Attend the GCK Global Crusade with Kumuyi at the nearest centre close to you. You can also connect online on YouTube, Facebook etc. What you need is a divine touch. The Devil the thief is stealing and destroying your health and life. RUN to Jesus today and be set free. Please take this advice very serious
God bless you

Unyimekelvin:
I'm totally down,i mean emotional damaged by All this acts of mine.

I started masturbation at 16, now it is up to 6 years i could not stop it ..also betting .. I'm a strong addict on this..... especially virtual game this shit has eaten me deeply, plus masturbation i can't understand anything in life again...i tried stopping it but I couldn't...

Note i does this gambling online... this how its always goes, when I fund My bet wallet,i will start playing virtual games( in the space of 6 years i have Lost up to 5million naira) ND if I don't winn ;i will divert to porn from porn to masturbation...

I got My dick injured through masturbating some one should help out please... just drop your advice biko...

I don't even know how to write this, cos I'm crying now

Bugie16:
When these Europeans are handling National issues, they are very sincere and if things doesn't go well, they simply step aside for a more capable hands to handle it. The Blacks needs time to evolve from an animalistic approach of stealing, killing, corruption, tribalism and religion to a humanistic kind of leadership.According to Charles Darwin, such evolution takes hundreds of years.

With Jesus it can be instantaneous because if any man be in Christ he is a new creature old things are passed away and behold all things are become new ...2 Corinthians 5:17. We need Jesus, Nigeria and Nigerians need Jesus. He is the only Saviour.

Failure44:
I'm in pains and so annoyed.
I can't even boast of 10k in my account,
I'm crippled with debts on loan apps
This ASUU strike has only made my life worse.
The useless man I call a father that earns half a million monthly, spends It on drinking. I vow to make that man suffer at old age and to bury him in a shallow grave.
What did I do in my past life to be born into a broken home?
Where both parents are like cat and dog.
While my mates were learning yahoo, I was reading like a fool preparing for school.
Now I have secured the so called medicine but am suffering in silence while they're buying cars.

Do you know how painful it is to see the same people you were with now buying cars and using the latest phone?
How painful it is to see them spraying money in the club while you're borrowing money from loan apps?
How painful it is too them those you helped now snub your messages?

Now I understand why people commit suicide

My friend your father needs love and help, like you do. Your Father has relational authority over you. If you provoke him and he lays curse on you, that curse is likely to stand. Now take this advice. Love your father, befriend him, respect him honour him and help him. Once you get his attention through love, he will reciprocate and you may be able to encourage to do away with drunkenness. Insulting and disrespecting him because he is a drunk can only push him away further. Honour your father and mother ,that it may be well with you. And for you, you need to he careful and prayerful so that you do not reproduce what you hate now in your family in future. Familiar spirits cause a lot of damage in families.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Please, don't quit yet! Have you talked to God about the conflict?
Have you asked yourself what you are doing wrong?
Have looked at the strength of your partner and not magnifying his weakness?
Have tried using love and submission to win him over?
Do you daily pray in love that God should change him?
Have you asked yourself if there is any marriage without a challenge?
Have had a one on one gentle talk and not quarrel with your partner?
Have you involved both families to settle this problem?
Have you involved your religious leaders or marriage counsellors?
Have you counted the cost of the effect of a broken marriage on your kids?
Is there any thread to life by violence?
Can you forgive and let go?
Can you endure a little more?
Humble yourself and pray and fast as the Devil wants to break your home. But through prayer and fasting, y6can resist him. Please don't quit. Hang on a little more. I speak peace to your marriage and rebuke the Devil trying to break your family in Jesus's name. Amen

Bro Jesus said come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden and I will give you rest..Matthew 11:28.
Peter toiled all night and caught nothing, but at the command of Jesus he had a net tearing catch.

As it stands, you need a Job to survive and you need the job where you can learn some skills. You can apply as an assistant, car wash boy, laundry helper, mechanic or auto electrician. The following will help you.

1. Make peace with God through repentance and faith in Jesus the Saviour of man.
2. Make peace with your Parents both of them
3. Have a Desire Dream or Goal
4. Discipline yourself to work and learn
5. Determine to succeed, remove shame
6. Be Diligent in what you find to do. Be hardworking, honest and upright and you will make.
7. Communicate your challenge with your Boss, friends, family or Church, don't die in silence.
8. If you need 1k to drink garri drop your axa.
9. God bless you.

KVN1:
Good afternoon all.
I dropped out of school at 200level because I could no longer cope with my responsibilities at home and my studies altogether. Had to defer so I can continue much later in future after I achieve balance. Now I am trying to learn a skill,but for two months now, I have only been able to accumulate just a little more than ten working days at work.
When I don't go to work, I go in search of menial jobs but everything now seems like a rat race. Time is really flying and I find myself going to work (as an apprentice) on an empty stomach most times.

I can't even cope or even concentrate with neither skill nor school because of I'm so broke..

I didn't go anywhere today.. just in bed, hungry and confused.

What do you think I should do?
what's the way forward?

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

My Brother Jesus said in John 10:10, The thief comes not but to steal to kill and to destroy. That is what the Devil and his demons are doing to you. But the good news is that you can be free.

1. Acknowledge that you are a Sinner. Romans 3:10
2. Confess all these Sins to God. .Proverbs 28:13
3. Ask God for forgiveness ..1 John 1;9
4. Decide not to go back to any known Sin
5. Ask Jesus to come into your life as Lord and Saviour John 1:12
6. Renounce and reject every demon of lust and immortality
7. Mention the blood of Jesus like three times when ever those evil thoughts come to you
8. Pray to God and read your Bible every morning and evening . Read from Matthew or John Gospel
9. Believe that you are saved and delivered
10. Join A Bible believing Church.
11. Pray to God for a wife and get married
12. You can listen to Derek Prince message on YouTube on Release from the curse.
If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature, old things are passed away and behold all things are become new 1 Corinthians 5:17.
God bless you as you take the steps to freedom and eternal life in Christ Jesus.

Whom a Father loves, he chasteneth. and corrects ...Hebrews 12:6

Whoremongers (fornicators) and adulterers God will judge....Hebrews 13:4

Repent and return to Jesus and be saved and blessed.

Kobojunkie:
Open your Bible to Matthew 19 vs 4 - 5 and you will find there that Jesus Christ, God's New Covenant Law, upheld God's own law as regards marriages - Genesis 2 vs 24 - declaring from the beginning that a man shall leave his father and mother and shall join with his woman and the two shall be man and wife. God never specified that any permission was necessary, not even from a manmade and dictated marriage commitee.

I believe you know that Jesus did not say a man a woman should run away from their parents and form a new family. To leave father and mother is the goal. But there is a process or activity steps to be taken to achieve the main goal. At family, village or traditional and Church level IF you are Born Again.

maikalaf:

A sister was so sure this bro was the one. You could see the excitement and all. Marriage committee ask bro how far, bro said nothing clear.
Sister was broken. See ehn, these things happens every now and then, and it's one of the contributing factors why some persons are even not sure of what they know to be true again.
The basics of this whole thing about finding a partner should be that the said partner actually knows God on a personal level. That's it!
As far as kingdom is concerned, God have many sons and daughters, and they're not only in a particular denomination (na church doctrine bring all this limitation), them yapa! Find the one that fits your spec, as far they're saved and love Jesus, take the next step. That's what marriage committee is supposed to be for, I guess.

Most times God works from both ends when it comes to the will of God in marriage . Gen 24:12-14. If one cannot pray and wait for God to direct him or her. There is no need going to tell the committee lies that God led you to someone. Just tell them you like the person for marriage and don't be surprised that God can still work it out for you. We need to learn to depend on God in this life. If we learn to always depend on God we will not make mistakes and the good Lord will prosper us. Shalom.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ never asked anyone to belong to your organizations in His name , nor did He instruct you to follow any of the rules and traditions, administrative included, or men.

He warned you against the following of the doctrines and traditions of men, even the ones your churches are built on top off, telling you that they are all lies to deceive you away from the Truth of God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 23

God gave you one rule as far as marriage is concerned. He did not declare that any other permissions were needed to establish a marriage. Your church marriage commitees installing themselves in between God's rule and men violates God's own law that no man add to or remove from His Law.

What is the one rule that God gave for marriage?

maikalaf:

Abeg abeg!
We all know that marriage committee isn't scriptural, and for a church that actually preaches sound doctrine, that's a lot to deal with.
Also, many folks in that church are actually enduring their marriages.

Issues like this is why a 22 year old would end up marrying someone that's about 10 years older than her. Omooooeux!
Allow people to look for their preferences, meet up with the said person and both go to the marriage committee. Is that so hard? Instead, everything is supposed to be under the corners.

Aside the few extremes, a lot of young people are leaving the denomination because of this same issue.

Bro if you claim to be born again. Pray to God to direct you to your life partner. God does not make mistakes, and He still speaks to men today. Our spiritual maturity is important if we want to do the will of God.
Shalom.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ instead warned you against following the Doctrines and traditions of men . He informed you these doctrines and traditions of men are nothing but lies, an abomination to God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14

Doctrines are different from Administrative rules.
Organisations have standard and procedures for various operations. When you belong to the organisation you follow the process and procedures .
Absence of procedures will mean everyone doing it his or her own way and orderliness will be lacking.
So let's not mix up doctrines with administrative procedures. Every Church I guess have there marriage procedures.

sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

The Church is not the problem here. There are people don't go to Church who are also passing through similar problems.
If you are born again, you have the Spirit of God.
God speaks to you through your spirit.
When you pray to God for a life partner, God will direct you on whom He wants you to marry.
But you must make sure that you are ready to do His will. If you have idol in your heart, you may get a permissive will. If God leads to a Sister the likelihood of that Sister saying NO is slim. So allow the spirit of God to guide and direct you. Follow the process prayerfully, no murmuring and complaining. Be sincere to God, the Church and yourself and see God grant you victory in the area of marriage. Remember, we wrestle not against flesh and blood. And as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the Sons of God. Shalom.

The time to repent is NOW.
Today harden not your heart as in the day of provocation.
Come to Jesus today.
Admit that you are a sinner ...Romans 3:23
Confess and forsake your sins...Prov 28:13
Accept Jesus as your Lord and Saviour..John 1:12
God loves you
Judgement is coming
Time is Short
Hell is Hot
God is Love
Repent today and be saved.
God bless you

Bro this is the work of the devil and only Jesus can help you.
The problem is beyond your Mother it is spiritual.
Love her, respect her, pray for her. Raise up prayer alter in your family with your siblings.
Let the light of God shine and dispel every darkness in your family.
Be patient and look up to God for salvation.

But you need to be born again so that you can become a spiritual force for God in your family.
To be born again - Acknowledge your sinful nature, confess your sins to God, repent from them and invite Jesus into your heart as Lord as Saviour.
God bless you.

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qwertyboss:

seconded

Done

Roidatom:
Let's have a picture of the existing building.

Please see uploaded pictures

We have a story building that we plan to change the roof to a modern roof with the addition of parapet. The top floor block size is 4 inches block. The following modifications are needed:

1. Addition of 2 coaches of block to raise height
2. Addition of parapet
3. Addition of 4 feet parapet slab in front of building to be supported by new pillars.
5. Length of house front is 11.4 m and side 10.2m

Can someone give me a pictorial 3D appearance of possible modifications that can be made to modernize the building.

Thanks in anticipation of your results .
If you need further info please let me know.