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Sweetplum:
From the street. Begging isn't a sin. Taking up menial jobs isn't a sin. And if he can't, he should stick to his dad and endure anything.

Truvelisback:
Tell him that he also failed as a father, for not being able to play his fatherly role. U should compare him to his age mates who are successful men and doing well. Incase wetin u tell am pain am, and him wan beat u, make u run sha! Anyway, my advice for u is that u should learn Skill. Men life hard sha.

Sweetplum:
You want his dad to just curse him and disrupt his future totally.
Davizee, move out of your father's home and start living like a man.
If you stay with him, you ll disrespect him due to his numerous confrontations.
Also, remember him in your prayers.
Nigeria is hard for everybody both male and female.
The upbringing my parents could gave me is what I m enjoying today. And presently, some of my friends are married or became surgeon, hair hostess etc. I v a close friend who's working with world bank presently cos her dad had connections. I m grateful to my parent but if I m now comparing, I ll be sinning cos some families can't give what my parent gave to me.
Your dad is taking his frustrations on you unfairly. Realistically in this present age, the betterment of a child's life in this present age rest of trainings given by parents.

RZArecta:
Forget your father now.

How old are you and what plans do you actually have for yourself ? No parent would be happy seeing their kids gallivanting around the area like chickens or goats so you have to ask yourself the hard questions.
See, money is sweet and all the good things of life cost some money including the first 1k suya you buy for yourself so ask yourself what you have to offer the world that they'll pay for so you can afford those little luxuries. Even if you have a girlfriend, she'll get tired of excuses when you can't even take her to a nice place to relax or get her a nice gift. You need sober reflection and it might cost you cutting off some of your friends who aren't allowing you think straight

Kingpin1000:
Sorry to say this, your Dad is a failure and can't handle his own failures in life less He shift the blame to someone else.
You are not even upto 20 yes and you're already trying to avoid depression. Your father must really be a pain in the ass, I just wish you don't end up being like your father.
My advice for you is to take responsibility in everything you do. If you fail jamb accept your failure and know what you did wrong that made you fail try again with another patern.
Young man if anybody tells you this life is not hard that person is doing you a great lot of bad. People like us who have no one as a spring board to success have to work harder, learn from our mistakes and failures and then try again.
The bible even said " faith without work is dead".
Don't let anyone make you feel like a failure, you are too young to be battling depression.
Be happy, if Jamb bleep you, use that year to learn a skill, then try again. If you don't have connections forget about football, you don't gamble with your future.
I wanted to be a musician but one day I had to advice myself because na only me know how much I don spend without result.

JasonScoolari:
RIP is an abbreviation for Rest In Peace.

No further elaboration.

Nawttiboi007:
Firstly bro never at any point deviate from God, cos every other thing is vanity. Secondly be contented and not Covetous. Associate ursef with people a bit older than you (That are legitimate and responsible in all ramifications)with loyalty and respect but not stupid. Take advantage of ur young age to run errands for them but during that process learn critically well and build ur contacts smartly. Contacts goes a very long way in life.

Sheistoopretty:
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AntiWailer:
Just like your father,

You blamed everybody for your misfortune except you.

Oya go diabolical and raise funds.

JasonScoolari:
You're just like your father.

RIP in Advance.

Karleb:
That happens when they can't handle their own failures.

Next time just compare him with the richest person in your street.

marlow1962:
Nawa o

Godsgift7837:
No vex bro I don use the money help another person. I no get your reply since then.

marlow1962:
So u mean all your relatives dem both papa side, mama side even close pals, none of dem send u?

Enny2013:
Sorry I!
U can as well contact ur family members for help nau...both Nuclear n extended.
Dnt u HV family members?
By d tym u will call abt 7 persons, something go come out.

Godsgift7837:
No vex bro I don use the money help another person. I no get your reply since then.

Godsgift7837:
My question, how much be rent? Answer this and we take it from there.

Dimples2022:




That’s exaggerating. Stop it. You do not have all those disorders because you wouldn’t be on nl chatting to me if you did.

Dimples2022:


I am presently suffering from dementia,insomnia,amnesia, nympholepsy,OCD,paranoia, suicide thoughts and many more mental disorders

Zeal0000007:
my dear some persons where once in your shoes , many struggled to complete their university education, many dropped out because no helping hands, I remember many times my dad had to borrow to pay my fees.

many graduated no job, there re thousands of graduates roaming the streets without job to do, I didn't say your case will be like that, some even with master degree no jobs. Be it as it may, its good to be educated but education is not a yardstick for success.

Wen I finished nysc no job I was teaching a guy who had a Mercedes repairing company, he repairs Mercedes, he programs them, the guy is good at what he's doing, but he was just an olevel holder, and he left school like 20yrs ago. He had all the money in the world he travels out at will. And you know Mercedes is a car wealthy people buys, top politicians brings them to him for repairs, but he wasn't satisfied he had to go for university education. Even though he won't use d certificate but atleast for self actualization.

I teach him in the morning before he goes out to work and by 4pm he going for his normal partime class, as we speak today he's in his finals .Though I later left him because of job opportunity I had .

what I'm I trying to say, u can learn a skill that pays later in life, may be when u become a master and earns enough money u can enroll for a partime course, don't be discouraged my dear.

Gofwane:
Honestly, 2022 was my worse year ever. I have become a shadow of myself and even diagnosed with high blood pressure due to over thinking.

Today is new year and I am just here on the couch with an empty stomach.
I sha still thank God for not killing myself cos at a point, I once nursed the idea of slicing my wrist and dying slowly, peacefully.

May this year be better than last for us all.

Sweetplum:
Your condition tough o.
You see, one thing that keeps people moving till they attain greatness is determination to continue after any failure or setback. This is what you need to install in your life.
Presently, what you are lacking is money. Some people have money but they v terminal diseases or ailments that makes them be in situations they don't like.
Make up your mind to excel in areas you v failed in 2022 or previous years.
All these dementia, insomnia, amnesia, paranoia, suicide thoughts etc that you v developed will either hasten you to death or make you not to enjoy your admission when you finally get to school or become better in life.
When I was in law school, I had a male friend that came from polygamous home. The father moved to UK in the early 2000s and is still there now. He hoped the man ll arrange for all the kids that wish to japa to come over there but non is with him till now (over 20 years). The man now setup one of the son of his first wife who's a step brother to that my friend in quarry biz. The guy is now a multimillionaire. My friend after finding out became mad with the father and was almost demanding his share. He ll be mocked, lacked opinion and ridiculed with any slight mistake. Yet the guy is not a beggar and is not a liability to anyone on the family. What I m trying to say here is the guy decided to focus on how he ll be better so that all the challenges of his trying times won't affect him when he made it. Now, he's also super rich. How? He got a street lighting project with a state in Nigeria. Na so he dey get connections upon connections and became a govt machinery.
So my dear, no give up o!

chatinent:
Kindly send me a mail @ chatinent@gmail.com

I'll put you in the path.

chatinent:
Every successful writer today started with their phones. You need a tutor to give you the clear ways to earn and not sb who will prolong it. And of course, it will come with a price.

Work on finding the right path.

chatinent:
Stop looking for jobs in your street and start looking for jobs online. As a writer, you can earn between ₦500k to ₦3m monthly online if you meet the right tutors. Even as a beginning who starts today, you can earn about ₦100k in a week.

The only thing about success sometimes is information.

Now think of being successful without thinking of what others think. Suicidal thought is not an option. Success is.

Lamanii22:
I’m here checking for movies I can watch

blowjohn:
All songs from Nas kd3 album.


Don't watch movies.