Pls I would want us to be open in this discussion.

Amongst LOVE and SUBMISSION which comes first in a relationship?

Answer with reasons pls.

In marriage, you do not have to respond to every minor insult or argue over every minor misunderstanding or disagreement. Sometimes you just have to listen, look, bite your lips, forgive and get on with bigger issues of your life. Life is too short to waste on trivial battles over trivial issues.

But also remember there are times u will not say anything but would have said a lot by ur actions. So..put both ur actions and words in check.

Everyone is unique in there way , marriage doesn't make u perfect, in fact it brings out your imperfection; but your imperfection is usually made perfect in the complimentary actions that comes from your spouse. When you see mistakes don't judge by them.

[b][/b]HOW CAN SOMEONE BE MARRIED YET ACT SINGLE?
when you said "I DO" you signed the freedom of singleness away. A married person cannot enjoy the privileges of marriage and the freedom of singleness at the same time.

Marriage requires commitment, commitment require communication, communication requires being open to your spouse tell her/him how you feel about things around the house, don't leave things undiscussed and later use it against yourselves, the joy of marriage is in being together.'