Forward77:
Sorry my sister, but I’m speechless.

No, you are not sir.

You just "said" something.

Or did you type it?

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

hi

Let me share my experience with you @op.

I beg you if you don't have the means of taking care of that baby, don't bring him to this world. If your mum is single parent, don't follow the trend of beING a single parent as well. You should check

For the fact that I wads independent to take care of mine after the guy back out 6 months into the pregnancy and never show face again after 10 years, i must confess it's not easy to be a single mom.

The responsibilities and disadvantages are far more than the advantages. My dear it takes the grace of God to go thru life


I want you to weigh your options well. You have taken so many drugs, I hope this doesn't have negative effect on the features of that baby. Check very well so the there won't be double wahala

You must be very stable financially and emotionally to be a single mother. Most guys these days, look down on single parents but God is always merciful so you can get a good guy to accept you and your kid

Just follow your mind and think it thru very well before you decide on the pregnancy

ChrisXFT:

Run away from abortion. You might be temporarily free now. But you sure don't want the generational consequences. Many have lost their lives becos of abortion straight to hell, others their womb, and suffered the pains of childlessness for life. The deal is done. Move forward. Two wrongs can't make it right. You might have no plans for the baby but God does. He will take care of him. Am not saying it will be easy. But aborting is harder with generational consequences.

Dear “God”
Well done Sir

You disobey God through fornication and you are still trying to abort the child you can not create? Seek forgiveness and help yourself by telling your mother the truth

congratulations dear.

Hi all... I am currently doing well and I have moved on with my life.. Never gonna contact him again ..
Back to baby I am currently on bed [img][/img]rest cos of a threatened miscarriage because of those drugs I use.. He said its 50/50..The baby might stay or go.. I am two months plus now

samtol4:
Instead of you to concentrate on your unborn baby and how to survive u busy wasting time on the useless dude. U need to see your pastor for counseling and moral support.This stage will soon pass.The guy that impregnated my sister later came after 5years we chase him away ! Am surprised at your mother reaction sending you ? Family is always a place of support perhaps your mother had similar issue or is she a single mother? You did not mention your father in this story?

Thanks so much.. I just came online after how many weeks because I am currently on bed rest.
My mum is still angry but I am back home.. Dad died years back

KIkiofure:
Hello Nairalanders..
I had to create this account to conceal my identity..

I have been through rough times in life and have been very careful of sex. After I got disvirgned I stayed away from sex, stayed celibate and concentrated on my work and school till I met a guy.. So we talked and we're into each other we had sex, anytime we hadsex I make sure I am careful of been pregnant but that day after sex I didn't take anything because he swore he didnt come in me(Greatest mistake of my life) now I missed my period went for scan and blood test and tested Positive.

I told him but his response wasn't welcoming, I have tried all medication I know to abort this baby but the baby is too stubborn, the child doesn't wanna come out.. I haven't told anyone yet..
I have let my mum down and myself, this wasn't what I ever wanted for my life.

Now since this child is stubborn Pls advise me, I'm not sure the guy wanna be involved in this child life ...
How will I break the new to my mum? How will the society see me? I have let God and my mum down despite my stance on premarital sex Is there any NGO that can assist me?
Please Royalroy front Page ..i need advise.

what medication did you try? you obviously didnt try the right one. alabukun and limca does not count.
how old is the pregnancy
meet a doctor for an MVA if the pregnancy is less than 8 weeks

U are a murderer

funmisticqueen:
what medication did you try? you obviously didnt try the right one. alabukun and limca does not count.
how old is the pregnancy
meet a doctor for an MVA if the pregnancy is less than 8 weeks

when you finally prove to me that life begins at conception, until then, abortion is not murder

milemimi93:
U are a murderer

As if you are any different, you have actually gone to jail for poisioning an ADULT before

I used to respect u but today u fall my hand. See d advice u gave. If u were aborted wud u hav

funmisticqueen:
when you finally prove to me that life begins at conception, until then, abortion is not murderAs if you are any different, you have actually gone to jail for poisioning an ADULT before

milemimi93:
I used to respect u but today u fall my hand. See d advice u gave. If u were aborted wud u hav

if i was abortde, we wont be having this discussion. now if Buhari was aborted or all those boko haram members, or those fulani herdsmen. Now that is another angle to explore, i am pro choice.

KIkiofure:
Thanks so much.. I just came online after how many weeks because I am currently on bed rest.
My mum is still angry but I am back home.. Dad died years back

congratulations

funmisticqueen:
[s]when you finally prove to me that life begins at conception, until then, abortion is not murder.[/s] As if you are any different, you have actually gone to jail for poisioning an ADULT before

I believe I've come across someone here referring to you as being in the health profession...and yet, just take a look at the rubbish you typed.
What an embarrassment to your sponsors.

If you didn't know that life begins in a foetus when the heart begins systolic pumping (detectable fetal heart rate), then it's either you didn't learn anything from the school you attended (probably graduated by just cramming), or you received mushroom education.

Glad to be back here...I’m almost five months and still on bed rest though...
The guy family are trying to come sha but they aren’t supporting in any ways so my mum is saying they should just stay away.

KIkiofure:
Glad to be back here...I’m almost five months and still on bed rest though...
The guy family are trying to come sha but they aren’t supporting in any ways so my mum is saying they should just stay away.

You'll pull through and eventually be just fine. Be strong.

KIkiofure:
Glad to be back here...I’m almost five months and still on bed rest though...
The guy family are trying to come sha but they aren’t supporting in any ways so my mum is saying they should just stay away.

If the guy's family decides to help both financially and physically would you accept them?

jeff1607:


If the guy's family decides to help both financially and physically would you accept them?

They haven’t even said anything

Hello Guys so I found out something,I found out that the father of my Baby unblocked me from watsap on Saturday after over 6 months of blocking me but he handy said anything yet
I’m still fine though and still resting.

KIkiofure:
Hello Guys so I found out something,I found out that the father of my Baby unblocked me from watsap on Saturday after over 6 months of blocking me but he handy said anything yet
I’m still fine though and still resting.

How are you now? Hope you’re good and the baby’s fine too.
Much love