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In the year 2016, precisely on November 30th, in the midnight hour, I had a supernatural encounter with Jesus. He gave me a glimpse of the events that would happen in the last days.

I wrote all these revelations down, and I want to share them with all Nigerian Christians ahead of the manifestation of the Sons of God.

The year 2017 would come and go like a flash of light, because the Lord is going to bless His people beyond measure, and His grace will be sufficient for all.

It is time to be enlisted among the favored of the earth and to restore the lost glory that was meant for the people whose aim and ambition is to establish God’s kingdom on the earth. The Scripture that says, _“The glory of the latter days shall surpass the former,”_ will begin to be fulfilled appropriately in the year 2017.

God’s people shall be restored a millionfold, and the anointing and grace they carry will surpass all the years they have witnessed before.

Since the redemption of mankind, the lost, the oppressed, the confused, the perplexed, and the broken will willingly find their way back to their Messiah without anyone pestering them for salvation. This is because the vacuum in the heart of man can never be filled by anything other than God’s original intentions, plans, and purposes.

Now the time has come for the Gospel to be preached around the world. Believers must brace themselves to take their place in life and destiny. The private decisions of believers, both as individuals and as the corporate Church, will shake the world and bring it to a standstill.

Then My people, the saints, will witness the greatest unction, deliverance, and anointing that I have spoken about since the inception of the world—to bring My people, the beloved of the earth, back to their original place and to God’s intention from the foundation of the earth.

The unbelievers will surely bow before these selected ones and be humbled by their generosity, holiness, righteousness, resilience, dedication, and practical Christian living. They will never mock My people, the saints, again. They will see My glory upon their lives and call others to come and behold the _King of Glory_ as a whole nation. The kings of the earth will see His glory and experience a peace like never before.

There is a place of honor for My people, the saints, and they will surely take over and possess their inheritance ahead of the world. They have seen the very worst of the evil of the earth. Now is the time for their physical manifestation on the earth. They will no longer be mocked by the poor of the earth; they will walk in majesty.

They will arise in power and subdue nations greater than their predecessors. They will make a total recovery of all the long-held promises I have given to them. They will shine forever like the sun and fully appropriate the grace I have given them. They will experience the peace I enjoyed like a river while on the earth, and they will take over from God’s enemies who have molested them, oppressed them, and caused them shame.

They are anointed for battles, configured for exploits, and predestined for breakthrough. They will surely become wonders on the surface of the earth. _“The least of My people will be a force to reckon with in every part of the earth.”_ The selected few among them, who are meant to lead them to their God-given Canaan, will show them what I have reserved for them in secret.

A mighty army is coming from the uttermost parts of the earth—such as no nation has ever witnessed before. This army of saints will shake the whole world and bring its people to their knees. _“The power, grace, and anointing I will give My people will flow like a river of water.”_

I will cause all the nations of the earth to bow before them and give them back the inheritance which the serpent caused them to lose in the Garden of Eden—a thousandfold.

They will keep displaying the flags of victory and unity to the residents of the earth and bring Me the total glory, power, respect, and honor which I have truly deserved and craved for since the beginning of the earth.

They will no longer be called _‘the forsaken.’_ They will keep receiving My grace and all-sufficient mercies in their fullness. In every facet of life, even the least among them will display great wonders and show the whole world that the God of Israel reigns forever.

The final emancipation of the End-Time Army, who will unite the Church of Christ, has come. We shall spread the Gospel of Christ Jesus to all nooks and crannies of the whole earth.

It is never too late to join the saints of Christ Jesus who want to return the glory, honor, and power that Jesus Christ has desired from the foundation of the earth.

The rapture is at hand. There is no time to waste. Good morning, Nigeria.

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Look at the attached photo very carefully. It is unedited. In case the notoriously short-memory Nigerian public has forgotten, this is what Nasir el-Rufai did to Sheikh Ibrahim el-Zakzaky when he was Governor of Kaduna State for eight unfortunate years between 2015 and 2023.

In addition to reducing Sheikh Zakzaky to such a barbaric and pathetic state, 347 Shia Muslim men, women, children, and infants were massacred under Nasir el-Rufai.

That was the official figure. The unofficial figure put the death toll at about a thousand!

Under Nasir el-Rufai, his critic, Abubakar Idris, was snatched from his house before Salatul Jumu'ah prayers on Friday, August 2, 2019, never to be seen again to this day. He is believed dead!

Dadiyata, as Abubakar Idris is (or was) fondly called, left behind at home a wife, Khadija Ahmad Lame, and two young daughters, Hanifa and Fatima, who have been living in trauma since his 2019 abduction under the el-Rufai despotic regime.

Nasir el-Rufai arrested multiple journalists and activists for covering him negatively, including:

Jacob Onjewu Dickson
Segun Onibiyo
Midat Joseph
Audu Maikori

Audu Maikori had to escape Nigeria for the United States, where I met him, interviewed him, and shuddered in terror at what Nasir el-Rufai did to him.

After Nasir el-Rufai was criticised by the Peoples Democratic Party in Kaduna, he demolished a house linked to the official who criticised him on claims that the house hosted a "sex party". I interviewed the owner, Aisha Mercy Yakubu, and she said nothing of such occurring. She was just a victim of Nasir el-Rufai's vendetta!

Nasir el-Rufai also demolished the home of his major critic, Senator Suleiman Hunkuyi, the leader of a faction of the Kaduna State All Progressives Congress opposed to him.

To further disgrace Senator Hunkuyi, the house was demolished at 2 a.m.

Nasir el-Rufai also demolished the house of another critic, Alhaji Inuwa Abdulkadir, then the APC National Vice Chairman (North West), who was strongly critical of el-Rufai and opposed his re-election.

This is a man who boasted of paying killer herdsmen. The ordeal of the harrowing experiences of Southern Kaduna Christians under this butcher is another cautionary tale.

His hatred for Christians and Christianity is encapsulated in his boast that:

'Even if Pope is my running mate, Christians won’t vote for me.'

So, please, Nasir el-Rufai should stop all this grandstanding and falsely accusing the National Security Adviser, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu, of his present condition.

The truth is that Nasir el-Rufai is fingered in the alleged theft of ₦423 billion during his tenure by no less a body than the Kaduna State House of Assembly. He is not above the law or above arrest.

He should not resist legal arrest or try to blame others for his alleged crimes. It is doubtful that any Governor in the history of Nigeria has arrested more of their critics than Nasir el-Rufai.

And because he did it, his guilty conscience makes him think that everybody is like him.

No, Nasir, you are not being persecuted. You are being prosecuted!

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #TableShaker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Hodophile. Hollywood Magazine Humanitarian of the Year, 2019. Business Insider Influencer of the Year 2022. 21st Most Talked About Person in Africa, 2024.

"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast." - Ephesians 2:8-9

Beloved, today we gather to celebrate the greatest gift ever given - the gift of salvation. We live in a world filled with sin, pain, and uncertainty, but God, in His infinite love, has provided a way out. (John 3:16) says, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."

Salvation is not something we can earn or achieve on our own. It's a free gift from God, made possible through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross. (Romans 6:23) says, "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."

We are all sinners, deserving of punishment, but God, in His mercy, has made a way for us to be reconciled to Him. (2 Corinthians 5:21) says, "For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him."

The question is, will we accept this free gift? Will we put our faith in Jesus Christ and receive the salvation He offers? (Acts 16:31) says, "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved..."

Let's pray: Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of salvation. Help us to accept it with gratitude and live a life that honors You. Amen.

Nigeria, a nation blessed with abundant resources and talent, has struggled with corruption and poor leadership for far too long. However, it's not too late to turn the tide. Here are 15 key strategies to help Nigeria overcome these challenges:

1. Leadership by Example: Leaders must model transparency and accountability.
2. Strengthen Institutions: Independent bodies like EFCC and ICPC must be empowered.
3. Citizen Engagement: Active participation in governance and demanding accountability.
4. Education and Awareness: Educating citizens on their rights and the impact of corruption.
5. Technology for Transparency: Leveraging tech to track government spending and projects.
6. Judicial Reform:Ensuring swift and unbiased justice for corrupt officials.
7. Economic Diversification: Reducing dependence on oil and boosting entrepreneurship.
8. Anti-Corruption Education: Incorporating anti-corruption studies in schools.
9. Transparency in Elections: Ensuring free, fair, and transparent elections.
10. Protect Whistleblowers:Safeguarding those who expose corruption.
11. Asset Recovery: Retrieving stolen assets and prosecuting offenders.
12. Media Freedom: A free press to expose corruption and hold leaders accountable.
13. Youth Engagement: Empowering young Nigerians to demand better governance.
14. Dialogue and Reconciliation: National dialogue to address past injustices.
15. Institutionalizing Transparency: Making transparency a core government value.

Nigeria can overcome corruption and poor leadership with collective effort and commitment. The time is now. 🇳🇬💪

© Agboola Joseph Ayobami

I won't quote much bible stories to pass my views on this topic, but I'll share personal experiences from my 40 years of existence, which have been proven with time and can be relied upon. Many believers in Christ desire a supernatural breakthrough and are eager to hear from God about their next steps to reach their promised land. However, in my spiritual walk with God, I've discovered that God gives instructions to obey ahead of time before a major breakthrough, but we've conditioned our minds to expect something extraordinary beyond the norm due to our religious upbringing.

The fact is, God can do the impossible, but we must fulfill our part by prompt obedience and relying on Him. If we wait for an angel, a storm, or lightning in our dreams as evidence of His presence, we'll miss out on our spiritual walk with Christ. When Elijah sought God amidst fire, storm, and wind, he didn't find Him, but God spoke in a "deep, still voice." We need a new mind shift to experience supernatural breakthroughs.

When God promised Abraham, he waited 25 years, and then God asked him to sacrifice that child. Abraham obeyed, traveling three days with his servants. The Bible doesn't show Abraham telling Sarah, because no woman who waited 25 years for a child would allow it to be sacrificed. God told Moses, "Why did you cry out to me? Tell the Israelites to go forward!" – even when the Egyptian army was behind them and the Red Sea was ahead.

God's ways require absolute faith; it may seem like you're losing your mind, but you must take a great step of faith to enter the promised land. God told Moses He wouldn't make the Israelites take a shorter route out of Egypt because they might turn back when they see the Egyptian army behind them. So, God made them take a longer route, which is the Red Sea.

Now, back to my story. In 2008, after waiting five years for university admission, I heard God tell me to give ₦10,000 as a seed for evangelism. I obeyed and gave it to the fellowship president, and in 2009, I got admitted to study Accounting. In 2018, I applied for NPower and sowed part of my house rent as a seed; out of 1.5 million applicants, I was one of 500,000 picked. In 2020, God asked me why I was delaying my wedding due to lack of finances, and I obeyed.

I got married in faith, and God sent helpers to meet my expenses. I was close to 40 years old before this. In 2024, I applied for Oyo State SUBEB and made a vow to God to pay my first salary as a first fruit if I got picked. I obeyed and got the job. A friend who made the same vow also got three government jobs in a year; we both waited 13 years after NYSC.

In conclusion, with all my experiences, I could have sat down thinking life would be fair to me, but I took the bull by the horn and took risks, and God honored me. You can't move up success ladders without doing something new and being consistent about it. You might not see an angel in your dream or thunder and lightning when you're in a difficult situation, but when you hear that "deep, still voice" from God, please don't hesitate to run into obedience.

Compiled by Agboola Joseph Ayobami (2026)

I remember one time my ex said I should take care of feeding while he handles the rent.
My eyes saw my back. I kept quiet.

The next year, during our family meeting and plans for the new year, I told him we should exchange responsibilities because I pity him. I wanted to see what it really means to shoulder responsibilities.

This man laughed and said, “A man carries a lot. You might faint. Where will you even see the money?”
I told him not to worry, that I had mapped out my plans. He offered to listen.

I brought out my diary and showed him everything. He already knew how much my business brings in. He listened, was so proud of me, and then said I shouldn’t carry the home for just one year, that I should do two years, since I want to be a man.

I said, “Babe, na me and you oh. I’m seriously pitying you. You’re losing weight and I’m getting fatter. The world will think I’m punishing you. Please allow me. Shebi it’s just rent? I’ll pay it. You take care of the home while I handle the burden.”

He said no wahala.
“Go bring paper make we sign say na 2 years you go do. I no wan hear say you don tire.”
Even the cars sef, you must maintain them.

I agreed. I just wanted my man to be fresh. He had lost too much weight.

We signed the agreement.

January, he fed the home

February, he fed the home

March, he complained and I acted deaf

April , he nagged and I didn’t say peem!

May, he got tired of nagging and went quiet

June, he refused to come home. Said his company sent him offshore. Me I went and dropped the children with his mother.

Two days later, he called that his mother had sent him bills for the children and he asked why I wasn’t with them.

I reminded him:
I’m handling rent and cars.
He’s handling feeding.
He didn’t send feeding money and didn’t come home.

He said I left the children because of “small challenges.”

I replied:
“The rent I’m paying, have I ever called it small challenge?”

The next day, he sent feeding money. I went to pick the children and still dashed his mother some money.

July, emergency family meeting.
He came with the agreement and said he’s not doing again.

I refused. Lailai.
“No be you write 2 years? Leave am.”

He couldn’t talk. I even gave him massage.

August, he took me shopping

September, he took me out every Sunday evening. Me I kuku know say all na format.

October, he came again begging. I refused

That same October, I paid the rent quietly and gave him the receipt.

November, he practically forced me to go and stay with my family till January.
I refused. I told him my family doesn’t need me now and that he needs to bond with his children who were barely 6 months old.

December, he stayed back in his city.
I packed our load and travelled down to him. He wanted to run mad but had nowhere to run to. I told him it’s me and him for life oh. (Unfortunately life happened and we are no longer together).

On my birthday, he spoiled me silly and begged again for the agreement to be revoked. He said; babe I understand the message you are passing.
I told him, “So now you understand it’s a message?”

I finally agreed that we’d revoke it in January.

That Christmas and New Year, my guy dried up. Bills almost finished him. I’ll serve him big meat and he can’t eat. 🤣.

January, we revoked the agreement.
He increased my feeding money and added upkeep money.
Then he learned how to stock the house monthly.

That’s when I realised something.

What I spent in 4 months feeding the home was what I used to pay rent and maintain the cars.
And the cars sef na just fuel and servicing.

Feeding the home?
Diapers.
Baby food.
Foodstuff.
Detergent (this one eats money pass anything).
Dispenser water.
Cooking soups and stew.
Wipes.
Miscellaneous
And still taking care of myself.

I was running mad.

I calculated everything and realised this man had been enjoying before.
Omo! I had to switch roles strategically.

Since then, he respected me.
He started buying diapers, wipes, baby food.
He started stocking the house properly.

There was ease.
Madness left my body.

Dear men,
The reason a woman looks beautiful, clean, and sexy is because a man is taking care of her well.

Reduce the burden on your wife and watch how she glows

This picture was taken by him after he understood my message.

#chinenyeazubuike

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By Yemi Adebola, From Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State. January 29, 2026.

What was supposed to be Governor Dapo Abiodun's crowning moment at the Tai Solarin University of Education (TASUED) convocation turned into an absolute nightmare of epic proportions. it was a colossal clown show, starring Governor Dapo Abiodun as the fumbling clown in a cap and gown! While Dapo paraded his so-called honorary doctorate like a stolen trophy, the VIP seats echoed with the thunderous silence of epic no-shows. the First Lady of Nigeria, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, invited to receive her own honorary Doctor of Science in Childhood Education, simply didn't show. Neither did Ogun East Senator Gbenga Daniel nor former Governor Olusegun Osoba attend the event– This wasn't a scheduling glitch or polite regret. This was a coordinated, ice-cold snub from the highest levels, and it hit Dapo like a freight train right in the middle of his big day.

The whispers in the corridors were deafening: Aso Rock is done playing nice with a governor whose educational credentials have been dogged by controversy for years. Back in 2018, Premium Times dropped a bombshell exposing conflicting claims in Dapo's INEC forms. When he ran for Senate in 2015, he listed a 1986 degree from the University of Ife (now OAU) and a 1989 accounting bachelor's from Kennesaw State University in the US. Fast-forward to his 2019 governorship bid, and those university qualifications mysteriously vanished – replaced by just his 1978 secondary school certificate.

Questions flew about NYSC evasion, possible forgery, and why someone who supposedly graduated in his 20s would dodge national service. Lawsuits piled up, with calls to disqualify him over "false information." Dapo dodged and denied – insisting on Channels TV he "never claimed" an OAU degree, even though the paperwork said otherwise. The scandals may have faded from headlines, but they never really went away. And today? The First Lady, a tireless champion for real education reform, walking away from honoring him speaks volumes. It's like the Presidency is saying loud and clear: we don't endorse this.

Add to that Dapo's dismal track record on funding education in Ogun State. Schools are in decay, teachers underpaid, infrastructure crumbling while billions vanish into other priorities. TASUED itself has begged for more support, and critics point to chronic underfunding as a reason the institution struggled before its federal upgrade. Senator Daniel has publicly slammed the governor over neglect of key institutions, and Osoba, a respected elder with deep roots in Ogun's education history, clearly couldn't stomach the optics. Their absence turned what should have been a proud ceremony into a glaring embarrassment.

The real gut-punch? Dapo himself looked rattled. Sources inside the event say he struggled through the proceedings, barely managing more than a few awkward words when the moment came for his big speech. He fumbled, paused, and ultimately bailed on delivering anything substantial, leaving the podium in what felt like stunned defeat. The crowd murmured, phones lit up with live reactions, and social media is already on fire with memes roasting the "doctorate dud." This wasn't just a missed photo op; it was a live, public dismantling of a governor already on shaky ground.

From the streets of Ijagun, where folks are talking about nothing else today, it's crystal clear: when the Presidency, a sitting senator, and a former governor all turn their backs at once, it's not coincidence, it's condemnation. Dapo Abiodun's honorary doctorate may be framed on his wall soon, but the real story is the one nobody can ignore: the powerful elite just voted with their feet. Ogun deserves leaders who walk the talk on education, not ones haunted by old scandals and empty promises. Today's convocation? It exposed the cracks wide open. And trust me, the drama is far from over. Stay tuned, this one's going to get even wilder.

- Pastor Korede Komaiya

We finished induction, my father Bishop David Oyedepo blessed us. We were given $10,000 May 1996 to go to start Winners Chapel in N'Djamena Chad. We drove from 38 Raji Oba Iyana Ipaja 4 days and 4 nights to the nation of N'Djamena Chad. Sermon Times. We slept in one hotel in one night and then we decided: this $10,000 is our take off grant - our one year salary is there. Once this money finishes, we are to be self sufficient.

Bishop Oyedepo jokingly told us, "if they steal this money, call the thieves to carry you along. Sermon Times. Just tell the thief, come back come back, just carry us." It was a joke; we laughed over it. I love him with the whole of my heart - the training he gave us. I'm telling you the truth.

In our bid to save money, we rented a room in ... I don't know, maybe like Ajegunle of that place - very porous. The money we pay for hotel for one day is the payment for that room for a year. Sermon Times. I think we should also think that this thing is too cheap - the restroom is in the compound - everybody... you will use your towel like this to cover the door of the bathroom. It's a pit toilet - a graduate! The things that were gain to me, I count them but loss. Following Christ, what has it cost you?

Everybody hear me! We were tired! We moved into house, we parked the vehicle in the compound, everything in the car we packed it into the room. Sermon Times. Imagine driving for the past 4 days - 4 days and nights. We were tired, more than tired. Myself and Pastor Triumphant Obamoh. I can't forget.

We slept like log of wood. During the night, armed robbers came . We didn't even know they entered. We didn't know anybody entered. They packed everything. The money we are saving - back to sender. Sermon Times. All the Dollar gone, all my primary school leaving certificate, my A-level certificate, my secondary school also, then my B.A Hons and then my NYSC certificate - because I took everything along. All my original certificate, everything stolen.

The only thing remaining was the pyjamas I wore to sleep which I wore for the next 3 weeks. So, I was the first person that woke up. When I woke up, and I saw everywhere clean ... You know there is a way you are trying to wake up and sleep will die. Sermon Times. My eyes just cleared - pam! I now said, "ah ah! Oga can trouble himself. That Oga, everything I parked from the car to the room yesterday, after I slept, Oga you still packed them back." I now woke him and said, "excuse me Sir." He was saying, Hmm (sleeping).

When I dropped the info, I said, "Sir, everything I packed from the car to the room, you moved them back to the car." He just opened his eyes and said, "what?" I can't forget that day. He looked at everywhere, everything we brought is gone! He looked at me, he said, "Pastor K, we've been robbed. Lift up your two hands and let's appreciate the Lord." We began to do thanksgiving for 30 minutes. We started Church that evening. Sermon Times. I used salt to wash my mouth for 90 days. We are not just walking in power. What has following Christ cost you? When you miss sacrifice, you miss power. Help me tell your neighbour, "when you miss sacrifice you miss power."

The Word of Faith raised us. That same evening we began Church - Myself, my Oga. We went to the road and brought one guy - half human being, half drunkard. We can't speak French very well then. He was just looking at us and laughing. In our room there, we created an empty space for office. Just a stool, a wooden chair like this, we put it there. Sermon Times. When we drove to Kano, before we faced Maiduguri, the shoe of Pastor Triumphant, the shoe already returned back to sender. There were post office boxes on the sole. He bought one shoe in Kano and now left that shoe - that dead shoe in the car. That was the only shoe now that is our saving grace. I wear 42, he wears 43 or 44. Anytime he is going out, I will be in the house. When he comes back, I will put tissue paper in front of the shoe and then I will go out and do my own thing. Nobody can see it on us. We began to preach that we can't be robbed. You can't even stop us.

Hear my conclusion: the same nation, look at how we entered - some people will run out. Nigerian community came, (my pastor 1 went out) they met me outside. I was singing and washing plate. They greeted me. They said, "we are Nigerian community in Chad. We heard of two missionaries that came and they were robbed." I said, I am one of them. He said, "lie lie; you can't be one of them. See the way you are singing." Sermon Times. One of them told me that, "if not that you told me you are one of them, I will believe you are not one of them or you are the one that stole the money." He said, "you mean you had such a loss and you are rejoicing like this?" Because the joy of the Lord is our strength.

You must let difficulty know that you too, you are difficult. In trying times don't stop trying. You need to be courageous Sir. And the power of God actively at work in your life. Hear the conclusion: look at the attack that welcomed us to the city. In 9 months time, the same N'Djamena Chad, I was in the prime minister's office, I did Holy Ghost baptism for him. In the same N'Djamena Chad Sir! We became national heroes. Sermon Times. The chief of Defence Staff joined us. One day the chief of defence staff said, "follow me Pastor K to where no foreigner can enter." It was an underground factory where they were sewing the cloth for all the military - Air Force, Navy, Soldier. I followed him there. I was wearing my only green suit jacket. A lot of people there, they don't come out; so they don't even know who I am. They thought maybe I am from all those nations that have come to see things. As he walked in, they were just saluting him. As they see me also, they salute me. I shake my head and (nods his head) said, "keep saluting me; I don suffer for this town. It's time to ... It's time to ... (Laughs)"

I'm not ashamed of the Gospel of Christ. It's the power of God to salvation. Where sacrifice ends is where power ends.

#PstKoredeKomaiya
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*THE TECHNICALITIES OF LIFE*
I have been on this plane for about 40yrs, and these are the technicalities of life I found out; a lot are personal experiences and have been proven with time.

*(1) *BEING GOOD IS NOT ENOUGH NOT TO MAKE PEOPLE ENVY & BE JEALOUS**: You will assume that because you sacrifice for others, they will cover your back when you need help; life doesn't work like that. You will save yourself from heartbreak and stress if you expect less from people. *Focus on being good for yourself, not for others' approval.*

*(2) *PEOPLE CAN OFFEND YOU AND NOT BE PUNISHED BY KARMA**: It is believed that every offence done to you by others will make them suffer more in life; you will be surprised that those that hurt you the most will be enjoying life to the fullest. *Don't wait for karma, take care of yourself and move on.*

*(3) *ONLY GOD IS SUPREME**: I won't waste any time to prove whether God exists or not; a time will come that your life experience will force you to make a quick decision whether you get sold out to the devil completely or follow God wholeheartedly. There are three categories of humans: those sold out to God, those sold out to the Devil, those living life as free range and are caught in the exchange of fire between light and darkness. *Choose your path wisely, the choice is yours.*

*(4) *YOUR PEACE IS NOT NEGOTIABLE**: As you grow older, from 30yrs upward, you will prefer to spend time alone with yourself and walk away from unnecessary arguments and stress. *Protect your peace like you protect your life, it's that important.*

*(5) *YOU DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME**: We are living in a World bounded by time; if you assume you are getting younger day by day, you are in serious trouble. The opportunities you threw away might not come back till your life ends, so live with purpose in your mind. *Make every moment count, your time is now.*

Compiled by Agboola Joseph Ayobami(2026)

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‎Every child grows into adulthood with stories written on the tablets of their hearts. Some stories are of love, care, and joy. Others, sadly, are stories of pain, neglect, and wounds that time doesn’t easily erase. Many of the challenges we face in marriage and parenting today are not just because of our spouses or our children, it is often because of the unhealed wounds we carry from our childhood.
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‎As a marriage counselor, I have discovered that until we face these wounds, understand them, and allow God to heal us, we will unknowingly bleed on the people who never cut us, our spouses, children, and even friends.
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‎Here are 15 unhealed wounds adults often carry from childhood, wounds that, if left untreated, can damage relationships, marriages, and even parenting.
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‎1. The Wound of Rejection
‎A child who constantly felt unwanted, ignored, or compared to others grows up with a deep sense of rejection. As an adult, they may become overly sensitive, suspicious, or desperate for approval. In marriage, such a person may misinterpret every silence as abandonment.
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‎2. The Wound of Neglect
‎Children who were not given attention, affirmation, or care often feel invisible. As adults, they may struggle with low self-esteem, believing they are undeserving of love. A wife who never felt valued as a child may unconsciously expect her husband to “overcompensate,” while a husband who grew up neglected may be emotionally unavailable.
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‎3. The Wound of Harsh Words
‎Words spoken in anger “You are useless,” “You will never make it” become inner voices that follow a child into adulthood. These wounds often resurface in adulthood as insecurity, self-doubt, or perfectionism.
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‎4. The Wound of Physical Abuse
‎Children who were physically abused may grow into adults who live in fear, anger, or mistrust. Some become overly aggressive, while others withdraw into shells. In marriage, they may either lash out or avoid conflict entirely, damaging intimacy.
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‎5. The Wound of Emotional Absence
‎Some children grew up with parents who were present physically but absent emotionally. Such adults often struggle to connect deeply with their spouses, finding it difficult to express emotions or offer empathy.
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‎6. The Wound of Comparison
‎When parents constantly compare one child to another “Why can’t you be like your brother?” it creates lifelong wounds. Adults who were victims of comparison often live with feelings of inadequacy and competition. In marriage, they may never feel “enough” for their partner.
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‎7. The Wound of Favoritism
‎Some children grew up seeing their parents love one sibling more. This fosters resentment and bitterness that lingers into adulthood. Such wounds often show up in marriage as envy, suspicion, and unhealthy competition.
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‎8. The Wound of Over-Criticism
‎Children who were never praised but constantly criticized grow up feeling they can never do anything right. As adults, they may struggle with perfectionism or fear of failure. In marriage, they may either become overly critical of their spouse or unable to accept correction.
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‎9. The Wound of Abandonment
‎Whether through death, divorce, or desertion, a child who grew up without one or both parents often carries a sense of abandonment. Such adults may cling too tightly to relationships or, out of fear, push people away before they can be left again.
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‎10. The Wound of Broken Promises
‎When children constantly hear promises like “I’ll be there” or “I’ll buy it for you” that were never fulfilled, they develop deep distrust. As adults, they may find it difficult to believe their spouse’s words, even when sincere.
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‎11. The Wound of Lack of Affirmation
‎Every child longs to hear, “I love you, I’m proud of you.” When they don’t, they grow up searching for affirmation in unhealthy places, through excessive achievements, material possessions, or unhealthy relationships.
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‎12. The Wound of Poverty and Shame
‎Children who grew up in deep poverty often carry the shame of lack into adulthood. This wound may make them overspend to “prove a point” or become excessively fearful of financial loss in marriage.
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‎13. The Wound of Forced Responsibility
‎Some children had to become “adults too early” caring for siblings, fending for themselves, or carrying family burdens. As adults, they may struggle with resentment, burnout, or difficulty receiving care from their spouse.
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‎14. The Wound of Unexpressed Love
‎Some parents loved their children but never expressed it. No hugs, no kind words, no tender touch. Adults from such homes often struggle with showing affection, leaving their spouses feeling unloved despite their good intentions.
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‎15. The Wound of Dysfunctional Family Models
‎Children who grew up in homes where fights, abuse, or unhealthy patterns were the norm often carry those same behaviors into their own marriages. They may repeat what they hated, simply because it is all they know.
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‎Dear Couples and Parents…
‎The truth is this: hurt people hurt people. If we don’t heal from our childhood wounds, we will unknowingly pass them down to our children and poison our marriages.
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‎But healing is possible. God is the Father who never abandons, never rejects, never wounds. He restores broken hearts and gives us the power to love differently from what we experienced.
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‎As couples, let us:
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‎Identify the wounds we are carrying.
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‎Seek healing through prayer, counseling, and openness.
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‎Be intentional about not transferring these wounds to our children.
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‎Love our spouses with understanding, patience, and grace.
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‎Your childhood may explain your pain, but it should not define your future. You can choose healing. You can choose love. You can build a marriage and raise children free from the chains of yesterday.
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‎Dear reader, which of these wounds do you think is most common in our society today? Let’s talk about it in the comments. Share this with someone, it may help them begin their journey of healing.

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Let me go first
Complacency kills potentials more ,the moment you feels you have arrived without any more dreams,you are living a life of misery without knowing.

The greater your success the more your obstacles.
That's how the Universe made it.


You need God to make so many life changing decisions.One wrong decision as a man or woman can bring frustration on your family for years.

Some people keep waiting for a perfect man or woman as singles while not bothering to work on their own evil characters.
You are your own personal obstacle to meeting a wonderful spouse.


You will need to stay in isolation sometimes to realize your reason for existence.
Life is lived from within before coming to without.k
If you constantly long for people's admiration daily,you won't achieve sustainable greatness.


You might loose your health while chasing money and still use the money to try to sustain the failed health.
Learn to balance your hustle with a healthy lifestyle.


You can't learn human management without learning to manage yourself at first and this is the hardest part as human.



You can be spiritually controlled and manipulated by people you haven't met physically though you didn't hurt them for any reason if you don't have a relationship with God.





As you grow with life,you will realize your chances are slim to achieve good success without God's grace.
My emphasis is on good success,there are bad success too.

Keep it coming friends

From the beginning of the whole World God has been speaking, when God speaks, heaven rejoices, joy is made complete, when God speaks life is birthed, when God speaks, situations of life improve, when God speaks your deepest sorrows are turned into joy, overflowing debts are turned into overflowing abundance, mercy take over, when God speaks, the dead comes back to life.
When God speaks, failure is turned to success, when God speaks, the barren receives multiple children, when God speaks the sick are healed, a dead womb bears for a new child, when God speaks, marital delayed is canceled and you starts your family, when God speaks, victory is sustained, silent tears are turned into public laughter.
When God speaks, you receive outstanding miracles, when God speaks, a loss is turned into multiple harvests, Nations triumph, you wouldn't be living under economic woes, when God speaks, the wounded becomes a mighty Army, the oppressed become Victorious, when God speaks, untold fears dispersed, when God speaks, a sorrowful home becomes a joyful abode.
When God speaks, life becomes more wonderful. When God speaks, you become permanent with laughter. When God speaks, your weary feet begin to run. When God speaks, you will get divine help from the same people who once mocked you.
When God speaks, the ordinary rod in your hand becomes a tool to separate the raging Red sea, when God speaks, you confront the Goliath against your household and have his head in your right hand, when God speaks, the Lion returns the sheep it once took away without any wound on the sheep, when God speaks, darkness becomes a permanent morning, when God speaks, wilderness becomes a fruitful vine, the desert is turned into a vegetation, when God speaks, the devil falls like a star off the Sky, when God speaks, marital troubles are destroyed, your receive more clarification about your future, when God speaks, you look up to the future with full hope.
Hasn't God been speaking to you? There was never a time that your present situation is meant to destroy you, you must learn to listen to Him and hold unto His words to you no matter your present situation, God has been speaking and it won't stop because you will also hear Him speak to your spirit and take action on what to do to be free from every oppression.
I declare total freedom for you and your family henceforth in Jesus' Name. Your tomorrow is hereby settled permanently in Jesus' Name.
Arise from those ashes and rinse yourself of the negativity around you, your time of joyfulness has come. Congratulations to you friends.
Composed by Agboola Joseph Ayobami.(Busy Brain)

So as many were crossing over the new year. My friend and his wife were being sorrowful. His wife who was over 37 weeks old pregnant with twins was rushed to the hospital.

Before then she had observed that through out that day, she wasn’t feeling any movement of the babies and was feeling pains.

She informed her husband who suggested that they visit the hospital. But she thought the movement would come.

When it didn’t happen, she got uncomfortable and couldn’t wait anymore. Then she and her husband went to the hospital. They were in the hospital for about 2 hours without being attended to.

Eventually, when they saw the doctor. He tried listening to the heart beats of the babies using the fetal stethoscopes. Unfortunately, nothing was heard. There was no movement also. The doctor advised that the woman get scanned. She was.

Following, they broke the news to her that her babies were dead.

I had to go see them in the hospital as they already told my friend that those babies has to be brought out of the woman.

When I saw her. She was drenched in tears. She told me that we should take her to another hospital. She said, her babies are not dead. That she had told God.

I could understand that the most painful of all for a mother, is to part way with her children. The incomparable bond. I was equally weeping.

She kept telling me, she wants to go to another hospital. Her husband said the other hospital they are registered is General, which will not be easy to see the doctor. But she kept insisting.

So, I told my friend that we should take her to general as requested. Reluctantly he agreed. Through out, she kept praying. Praying in pains. Repeating repeatedly that her babies are not dead.

We got there. Spent another one hour and the doctor confirmed the same thing.

My friend has his HMO running in the previous private hospital, so we had to return back to the hospital.

On the way, the pain got intensified. It was unbearable. We begin to pray, telling God that she must not die.

My friend’s wife is a twin. Her twin sister was already waiting for us in the hospital. She kept calling and calling. That is the first time I knew she is a twin.

So when we arrived, she joined her in the ward. Because she was going to get undressed and prepared for the operation.

I was outside. Staring at the sky and then thinking about life. Troubled and sad. I begin to pray to God. Reminding Him of His goodness and His mercy.

I prayed that he show us mercy. To preserve the life of this woman. Because things were already complicated.

I was still outside when they brought the news that the heartbeats of the babies can be heard. It was unbelievable!

I didn’t even know how to react or what to say, but I wanted to get inside and see. It was too big to believe. God’s miracle is big: Bigger and beyond our understanding.

The operation was done successfully and the babies are alive.

Permission is taken to share this. I share to boost your faith in God. To remind you that God is alive and that God is capable to change your story no matter whosoever you may be.

Just keep trusting Him and never stop believing. How He will do it. I don’t know but He will answer your prayer, soonest.
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Oluwanishola Akeju

I attended a thanksgiving service years back and the preacher, in his sermon said, miracles are propaganda employed to exploit people by Pentecostal preachers and to my greatest shock, more than half of the congregation started hailing the preacher. He said, there is nothing like miracles. I was shocked. I didn't know when I started crying. The man seated beside me asked why I was crying, I told him I AM A MIRACLE. This message is denying my existence. The man gazed at me, lost.

After the service, I asked to see the preacher. I introduced myself and told him, I am a miracle and preaching against miracles is preaching against my existence. He was still talking proud and proving to me that miracles ended with the Apostles. I was confused and discombobulated 😕. I shared my healing testimony with him but he was still blowing his theological, theoretical grammar in "Queens" English.

In confidence I looked him in the eyes and said, YOU WILL NEED A MIRACLE SOONER THAN EXPECTED and feel free to call me. I took my bag and left.

About ten months later, we were told a Couple would like to see my husband and I. That was around 10pm. We were still in the office. They brought in a week old baby, dying. The man was the preacher and he reminded me that I said, when he needs a miracle, he should feel free to get in touch. Now he needed a miracle because that baby was their first child after a thirteen year delay.

My husband and I prayed for the baby. The preacher and his wife burst into tears because immediately after the prayer, the baby started crying for food. That was the first time the baby would suck the mothers breast. He had been on drips from the moment he was born. For 30 minutes, the baby was sucking. It was a relief. They left in faith and God honoured our prayers. That baby is now 9 years old. What an awesome God we serve.

Denying miracles is denying the existence of God. Don't stay in a dry place and stop operating John the Baptist kind of Ministry. Miracles are real.

May the Lord bless you and keep you in touch with the supernatural hand of God. Your life will not be dry. When everything fails, the Almighty God will show up and show off for you. For your delay, you shall have double blessings. "Miracles no dey tire Jesus". Ask for one anytime you are in a fix.

Dolapo Adelakun
Damsel School of Ministry

So while in ogbomoso. I was running a small business. I raised some money from my local laundry service.
I 'charged' as low as fifty naira per wear. Smiles.

I got a shop; moved in my laundry equipments. First month was challenging.
I needed to make more money since I now own a shop. I thought of making small chops. I learnt it in Abia state. I added pure water and drinks too.

I had more chances of introducing my laundry work to customers who came around for drinks. And it worked.
But that's not the story.

Each day I returned in the morning, I would see the front of my shop already clean.
Wonderfully swept. I kept wondering how.

'But I didn't sweep here yesterday now. Who must have?!'
It remained a mystery for long.

So that night, I forgot to pick a customer's clothe for ironing at home; since we do have 'light' more frequently. I returned.

It was past 11; and very dark. As I approached the front of my shop, I saw a guy seated.

"Could this be a mad man?!" As I kept on with the little pace in my steps as I was still wondering.

He stood up. I put up the torch to his face.
Of Course it's my shop. I wanted to challenge him.

He held bread on his right hand and 'Akara' (beans cake) on the other, as there were still some in his mouth.

He isn't a mad man. He's one of the rough guys I know from the streets. I put down the torch.

He already prepared his resting place.

I didn't say a word. I returned home.

That night, i couldn't sleep well.

"Someone will sleep in that open place; out there in the cold!
That's not home, no family, no security, no love, no companion..."

If there was anything bothering my heart before that night, I don't think I remember any.

In the morning, I got to my shop. Then he came around. He came to apologize.

"No! You don't need to"

Apparently he had been the one sweeping the front of my shop.

He wanted to leave.
I called him.

I told him, he can make himself a better person...
He can get himself a home:
Somewhere save, warm, a place he would enter at his own will with no one to question him..
I told him, he could prevent himself from unforeseen attacks, and someday get himself a wife; and make a home.

He was in tears. He asked "how?!"

Then, I asked if he could work with me.
I make small chops: donuts, chin-chin, meat pie and the likes. We will make good sales if he can take them to schools and few other places. Children will buy.
Then in the evening, he will assist me with the laundry.

I told him, I will pay him handsomely at the end of the month or better still hand him some amount then save the remaining till it's well accumulated to get him a room.

He agreed. He worked hard. We made double of the amount I used to. Truly, two heads are better. There was so much money.

Soon, we expanded our shop. He was sleeping inside one of those shops.
He did for 4 months. I've got a pregnant wife, so I couldn't take him home.

He saved for himself so much money; enough to get a room. We did get a good room.

He can never forget that day.
He remembered my words. He hugged me.

Soon, he filled his room with 'conveniences'.

It was really a turn around.

Not long, I got a job in Ibadan. A job that left me no option than to leave ogbomoso totally.

I told him, I was leaving. He wept. I did too.
I told him, i will be leaving everything for him. He worked for it. He deserved it.
The joy he felt that day was overflowing. He was more than grateful.

He has since then expanded that business more than I imagined.

He remembered me sometimes ago and sent me 100k

Ogbomoso.
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Oluwanishola Akeju

Men are the simplest specie I've ever handled in my life. No man is difficult, ignorance is what makes it difficult.

If you want men to fall in love with you and your fiance/husband to treat you like the greatest treasure on earth, you must understand what makes a man a man.
The right buttons to click and how to enjoy a sweet, blissful, heaven-on-earth marriage with him!

1. MEN HAVE FIRST LOVE they are passionate about it and that is his work. A man must succeed. Not making progress in life is like being impotent, he feels castrated! You must understand this and give him space to succeed. This requires time, efforts, focus, sleepless nights. To demand he spend all his waking hours watching romantic movie with you is to turn him to a perpetual failure! Idle ladies who have nothing sensible doing with their lives except disturb their fiance at work per minute, per second to fill their empty life are a big turn off!

2. MEN HAVE EGO: he needs it to be the head of his home and succeed. You must distinguish between ego and pride. A man with a healthy ego will listen to you but firmly and lovingly let you know his final decision. A man with pride won't listen to you at all, snob you and treat you like trash!
A man with a healthy ego is not a dummy! Some women expect their men to take all their advice and follow all their instruction, that's not possible! He can't take everything. He will take the ones that makes sense and put aside the ones that will land you in trouble.
He is the head. You can't force your ideas on him, you can only advise, the final decision lies in his hand, shikennah!

3. MEN ARE MOVED BY SIGHT: it's so amazing so many ladies are ignorant of this. Look, if you don't want that guy to have sex with you, COVER UP whenever you are with him. I don't understand how a sane Christian sister will go to her fiance's house with a mini skirt and your laps thrown apart right in front of him! You also wore a low neckline and each time you bend, your big mammalian glands are staring menacingly at him and you tell him not to...not to do what? I pity men honestly, the temptation they face daily, only the God of heaven Himself understands because women are refusing to understand!
In marriage, you must deliberately make your husband chase you around for sex, just one look at some wives, all the sexual desire the husband has flies right through the window! Stinking mouth, bushy armpit, torn underwear, ragged pant, smelling wrapper, etc, etc. Yet the man is surrounded by sweet smelling, well dressed, tantalizing, head swooning babes at work! You must keep packaging and re-packaging! Get transparent bra that pushes the central focus forward, jaw dropping lingerie, sex triggering perfumes and blow his imagination off as often as you can (this is strictly for the married).

4. MEN WANT PEACE OF MIND: Nagging, criticizing, shouting, yelling, abusing and cursing can destabilize a man, you should minimize it as much as possible in fact, stop it all together.
Some men hate coming home early because the troublesome wife will nag life out of him till late in the night! Once he wakes up, she repeats the cycle till he leaves home! Men like that usually end up with mistresses or second wives! Men run towards women who give them peace not shatter them to pieces!

5. MEN LIKE QUALITY FOOD: unless he didn't give you enough money or he likes it, concoction rice with ground pepper, onions, coconut oil and maggi is an insult to him! Watery stew that drops to his elbow while eating is a big bomb on his head! Egusi soup that looks as if garri is sprinkled over a pot of water is a big slap on his face! His money should reflect what you cook please! Maximize what you have, treat him like a king!

6. MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: candidly, I love praising men, praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it all together and focus on my husband.
If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise!
Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and his song in his ears daily!
I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.

7. RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!

8. SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord."

9. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. That is why lots of men are having affairs with colleagues at work because the colleague is eager to help when he needs it most while the one at home left him to handle his problems by himself. Why then did he get married? What is her role in his life as a HELPER?

10. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: the season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a gold digger who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you be that kind of woman?

Tempulated:
Nonsense motivation and false hope. Na them. Ada won mo.

It's obvious you are off your dream's.You really cried more than the bereaved.

Calitoscassius:
What?! Please can you name these 4 airport owned by this Adabayo guy in the UK.



I think you mean leasing not own, even i don't own my house, even though i pay the mortgage and i still don't own the house i if finish paying the mortagage. I can only own the bricks and mortar.

His success is a pain to your eyes from your mischievous post.

Adebayo Ogunlesi is a Nigerian businessman and lawyer who acquired the following airports in the UK:

1. Gatwick Airport (2009)
2. Edinburgh Airport (2012)
3. London City Airport (2016)
4. Stansted Airport (2013)

He achieved this through his company, Global Infrastructure Partners (GIP), a private equity firm that invests in infrastructure assets worldwide.

Ogunlesi's accomplishments are a testament to his business acumen and entrepreneurial spirit!

John505050:
I've never been to the airport before, let alone traveling by flight. I feel like I'm a failure at this age. So sad.

The hardships of this life drives me really crazy at times. I work like an elephant, I get injured at building sites, I teach In private schools and yet, I eat crumbs like an ant. God when?

Relax young man, the funny thing is that most people like you facing this hardship do own Airports in years to come.
A Yoruba man called Adebayo Ogunlesi owns 4 Airport in Uk.
Don't give up on yourself,your future would be amazing.Keep hoping,hope is the womb of faith Omo Nla

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1. *Jeremiah 17:11*
The person who gets money dishonestly is like a bird that hatches eggs it didn’t lay. In the prime of life he will lose his riches, and in the end he is nothing but a fool.

2. *Proverbs 20:17*
Food gained by fraud tastes sweet, but one ends up with a mouth full of gravel.

3. *Proverbs 13:11*
Wealth from get-rich-quick schemes quickly disappears; wealth from hard work grows over time.

4. *Leviticus 19:13*
Do not defraud or rob your neighbour. “‘Do not hold back the wages of a hired worker overnight.

5. *Proverbs 28:22*
Greedy people try to get rich quick but don’t realize they’re headed for poverty.

6. *1 Timothy 6:9-10*
But people who want to get rich keep toppling into temptation and are trapped by many stupid and harmful desires that plunge them into destruction and ruin.
*Verse 10:* For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, in their eagerness to get rich, have wandered away from the faith and caused themselves a lot of pain.

7. *Micah 2:1-3*
Woe to those who plan iniquity, to those who plot evil on their beds! At morning’s light they carry it out because it is in their power to do it. They covet fields and seize them, and houses, and take them. They defraud people of their homes, they rob them of their inheritance. Therefore, the LORD says: “I am planning disaster against this people, from which you cannot save yourselves. You will no longer walk proudly, for it will be a time of calamity.

8. *Proverbs 10:2*
Ill-gotten treasures have no lasting value, but righteousness delivers from death.

9. *Proverbs 16:8*
It is better to have a little, honestly earned, than to have a large income, dishonestly gained.

10. *Ephesians 4:28*
Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.

*LET US TEACH OUR YOUTHS THESE AND MORE VALUABLE THINGS*

*Please copy to all platforms, especially Youth Platforms. Enough of ritual killings by the youths in the society. Our Communities will not witness evil any longer in Jesus Christ's name*
*Stay safe!*

1. Gets easily influenced by others.

2. Slaves to their addictions.

3. Afraid to say "NO".

4. Always gossiping about others.

5. Have a victim mentality.

6. Prioritize pleasure over everything else.

7. Not taking responsibility for their actions.

8. Addicted to P*RN.

9. Not able to handle criticism well.

10. Lack of discipline to take actions.

11. Constant excuses and whining about their problems.

12. Low self-esteem and low self-confidence.

13. Blaming others for their miserable life.

14. Always breaking their promises & can't back their own words.

15. Weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and not standing up for what they know is right.

During the times of medieval Europe, divorce was was nearly impossible. For those trapped in loveless unions, one drastic escape route beckoned: the divorce UFC ! This medieval clash of spouses, a perilous dance of death, was immortalized in the 1467 tome "Fechtbuch" ("Fencing Book" by German combat instructor and court adviser Hans Talhofer. This illustrated guidebook detailed the brutal choreography of these duels, a grim ballet where balance of power was paramount.

Given the natural physical prowess of men, the rules wanted a fair fight.
So, Husbands, wielding three hefty clubs, were confined to a waist-deep pit, roughly three feet in diameter. One arm was bound tightly against their bodies, further curtailing their mobility and reach. In stark contrast, wives roamed freely around the pit, each armed with three heavy stones wrapped in cloth, creating a medieval mace that swung with deadly force.

The weapons for both sides were matched in length, ensuring that neither could claim an unfair advantage. If a husband dared to touch the edge of his confining hole, he forfeited one of his clubs. A third infraction left him defenseless, relying solely on his wits and physicality to grapple his wife into the pit before her makeshift flail delivered a fatal blow.

Talhofer's manual did not merely outline the rules; it offered strategic counsel on attire, recommended combat techniques tailored to each gender, and provided a meticulous breakdown of how to exploit an opponent's vulnerabilities. Remarkably, the duels were crafted to be equitable, and history records numerous instances of women triumphing in these grim contests.

Victory, however, was bittersweet. The stakes of these duels were life and death. A wife's victory condemned her husband to execution, while a husband who prevailed faced the gruesome task of burying his wife alive. These brutal resolutions underscored the dire desperation that drove couples to such extremes, and the grim fairness that pervaded even the darkest corners of medieval justice.

The divorce duel, a stark testament to the harshness of the times, encapsulates the lengths to which people would go to sever ties that no longer bound them in love but in loathing. It’s a macabre chapter of history, where the quest for freedom often came at the ultimate price. Copied and edited by Bishop Tobi Eniigbega-Davies

*NIGERIA :*

The land of Generals without war,

Professors without discovery,

Politicians without ideology,

Wealth without prosperity,

Religion without piety,

Leaders without vision,

The oppressed without resistance nor worries,

Courts without justice,

Criminals without fears,

History without glory,

Heroes without honour,

Schools without learning,

Artists without taste,

Intellectuals without thought,

Terrorists without identity,

Appointees without roles,

Hunger without famine,

Change without progress,

Next level without foundation,

Democracy without citizens,

Democracy without freedom of speech.

Religion without conscience.

Land of money without amenities.

Unity without love,

Heroes without sacrifice,

Policies without plans,

Crime without culprits,

Saints without humility,

Integrity without performance,

Wars without enemies,

Billionaires without business,

Youth without dreams,

Elders without wisdom.

Rulers without sense.

THE 35 SACRED BRO CODES:
1. Don't rape.
2. A man doesn't cook delicious food, it's gayish.
3. Two naked men are not supposed to be in the same room.
4. A bro doesn't bath with hot water, he respect his 2 eggs.
5. A bro should know when to leave.
6. A bro should not ask a fellow bro his name, he should call him "Bro, Sir, Chairman, Mr, etc
7. As a bro when you remove your shoes, it must throw out a heavy, strong and intoxicating ordour into the atmosphere, your presence must be felt from a far distance like the stench of a he goat.
8. A bro must know the signal to leave the room when a bro's girl is around.
9. Never make funny of your bro just to impress women.
10. A bro must not pay for sex.
11. Your bro's Ex is your Ex.
12. Make money before you make love.
13. A bro must not watch a Korean drama.
14. No matter how beautiful your bro's sister is, she is your sister too.
15. A bro must not watch zee world, Nigerian movies and some petty content.
16. When money finally comes, don't change your woman, upgrade her.
17. Don't do husband duties while you are just a boyfriend.
18. A bro never gives up, the rest and continue.
19. If she say you are her planet, don't forget about other planets.
20. Always respect your father, he was your first bro. Respect your mother, she is your 001.
21. Never ever smash your bro's chick.
22. Never feed a horse that you don't ride.
23. A bro shall not gaze at a naked bro.
24. A bro never cries publicly or in front of any woman.
- A bro never use Snapchat filter, a bro must look ugly and gallant.
26. A bro never wears pink underwear.
27. If a bro asks another bro to keep a secret, he shall take that secret to his grave.
28. A bro is never offended if another bro fails to return a phone call or text.
29. It is never acceptable for a bro to sleep with another bro’s project or ex.
30. A bro never Gives another bro the silent treatment.
31. A bro never hold hands with bro while walking.
32. Bros DO NOT rush for selfies.
33. Never break up with the girl that bring food to the gang.
34. Even if you're caught red-handed, deny everything. 😎
35. Dress well, no matter the occasion.
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Ogunlola was of Ibariba stock and descent. He came to the area now known as Ogbomoso in pursuit of his hunting profession. He stayed under ajagbon tree (still seen today by the side of the palace) and used the branches for hanging gears. The whole place was at this time (around the middle of the seventeenth century), a dense jungle. Ogunlola was an expert archer and brave hunter. Later he and his wife, Esuu, built their hut by the side of the ajagbon tree.

On a certain day, Ogunlola noticed smoke oozing from some nearby locations. He took courage and approached this place and discovered other hunters. The first hunter named Aale was found at a site now called Oke-Elerin quarters, the second called Onsile at the site now known as Ijeru quarters, the third Orisatolu at Isapa quarters and the fourth Akande quarters. The descendants of the first three of these hunters are still today the Bales of Oke-elerin, Ijeru and Isapa quarters respectively. However, there is no more Bale Akande. Esuu feared what might be her fate whenever she offended her husband; particularly when there was no one near their hut to act as check on him. She therefore designed a mound near the hut and by consensus they decided that whenever Ogunlola wanted to beat up Esuu, if she could escape and embrace the mound, whatever the nature of the offence, he must spare her.

This mound is named Lorungbekun (Olorun-gbo-Ekun) and is still within the Abata enclosure in the palace. The term of the agreement is Egbe Alongo (Alongo Society)

Ogunlola, after the discovery of these hunters, took the initiative to invite them to form the Alongo Society. The Primary objectives of the society were: Defence against Sunmoni (slave prowler) raids, Group hunting of wild animals, and Mutual assistance.

At the take off of the society. Ogunlola was, made the chairman. After each day’s hunting, they retired to Ogunlola’s hut where they were treated to beans and other meals and were served with sekete wine brewed by Ogunlola’s wife from fermented guinea corn. They also engaged in discussing current affairs and planning.

Later, other settlers came and built their huts and formed the nucleus of a small village. Ogunlola‘s hut became the place for setting disputes and other matters. He, Ogunlola had the final say. The groups of huts being on the north-south highway from Oyo-ile became popular as aroje (a place to stop for refreshment and other ‘knick-knack’ by travellers.

Esuu, the wife of Ogunlola introduced the worship of Orisapopon to Ogbomoso. This object of worship is the same as Orisala and is worshipped in different towns under different names. The worshippers are distinguished by white beads worn round their necks and wearing only white dresses. Drinking of palm wine is forbidden to them. The name orisapopo was probably derived from the fact that Ogunlola’s hut was on the north-south route therefore the Orisala being worshipped in the hut was name “Orisapopo” (idol by the highway).

The importance and influence of ‘Orisapopo’ among the citizens of Ogbomoso is immense. It can be described as the patron “Orisa” of Ogbomoso.

During the time the Ibaribas under the leadership of Elemoso attacked Oyo-Ile near Ilorin, Ogunlola was already in detention there, awaiting trial for an alleged offence of murder. Elemooso caused a devastating havoc among Oyo’s so much that they feared him in battle. Elemoso consequently laid total siege on Oyo causing famine and untold hardship among the people. Ogunlola therefore, told the Alaafin that if he could be released, he would kill Elemoso. This was granted and Ogunlola was shown where Elemoso camped. Ogunlola after studying Elemaso’s tactics took proper aim and shot him down from his hiding place. Ogunlola quickly beheaded him and brought the severed head to the Alaafin of Oyo. Elemeso’s army was therefore routed.

Alaafin was so impressed by Ogunlola’s prowess that he, the Alaafin, requested him to stay in the capital Oyo-Ile instead of returning to his settlement. Ogunlola politely declined saying “Ejeki a ma se ohun” meaning let me stay yonder” His majesty, the Alaafin, granted Ogunlola’s wish to return to his old settlement.

Later, travellers passing to and fro, used to refer to the settlement as that of who beheaded Elemaso meaning “ido eni ti o gb’Elemoso”. This was later contracted to Ogbomosho.

Eventually the authority of Ogunlola became greater and more respected. He was consequently made the head of the settlement under the title of Sohun to reflect his request from the Alaafin, ‘let me stay yonder’. His compound by the Ajagbon tree then became the Soun’s palace and a rallying point for all Ogbomoso citizens.

Ogbomoso, because of her strategic location, quickly grew from a village status to a medium size town. Her people were also reknown warriors. During the Fulani wars of the 19th century many towns and villages, about 147, were deserted while their people took refuge in Ogbomoso. The influx of people further enhanced the size and strength of Ogbomosho till date.

Avoid a relationship:

1. BASED ON PHYSICAL ATTRACTION ALONE
Aside the fact that both of you love each others looks, complexion, appearance, etc, there's nothing substantial about the relationship. You're always gushing about how beautiful or handsome your partner is, how long her hair is, and how hairy and broad-chested he is. You're in love with looks nothing more nothing less. Favour is deceitful and beauty is vain.

2. BASED ON FINANCIAL GAINS ONLY
Whoever told you that a relationship is meant to be your poverty alleviation program lied to you. If you're in that relationship solely because of what you stand to gain financially, quit now before it's too late.

3. BASED ON S3X ALONE
Believers should keep the marriage bed UNDEFILED, holy, and pure. Once sex is involved, quit!

4. THAT MAKES YOU BITTER INSTEAD OF MAKING YOU BETTER
Any relationship that keeps serving you limes instead of smiles is doomed. Run away from any relationship that makes you share tears of sorrow regularly.

5. WHERE THE LOVE IS ONE-SIDED
The love has to be mutual. Avoid any relationship where you find yourself struggling to love your partner. Loving someone is effortless and comes naturally. Don't beg anyone to marry you nor should you marry anyone out of pity. If you're not feeling the love now, chances are that you won't feel it in the marriage.

6. WHERE THERE ARE OBVIOUS RED FLAGS
Red flags are like road bumps. So, the moment you start seeing different red flags in a relationship, match the break and do a U-Turn.

7. THAT MESSES WITH YOUR MENTAL HEALTH
Once your mental health is at stake, please take a walk!

8. WHERE DOMESTIC VIO.LEN.CE IS THE NORM
Quit with immediate effect once this is involved.

9. WHERE YOU'RE ONLY SEEN BUT NOT HEARD
Any relationship that silences you is not a healthy and Godly one.

10. THAT SEVERES THE CONNECTION YOU HAVE WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY
Once you can't freely relate with friends and family because of a relationship, this is a huge red flag!

11. THAT IS TO.XIC
Toxic relationships are deadly, avoid them at all costs.


12. WHERE YOUR PARTNER IS OVERLY CONTROLLING AND DOMINEERING
A controlling partner is dangerous and will frustrate you.

13. THAT IS CHARACTERIZED BY INCESSANT CONFLICTS
There will be conflicts but if they're the order of the day, that's a serious signal for you to take a walk.

14. WHERE YOU BOTH DO NOT SHARE THE SAME CORE VALUES
Your core values must align. Once this isn't the case, it's an invitation to future problems.

15. WHERE YOU BOTH HAVE CONFLICTING RELIGIOUS BELIEFS
A Christian should marry a fellow Christian. Don't mix up religions in marriage. Marry your type!

16. THAT DRAWS YOU AWAY FROM GOD
Your relationship with God comes first. Your spiritual life matters a great deal. If it's affecting your spiritual life, quit.

Remember, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

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Meet Sarki Abba from Kano State Nigeria, the genius that was made to rewrite WASSCE after scoring 9 distinctions.

In 1984, 16 year-old Abba, a student of Science Secondary School Dawakin Tofa, scored 9 distinctions (8 A1s and 1 A2) in his West African Senior School Certificate (WASSCE) Exams.

Examination authorities in Lagos didn't believe Abba made those excellent scores without cheating. The authorities provided a car that took Abba to Lagos in order to retake the exam.

Abba was made to take the 9 exams in a duration of 3 days, under heavy supervision. After marking the rescheduled exams, he scored 9 A1s (the only ‘A2’ he had in English Language before the retake, now became ‘A1’).

Faced with shock, the authorities apologized and instituted the National Merit Award. And, rightfully, Sarki Abba was the first recipient of the award.

In 1989/90 school session, Sarki Abba graduated as OVERALL BEST Medical Student, and OVERALL BEST Graduating Student at ABU, Zaria— he was just 21.

Today, he is a Professor of Urological Research, and Professor of Urology and Pathology at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, Chicago, USA.

He also serves as Co-Director of Cancer Global Health at the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center of Northwestern University IL, USA.

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