nwanneni:
if it's the money that is making your head swell,why don't you let her work or get a business for her?
From the way you spoke(misogynist),only the heavens know what the lady must have passed through in your hands(you sounded so disrespectful and like someone that has no single regards for women).
Just so you know,i spend six figures monthly just to handle my logistics(typing from a hotel room)as a single man so i wonder what in the world you are talking about

Keep quiet jor Mr gentleman

nwanneni:
i would have given you a sound slap if i was close to you!!!fool
Did you bother to ask her why she didn't buy the stuff?no!and you are already screaming divorce.
I know your sidechick is the one manipulating you,but know that you will be a big fool to let pussy crash your home.
Fool!!

I would have given you too a dirty slap if I was closed to you when you were typing this. She has no reason whatsoever not have something as common as salt at home. Wat rubbish

Real Madrid and Juventus have agreed a £105m fee for the transfer
Last Updated: 10/07/18 11:13pm

Cristiano Ronaldo is on his way out of Real Madrid

What's behind Cristiano Ronaldo's move to Juventus? And what does it all mean for Real Madrid?
The Portuguese superstar is on the way to Juventus in a £105m move, with both the Turin club and Real Madrid confirming they have agreed a deal for his transfer.

Here, we answer the key questions surrounding the move with Sky Sports' Spanish football expert Guillem Balague.

Why does Ronaldo want to leave?
Ultimately, it comes down to him not feeling wanted enough. Ronaldo has spent nine glittering seasons with Madrid and lifted his fourth Champions League trophy in five years just a few weeks ago, but he has a complicated relationship with club president Florentino Perez.

"It's a personal issue," Balague told Sky Sports in Friday's episode of the Transfer Talk podcast. "Juventus are happy to pay him €30m net per year. He would earn the same if he signed a new contract at Real Madrid, but he feels he's not wanted.

"The background is that a year ago, Perez said he would increase Ronaldo's wages. Cristiano was waiting for an offer, and meanwhile, Lionel Messi got a new contract worth €41m net per year, Neymar is earning €35m net per year, and he is only earning €21m net per year.
The background is that a year ago, Perez said he would increase Ronaldo's wages. Cristiano was waiting for an offer, and meanwhile, Lionel Messi got a new contract worth €41m net per year, Neymar is earning €35m net per year, and he is only earning €21m net per year.

"He also feels there is a lot of talk about Neymar. When Cristiano won the Ballon d'Or, Perez said that if Neymar wanted to win the Ballon d'Or he needed to move to Real Madrid. Cristiano didn't like that, but when he threatened them with leaving, he felt Real Madrid didn't do enough to try and keep him.

"It's all very confusing. He wants to leave but at the same time he wants to be stopped. Anyway, Real Madrid are happy to let him go, but they want him to say publicly that he's leaving, so the finger of blame goes to him and they can give him a spectacular send-off."

How can Juventus afford him?
Balague estimates the total cost of the transfer, including all fees and wages over the course of the proposed four-year contract, would total upwards of €400m euros.

Quite clearly, financial fair play will play a part here, which means they will have to be very careful how they do this, but Real Madrid believe Juventus have sorted that out.

"I believe in the last 48 hours [amid the Ronaldo speculation], the value of Juventus in the stock market has increased 20 per cent. That explains one reason why they want him."

Juventus will, however, need to sell players to balance the books. One player who has already been linked with an exit is Gonzalo Higuain, who is reportedly a target for Chelsea.

Were there any other suitors?
Jorge Mendes, Ronaldo's agent, also sounded out Paris Saint-Germain and Manchester United about the possibility of signing him, according to Balague, but both clubs said they were not interested, leaving Juventus with a clear run at him.


Could Ronaldo keep winning at Juventus?
Ronaldo would be confident of adding to his vast trophy collection at Juventus. The Old Lady are totally dominant in Italian football having won seven consecutive Serie A titles and four consecutive league and cup doubles.

They are a European force, too. Juventus have not won the Champions League since the 1995/96 season, but they have reached two finals in the last five years. With Ronaldo on their side instead of standing in their way, they would fancy their chances of going one better.

What next for Madrid?
After 450 goals in 438 appearances - including 44 in 44 last season - Ronaldo's departure would leave a gaping hole at Real Madrid. So how do they plan to replace him?

"Florentino is not stupid, so if he's letting Cristiano go it's because something is happening," said

But while Real Madrid are sure to flex their financial muscles as Ronaldo departs, acquiring a new Galactico will not be easy.

"The new Real Madrid manager Julen Lopetegui was told that there were going to be five new players, but I don't see a Galactico available," says Balague.

"The plan that was designed in the last few months was that Real Madrid's attack would be Neymar, Marco Asensio and Cristiano, but PSG are saying there is no way they will let Neymar go. We will see now, with more money and more pressure involved, how that pans out, but PSG have said there is absolutely no way Neymar is leaving."
Real Madrid have also been linked with Neymar's PSG team-mate Kylian Mbappe, with Eden Hazard another reported target, but Balague says Harry Kane and Robert Lewandowski could prove to be out of their reach.

"I know Harry Kane will be linked to Real Madrid but I still believe he's going to stay at Spurs with his new contract and so on," said Balague. "Lewandowski is desperately trying to leave Bayern Munich but they don't want to let him go. So it's not as easy as it may sound for Real Madrid."

What would it mean for Gareth Bale?
"The idea was to sell Bale but now everything changes," said Balague. "He could get transformed into a newly-born Galactico.

"Ronaldo is one of the best players in history and Bale hasn't got to that level yet, but what will happen is that without Ronaldo, Bale will grow. I believe Real Madrid think the same."

Bale struggled for playing time under Zinedine Zidane, but his departure is another potential boost to the Welshman.

"From the moment Zidane went, there was a sigh of relief from Bale's side, so much so that the conversations that were going to take place around now have been delayed.

"Now they will take place after Bale has met Lopetegui and started pre-season. At that point it will be clearer what Real Madrid are going to look like, but straight away you've got Bale and Asensio, two people who can give so much more and make them competitive.

"Ronaldo was the guy who took things to another level when things got tough, so whoever else comes in will have to fill that gap."

Link:
http://www.skysports.com/transfer/news/11096/11432191/cristiano-ronaldo-to-juventus-why-is-he-leaving-real-madrid

What do you do with one of your brightest wards when he starts misbehaving? Do you indulge him or cast him aside?
That is the question Super Eagles’ Manager, Gernot Rohr, has to answer about Victor Moses before Nigeria enters its make or mar clash against Argentina on Tuesday.

Nigeria must get at least a draw in the clash with Argentina and hopes that Croatia keeps to form by beating Iceland in the group’s decisive encounters on Tuesday.
The matches are scheduled to be played concurrently with the results determining, which country joins leader, Croatia in the second round.

On Friday in Volgograd, a city renowned for Russia’s gallant battle with Germany that ultimately tipped the Second World War in favour of the allies, Nigeria rose from the ashes of its opening game defeat to beat Iceland in its second game of the competition.

Many heroics events have happened in the beautiful city formerly called Stalingrad and Nigeria’s victory added the country’s name to the city’s folklore and moved it closer to the second round of the on-going FIFA World Cup.

And now it must get a good result in Tuesday’s game against Argentina.

However, Rohr is worried by the attitude of one of his star players, who has failed to play the pivotal role the coach expected of him in this championship.

In the first game against Croatia, Moses tried several times without success to impress on the fans that he is a super star that deserved preferential treatment from everybody, including the referee.

He dived in attempts to win free kicks when it would have paid Nigeria better if he stayed on his feet and worked to make or score goals, which the country needed in its 0-2 loss to Croatia.

Before the second game on Friday, the technical crew thought the Super Eagles would gain in positive play if the team changed its tactics to a 3-5-2 formation with Moses playing as wingback, while skipper John Mikel Obi reverted to the defensive midfield position.

But Moses apparently did not like the decision that restricted him from “expressing his talent.”

When asked the Moses’ question during the post match press conference on Friday, Rohr explained that he has been working on his players to make them understand the need to sacrifice for the general good of the team.

“We called the players and told them why we must change our tactics. I spoke with Mikel and Moses to let them know the need for them to change positions.

“Moses plays as a wingback for Chelsea and I know he can do the job very well. We will continue to seek the players’ cooperation,” he said.

Rohr told the press that he was satisfied with Moses’ output during the game against Iceland, but his show of exasperation many times when the Chelsea walked instead of tracking back after misplacing a pass or losing the ball spoke volumes of his feelings.

Many of the Super Eagles fans inside the Volgograd Arena openly shouted on Rohr to replace Moses when he showed no sign of helping Nigeria’s cause in the first half of the game.

The Guardian learnt that Nigeria Football Federation (NFF) President, Amaju Pinnick and many other dignitaries had to go to the dressing room to specifically impress on Moses the enormity of the task before the country and the expectations of him from his compatriots.

Another issue worrying the coaches is the slow start to matches by the team, which escaped unscathed in the first half of the match against Iceland simply because the Scandinavians were wasteful in front of goal.

The pattern actually started manifesting during the preparatory games for the World Cup and Nigeria was punished for it by England and Czech Republic.

“We will continue working on the team’s concentration and psychology of the players to get where we want.

“Don’t forget that this is a young team with many players that have never been involved at this level of competition.
Link:
https://m.guardian.ng/sport/rohr-ponders-moses-decision-as-eagles-plan-for-argentina-test/

geezyk:
To love someone and get heartbroken is really a very bad thing, I've never loved anyone more than myself before, and I have numerous gfs to show for it, not till I met this pretty diva, and she completely stole my heart. show that happened, I'll never know, but it did.

What made the heartbreak so tough on me was that I virtually sent away all other girls in order to face this one one completely, well, that was my undoing. That's how far I was willing to go till the unthinkable happened, it took my friends and a rebound girl to take me out of the pit I had fallen into.

The truth of the matter is that, you really fall in love with the person you believe you've seen all you dream of in them, without looking deeper to see their faults.

And sometimes you think they are your ONE and ONLY!

But in my own case she came back begging and we hooked up again, but this time, I held total control.

So wat happened to the rebound gal?

medexico:
So many questions to ask.

This story might be cooked...

Can your cousin betray you?

But why does she have to block you?

And is the Ex of the Ex on your girl's contact? how did it get there?

I trust my cousin but den she is my girl's bestie, she may also wanna protect her friend, cos she wants us together. And for blocking me, it's the only way to ensure I don't see it cost she knows wahala go dey. And talking abt d guy's girl, They stay in the same area, so they kinda know each other before they started beefing cos of d guy.

ObeyPaul:
I broke up with girlfriend yesterday since then have been listening to trap music. I want to try smoking weed

Really?

I have been dating this girl for a while now, probably, 3 to 4 yrs and There are plans of taking it to the next level(marriage).
Sometimes last month,i discovered I couldn't view my girls profile on watsap, so I suspected something went wrong and I decided to use my friends phone. I then discovered that she uploaded on her status pictures of her and a guy( she told me is her ex), describing him as her bestie. This really pissed me off and I didn't made mention of it to her. I just pretended nothing happened.
I later spoke to my cousin (who is her best friend and who I actually got to know my girl through her) and she said my girl did so because she wanted to piss the guys girlfriend who thought they are still going out together.
Now, I don't know what to believe and what to do.

sekem:


Of course!

There's always a first time!

And then a second time!

And then it becomes a tradition.

People are always exploitative

Always have that in mind as you try to render your help

Once you show them that you have the father Christmas gene in you, your own don finish

As for me I am always ready to help people but I always have a way of letting you know that it wasn't so easy rendering the help

That way they will always appreciate whatever thing you do for them rather than bombarding you with that their despicable sense of entitlement

If I were the op, I will wait for a week or two, then I will contact the woman letting her know that I now have the money and asking her if she still needs it...

So my friend, everything is common sense

Don't ever play the fool... unless there's something for you to gain in the end!

tnx man

kollinpowel:
Honestly all of you on nairaland no understand the guy ,all he is saying is the borrow me request should not be coming from the mom ,cos if she decides not to pay back will he be able to ask her to return it as his in-law. It's even an indictment on the moms part ,what if the guy does something wrong to the daughter will she be able to correct the guy? It's a no so many reasons are attached to the reason he raised.

u so understand the whole issue. I don't have problem helping but it should have been the girl not the mother.

thorpido:
It's not enough to call off the relationship.I think you should ask your fiancee if she currently has financial challenges and in what ways you can help.
You can give the money but be cautious.

thank you

fatymore:
If for 5yrs you have never given your gf money except she ask for it.. You are the stingy type.. It seems you have or you are pretending to have but you don't give that's why you were approached in that manner. Though you are not financially obligated to the lady but Atleast you should know if she has paid or not ...

yeah I know but that the girl never asked doesn't mean I don't do anything. I buy gifts even for her younger ones and the mother knows about this. I just feel it's not okay she asking

StarUp:
Op, pray this prayer point: "every spirit of stinginess that is about to rob me of something big, die by fire"... The girl nor her mum has not begged you for a dime in five years and the first time in five years that the mum says you should "lend" her money, you say no? If you have the money lend her, because it may even be that she is just testing you and do you want to later discover you failed a test because you were stingy?

*By the way everyone knows that the economy isn't smiling on most people presently so anyone can ask for financial assistance from anywhere.

yeah I know but that the girl never asked doesn't mean I don't do anything. I buy gifts even for her younger ones and the mother knows about this. I just feel it's not okay she asking.

UjuJoan2:
I hate stingy men with a passion, God Forbid!

Shame no even catch you to say no? I just feel so sorry for the girl and her family.

If they were wiser they would flee now that it's still very early.

Tuaaaah!

babe calm down. I no stingy like that oooo. That she never asked, does not mean I don't do anything. I send this girl money like every month, unless when I don't have. I just feel the mother shouldn't be the one asking.

Nigga44:
Maybe her mother had suggested the daughter asking you for the money......., but your girl turned it down cos of shyness or some other reason.


Check if your girl really needs the money and if you can help please do. It's 5 freaking years man!!! C'mon.

yeah, I asked her although not point blank and she told she had paid the money three months ago. The problem is it's possible she hasn't paid but told me she had paid cos she feels Its not my responsibility for now and it's possible she hasn't paid. She I talk to her again?how do I ask her? Wat do u fink Bruv?

Maychang:
May God save us from Stingy boyfriends

Cmon babe, I ain't stingy. I gus gave a problem with the mother asking me for money. I bought this same girl and expensive phone last month and I do send her money like every month once salary is paid and I recharge her at least four of three times a week,not #200 #200 naira recharge ooo

Nigga44:
Maybe her mother had suggested the daughter asking you for the money......., but your girl turned it down cos of shyness or some other reason.


Check if your girl really needs the money and if you can help please do. It's 5 freaking years man!!! C'mon.

yeah, I asked her although not point blank and she told she had paid the money three months ago. The problem is it's possible she hasn't paid but told me she had paid cos she feels Its not my responsibility for now and it's possible she hasn't paid. She I talk to her again?how do I ask her? Wat do u fink Bruv?

Acidosis:


Whether you want to marry her or not, there is nothing wrong in rendering help to someone you've dated for 5 years. It's 5 years bruv?! She didn't ask you for money for aso-ebi or food. The money is meant to pay the school fees of the same girl you've dated for 5 years.

If she has never disturbed you for money in the past, then you will be committing a crime against humanity to rebuke or insult the poor woman. Don't read too many meanings until you find real proofs.

yeah I know Bruv. Actually I don't have problem helping if I have the means. I have done lots of things for my fiancee without her asking me to but I feel, it should be the girl asking not her mother. After all the money is to sort out the girls house rent.

[quote author=Acidosis post=65036398] yeah I know. Actually I don't have problem helping if I have the means. I have done lots of things for my fiancee without her asking me to but I feel, it should be the girl asking not her mother. After all the money is to sort out the girls house rent.

kmcutez:
Let her go. You don't love her.

oh yes I do. You see, I don't having problem giving the money,infact I bought my fiancee an expensive phone (as in, very expensive) last month, which she didn't even asked for, I have done many things for her without her asking but my problem is why would the mom ask for money when I have not even married the daughter?