Before I begin let me point this outfit. I am a mess, I can be a mess. I am very non challant about everything in this life, I hardly take anything serious, even me myself I don’t take me serious. Maybe that’s why I do t know how to wear makeup.
I am in to fashion, I sell clothes, so I go to the market most of the time almost daily to shop for prints. As soon as I am in the market, I forget everything my mind is fully in my hustle that I might not even hear my phone ring ( does this happen to anyone else) during this period if oga calls and I am don’t pick his call. Wahala big one. All means to explain to him that I get engrossed sometimes in shopping has proved abortive
So I sought for a solution and got a second phone that probably rings louder hoping this will help my people still nothing oo sometimes I might not even know the phone ringing is mine
Each time I pick up the phone and see all his missed calls i immediately hate myself. Cause he has always warned that I stay reacheable severally I have even lost count and warned that the next time it happens it’s over
In as much as I’m carefree, I care about this man a lot and I hate seeing him mad so I find myself treading with caution Checking my phones at intervals or sometimes even holding it so u would know if it rings.
But somehow he just thinks I am intentionally doing it, he finds it unbelievable that someone will have a phone and not pick calls. Many times than more the iPhone will just move to silence on its own or either by mistake
Now this has caused distance between us. This isn’t something I can fight cause it isn’t intentional but hubby has concluded it is.
Is there anyone that is this carefree with their phones how does your partner handle it, do they hate you for this reason or your guys just walk through it like it’s a norm

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I guess am the only one in another world, wooow this generation is a mess
quote author=Liposure post=94271974]I see nothing wrong with what hubby did in the first place. He's an adult. The only issue i see here is clear misunderstanding btw you two[/quote]

Daft response
quote author=crackhaus post=94271210]
Perhaps the part where she orgasmed and the muscles on her arse were vibrating at 50hertz/sec.

I'm very sure it was that specific bit that made you hörny enough to want to have sex with your spirit husband.[/quote]

You sounded smart and I was gonna argue the “jealous wife part but then i remembered how pervert our 21st generation is so I have decided not respond, I can connote from your words you are still single, and if you aren’t you must be an irresponsible husband. And finally you definitely aren’t a Christain
Must he show any one the video, must he?? Is it a kind of video to be shared?

MrBrownJay1:


You are talking like a proper incoherent jealous housewife:"Ok to show his male friends but not his female friends"... As if there is any difference and/or that the female friends will turn into sex starved zombie and rape him against his will. Lol!

Please am here for opinions what’s my business with the sex video

crackhaus:

Bruv, this was just to get people informed about Nengi's sex video.

I'm almost certain this alternate moniker has no husband anywhere.

Kind,y make your opinion clearer

crackhaus:

Bruv, this was just to get people informed about Nengi's sex video.

I'm almost certain this alternate moniker has no husband anywhere.

And that would have been a better option show the guys, WHY SHOW LADIES, at least he claimed all he wanted was the face of the lady identified, We are t even into the show, everything we heard about the show was via social media, so the show isn’t much of a deal to us..

MrBrownJay1:


I mean, don't get me wrong... I wold understand if you'd argue that your hubby has such sextape in his phone and/or that he is even showing it to you..... But it's obvious that you guys are into this BBN thingy, and that you had no problem with your hubby having the sextape (it even turned you on), so why are you mad if/when he shows it to others?! Why even the insinuation of cheating? Is it because you believe that if he shows it to other women, they will be turned on too?

The funny part is that, I am sure you would have no problem if he showed the video to his male friends.

Our present generation has obviously lost it though; misplaced priorities
However thanks for your opinion

MrBrownJay1:


A sextape.... Which btw, is directly linked to the biggest show on 9ja airwaves right now? BBN is what everyone talks about...the good, the bad and the ugly. Expectng hubby to only talk about what "you" deem fit (with female friends) makes no sense.

Isn't that the same BBN where people are openly fukcing on camera?

Did you see the video am talking about?

MrBrownJay1:
Hubby sent the video to female friends so that they can confirm what he was saying... no big deal here! Unless of course you expect your husband to have female friends but only talk about church issues....

WTF has this generation turned to though ��‍♀️