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Park01:
I will never be in such situation bro. Never. they should be the one begging for it not the other way round.

You don't boast to meet the river

Oyindidi:
I don't advice people here often.

Better stick to status quo lol

collabo4me:
My thought is dat you may nt satisfy her , because she mayb considering ur income or salary. Or d main KOKO wic is your performance or ability in making love

Yea, you never know what goes on in their mind

It was not that easy to let go. Well its past now.
We did dated some more before she finanlly tore my heart.
You guys are bad adviser though ):

Oyindidi:
That's the truth, you may regret marrying her, there's a reason she said no

well hmm

Oyindidi:
Yes, you win some and lose some

You got no joy

Park01:
like you have another option left

Have you been in such situation ; not easy like that

Oyindidi:
Move on

Just like that

walearoy:
propose to her friend and be happy and fruitful

So I will just marry her friend even if I don't get what I like

Park01:
get over it and move on.

Easy to say

I once proposed marriage to a lady I dated for four years, and she said no.

Nairalanders, have you ever had your marrige proposal rejected, and how did you feel/bounce back.

And for the ladies if you have, why did you reject his marriage proposal ?

The revolution will be televised

Make una report naaaaa

Op your brain is paining you.

This is sad

iPopAlomo:
Girls dodging this thread like EBOLA...

This matter isnt funny at all for them; many have made irreversible mistakes.

Its only a miracle that can change things.

Nice one OP.
Simply put, they arent ready for marrige, when they are they will come back and beg for your advise.

Just be patient.

North vs South. Two countries

Thanks op. Gender equality is a lie from the pit of hell.

If man = x
Woman = y

Can you say
X = Y

X = X and Y = Y
things that are different cant be equal.

Some said it is wrt opportunities.
know this there are no same opportunities. Even twins that are raise the same, dont turn out same.

Opportunity only manifest based on our capacities. My advantage might be your disadvantage and vise versa.

Nature has a way of balancing itself

teejaypee:
Interesting...

Crawled out of the relationship.

Must be yahoo water

You all talk about insecurities.
Lemme tell ya all; was dating this insane girl

* She so complained about my fone, that one day she practically took from me and destroyed it in my presence and gave my sim to me. (Lost 10yr contacts)

* When i visit and she cooking, if i dont ecourage by going to the kitchen ; sure wont finish that cooking. ( she can pratical go into a fit for that)

* When no getting her ways, she become destructive ( smashing and throwing stuffs)

Sanchez01:
Not really. Truth is, the reaction of some guys in the section can be attributed to 'urgent needs' they felt were not met. Desperation remains the only language they understand and wouldn't spend five minutes in discourses sane enough before they roam around sex-related topic.

Some don't even know how to handle rejection well, which is not too good. Ladies would forever be who they are but the ability to make a lady look your way rests on you as a male because the wise ones among them would go through posts to format opinion about the person they are about to befriend. It is natural and it's a sad tale that some don't understand this.

The issue in itself is not sensitive. The OP could have made the thread open by asking the ladies what compels them to respond to mails among other things. He concluded too quickly.

Nice one

MissViv:
Please I am in deep Sorrow.someone Stole my phone,in this crucial Stage of my life. Any prophet in the house to make the thief return my phone To me ?

God doesnt work that way; it has to be in His terms.

Sorry about your phone

The testimony of Jesus Christ is the spirit of prophecies - Rev.19:10...
Follow Jesus bro; does his revelation about you glorify Jesus.
You can aswer this

Aderola15:
Which one is owo again? Owkies, you guys will eat rice biko
Cc: Tahrah

Nooo. Cc: Tahrah

Aderola15:
Which one is owo again? Owkies, you guys will eat rice biko
Cc: Tahrah

Nooo. Cc: Tahrah

The topic was a good one until some people inhere shot it down.
The op contributed to the shooting; you dont polarize such a sensitive issue.

It is not just ladies but guys also. This is a call for people to be civil, or else this just shows a glimpse of how majority of marriages in this generation will be

Aderola15:
No rice madam
Na this thing we go chop, wetin dem dey chop for Edo sef?
Lefulefu, comman epp me out booboo

Yam and owo

Aderola15:
Nah nah nah, it isn't. Have been friends with lefulefu for long, he is a perfect gentleman, he deserves a queen like me...

Please invite me to the native law ; I will eat only one plate of pounded yam/assorted, dont forget coke to wash down.