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It's not easy initially but just know that life goes on.
It's one day at a time.

As per your job, please no play with that one o.
Unless you are born with "silverspoon" or "gold(en)fork".
If you play with your job or jonze with it, na fire dem go fire you o.
Then you go ask yourself if it was worth it?
Pesin wey don move on sef.

Sorry ma.
Just pick up d pieces and move on.

Forward77:
Sorry my sister, but I’m speechless.

No, you are not sir.

You just "said" something.

Or did you type it?

meobizy:
Where are the pictures?

You go wait taya

Inside Life.....

He see catfish inside water

American wonder......

NowisGod109:
Please can anyone recommend the best place to invest for my child. Someone recommended blue chip and webull online. If they are okay, what is their original website.

Where are they located?
I don't want to ask my husband and I really need to do this for our child.

Why don't you wanna ask your husband ma?

Is it not his child too?
#justaskingnio

donbachi:
How can she buy him a car with his own money....and u called it a gift..dat is why na 4 only nigeria family and friends go plan suprise birthday party 4 somebody..still come dey ask u d money 4 d cake.

Habatically, bros!!!!!!

Pls take d pinshures to d bank o.

You know d rest

Omihanifa:
The lady pointing torch light in the last pix looks like the popular Nigerian p0rnstar uglygalz

Yeah.
I concur.
But d tattoo is missing.

E pass sex?!!!!

See where you get yourself now....

Mumu somebody....

doggedfighter:
They should shop for clothes for him. He's putting on undersized and ill fitting clothes.

I wish him well

How do we do that?
You lead, I'll follow.
Let's help him.
Please.....

His mom was a great actress.

cRobo:
Politician tools

Just look at them with NO FUTURE AMBITION

They already know that.
That's why they are taking d monies to protest.

Awon omo ale jatijati.
The thing money go cause for dis land, eh?

pryme:
Sorry about the situation you are in,
I can relate to the fact that she started with you when you had nothing.

Her background or character has nothing to do with her present behavior, what is lacking here is her WILL to change.
If she knows some of her excesses will make you unhappy, and it will make you to be distant from her she will have no choice but to change if you are very important to her.

The problem here is your wife is now in a very comfortable position, she has a man that can't leave without her, she is married, money is coming in, what else is there.
She can now do as she pleases because you can't do without her (and she knows it)

Am sorry but as military personnel you should have a hint of how human beings are, if you don't do something drastic or do something extreme, there will be no law and other, people won't change.

I don't believe in all this talk of "sit her down and talk to her", how can you talk to someone that has been with you for 10 years and clearly knows what you hate.

It's not too late, lay down some ground rules, get tough if you have to,
if you can't, give her space let her feel your absence, she has no idea of what she has until she loses it.
Give her the silent treatment if you have to, isolate her from your decision making and your plans, this is like a divorce but within the marriage (you must understand it won't be difficult for her to cheat on you as it stands) . tell her to enjoy her life of seeking attention you won't stop her again.

You must put yourself in mind state that you have already lost her, cos if you don't you won't go all the way, she may think you are bluffing at first until she finds you are dead serious.

And trust me she won't take it for long,

There is a saying
"some people are better off when denied their
privileged"

She wont change until something drastic happens, am sorry but that's human beings for you.

Oyel dey your head.
Thank you.

dview001:
if your wife still receive calls from different guys,I can categorically and empirically tell you that she's cheating..if a girl is in a serious relationship with you (as in you're her main guy) she will never pick unnecessary calls in your presence, infact most times she won't insert her hotline whenever she comes visiting you. If a girlfriend can be that cautious how much more a wife?.Please understand that her heart is no longer with you..pele take heart

It's not until you sleep with someone physically that you cheat.
The way she's been carrying on nko?
No be emotional cheating b dat?

ZionMyWorld:
Self centeredness is a right word I think, though she comes from a broken family, she lost her mother at very young age, have deep resentment towards her step mother till date, she had literally lived all by herself even while living in her father's house.

This idea of working together as a team is alien to her, there are some things she does and never told me, like doing monthly contribution or keeping cash with someone to keep for her, and she won't let me know, while am so open to her, because that's how I grew up, my mom n dad work as a team.

I sometimes tell her to carry me along whatever she does so that I can be in the picture. I buy everything with our names, our cars, house, land, everything carries my name and hers, even we both signatories to our bank accounts. Despite I do the work, while she handle home front and recently start managing a nursery and primary school we setup.

Seems her upbringing caused irreparable damages to her mindset. Now am facing it.

Bro,
You called that smartness?
Keeping stuffs away from you et al?
Please stop making excuses for her sir.
I respect from all you have written so far but the truth is bitter o.