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Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 9:56am On Nov 11, 2016 |
Ovokoo:AM GLAD TO HEAR THAT BRO.... MAY GOD CONTINUE TO MAKE SUCH GREAT CHANGES HAPPEN IN OUR FAMILIES. MAY GOD TOUCH THE HEARTHS OF THOSE FUELING THE TRIBAL WAR AND DIFFERENCES |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 9:49am On Nov 11, 2016 |
OMAR12:For me '' Impossibility is nothing '' Their is no point giving excuse for an answer I will rather push hard and improve where necessary and I surgest you do the same bacause if u are straight with God and he give give you a wife he will surely give you everything you need to take care of her including doing your rights to the family as well. East, West, North or South no wahala provided it is Naija and it is peaceful. Please check out the definition of HOME from the dictionary. |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 9:27pm On Nov 07, 2016 |
OMAR12:Well, thank you for you view and opinion but my brother, I THINK YOU NEED TO READ MORE and enlighting your mind. What will happen if you relocate close to your inlaws area or vicinity don't u think that is posible, what is wrong if your parents stay with u ? my brother STOP THINKING MICRO! Please think large and you will see a bigger and broader picture of LOVE. When u love a girl you will love her together with all her family. Love is not confined to area or distance LOVE IS VERSATILE and it knows no Bound. Please read the Bible and if u are a Muslim read the Holy Quran, read books, listen to successful lovers and read more about LOVE then your thought and mindset will be refined. Thanks and God Bless you ........ |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 10:47am On Nov 07, 2016 |
OMAR12:Am laughing in Spanish language hehehehe. Show me a ''perfect'' man and I will tell you his weakness. Stop generalizing issues. Please remember this proverb that says '' Every white pap/akamu/ogi comes out from a black pot'' I hope you understand. Our life is a matter of choice, what make you think your thought is right and even if it is, my brother, '' I AM DIFFERENT and so are YOU too because I am myself not someone else, AND YOU ARE YOURSELF TOO NOT SOMEONE ELSE. Talking about distance, I must say you are wrong because TRUE LOVE KNOWS NO BOUND and no place is too far for LOVE. TRUE LOVE GIVES NO EXCUSE it's only deceitfulness that gives excuse. Brothers and Sisters of my generation PLEASE MARRY FOR LOVE and that may be the first step towards you fulfilling God's will because GOD IS LOVE 4 Likes |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 7:36pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
jopretty:Now what is the best way to pass these messages to our parents because they are not bearing our pains they do not know what we suffer emotionally by the kind of dissensions they make for us. How can we make them understand? |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 4:13pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
DarlingtonJ:I will like to know you better can I have your phone number? am Darlington and my phone number is - 08136975775 |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 4:12pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
catal:Thanks for your understanding. YES every good parent will protect their children but who is the problem or WHAT is the problem we are talking about here? its HOLDING BACK LOVE because of the offence of our fathers. Though we are burn by these parents but it does not mean we should or will follow their own ways of life. So it will be justifiable not to judge a son by the fault or offence of the father. THe truth is who soever I LOVE, I WILL NEVER HUT!!! That is my own way of life not my father's. 1 Like 1 Share |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 1:59pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
boobyman:You will soon realize that is the happiest decision you have ever made in life because that is how it works. You follow you hearth and you find happiness 1 Like |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 1:53pm On Nov 06, 2016 |
catal:You forget to remember that people don't just choose its the hearth that chooses. In life we do not have the opportunity or privilege to choose our parents, we cant choose the day we want to be born to Earth neither can we choose the day we will die but the only thing we can choose in life is our life partner. Its better to marry your friend than just a husband or wife!!! |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 1:33am On Nov 06, 2016 |
DarlingtonJ:Lets pass these messages on to our parents and make the world a better place by our own little efforts
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Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 1:04am On Nov 06, 2016 |
DarlingtonJ:Even Hiroshima done Forgive U.S. Haba....... Please let forgive and let love lead.... the youths tell your old ones that we need love in our generation and not transfer of aggression and God will Bless you even more. 3 Likes |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 12:35am On Nov 06, 2016 |
OMAR12:I think it is better to be fear and Irrational about this issue. Do you realy mean you are holding back all those grogginess in your hearth these this happened decades ago and any leader who is preaching or teaching you to block the flow of love is your real enemy because i can tell you that '' nothing good comes out of hate''!!! all you need is a bit of love and your wounds will be healed beside this same yorubas you talk against are not Awolowo and they have shown love in many ways and have accommodate the Igbos for decades and ain't complaining and will continue to accomodate and welcome them till forever because of the love for peace/peacefull co-existence . This does not mean Yorubas are perfect neither are the Igbos perfect although choices, languages may be differnt but LOVE is a universal language that EVERY MAN HEARS, FEELS, KNOWS AND UNDERSTANDS and FORGIVENESS IS KEY. Even animals knows the meaning of love, they hear it, they feel and they show it also much more we humans. Love is a language understood by even the blind and the deaf. My question to you is being a normal human, LOVE or HATE which would you prefer 3 Likes 1 Share |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 5:47pm On Nov 05, 2016 |
taoheedoriloye:you simply dont undrstand what it means to give ALL, I mean ALL. My main problem is what can we do to stop this tribal war it is causing our generation alot of problems, should parents still be choosing for their children at this age? i KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE WILL BE GOING THROUGH THIS SAME THING IN SILENCE and are dieing inside but I feel its time for Nigerian youths to stand up against TRIBALISM. Its time we start choosing what we want for ourselves... we are not just the leaders of tomorow our leadership should start from today!!! |
Culture / Re: When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 5:24pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
jopretty:thanks its just that am so down that I dont know what to do or how to get out of this pains and bitter esperience 1 Like |
Culture / When Will Our Parents Stop Tribalism Will It Ever Stop In Nigeria??? by DarlingtonJ: 2:22pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Am a victim of tribal difference a bleeding hearth and need to air my mind. Will this Tribal war ever stop? Why is their so much hatred among the Yoruba and The Igbos It hurts to the soul to see that in this modern generation our parents will still let TRIBALISM LEAD there hearts and decisions instead of LOVE I have been dating her for two years with all sincerity and loved her to the soul, its beyond what I can easily explain and she love me too.The mother will say ''just tell him to be ready to build two houses'' usually said with joke. With hope and Love I kept on and I was Loving harder.... I offered all the love I could and ever gathered on earth. We prayed about it and it was told that her families won't accept westerner and even if they accept they will cause alot of trouble in the future but with this she sounded strong and we were ready to pray it out. She then traveled to the East with the hope of having a hearth to hearth discussion with her mother but Surprisingly at the point of discussing marriage they started this problem of Tribal issues and saying Lagos is too far from Enugu, whereas this lay has been staying in Lagos for over 12 years. Just today the 4th Of November the lady called me after all pressure, what I call ( fearful brain washing) and treat of death by her mother she finally surrender to them her family members and she was told not to pick a husband from the West or North but if she picks among themselves in the East they will allow her. She normally gives me hope but suddenly all hopes are gone and my life i must say will not remain the same because I offered ALL MY HEARTH TO HER. It feels like the end of my life. CAN I STILL GET BACK TO MY FEET? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Culture / Re: Igbo Men And Inter- Tribal Marriage by DarlingtonJ: 1:00pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
BlaqCoffee109: That was a nice decision you made most girls would not have such decisive power. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: the end time is coming by DarlingtonJ: 1:27am On Aug 12, 2013 |
The Grace to Hold-on Stedfast, not and never to depart frm the right way, that, I pray for |
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