thats my point exactly,he was already like acting all lovey u know,checking me up.calling to share even the stupidest things and all,all of a sudden this gal comes back and woh,he is gone,it hurts really cos even if he wasnt my type initially i never ever showed it, men i was so good to him

thanks alot omot208, u really feel me, thanks

please dont tell your mum,it will do more harm dan good,i suggest you talk to someone who is close to ur dad and can get him to listen, u can also talk to him yourself once in awhile.but most of all PRAY about it,God is still GOD and i knw he answers prayers, dnt call or try doing anything silly to the other woman,it might only infuriate ur dad more then make things worse, dats wen ull hear him telling your mum that see the kind of child she as raised, u get? just chill shey u hear,,things will work out just fine,,but in the meantime get sumone who can tuk to him, God bless,

em, i really do not know weda to critisize u or symphatize wiv u, wat u did was really not fair at al,u can imagine wat she would be thinking,she's working her ass out to make ends meet for u guys and dere u are chatting up sum chick online,,which sha ie probably paying for, making phone calls and incurring bills which she's gonna pay for too, dnt worry sha and keep praying ,if yoy are truely repentant God will see u tru, but i suggest you get ur self a job, all dose online browsing you are doing kuku use the time to browse for job vacancies, God bless

thanks you guys, @coco, yea i knw where u are coming from fine he wasnt the kind of guy i wld have gone for on a normal day,but based on the circumstances in which we met, thats tru someone, i was actually trying to get to know him better and all,so it wasnt like i was using him or trying to, anyway im glad u guys have given ur various opinins, im moving on quite alright,aldo i stll have this urge to just yell at him wen next he calls,

u guys tell me if i have a right to be mad, ok i met this guy,we talked about virtually everything from [past relationships to people we had like and stuffs like dat,anyway he told me about this gal he happens to really dig but she didnt just give a hoot about him, they talked quite alright,but deep down, and being a girl,i knew she was simply using him,you know how we gals could be atimes, we dont like the guy,yet we dont want to let go,,she only had to flash,this guy would call right back.anyway he said he was over her and wanted to move on cause she was never going to bugde. we hung out alot,went to the nmovies,parties and stuffs, he was ok and i knew he had started liking me,,but deep down he wasnt really the kind of guy i would have loved to date,but as a friend he was perfect,,i guess i was still trying to see if maybe as time goes on i would get to like him dat way, then he came with sum shockers, he called me one day.we were talking as usual, den he starts asking about my numerous toasters and aristos and who is the guy in my life, u know shit like dat,i was like thinking wat is this guy talking about,but i dint say aword,just kept quite and was flowing too answering all his questions, he den finally told me dat th gal called him out of the blues and she was ready to start a relationship with him, infact he didnt even put it as direct as im writing ito,he just told me like it was a passing jist,,i was dazzed but quickly recovered.i was like i was happy for him o,and all dat, i spoke with this guy everyday b4 dat very day,,guess wat he said wen he was about to hang up, ok den i guess ill tuk to you sometime laters ok'', men it cut me real deep, didnt call and he dint call for a wweek, den he did call and was acting like we had just seen a movie together yesterday, fine i know he owed me no obligation,but i think it was a cruel thing to do to someone, and it hurts more cos i cant say nothing to him about it,cos i dnt want to seem like one freak like dat, he still calls and acts like wat, we are cool, and i just feel like screaming at him and telling him to leave me the f, k alone, wat do u guys think?