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Jamesbiodun:
your family should go and be living in the house instead of paying landlord

We are not the owner of the house na
The owner wants to sell it and told my dad to look for buyer

ukaface:
If you have a house, why are you selling it?

I said my dad is just an agent trying to sell somebody's house

Jamesbiodun:
Is the property a landed property?
If yes, your family can just try build a shed and sleep for the time you get enough money to build it

.
It is a house

I am in big mess and I have finally given up on life.
I gat to realise that it is better to be dead than to have accommodation problem.
The landlord of where we stay called my dad this morning and threatened to bring soldier to pursue us if we don't leave before the end of this month. Easter is suppose to be a period of celebrating but me and my parents are in deep pain.
My jamb exam is coming up in three weeks time and I haven't even open my book because of depression and thinking. I won't write the exam because it's a waste of time when you have nowhere to lay your head.
My father have tried everything possible,he has two property he is in charge of to sell which can help us move out of where we are staying but no buyer have surfaced.

I want to use this opportunity to ask for connection concerning the property.
If anyone has somebody that deals with property please help.

I thought life will be better by now with all the prophecies of my father turning a millionaire and all the hard work he has done but everything is still the same
We have been disgraced twice concerning accomodation problem and if it happens again I don't think I will be able to survive.

pansophist:
Self-consolation.

I know few honest, naira billionaires in Nigeria, and they are they most hard working, honest men you'll ever know.

They are so lowkey, dressed in rags (I know them at Ladipo market), but bro, it is when you enter their house you'll marvel.

There are lots of honest business people, and their wealth last long since it's legal. If you went to be a billionaire in ten years time, I can tell you what to do. The question is, will you do it?

I sir can I send u a PM

IblivinJesus:
Na Baba God dey put cash for man hand.

You no hol be say you no hol ,Baba God understands.It is only when God makes you have and you refuse to give that is when Baba God go vex or when you don't give cheerfully or willingly.

Na the most senior senior one (God) get everything and he doesn't need permission to take anything he desires.

Just go to him (God) and I tell you your story must change .

Lastly, try to be active in the church by making sure you contribute your own suggestions on how the church you attend will grow etc.

Just like you, you go hardly forget your friends wey dey give you advice on how you go take Grow na so God dey too, him no dey forget those wey dey active for church .

Thanks bro

IblivinJesus:
Try this last option if it doesn't work then do what you like but i am over certain it will work.

Go to church and give your life to Jesus.
Or start by saying this prayer now,say

Lord Jesus I believe you died on the cross for my sins,I believe you died to save me thank you Lord Jesus for saving me,amen .

Having said that prayer try the last option of following and serving Jesus which i believe have saved many who gave hope or focus in life on something.

Peter lost hope but he decided to try again because Jesus told him so.

Read This below it will boost your faith .

Luke 5:1-9 And it came to pass, that, as the people pressed upon him to hear the word of God, he stood by the lake of Gennesaret,

And saw two ships standing by the lake: but the fishermen were gone out of them, and were washing their nets.

And he entered into one of the ships, which was Simon's, and prayed him that he would thrust out a little from the land. And he sat down, and taught the people out of the ship.

Now when he had left speaking, he said unto Simon, Launch out into the deep, and let down your nets for a draught.

And Simon answering said unto him, Master, we have toiled all the night, and have taken nothing: nevertheless at thy word I will let down the net.

And when they had this done, they inclosed a great multitude of fishes: and their net brake.

And they beckoned unto their partners, which were in the other ship, that they should come and help them. And they came, and filled both the ships, so that they began to sink.

When Simon Peter saw it, he fell down at Jesus' knees, saying, Depart from me; for I am a sinful man, O Lord.

For he was astonished, and all that were with him, at the draught of the fishes which they had taken:


@ Davizee please take this advice too.

To meet Jesus self hard
Imagine me not going to church for two sundays because I no get offering

UncleHenrich:
As the subject says, I don't know what next to do with my life, how can someone discover his through purpose in life

Same problem I am battling
I am tired of life and fed up of everything around me
No body to give hope
Worst of it I have an upcoming exam and I can't even concentrate to read because of depression
If I fail the exam I am definitely going to commit suicide because I only 10 Percent alive

frozen70:
Chai
May God make away from you and your family in Jesus name

I hope so

frozen70:
Pls take it easy
Life is not sweeter for anyone

Just put your hope in God and trust in him

The most important thing now is for you to gain admission and you will understand why the fingers in our hands are not equal

The truth is that I actually got admission last year but to there was no money to further it. What if it happens again?

frozen70:
I think your pastor is giving you wrong information about life

If your parents are beging for food, it's their problem and fault because probably they didn't work hard

So how does he want you to make a living if not Yahoo

My parents are really working hard especially my mom but I don't seem to understand why life is cruel to us. This is the uttermost reason I hate life and everything

frozen70:
What makes you think that at 19yrs of age, you should be catering for yourself

Do you think Nigeria is USA

That's what they told me even my pastor
He said when he was 16 he left his parents and that I should try to be catering for myself so that I won't be a burden to my parents just because my parents went to beg for food

[quote author=QuinModah post=122210149]Start making friends in church
I am the only teen in my church

QuinModah:
Why are you thinking?
You need to hangout more? Please 🙏 it will end in praise.

Who am I gonna hangout with.
I gat no friends
Everyday I am all by myself
Life is totally bleeped up

[quote author=QuinModah post=122153256][/quote]Depression which is killing me
Thinking
Agony
Introvert lifestyle

Nia69:
Yeah.

Yeah 🙄

Nia69:
Lol. Nia is my nickname while 69 is my favorite number.

Outta 1 to infinity you chose '69'
Something's fishy

Nia69:
Why are you shocked? We have many 19 yo here.

I thought you are 69 😅
Just kidding
What's up with your name?

Nia69:
Yes, I am.

Wow
Ok

Nia69:
Okay.

Are you 19?

Kobojunkie:
You don't need a mentor. You need to first get your mind reasoning properly in order that no one else can dick around with your brain there. Work on your ability to critically reason your life, your situation, and all around you first i.e. gain wisdom/commonsense. Afterward, you can look online to find out what skills you can work on while you wait for your Jamb result to land.

Thanks

Albertone:
Learn any skill and monetize it.

Graphics design
Copywriting
Digital marketing
Web development
Electrical installation
Phone repairs
etc
Once you've gathered money, you can learn crypto.

Thanks bro
Did you pay to learn them

Albertone:
Why the curse?

Leave that misanthrope seeking attention

HellVictorinho7:
u will not succeed

Why

VinnyBaba:
OP, You have ur JAMB to Write

And

You are so Addicted to Nairaland and Busy creating different Threads, Abi?

When you go Sidon House FOR 5YRS, according to my Warri Pple, your Mind go Dey. 😏

What do you want me to do
I have been studying from 9 am to 7 pm
I am not addicted to nairaland

Powerbando:
Can you see what I am saying, agent of devil giving you advice, you sef dey ginger there rubbish
He sure me die, those people giving you advice still dey struggle,
Get your shit together all by yourself or take advice from already made people, though they may not have your time

I am looking for a mentor or an advisor but I gat none

Wawelexy:
Don't be afraid boy, the only thing you need is to stay clear off those gender, you will be fine...

I don't like girls at all

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is a 19-year-old who is not even in college worried about being independent at this age in a country like Nigeria? No be brain-damage be that?

You need to realize that you will likely have to be under your parent's roof and care for until you are many be almost 30 years of age. I don't know where you are rushing to when you are not even a Russian.

I don't want to stay with my parents again so that they don't call me a liability

Albertone:
My friends said same to me in 100 level at 16.
I started feeding myself at 19.

Sha no do yahoo

Show me the way please

MaDaRa01:
Am 22+ but i'm still saying "tanku ma"

It depends on the financial status of your family
Like mine we are still struggling to survive and I don't want them to struggle