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Fembleez1:
Why not still follow up with him by email when you have another phone?

I did but I didn't get any reply

Fembleez1:
I thought Chatinent sent you an email to help teach you writing. And you were learning a skill with a laptop before, where is the laptop?

He actually gave me his whatsapp number but after my bigger Android got spoilt I couldn't follow up
I learnt the skill in a cyber Cafe
Thought I will be able to afford a laptop so that I learn and start remote jobs but it didn't work out

Fembleez1:
Yes.

I noticed I have read one of your threads before and I had to just go back and read all your topics. Many people have offered to help you in the past, why are you still stuck and still lamenting with different threads? Sincerely, you need to change your mindset and get something tangible doing before it becomes too late for you. You are a boy and will soon be a man. You have to have motivations that you want to be better than your dad or right the wrongs in your family. Whining each and every day without taking positive steps will render you useless one day and you will be worst than your dad. At 19, there are values you can add to yourself.

See, poverty or the poor has no friend or sympathy. If you do not take the baton to fight it, you will be worst for it. And when I say there is no sympathy for a poor man. If you are hungry and you steal just a loaf of bread, you will be sent to prison. Your motive (hunger) will be irrelevant.

I don't know what you are doing gambling when you have no source of income or what to fall back on.

You are the architect of your own life. A time will come when your father will be no more to blame for your woes, and it will dawn on you that you are the one to blame.

You see I hate negative people in my life. So if you know you are not going to change or make headway with your life, I have no business with you. So decide what you plan to do with your life young man.

I stopped gambling a long time ago
Speaking of help, nobody rendered me help
I was working somewhere before where they pay me 10k but I had to stop just to prepare for JAMB in which the preparation wasn't effective
I just pray the result is positive
I started gambling out of desperation to make ends meet bu. I learnt my lesson
As it stands now I am ready to do any work
I stay around alimosho LGA

Fembleez1:
You have to get a CV and look for a job, even if it is a Cleaning job or Sales Attendant, so you can save up or get going. If you need my assistance with applying for jobs, I can do that for you. You see, you have to take some first steps in life so people can help you. I started looking for jobs at 17 almost a year after I left secondary school with my friends in Lagos, and that way I saved up for some exams I wrote then, and a lot of other stories I will not divulge right now.

You don't have to leave your parent's House at 19 except if you want to end up a nuisance and a thief or go into illegal activities. And there is really no coming back once you choose to head along that path, except for God's redemption. Going to work daily is enough respect that your parents will appreciate, and will help you reduce the insults you face from them.

Okay sir
I will need your assistance in getting one.
Are you in lagos sir

osmosis101:
U go automatically forget ur papa and mama training and take the hustle like do or die affair

What is the first move to make please

Fembleez1:
Okay. I believe the first step is to get your old SIM card replaced and check your JAMB result. I believe that is what you can talk to your parents about because your JAMB result is the most important at this moment. They should help you sort that out.

On a related note, where are you based in Nigeria?

They have no help to render and I don't have the money
If you check my previous post you will see the kind of situation I am in
I stay in lagos and I am looking for somebody I can work under for an interim period
I just want to leave that house
I don't know if you can help me sir
I hate it when parents compare their children to other children which their parents support but they can't help

osmosis101:
Gambling or drugs?

I resemble drug addict
Gambling 30 percent
Family prob 70 percent

Fembleez1:
What happened? Was your result seized? What course did you put in for in JAMB? Talking about skill acquisition, do you have a laptop?

My younger brother misplaced the sim card I used for registration so the only way is to Print the original slip which I haven't been able to raise money for.
I learned a little of graphic design, I tried saving money to get a laptop but all my savings blew in the wind
Now I am confused and frustrated

Fembleez1:
Why would you want to leave your parent's house at 19? Why not go to school or learn a skill?

I wrote jamb this year and I haven't seen me result till now.
As for learning of skill, no support

FriendsAndFans:
''Enter the street'' depends on the context.

1. ''Enter the street'' means that you should sit up and move hard to survive. you will need to do hard labor to survive and also make friends.

2. ''Enter the street'' means joining the limitless crime world.
like kidnapping for money, pushing drugs and most importantly FRAUD

Regardless how you chose to ''enter the streets'', remebrer life is first a movie and then a journey.
We are all just acting a script to entertain The Most High

You are correct
Is it possible for me to leave my parents house without any plan

emperor4love:
It cam mean different tin,like drop ur ego and cert nd hustle like labour to feed

Like really hard Labour?

frozen70:
Honestly I will if that's what he wants

Are you for real

Gadafii:
Leaving your comfort zone to go face reality, many things you go learn for street, te best university in the world can’t teach you

When you enter street, and learn the ropes well, you are supposed to be wise on many fronts, your hustling spirit go tight because nobody go send your papa for street, some people dey aje am Conor fro streets enter highbrow and porshe neighborhood, some Dey perish for there, I pray we all make it out of the streets, because we don too dey inside mud too much we deserve to sparkle 💖

I love your explanation
But when leaving your comfort zone, do you like squat with a friend or start my living in an uncompleted building or renting an apartment?

Kharol1234:
You wan enter street?

I dey consider am

MechanicMike:

Son...enter street.... technically..get your coffin on standby!!! ((I say no more))

Please elaborate

Failure2019:
Go and join HK

What's the meaning of HK

frozen70:
If you enter street at 19yrs
What age do you think you will be in the street before you come out

I think instead of entering the street to become what I don't know

Enter university and gain knowledge and come out as a graduate

Okay man
Thanks

Your boyfriend has been deluded by adult movies

I have heard lot of people talking about entering Street but I don't know what it means
I am planning on entering Street next year but I need a little enlightenment on what it's like
Is it rosy or something the weak shouldn't consider?
I need an elaboration on this
I am 19 by the way

Bouncing2:
So sad bro…

Dreams are super had to achieve in this part of the world bro

Swears

I wanted to be one of the greatest Lb in premier league
Now i am nothing
I am without dream and hope

caandi:
it’s well with you bro
I can only imagine
At this point it would just seem like you have no father and you escort people to the world
But keep on grinding and hoping
Age is just a number it’s never to late to get a skill, except the person is in his or her 60’s….
God will make a way… believe

Amen

nicerod:
God forbid

Most great celeb today pushed drugs e.g headie one,lil baby,young thug

nicerod:
Werey boy


Go and join ya ancestors

I dey with dem already
Life no hard na u no wan push drug or do ritual

caandi:
but his father didn’t train him in school
Why birth children that you can’t afford to train
The man should have avoided such
Even the bible says a man that can’t provide for his family is worse than an infidel!
I saw a quote where the guy said his father worked with state as a teacher for 35 years and nothing to show for it
When the father knew that the teaching job isn’t going to provide security for his children
He would have started a business or plan B
Lest not support parents that can’t provide for their children cos it’s a sin against God and humanity

God bless you for this
Sometimes if I look my papa I go dey vex
E no get money why e con nack born me to suffer
I still dey vex why he didn't put me in football Academy or teach me a skill when I was young
Now person life just dey waste
Rubbish

Rayban25:
Understand what I'm saying..I didnt say your parents shouldn't try and assist you in any form but I said you at a certain age shouldn't be 'entitled' or 'expect' some certain things


As you are now wont you feed yourself one way or another whether your father has connections or not? And if at all your father dosent have connections just so he can help you with job will you insult him? That's exactly what he is doing. He is blaming his father for his current joblessness which is absurd..if he were in js3 and his father couldn't pay his fees anybody would understand

You are very correct
I am 19years old and I can't feed myself which is really hurting
I don't ask them for money at all even if I am broke
I am planning on leaving them and never returning to that depressing life I am living with them
I am even looking for a job like this

nicerod:

Life no balance
If you don tire u fit join them
Shalom

PrimadonnaO:
You mean rapping?

Obviously

kayevans:
It's rapping...double P.

Make typo no go put you for wahala

Thanks bro
Na mistake

Silentgroper:
raping




😁😁😁😁😁

Rapping na mistake o

Singing and raping as far as there is beat

yrhuhfy113:
yes you can.... it is based on the JOB DESCRIPTION, some jobs like COMMUNITY MANAGER or any skill that uses A.I it will actually work for you using phone.


So that's it. then after your first salary, you can buy a simple laptop and upscale from there.

Please sir can you teach me or where can I learn it from