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Of course a Guy can be just friends with a girl, but you must understand something. Out here what crawls in every guys head is just SEX! If another guy say a friend sees you with a particular girl for too long a time, he starts to think that you've done it with the girl. And it takes a whole lot of time to make that friend of yours to understand that there is nothing between you two.

There are most things you cannot discuss with your guys, say on topics relating to matters of the heart, but with a girl it is much easier and she can give you helpful hints on how to go about making a fellow girl feel happy, but with a guy it is just one way, Screw her or let her go.

Having a girl for a friend is much easier and helpful, for me I relate more with girls than with guys. With guys all we ever talk about is just football, politics and the Almighty SEX. With girls, you get to explore the mind and heart. And there girls out there that can discuss spirts as much as guys can, so it is all in the mind, for me, hanging out with girls is much fun, but still I've got to hang with the guys for the all time beer fun.

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I would say my most embarrassing moment was some years ago. I was on my way to visit my girl when all of a sudden I felt the urgent need to take a pee, so I branched off a side street to pee only to have pure and unadultrated stool come out of my shorts, it was just running down my right leg, I couldn't come out of the side street talk more of walking home, but as fate would have it, a guy who came there to pee also saw me. looking at me and laughed but still helped. He gave me his Cardigan to use as a shield by tieing around my waist, so we walked to his place, I took my bath and stayed there till it was dark before I could leave his place, i never got to see my girl that day. I guess that is the most embarrassing moment in my entire life.

I am glad to know that finally there is a medium where people like us can now air our views on the shameful and demeaning acts put on video by our so called star actors and actresses. First let me start by saying our home video business is being run by people who are not professionals, and most of the actors are not trained in Theatre arts;they come in front of the camera with bad english and expect us to be happy about this. I can not blame them since most of the Movie directors are semi-illiterates themselves. On the issue of our actors and actresses being fake and copy cats, I will definately give them the thumbs up, they should by given Oscars for being fake. We have a large list of fake actors and actresses, they have now crossed their boundry into the land of music, copying a name from Hollywood is not enough, now every Tom, Dick and Harry in the home video business wants to be a musician, guys like Desmond Elliot should think about something else other than music, he can never in his wildest dreams step into the shoes of Lurther Vandros, 'cuz from his last music video he tried so hard to be like the Late Music Icon. Ramsey Nouah, that guy that once played the part of Andy Okeke in the home video, "LIVING IN BOINDAGE", should leave music and go sell some spare parts like his people are good at. Genievie should go back and take a lesson from Omotala. Her music video and songs all suck like hell, what was she thinking! But i give kudos to people like Nkem Owoh, Segun Arinze. Segun Arinze should work hard and come out with a hit like he did with his Moon Light Album some years ago. Omotala did a fine job on her debut album with songs like "GBA", you can just feel the rhythm and that track is a dance track for any kind of party. Tell the rest fake ass wanna be musicians to stick to what they do best, I am out of here.