Sani Yerima = Senator
d) George Akume = Senator and now SGF, appointed by Tinubu.
e) Chimaroke Nnamani = Senator.

Shockingly, the then EFCC Chairman, Mal. Nuhu Ribadu, who made presented the list but failed to prosecute them, Is now the National Security Adviser, appointed by President Tinubu..

That Senate Is currently headed by another EFCC suspect, Senator Godswill Akpabio.

Which Way Nigeria?
May God set us free Aamiin

Oba Chandi Olaoye is a visionary leader, motivational speaker, and entrepreneur known for his immense commitment to excellence and leadership skills. He is the CEO of Peculiar People Management (PPM) and GihonRiv Limited, which are Management and Human Resource Consulting Companies based in Lagos, Nigeria and Maryland, USA.

His Imperial Majesty Oba Ghandi is the Chairman and Co-founder of Great Place to Work Institute, Nigeria, and also a Director of Great Place to Work Institute, UK, based in London. GPTW is a global research and management consultancy company that recognizes the best workplaces in over fifty-six (56) countries worldwide and provides premier business and advisory services.

Also, the Chairman, Quest Oil & Gas (ASCON Oil) an independent marketer of petroleum products (storage, distribution and sales) in Nigeria and Quest Engineering Company a value-driven energy company providing eco-friendly and innovative services in the upstream, midstream and downstream sectors.

Oba Ghandi is the Chairman BUOJO Limited a Telecommunication Support Services and Information Technology Consulting Company. He is also the Chairman of Education Advancement Support Services (EASS) limited company which focuses on Engagement and Fundraising Technology for Higher Institutions. His Imperial Majesty served on the Board of National Council on Privatization (NCP) which is also the Board of Bureau of Public Enterprise (B.P.E) (2017-2021). He is a member of the Board of Trustees of Strategy for Mentoring Initiative & Leadership Empowerment (S.M.I.L.E), a young entrepreneurship for development and a non-profit organization.

In January 2009, Oba Ghandi was invited to serve as an Advisor and Council Member on the Council for New Americans by the Maryland State Governor of the United States of America, Governor Martin O’Malley. While he served a four-year tenure on the council, he assisted the Governor to form policies on immigrant integration into the state of Maryland. His Imperial Majesty serves on the board of A Smile on Their Faces Initiative (a non- profit initiative focus group for people living with disabilities).

Oba Ghandi served as the Chairman over a real estate development project in Floyd, Texas – USA, where he oversaw the development of over 700 acres of a campus which comprised of a college, housing estate, and a 20,000-Seater Auditorium.

A member of the Board of Directors at Adams Smith Investment & Financial Company, Ikoyi, Lagos between 1990-1993, member of the Board of Director at Touchmark Saving & Loan Lagos (1992-1995) and member of the Board of Directors at Dunamis Finance Company (1991-1994).

An Associate of the International Third World Leaders Association (ITWLA) chaired by the late Dr Myles Munroe, a forum created for the exchange of cross-cultural ideas globally. He represented Myles Munroe international in Nigeria for over 10 years. Oba Olaoye is an influential community leader recognized both in Nigeria by former Nigerian President Olusegun Obasanjo in 2001 and in the United States of America by President Barack Obama in 2011.

A recipient of various awards which include the Youth Empowerment and Positive Mentoring of Africans in the Diaspora Award which was conferred by the African Business Roundtable in December 2008. He has been featured in many newspapers and electronic media.

Oba Ghandi graduated in 1982 from the prestigious Obafemi Awolowo University in Nigeria (formerly known as University of Ife) with a BA Honors in English and Literary Studies; he holds a Master’s degree (MILR) in Industrial and Labor Relations with emphasis on Human Resource Management from Nigeria’s premiere University, University of Ibadan (1987).

Born on August 23rd 1961, he enjoys traveling and has been to over sixty-five (65) countries in Europe, Asia, Australia, the Caribbean, North and South America, the Pacific Islands and Africa. His other interests include: swimming and playing scrabble. His Imperial Majesty Oba Ghandi Olaoye is an ordained minister and married to Omo Ghandi-Olaoye with two children – Feyintolu and Toluni.

May his reign usher in more peaceful co-existence and unprecedented development in Ogbomoso.

Long Life, Kabiyesi .

#ATM

May 2, 2024

“That a serving police officer would openly admit to being a billionaire resulting from running a curious business while still in uniform confirms the lack of accountability that defines public conduct in our country today. Yet, as I have also repeatedly stated on this page, when you run a system where there are no consequences for bad behaviour, it becomes easy for those who ordinarily should uphold the law to also become outlaws. Unfortunately, that is where we are in Nigeria today!”
Mr Aderemi Adeoye retired yesterday as the Commissioner of Police (CP) in Anambra State. By his own admission, his net worth is now N20 billion! And he has set his eyes on displacing Alhaji Aliko Dangote as the richest man in Africa within the next ten years. I am also quoting him. “I have been privileged to be trained in Ghana, England, Israel, California and more. I have served abroad in the United Nations, and this career gave me opportunities for self-development, and these have prepared me for retirement,” Adeoye admitted during his ceremonial pull out parade from the Nigeria Police Force (NPF) in Awka last weekend. “In 2018, I founded an investment club, Alpha Trust Investment Club (ATIC) Limited. We started it with a modest sum of N54 million, but today we have investments worth over N20 billion. That will be my full-time business from Wednesday, May 1 (yesterday). We have been investing and now we want to go into full time business. And we will in the next 10 years give Dangote a run for his money.”

Let me be upfront here. I do not agree with those who find virtue in the kind of ‘poverty’ fables that propelled former President Muhammadu Buhari to power in 2015. So, I am not opposed to legitimate ‘side hustles’ without which it is difficult for professionals to stay afloat in Nigeria. But there is a problem when public officials acquire stupendous wealth that is impossible to explain and then make a show of it. Therefore, to know more about this multibillion Naira company whose promoter seeks to displace Dangote on the ‘Forbes List’, I first conducted a search at the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC) where I drew blank. I am surprised that a business concern with a portfolio of N20 billion is not listed at the CAC. Then I did a Google search. My findings were shocking.

In February this year, some people had petitioned the Inspector General of Police, Kayode Egbetokun, asking him to investigate an alleged fraudulent diversion of over N20 billion funds by Adeoye. In the petition, dated 30 January 2024 and signed by 33 members—including Diasporan Nigerians resident in the United States, Canada, Australia and the United Kingdom—they alleged that Adeoye has been using his uniform to operate what they described as a Ponzi Scheme. “Sometime around 2017, we became ‘friends’ with Mr Adeoye on Facebook. At the time, he was serving in the African Union on secondment from Nigeria. He endeared himself to us and many others by projecting himself as a champion for victims of fraud and an upright man,” they wrote. “Often, he claimed to have come to the aid of persons who had been defrauded on Facebook. He got many accolades from many of us for these claims. As time will show, these claims were deliberate and well-planned effort by him to win the trust of many of us on Facebook as a precursor to launching his grand scheme.”

In 2018, according to the petitioners, Adeoye “proposed an investment club on Facebook, named Alpha Trust Investment Club (ATIC), aiming to pool funds for diversified investments, including joint property purchases. The idea gained traction due to Mr. Adeoye’s credibility as a senior police officer. Trust was high, leading to initial payments directly to his personal account. ATIC was later formally established under the Corporate and Allied Matters Act, growing to over 1,400 members by 2023.”

However, according to the petitioners, what is now happening “Centers on a lack of accountability, lack of proper structure, gross abuse of powers, intimidation, arbitrary punitive actions against members, negligence of duty, and a failure to adhere to regulatory requirements. All of these have cost members dearly.” After listing nine accounts domiciled in GTBank to which monies are paid with Adeoye as sole administrator, they demanded that he “be compelled to disengage from running the investments with immediate effect, with an undertaking not to touch or deal in any assets belonging to the Club, since his involvement in the scheme, and dealing in the business as a public servant, in the first place, is prima facially (sic) illegal ab initio and as a matter of law.”

There is nothing on record to suggest that Egbetokun acted on the petition. But a few weeks ago, PUNCH newspaper interviewed Adeoye who described the claims by those petitioners as “criminal defamation of character”. These were his words: “They are our members and started fomenting trouble. In the course of this, they issued threats. Someone who issues threats to others is a criminal. The person they want to haunt down is the largest shareholder, who has 11 million shares. If something is wrong with the finances, who is the first to know? What they are doing now is criminal defamation of character. When you defame a person criminally, that is a crime. The Board of Trustees met and expelled them; after they were expelled, they labelled the club Ponzi.

“We bought land as a cooperative. And we have one document for it in the name of the cooperative for each purchase. Am I supposed to tear the document into pieces and then begin to share them? We are an online investment platform. We published all the receipts and payments on our page, and every member sees them. We have created a lounge to process their settlement. We are writing to the developer to remove the parts of the bulk purchase for them and issue documents to them in their names. Developers charge 10% of the current value of the land for that. We are not asking them to pay us. They should pay directly to the developer. We will only certify them as our members for the process.”

I am still trying to process what this company is about. But there are even more critical questions that beg for answers. How can a Police Commissioner establish a ‘business’, ask the public to contribute funds that would generate returns, use his private accounts to receive such funds and claim ownership of the pool of money contributed by ‘shareholders’, after allocating 11 million shares to himself? And how could Adeoye have been diligent in his work as a law enforcement officer if he spent considerable time chasing money from people whose backgrounds he had no idea of—including those who could be criminals? Are there no regulations within the police that frown at a serving officer establishing and running a business venture, especially of this nature? Are police officers exempted from the code of conduct for public officials in Nigeria?

On Monday, there was an online post titled, ‘The audacious billionaire cop’ credited to a Mr Dauda Adesina Joki-Lasisi, a retired police officer. Joki-Lasisi (who claimed to have started his career in 1988 as a cadet inspector after training at the Police Academy in Kano) drew from his own moral examples and that of many others in the NPF to argue that money making is incompatible with the work of a law enforcement officer. He concluded his treatise with several posers. “In a service where the pension of a retired CP is not up to a N100K, what message was CP Adeoye sending to those still in service? Was it for them to embark on a rabid pursuit of money at all costs in order to secure their post-service life? And in that case, how wouldn’t these officers then compromise the sacred policing ethics by monetizing their services to the detriment of the masses and the security of the nation?” Joki-Lasisi asked. “I think retiring senior officers need to now be compelled to submit their valedictory addresses to the police authorities for vetting and possible censorship of any damaging content thereof, in order to prevent the recurrence of an embarrassing absurdity of this nature.”

I wish Adeoye well as he retires to the stupendous wealth that he has amassed for himself. But like Joki-Lasisi, I also believe that the NPF should be concerned about the reputational damage of his audacious disclosure. In my August 2021 column, ‘Beyond Abba Kyari’s Indictment’, I addressed a similar issue that borders on ethics in the police. The intervention followed the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) indictment of a Deputy Commissioner of Police (DCP) then touted as a ‘Super Cop’. “By charging Kyari to their court, asking for his arrest, and placing emphasis on the fact that ‘he is a highly decorated deputy commissioner of the Nigeria Police Force …’, the FBI was implicitly making a connection between criminality and law enforcement in our country,” I wrote in the column. “There are lessons in this tragedy that should not be lost on the authorities in our country. Having allowed the police to degenerate as an institution, it is little surprise that many of their personnel now embody the worst vices of society.”

That a serving police officer would openly admit to being a billionaire resulting from running a curious business while still in uniform confirms the lack of accountability that defines public conduct in our country today. Yet, as I have also repeatedly stated on this page, when you run a system where there are no consequences for bad behaviour, it becomes easy for those who ordinarily should uphold the law to also become outlaws. Unfortunately, that is where we are in Nigeria today! *I actually didn't want to make comment on this very heart rending and total disgrace issue regarding the Nigeria Police. But, I'll still say; it's one of the shameful aspect of today's Nigeria Police that has gone a long way in the destruction of the Nigeria Police Force. Very unfortunate.*😭😱

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Ballzproblem2:
I'm sure he rooted for tinubu and and was one of those bigot telling igbos to go home , anyways rip to him

Where is your conscience? You typed like a lunatic, you and I will die someday too and it won't matter how.You are an animal in human skin.Oponu Omo

Although I consider this question a dumb one, I’ll share my considerations. Sex is primarily an instinctive indulgence, and I’m sure goats don’t watch porn to know what to do during sex; chimpanzees and dogs don’t either. It’s like a baby’s first walking steps; it is instinctive—a response to nature’s design.

Humans are born with a sexual primal instinct that calls us to act in a certain way during sexual intercourse. I have heard foxes moan while mating, and it’ll be dimwitted to suggest that it’s a learned behavior. It is nature, just like it is natural to cry when beaten. The summary of my point is that if two virgins get married, they will, to a great extent, know what to do. They’ll know what’s pleasing, what’s painful, what feels good, what should be repeated.

Who taught humans what sex styles are? NOBODY! It’s the instinctive obsession to pleasure that invents even more pleasurable sexual methods. Sex styles must have been as old as mankind, but its labeling and popularity was aided by porn. Porn didn’t invent sex styles; nature did. It is important that intending couples know basic things about their sexual organs, but this should never be taught using pornography. Pornography is a skewed and corrupt imagery of sex. It is everything sex and intimacy is not! It is a bad example.

As Christians, it’s an abomination. Justifying watching porn as a married couple is like learning how to please God from Satan. Your marriage is holy; why involve unholy things? I appreciate the liberty married couples have in marriage, but it’s still subject to holiness. Humans don’t need porn for a fulfilling sexual life in marriage. The primal instinct aided by communication during intimacy is enough for pleasure your partner. Porn is unattainable—60 minutes nonstop thrusting; the perfect bodies and 10 inches joysticks are unreal.

Why should Christian couples be comfortable ‘learning’ sex from two strangers committing fornication on camera? Why?
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1. 5 ants + 5 ants = Tenants
2. To bring an ant from another country into your country = Important
3. Ant that goes to school = Brilliant
4. Ant that is looking for a job = Applicant
5. A spy ant = Informant
6. A very little ant = Infant
7. An ant that uses a gun = Militant
8. An ant that is a specialist = Consultant😂
9. A proud ant = Arrogant🤔
10. An ant that is cruel and oppressive = Tyrant
11. An ant that is friendly and lovely = Coolant
12. An ant that has changed from evil to good deeds = Repentant
13. An ant that accumulated so much food in summer for use in winter = Abundant
14. An ant that isn’t willing = Reluctant
15. An ant that keeps financial account = Accountant
16. An ant that occupies a flat = Occupant
17. A huge ant = Giant
18. An ant that is important = Significant
19. An ant that has big legs = Elephant
20. A sarcastic ant = Mordant
21. An extremely fast ant = Instant
22. A noisy ant = Rant
23. An ant that doesn't keep moving = Constant
24. A dirty ant = Pollutant
25. An ant that annoys = Irritant
26. An ant that lacks knowledge= Ignorant
27. An ant that can take anything without complaining= Tolerant
28. An ant that wastes resources= Extravagant
29. A very careful ant = Vigilant
30. An ant that maintains good odour = Deodorant
31. An ant that finds it hard to move = adamant
32. An ant that refused to move = Redundant
33. An ant that is into business = Merchant
34. A Political ant = Aspirant
35. An ant that sues someone to court= Complainant
36. A happy ant = Jubilant
37. An ant that is patient - tolerant
38. An ant that does not cooperate - recalcitrant
39. An ant that doesn't agree easily - reluctant
40.An ant that runs away from school unjustified -Truant

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Best wishes to all English Language teachers...

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Only ladies who are qualified should apply please.

I will keep saying this:

Any man or woman who believes this myth has his/her head in the sand.

Character ko, Attitude ni.

A rich handsome man single because of character 😂

If he is truly rich and handsome, that's all many women want. They would queue up to date or even marry him.

They won't even wait for him to woo them. They would woo him.

Modern women don't care about lack of character in a rich and handsome dude. It is simply not a deal breaker for them, although that is unfortunate.

How much character does the likes of Davido, Wizkid and other male celebs/artistes have, and yet they keep impregnating women everywhere, with many others still on queue. Dey play.

Again, anyone who believes this character crap is not living in the real world.

A rich handsome dude who is still single in this day and age CHOOSES to be single. Period.

People should stop talking nonsense.

#truthissacred
Selah.

Westerhoffe:
And your moniker is Darev-of-peace but you're brewing vawulence.

Raise am, raise am, raise am😂😂😂

Most of these are lies