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Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by decub: 6:41pm On Apr 27, 2023
Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

There are stories I don't like reading and this is one of such.

Someone you called your wife is maltreating your daughter from your late wife and you are still comfortably living with her.

I don't joke with my kid(s) even if they are from my medieval wife.

For crying out loud, that poor girl has lost her mum and you should mean the whole world to her.

To be frank with you, anyone that is coming between you and her doesn't deserve to be in your life. I don't think you understand the psychological trauma you are putting her through.

Bros man up o.

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Travel / Re: Alex Otti Tours Port Harcourt Road, Aba With Julius Berger (Photos) by decub: 9:21am On Apr 27, 2023
onthehill:
Abia State Governor-Elect, Alex Otti has taken a tour of Port Harcourt Road, Aba with Julius Berger construction company, IGBERETV reports.

He shared photos from the tour with the caption;



https://twitter.com/DrAlexOtti2023/status/1651271966412664833?t=DgbbPksxKn7HD3Td7SqTpA&s=19
This is the best news I've heard since this month.

I know that road like the back of my palm as we plied it daily on our way to school then.

Fast forward to some 3 years ago when I visited, I was amazed on how dilapidated such an important road has been.
Politics / Re: No Refund After Payment’: Peace Mass Transit Loses In Court by decub: 6:23am On Apr 09, 2023
This is interesting.

I'm more interested in banks refund cos their own eh...
Career / Re: Account Balance Of A Software Engineer 9 Figures (photos) by decub: 4:14am On Apr 05, 2023
Tim1212:
Account Balance of a Software Engineer for 8 years in the industry.

Working remotely with companies from Russian, Turkey and Norway.

It all end in praise
Poorly photoshoped.

First Bank app doesn't display figure that way buddy!

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Education / Re: Till Date I Still Don't Know The Usefulness Of This Thing by decub: 11:35am On Mar 09, 2023
Goodson15:
Alphabet/numbers, Writing learning set,useful for bad hand writing students
I use this thing taya, yet, my handwriting be like hen weh dey search for food.

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Romance / Re: What Birthday Gift Can I Get For Her With ₦ 3,000 by decub: 9:44am On Mar 09, 2023
Uniquetani1:



Women do, but I would rather received something that can last longer.
Jewelry? Perfumes?
Romance / Re: What Birthday Gift Can I Get For Her With ₦ 3,000 by decub: 8:41am On Mar 09, 2023
Uniquetani1:



Jedi jedi
First time hearing a woman doesn't like chocolates.
Romance / Re: What Birthday Gift Can I Get For Her With ₦ 3,000 by decub: 1:35pm On Mar 08, 2023
Obavoh:
I have a very special female friend. Her birthday is coming up this weekend. I would really love to get her a special and fancy gift.

My budget is ₦ 3,000. Please help me suggest a very nice gift that will last long and make her think warmly of me whenever she sees it.

Please nothing romantic she is just a friend.
A box of chocolates.
Crime / Re: Moment Italian Mafia Boss Escaped From Prison Using Tied Up Bedsheets by decub: 9:29pm On Mar 03, 2023
Politics / Re: How Foreign Press Agencies Reported Tinubu's Election Win by decub: 9:14am On Mar 02, 2023
Captions are meant to be captivating...

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Romance / Re: Should I Tell My Bestfriend That Her Boyfriend/fiancee Sleeps With Dead Bodies? by decub: 8:49pm On Mar 01, 2023
justyhere:
I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.

Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.

They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.

But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.

What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.

You should have left out the details. You've shared a lot already.

What if himself or someone close to him come across this post?

B2TM, speak to your friend in parables and let her discover herself.
Politics / Re: Atiku Mocks Wike, Says, He Is A Chicken Hiding Under Costume Of Lion by decub: 1:24pm On Feb 22, 2023
DennisEche:
grin grin grin grin
Fatality
Seriously. He finished him.
Business / Re: Please How Do I Order Items From Aliexpress Since We Can't Use Master Card by decub: 4:38pm On Feb 05, 2023
steryj:
Please how do I go about the webmoney?
I decided to check out the page so I could send you a screenshot and also walk you through on how to make payment using Webmoney only to notice most other payment methods have been removed from their page.

It means a lot of things have changed for them lately.

However, Webmoney can be gotten when you run a search on Google (I used to know of truexgold, naira4dollar, onenaira etc- in fact, most of those who sell perfect money should).

You can also get it with some vendors around Ikeja (computer village), Bodija in Ibadan. You might need to confirm if they are still in the business.
Business / Re: Please How Do I Order Items From Aliexpress Since We Can't Use Master Card by decub: 4:04pm On Feb 05, 2023
If the payment was successful, then you should get a replacement if the fund can't be refunded.

AliExpress has several alternative payment methods like Webmoney, I can remember paying with Webmoney in the past.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by decub: 11:54am On Jan 02, 2023
Yampotatocarrot:


Is this sold? If no, please what EXACTLY will need to be changed if one gets it?

I'm interested
Sold.
Technology Market / Re: Hawks Gathered To Attack A Nigerian Made Drone In The Air (video) by decub: 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2022
thisweekng:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VP9dCdEyZrY


A Nigerian company test-ran their new Drone technology (designed and fully owned by Nigerians) yesterday and something very funny happened…

Hawks gathered in flight to attack the drone in the air.


Congratulations to you my brother @jomamit_ and your brilliant team at @flynaerospace.

Watch till the end.

Even with that sound those hawks still wanted to attack? Weird!
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by decub: 11:31am On Dec 13, 2022
decub:
I have this MacBook A1278 I stopped using for some time because I prefer windows liberality.

Fast forward to this time and I decided to run it again only to discover the screen look foggy. Meanwhile, it no longer hold charge though it was prompting for change of battery before I changed it.

Don't think I want to go through the change of accessories thing and I'm letting go for 70k.

If the deal is cool for you, hop in. Location is Lagos.
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Technology Market / Neatly Used Macbook Pro by decub: 2:46pm On Dec 11, 2022
I have this MacBook A1278 I stopped using for some time because I prefer windows liberality.

Fast forward to this time and I decided to run it again only to discover the screen look foggy. Meanwhile, it no longer hold charge though it was prompting for change of battery before I changed it.

Don't think I want to go through the change of accessories thing and I'm letting go for 70k.

If the deal is cool for you, hop in 08134835831.

Location is Lagos.

Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by decub: 11:22am On Dec 10, 2022
decub:
I have this MacBook A1278 I stopped using for some time because I prefer windows liberality.

Fast forward to this time and I decided to run it again only to discover the screen look foggy. Meanwhile, it no longer hold charge though it was prompting for change of battery before I changed it.

Don't think I want to go through the change of accessories thing and I'm letting go for 70k.

If the deal is cool for you, hop in. Location is Lagos.
SA
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by decub: 3:43pm On Dec 09, 2022
bosschinalu:
What's the specification and what's your best price?

500GB HDD, 4GB RAM, 14 inches, 3.6GHZ...

You can reach me on 08134835831 if you need some other specs or run a search using the model number.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by decub: 11:46am On Dec 09, 2022
I have this MacBook A1278 I stopped using for some time because I prefer windows liberality.

Fast forward to this time and I decided to run it again only to discover the screen look foggy. Meanwhile, it no longer hold charge though it was prompting for change of battery before I changed it.

Don't think I want to go through the change of accessories thing and I'm letting go for 70k.

If the deal is cool for you, hop in. Location is Lagos.

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Sports / Re: If You Were A Coach & Met This Kind Of Squad, Would You Manage Them? (Photo) by decub: 9:39am On Nov 14, 2022
rusher14:
I would make Diego Costa the captain then watch what would happen.

grin
A Costa can't captain Ibrahimovic (proud), Ramos (Rough) or Gattuso (stubborn). The fight no go easy at all.

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Investment / Re: Crypto Is Not Just For Me, Massive Loss (millions Gone Under 2 Days by decub: 3:18pm On Nov 11, 2022
GREATIGBOMAN:
So due to how Naira misbehaving.

I went and withdrew 70% of my savings from the bank and bought $19,000 worth of USDT at N863 per dollar on binance p2p

Guess what.


I just check and they're currently selling usdt there at 722 naira.



My hard earned money just lost like that


I just deleted the app... If they like let them make it drop to N400


Crypto have really delt with me



Last year it was one merchant token that ripped me off $2000
Then Shiba Inu ripped me $1200


Anytime I do anything crypto related I lose money


Will anyone advice me to sell my USDT now at 722 and accept my loss or wait untill December if Naira will lose value further to say N900 to a dollar


Will dollar be scarce in December?


Honest opinions

You are not alone, many people lost due to the sudden drop.

However, you don't invest in crypto when you don't have a good knowledge of it especially when there's hype cos whales hype projects so they can dump on newbies. Don't always FOMO.

Your investing in Shiba last year shows you probably heard the news of the hype and didn't want to miss out (FOMO-fear of missing out). Join crypto groups on Whatsapp, TG, crypto twitter and garner enough info before investing in anyone.

My 2 cents

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Politics / Re: 2023: Analysis Of Six States With The Highest Registered Voters by decub: 8:01am On Nov 10, 2022
lhordspy:
Ahead of the 2023 general elections, analysis of the preliminary register reveals that six States of Lagos, Kano, Kaduna, Rivers, Katsina and Oyo have the highest registered voters.

Nice analysis but APC getting 78% of votes in Lagos is somewhat on the high side. 60% is realistic IMO. Remember Lagos has so many SS/SEners who are either with PDP or Obi (not LP).

As a voter, I would vote for the APC in Lagos but definitely not at the federal level and a lot of my folks from this part of town share same stance.

Kaduna, Katsina and Oyo, I totally agree with you but for Rivers, remember it's a PDP rooted state and regardless of Wike's wielding power, he has made a lot of enemies in Rivers and if he eventually switches to APC, grassroot politics will elude him and that's why he is threading with caution. An average Rivers politician/voter is not easily carjoled.

Kano might not turn out the way you think because the Kwankwansiya movement is a very strong one there. There's also a very huge base of South Easterners in Kano. It's a shared state.
Politics / Re: Reactions As Peter Obi Is Spotted At A Store (Photos) by decub: 11:12am On Oct 30, 2022
Kagd10:


Humanising? How is it different from the those governors buying ponmo etc during election time? Heck, Peter Obi was seen buying pepper sef.. He should go make his Anambra great first.
I'm not sure you know him. That's just whom he is.

Not saying he is the best Nigeria needs right now but among the top 3, he fits in best.

I would have picked a Fashola over him but unfortunately, he is not running.
Nairaland / General / Re: This Big Python Was Killed In Yenagoa Bayelsa State. by decub: 11:02am On Oct 30, 2022
Fixated:
Boyoboy.. only God know how many people this thing go don bite.
Bite ke?

Na swallow dey swallow.
Education / Re: C For Horse, A For Tree: Alphabet Book Purchased For Little Girl Causes Trouble by decub: 11:30am On Oct 16, 2022
Badb0y4lyf:
Looks like word corrections the Top of that topic as been block and Wipe out with black blur.
Definitely!
Politics / Re: BREAKING: Rico Swavey Is Dead [PHOTOS] by decub: 12:29pm On Oct 13, 2022
aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

Popular Big Brother Naija Housemate, Rico Swavey has died from Injuries sustained in a Ghastly motor accident a few days ago.

Swavey, real names Patrick Fakoya, had been on life support as his friends and fellow housemates rallied to raise funds for his medical bills.

On Wednesday, Nigerian entertainers launched a fundraiser for Swavey. His fellow BBNaija ex-housemate, Tobi Bakre, made the announcement on his Twitter page on Wednesday, as he asked the public for donations.

More to come...

https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-rico-swavey-is-dead-photos/

So sad.

This guy was the main reason I always tune to BB9JA then. Easy going dude.

Rest on man!

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Crime / Re: Peacemaker Stabbed To Death 4days After Moving To Delta State From Lagos (Pix) by decub: 12:57pm On Oct 12, 2022
Zonefree:

He didn't die cos he was separating fight. The proximate cause of his death is SIMPlicity.
A SIMP and his life are soon parted.

If there's any Life Assurance policy on his head, I'm 99.987% certain no Insurance company would indemnify his family. Insurance companies do not pay indemnity for a risk incurred through foolishness.


God rest his soul and forgive his SIMPle nature.
You got it wrong bro.

Why can't she buy soap for his pregy wife?
Romance / Re: So Many Single MBAISE Ladies Are Getting Older. No Husband Wat Is The Problem? by decub: 11:43am On Oct 07, 2022
absingle:
What is the problem?
Bride price!
Career / Re: Will You Return This To Your Company? by decub: 2:54pm On Sep 12, 2022
papiilo:
Morning guys!

So this company where I work paid me twice in error. Do you think they will detect later that they paid me twice?
Just inform the accountant/HR.

It could be a test and even when it's not, it's the ideal thing to do.

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