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princemillla:
Samsung s4 zoom with super camera

Clean not crack

Available for swap or outright sale

Price 35k

mimikyute:
im in owerri... close to u. can i see pictures

mimikyute:
How long have u used it? i can help u get a brand new infinix hot 4 lite

mimikyute:
How long have u used it? i can help u get a brand new infinix hot 4 lite

Dontaskme:
Hello folks, this obviously isnt my real account.I love my privacy,but I just need to talk to someone.
I have been dating this girl (lets call her patience-not her real name),for about a year and half.It has been hell on earth but no doubt there are sweet moments.I promise to keep this short and not getting you bored with irrelevant epistles.I just need advice.

Let me quickly tell you about me, I am an introvert,very very reserved and quiet person.I don't get angry easily,when I do then it most have been a serious torment that lead to it.Even when I am angry the worst I would do is shout and sometimes cry after.I am a freelancer so i dont need to go out of the house, I work from home.I have being heart broken and dumped twice by ladies I was completely faithful and honest to.On the average i earn like 70-100k in a month.

Patience works salary job .We are both in our mid twenties, she is 3 months older(but it doesnt bother me) .Before we met I made a decision not to date anyone else due to my past experiences .When I met her first I kind of liked her,the first time me met she didn't have transport fare, she approached me and I paid for her(thats how we met).All i needed was a friend because as i said earlier I wasm very reserved,we exchanged numbers and we got talking.I fell in love with her asked her out,she turned me down.To avoid thinking of her too much,I cut off communication,after a while she started calling me and showing interest at that point I had lost interest and just wanted to prevent another heart break.

I went to regrettable lengths of asking her to leave my house, just to avoid somebody breaking up with me again, i always felt remorseful,i had to train myself to forget past experiences and give her a chance.I genuinely fell in love with her again.Its pertinent to note that she has also gone through the emotional trauma that I have gone through.

Fastforward.. I have great respect for women which is sometimes seen as weakness by some people, so even when she comes visiting i do all my chores myself including cooking,she always complains i dont allow her do anything.I had to bow to pressure and arguments (where the arguments started) to allow her assist.

Fastforward...I had an issue with my apartment,my friends and i did a kind of handover ,and you know how lagos Landlords are, he wanted to collect agreement and commission all over again from me, which i couldn't afford.

Just before the whole apartment saga, patience started behaving somehow ,she is always scared, insecure being afraid that i would leave her like the other guys.Then she started complaining about how tribalistic her parents are (which is true,you need to see how her mum was just giving pretentious smiles when i am around her family-even though she thinks we are just friends,but she suspects something is going on ) and how they wouldn't accept me,she is igbo and i am from the middle belt.She started going of and on, tell me she is breaking up with me today, come back tommorow,and she did it countless times.There was a particular long interval and i had given up on her already after trying to get her back.I started being free with other females making friends and I had sex with one of them (my first and only sexual experience-i was honestly waiting for marriage).She came back again and I told her of what happened ,she started ranting that I cheated on her, there and then she started becoming over protective .Checking my calls ,chats which doesnt bother me.

Back to the apartment saga,she opted to help get a new place and pay for me, which I was strongly against and she was like "if you dont take it then I am no longer your girlfriend".I had to take the offer and we agreed I was going to pay back.

She took her trouble to the next level when she saw my chat with other girls after a very long time and this chats took place during the periods of her fluctuations.Because she insists on spending a night sometimes this girl wont allow me sleep she would shout at the top of her voice in the house that I am a womanizer.

She would complain that I dont help her with chores(I started helping out, bear in mind she forced me to let her do it) , she would complain that I dont do anything for her, she would complain that I procastinate (she was right about this, so I adjusted and got a timetable for my activities).She lost her job briefly so i was supporting her and got her a new job through a friend. Now all she does is nag, gets me upset and when we have an argument all she does is scream about how she "picked me up when I had nothing and rented a house for me ",and she repeats it all the time. Bear in mind that I got her a new phone (after plenty abuse)I have been supporting both of us and given her transport to work everyday thats why i havent been able to pay her back her money.She would even go to the length of embarrassing me shouting that i should pay her money that she wants to leave my life.She talks anyhow and doesnt even mind the words that come out of her mouth, she sometimes curses me.She dropped a bomb recently saying that all the love she has been giving me from the beginning is just "eye service".With all this I would forgive her without hassles when ever she calms down and says she is sorry, but she repeats this rubbish all the time.When I try to report her to her friends to talk to her its another fight i am causing.She has once told me she would slap me and there is nothing i can do about it, she is right because all i do is shout and sometimes push her away when she starts all this rubbish.Trusts me what she does is more than what i wrote here.

She is now practically staying permanently in my apartment because she claims her parents are maltreating her, i cant send her away cos i still lover despite all she does and also because I am still owing her .
She has changed me, I now get provoked easily ,she has messed my Pysychology up, i recently got so angry that i tore her bag, this is me who couldnt hurt a fly before .one thing i have never done is to raise my hands on her. I am just tired i dont know what to do again.

mustapha09:
I am interested to a young lady, I collected her phone number, l called her to describe their home but surprisingly this girl told me that her parents don't allow her to go out to meet boyfriends unless if I will be calling her and talk through phone calls.
so even if I call her on the phone,she do not picked up the phone at first called, sometimes she dont picked the call at all, even she picked the call she dont show interest in what I'm saying. As I'm talking she takes excuse and end the call. And she never call nor reply my message even when she flash my number she will tell me that she mistakenly called the number, she wants to call someone not me. So I need someone to advise on how to deal with this problem.

Gosj01:
how much?

debsnick:
I have a clean Samsung galaxy tab 2 10.1 with money for a infinix hot 4 anyone interested

lordmayor4:
Am currently in abuja maybe when I come back to lagos and if it's still available, we'll deal.
Thanks

lordmayor4:
40k and we can deal.
Where r u located?

Gosj01:
Clean innjoo halo 4 sale, 100% working no fault or for swapping with a tablet.

amunkita:
My Good Gawd!!!
Getting ur drugs is the luxury u re talking about
Sister get off that closet nd be open..
Re u still a student
Is ur parent late or Broke

what was the reason the supposed boy friend gave you for failing to appear with the drugs..

If I ve a daughter like you, who depends on man to survive, I will revive slave trade, sell her nd use the proceed to feed the poor..

Allwility:
You said now he can provide the luxuries you demand. What are these luxuries that you can't provide for yourself if I may ask?

odiaseo:
I'll advice you take a step back and ask yourself what you really want out of a relationship. Is it true love, a meal ticket, friends with benefits etc. Without a clear focus, there is no guarantee you wouldn't break up with the next guy you hook up with and continue in the vicious circle.

Luckygurl:
So dear!! The only issue you've got with him is he doesn't provide your 'needs'??
If I may ask, needs like?

finalboss:
hmmm.. i ll advice you to sit him nd down ...and talk abt this... the poster abv nor get sense

amunkita:
If u were virtues while the relationship lasted, he would be worshiping u by now but unfortunately he needs to change lubricant for his car..

So the better u forge ahead, the better for you..

Life is full of poo..

Btw.. Don't use that word of sticking with him when he had nothing cous that is an outdated bullshit, being students, u would ve gotten another fellow broke students to keep the engine going..
So in essence, u both were broke axx keeping body nd soul warm..

civilserva:
Neat

jahstech:
How much, outright sale, need pics as well