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Hmm

You're a trouble maker. A chronic one at that

My belle o. The polisher narrative wan burst my belle

Zzor:
That man is a good man,I can see through her post

Zzor.

Zzor:
For the man to have done that, you must be a bad wife and him taking the children along means he's a good and responsible man who love his family, I hate women who treats good men badly

Careful about hasty judgement o Zzor. Afterall you're a woman

SimpDetector:
This isn't a mindset, it's fact and I got it from experience and from studying narcissistic abuse.

Women don't know shit about themselves. They are just creatures that act on biological impulses. It's like asking a lion to explain why it chases antelopes and bites them at their necks in order to kill them. A lion operates on biological impulse, so do women.

Google the term: Trauma bonding. Women by and large, become addicted to men who abuse them the same way people get addicted to harmful drugs. Abusing women emotionally keeps them hooked to you. Yes it sounds immoral and evil, but it works. And I'll go with what works.

Lol @ " I'll go with what works " Lol

Ladyhippolyta88:
Lol your words gave you away I just remembered your monicker.

Mr Kunleweb happy new year in advance

This your brain hawt as usual sha

Ladyhippolyta88:
It is not the truth because it does not apply to me and thankfully for me I will never end up with men like you are that simpdetector
No one is living in denial because it is not in anyway true

If I treat you, you go comet Maggot, I swear


Me I'm done taking good care of ladies. It's always received and interpreted as weakness

Ladyhippolyta88:
You called me baby lawyer . Who are you wetin be your other monickers

I hope you've started reducing hours spent on reading and have started paying attention to men o.


I am reminding you again now o

Ladyhippolyta88:
Truth be told this mindset is very sick.Wherever you got it from it won't help you in the long run.I don't have time to go deeper and argue with you but then not all women are the same so don't think this sick mindset can apply to someone like me it cannot like cococandy said sensible girls will leave such men "with the speed of light" and she is not lying.This is very sick don't go about misleading men and teaching them nonsense like as if you know more about women than women themselves this is not in anyway generally true and you know nothing about women don't mislead people

You think so.


Almost everything a brother treats a lady well, they end in sorrow. So, just deal with it. Terrible treatment. And because victims low it's oppressors, they want to keep in the loop and maintain the trauma bond.


It's the pure truth. Stop leaving in denial

Ladyhippolyta88:
This does not apply to me please this is a sick mindset better desist from it.

What do we do. Leave me o. Just leave me jeje. Whenever your species are treated well it always leaves us in stitches, pain and regrets. So, we've decided to change the narrative


Just leave me there, baby lawyer

Being said not out of truth but to protect the fulani grand master. I'm sure this wasn't the tone under GEJ.

SimpDetector:
The bolded isn't true. Men with Narcissistic personality disorder tend to use gaslighting the most. Majority of women find it hard to leave these Narcissistic 'toxic" men. Even after leaving them they always come back. Google the term trauma bond and enlighten yourself.

From experience and research, I've discovered that imprinted deep within the genetic code of a woman, is a desire to be emotionally abused. Women can not become emotionally attached to a man who doesn't in one way or the other emotionally abuse them. Whether it's gaslighting, silent treatment, guilt tripping, stone walling, fault finding, negging or other forms of emotional abuse. Women want it!!. Failure to this and women will lose interest in you. It seems counterintuitive but most universal truths are counterintuitive.

The logical part of a woman's brain drives her to think that she wants a man that treats her right. But the basal emotional side wants the opposite. And women are controlled by their emotional side, not the logical side.

Some men are naturally narcisstics, so being abusive is who they are. For other men, being abusive won't make them lose themselves per se. With time they'll be gradually conditioned to act in that way on impulse towards women.

You're thorough. Simply put, women feel men who don't mistreat them is just another female. And gist buddy. Pure and simple