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I will gladly do all the shakara they (females) do to us guys only to agree later and God damn it do some dirty dancing on her two-two.

Thank you nikinash, like I always say, love can move mountains and can heal all wounds only if dosage can be administered. TRUE Love knows no failings and habours no ill feelings.

I am happy alot of us guys are begining to uderstand what it takes to make a marriage last, I would say 40% understanding mixed with 40% love,spice with some amount of love and finally 20% caring attitude. I am presently dating a girl from a broken home but to tell you the truth, she is very caring, loving and understanding.

Of all the girls I have gone out with she was the one I least expected to be this special in my life, to me I will say she is one in a million and I am crazy about her too, I try to do my best to keep her happy and safe from any problems that may arise from my family, she is good with my Mum and dad, and that I think where most of the troubles comes from. But i have been able to nip that in the bud.

Not all girls from broken homes turn out to be bad and mean spouses.

Olubimpe make u no mind all these naija guys dem fit dey die for you but pride and fear no go let then tell u their mind.

julietnice I guess everyone in this life deserves a chance, what if the guy turns out to be the best man you've ever met, would you say he was God sent but the devil tried to play pranks with his fate by bringing him out of a broken home? How you treat anyone from a broken home detemines how that person will turn out to be in future. Like some one said, "There is nothing wrong with that, ones past never determines ones future, only makes you stronger."

As far as I am concerned, Love is the determinate factor in any relationship, so if the girl I am dating or planning to take her to the altar is from a broken home, I guess I would only check to see if she truly loves me and not if she is from a broken home. One thing we fail to understand is that much love shown to any one who has had problems from the home front, generally brings out the best out of that person.

So for me I would say I would get married to a girl from a broken home, 'cuz as much as I know, what ever happened in her family will not rub off on her or my relationship with her, all I would do is to show her love like she had never been loved before in her life. I will make her so comfortable that she would have little or no time to sit and be thin king of what happen ed to her parents and there by allowing things to affect our relationship. i will try to give her much of my time and love and most of all give her the due respect for a woman.

The most romantic thing a girl has ever done to me was to take me out on my birthday last year, and finally bought me a bottle of red wine wine and we madwe love and slept off.

There is something I don't quite understand about you, you say you are from Imo State but your name is just not sounding right, I guess Olubimpe must a yoruba name and that of your dad is just that too. But all the same you still are a bomb on the nairaland forum.

Hey girl You truly do look mighty beautiful I hope you find a man of your dreams if there is any. I wouldn't say I am that guy but I can say for myself that I am a very caring person and if it could work out , I would like to see or get to hear from you any time you wish to call on me. here is my number: 08038710959 and my name is jeremiah but at niaraland I am Da Saint. Talk to you soon.

I join my fellow Nairalanders to welcome you onboard this great cruise, hope you'll have fun I know I do, welcome once again

Most Times I try not to blame The Nigeria Police men who collect money from motorists on a daily basis, it is not their fault. In a country like Nigeria where they as law enforcement agents have no good welfare package what do you expect?

No one at the National House of Assembly ever thinks of the plight of the police force but will want them to be escorts in their long convoys to and from hotels where they go to frolic with girls and burn cash that should have been used to pay these police men and women.

They just sit on their fat asses and sign away huge sums of money, not considering the police force as a security oganzation that needs to be taken good care of so that they inturn can render good service to the general public and to them too.

The police force are ill equiped to fight the hoodlums who go around with guns, not just guns but automatic weapons that make these police men and women cower or run for cover when they try to do battle with thieves.

It is a poor situation in this country, sometimes I wish the police could go on strike for just one week and let them see how things can be without the police. We say the police force is rife with corruption but what gave rise to this corruption in the police force if not neglect.

You expect a hungry man or woman to do his or her job dutifully, I don't think so. So if they are taken good care of I think this talk of the Police being corrupt will be reduced drastically.

Future Mrs. Somebody Congratulations and best wishes for a happy married life.

God be with you.

I call my girl "IMA" meaning LOVE in Ibibio dialect of Akwa Ibom State

I am down with it just as long as she is going to make a good humble and caring wife in the long haul.

Snazzy, You harsh O! you did not make it easy on the poor little guy, but all the same, as a guy too I know I was once in a situation like this, but I did not go that far as to tell the gal that I had a crush on her, I just held it inside of me till I got old enough to go after a gal of my own age grade.

But one thing you should know is this, the kids of the era feel and think that since they are as tall or big like the old gals they see, hey what the heck, they can as well go after the gal, but it just doesn't work that way, even for older guys like us, it is still a tough enough job to actually convince a girl, even if she is 1o years younger than the guy, she still has to do her shakara.

I think for that young chap, he will have a rethink from now on and concentrate on puppy dog luv mand not go after older chicks.