₦airaland Forum

May God save us from wicked people

Church is not where u go to search for wife, job, helpers, connection & miracle. We attend church to seek God's face for worship, praise, thanksgiving, bible digging, favor, righteousness/justification/repentance from sins. Seek yee first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, other precious things will be added to you.

When u have enough money, the beautiful girls will need u. This is the power of money

This serves as a lesson for ladies that always dress unclad. But such mad man is not suppose to live with sane pple in d society

May God deliver us from the hand of wick people. Evil doer will not como our way in Jesus name

Very good. It is good to marry outside your tribe or nation so as to experience others people culture

I once behaved like this when I was sponsoring myself to Auchi Polytechnic(ND & HND days). But today, it is no longer so

Many Nigerian girls are not Loyal & truthful to their guy

Private secondary school they attended is one of the major causes of them being ill mannered. In many private schools, teachers are scared to flog or decipline students for doing wrong because of unnecessary reaction from their parents or school director since they don't want to lose students in the school. I am saying this from my NYSC experience in a private secondary school.

Almost 70% of Edo State young girls date married men. Some will say they don't need umarried young guys until they are prepared to settle down in marriage. Their parents justify the act by thanking those married men for d money and gift those married men are giving their daughters. They are saying young guys are not spending enough money for them. There are many broke guys and unemployed/under employed graduate without a girl friend. The rate at which girls in Edo State are demanding money from guys in Benin City is alarming. At least #1000 for transport fare if they come to your house whereas d normal to and fro t-fare is not more than #200. At least #3000-#5000 for their make-up which is atleast 3 times a month. U must take the U must buy new phone for them. They will lie to u that their phone is not good. U must take them to MR. BIZ 2 to 3 times before they will accept your proposal for relationship. Some will be asking to know your monthly salary in order to know how to demand from u. Some are boasting they can never collect anything less than #1000 or #2000 from a guy. They don't care to know whether your salary is very small or big. They only break those. Principles when they are over 30yrs.

An Igbo girl toasted me publicly 3 times at 2011 NYSC Orientation camp in Kogi State. But I accepted her proposal. We were posted to different Local Government after the orientation camp. I later lost her contact.

The guy is heartless. Naija babes that always insult & run alway from broke guys that are God-fear and ambitious should learn from this. Money is not everything. Naija girls are maltreated in relationship & marriage by wicked & heartless guys/men because they are blindfolded by d money the guy is spending on them even when they know the guy is wicked. They will say, "I will change him". Majority of Esan girls in Benin city aways say they don't like their guys in terms of relationship & marriage because their Ishan guys are not generous and caring in spending. The only tribe in Nigeria where the girls dislike the boys for no genuine reason. Just because of gold-digging & greediness. But look at what many Ishan(Esan) girls are passing though with men from others tribe despite their beauty. Nonsense girls.

Age difference is not a barrier except if the girl does not love the guy at all. Zimbabwe President's daughter, Robert Mugabe's only daughter, Bona, a 24 years old girl wedded and got married to a 37 year old guy as a virgin named Simba Chikore. The guy is a pilot for Qatar Airways. Google it on internet if u feel I am lying. Bill Gate, World richest man , was at 38years when he married his wife at 29years. Nigerian girls are too proud. Even when u are still struggling or working hard to make it in your twenties, they will still not want to hook up with u because your are not arrived yet. But when you have finally succeeded in your thirties, they will say u are older than them. Guy! Pray & look 4 d girl of your real marital destiny. That girl is not for u. Keep on wooing or toasting girls, atleast one or two young beautiful girls per day. Be doing it everyday. Be prayerful so that u will not fall into wrong girl. U will even marry a lovely, understanding, responsible, beautiful and more younger girl

If you have enough money, Nigerian girls will need u for fun,enough sex and romance, relationship, and marriage if your pocket is heavy with money. They can even fight themselves because of u. U are like an evil or d worst enemy to them if d money is not there. A any girl will like to be with the baddest, or the most wicked guy if he has money and the girl will be saying,"I will change him to become good guy". A cripple or one leg guy attracts Nigerian girl if he is loaded with money. Forget about girls for d main time expectial when u don't have money at all. They will insult and neglect u. No time is too late to carry girls when u have d money even at adult or old age. My boss in my place of work in his 60years of age that will soon retire(pension) from civil servive work very soon is stil carrying girls of 18years, 20years, 23year in his jeep(car) to hotel for sex. During my NYSC in Kogi State, many female corpers among us were dating(sexing) married men, police DPO, secondary school principals that are married with wife and children.

The best solution is to impose sharia Law on everybody in order to increase virginity among Nigerian girls and reduce sexual immorality among the youth. By the time one leg, eye or one leg will be removed or cut off because of sexual immorality or several stroke of kain, everybody(all girls) will strife for virginity. But Nigeria is a mixed religion country and the bible does not permit sharia law except Islam. Buhari may or may not impose sharia law in the whole Nigeria if he win the presidency

May her gentle soul rest in peace. It is very painful.

80% of Nigerian girls are ugly. But they love too much money from guys and always hard for good guys to get

You will hardly have 95% of Nigerian girl with sweet word except enough money. If the money is not enough, they will collect d little you have and run away from you. Be wise

Marrying the wrong woman in life is worse than Ebolo. May God help us. I am a graduate in my early 30s, I hardly find luck with girls for relationship.

May God help the poor pple to be fulfilled in this country where discrimination by the rich and most beautiful girls is very high

All the undergraduate I have met are runz girlz. Their ways and attitudes show to me they are not interested in love and serious relationship for emotional connection. Even when she knows I am a working class and a graduate that will even get married to her if she behaves well & love me. The female undergraduate will tell me she is after only money, fun, materials things, GT, Matice, Mr. Biz etc . I experience the same thing from all female undergraduates I have met for the purpose of lovely relationship. A year 3 National Open University female student told me she prefer dating conductor, Agbero, keke Nape driver that can take care of all her responsibilities than dating dating a graduate that will not take care of all her school and personal responsibities. The same thing applicable to 90% of female corpers in NYSC. During my NYSC in Kogi State, my fellow female corps members were saying they cannot date the male corpers because the monthly allowee is not enough to take care of them, except the male corpers from rich home. Most of those female corpers were going out with okada riders, sugar daddies/married men, bus drivers, DPO, secondary school principals. Some of them only need u for emotional connection and relationship for marriage only when age is telling on them or no longer on their side. Apart from that, it is all about fun, materialism and monetery. No love again. They have nothing to reason with u concerning your ambition, vision, goal & target in life. This is why I may hook up with a girl that has secondary school education, ambitious and loving

98.6% of Nigerian girls are equivalent to prostitude in the hotel. Expectial the beautiful girls. Most married women are else prostitude/gold digger promoting divorce in the society. Imagine, I sponsored myself to higher Institution with tidious hard to become a graduate, no single girl agreed to date me in school because of no sufficient income with me. Including the ones I toasted or wooed in school. Except the one I was helping in examination hall that always sit close to me. During my NYSC, our female corpers were saying they cannot date us because the fed. Monthy allowee is not enough to take care of them except d male corpers that are from rich home. Many of d female corpers were going out with married men and okada riders. The only female corper I approached for relationship demanded #4000 from me that same day. I took a walk. Thank God I am a Mechanical Engineering graduate. A got a Civil Servive job with level 8 step 2 just 4 months after my NYSC. I am still expecting oil company job. We only need wife(women) because of children, help mate and peace or comfort. If these things are not there in marriage, the woman should find her way out of d union.

If GEJ lost next year election, the presidency may never come back to South-South Again. It is very painful that will don't have cooperation in south-South.

It is very bad that many Nigerians love human being more than money. If you want to be rich, why can't u work harder to achieve weight

Marry your wife base on Destiny, not skin colour or beauty so that u will not have problem in marriage

U ppl(nairalanders) should stop insulting the prophet of God just because u dislike GEJ. A prophet has no honour in his own town.

No problem. Since girls love bad guys & dislike good guys, I will be wicked to girls. This is d reason why I don't always pitty girls that are suffering in d hands of wicked & heartless guy or husband. I am a senior VIO officer(head of station). I hardly pitty ladies that are driver if dey commit offence no matter how they beg me, I must surely give them teller to pay d total charge for d offence they commited. She must surely pay everything in d bank b4 I will let her go with her vehicle. But I always pitty guys if they beg me or if they have minor offence. 99% of Nigerian girls are idiot. Nonsense . They lack wisdom and refuse to follow the reality of life.

I cannot force myself on a beautiful girl if she does not love me. I am an handson guy & my children must definitely be beautiful. I respect who regard me in life. If marrying a beautiful girl is your problem, why are u waisting time on one beautiful girl that is difficult, quick-tempered, mannerless, quarrelsome, evil when there are many other beautiful girls around. I am seeing many beautiful girls in their early thirties that are yet to marry because of pride

If a guy does not possess the qualities u want from your right man does not mean he will not possess them later on in life. Don't be too selective. I am a graduate. I can marry a girl who is not a graduate. Provided she can speak & write well. Nigerian girls are too proud. They even over select among d graduates.

It is simply because, nowadays relationship before marriage is 10% behavioural/character or emotional connection & 90% money, beauty, height, education, tribe, status/class & children connection . Which is not suppose. The foundation of many relationships of today is as a result of enough money being spent on the girl. Any guy that cannot spend on a girl in a lovely relationship, is being called a greedy & wicked guy that will maltreat the girl after marriage. Then, men & wowen in our modern society will advice the girl to leave the boy even when they know that the guy has much responsibility to do with his little money or the the guy cannot spend on the girl above his income. I am not poor, I am a level 8 step 4 staff in civil service. But I will be happy to get married to a good girl that love me apart from my income. Divorse is not common among husband & wife that got rich after marriage. It is not common among the d poor or average married couple. Divorse is common among the well-educated married couple. It is not compulsory I must marry a lady who is a graduate simply because I am a graduate. I know of a female lawyer that divorced & seperated from her else husband till now just because the husband said he wanted his mother that is lonely in the village to stay with them in the city.

Prostitution. They only need boys because of money & material thing not love. They only need young guys for marriage. If young guys cannot provide the money, they go and do it with married me. Those girls always say there is nothing like love. It is all about money

I don't have a single girlfriend since I am broke