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Blupen:
Pastor will not help you, deh only care about themselves

You are very correct

Blupen:
That makes deh two of us bro

Just unfortunate
There is no pastor or doctor for me to see since they won't solve anything

My bleeped up life

sofia21211:
Good evening. Just read your post and I can tell you this is not the way out . Please go get some help , see a doctor talk to friends you trust . I’m very new here but the funny thing is I found this page when I was going through something too. You think you’re in a bad position wait till you hear other people story you
. Please go see a Dr

Just kinda frustrating that I have literally not enjoyed a single day in my life.

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naijablood:
I started observing this pattern since 2018
I was posted away from my then girlfriend to another state for NYSC hence couldn’t engage in serious relationship through out my service

…But seriously that year was one of my favorite in terms of financial success.
As a serving corper I was also working freelance for two different companies in Lagos. … coupled with other gigs … I was in money.

After service I met a lady and we kicked off a relationship, within 2months of us into the love affair, I lost the two jobs as a freelance was done with service so had to start some money making venture, but was tough, well the relationship lasted four months.

After three months of us breaking up I had a business idea, year 2020, got into it and within two months I made my first million was single for a year.

2021 I met a lady and started meeting … and within a space of 6 months, I was back to square one…

Early this year was tough and depressing, and by June, we were already having relationship problem, hence some space between us.

But from September I notice some positivity, business took off I started saving up and by November I had to buy a property to compensate myself for a hardworking year ..

Now my problem is I’m disturbed , this lady been asking for us making the relationship official .. but I’m scared loosing it all … I keep getting back to the ground when I’m in relationship…

But will I be single for life … I’m just lost.

Kinda spiritual wife stuff

Mr2wealth:
You need help.
The only information you can give the general public about yourself is your problem and complain.
How will the people help you?

It's obvious the kind of help I need

gulfer:
@OP, You appear to be in property business, why not use your links to get a place in the interim whilst you hunt for a new permanent place

Thats what my dad does
Posted it here just to see if anyone would be interested

Dshocker:
If you guys were humiliated in that vicinity, i advise you get a job and park out of there first, in other to restore your confidence back.

It's not that easy

Jozilinn:
Don't they do testimony in church make it a testimony and ask for donations from them... This kind thing na church matter.

Almost everyone knows about it in the church but they didn't make a move

Jozilinn:
Which church is that self,tell the pastor so he would announce the matter in church,any contribution is acceptable besides if e good for una, church go still enjoy am.

If your pastor doesn't do this then even from the thithe and welfare given to him,he can still support or follow you guys to see the landlord period.

We have told the pastor but he didn't take it serious. But the Bible says the least you have done to my brethen you have done to me. They don't consider that as part of the scripture

Jozilinn:
See eh, talk to your church abi una no get church... life for naija too hard.

We have told them couple of times but they keep saying God will make a way and they come the next Sunday to testify of how God blessed them with 1 million. I am even tired of that church

Prettygirl200:
What do you want me to say? There's no advice I will want to give u now that those that commented above me hasn't given you. So if u still wish to commit suicide, safe journey!!

Ok, thanks

iLegendd:
The way I planned to say it is even worse. Consider my submission as "polite." If only you know the level of disdain I have for men who bring kids into this world to suffer.

That comment is not actually for you, but general to stupid men around the world who didn't achieve anything or own businesses before marriage or before bringing kids into this world.

The first son/daughter always suffer the burden.

You are very correct
Sometimes I regret being born into that family but there is nothing I can do

Prettygirl200:
Safe journey my brother

Thats the best you can say

God1000:
I'm sorry about your ordeal

Just so painful
I haven't even enjoyed life since it kick-offed for me

Illegal1:
bros abeg no make me laff....

if i tell u were i dey sleep,u go begin pity me....

Were you ever made a subject of mockery in your community?

Illegal1:
Bros...ur problem dey learn work for were other people own dey..

suicide is never an option,if nt....i for dn do am since..

At Least you have a roof to lay your head

iLegendd:
Exactly!

But if you like how you're suffering, I'm fine with it.

Nobody likes to suffer and again that statement was rude

God1000:
I don't think Your landlord can do such thing, unless he has already informed the authorities.

It has been 2 yrs now since we last paid for rent.
Again we were once ejected way back at 2016
I know the trauma I suffered then as a young boy. I told God that he should not let this affliction arise again but look at me,the same thing is about to repeat itself.
I can't even walk on the street confidently because almost every body in that street knows wats happening and what they do is sit and gossip us. After we were ejected in 2016 we had to live in a church for 2 years in which the pastor gave us continuous trouble.sometimes I ask my elder brother how he was strong enough to withstand that shame

iLegendd:
That is why we tell men to make money first and have businesses with backups incase the main one crashes before pouring their sperms inside a woman to raise kids, but no, their pastors push them to get married fast even though there is nothing and God will provide in the process.

These men keep waiting for God to provide till old age and subject these innocent kids to suffering. God only provides for those who are persistent and smart-working, not prayerful only.

The only type to poor men I pity nowadays are those who were once "legitimately" rich, but lost all because of a disaster beyond their control.

So you are indirectly saying my father shouldn't have given birth to me if he can't take care of me