Bro, don't stress yourself on trying to make her to stop coming to your house. Believe it or not you are getting attached to her presence but you don't know it yet, it happens. Once you openly tell her to stop coming to your house, she will understand that you are tired of her presence around you and this will make her to start avoiding you.

Now, the thing is that since you are attached to her but you don't know it yet, thats when you will start missing her presence around you. You will be the one calling her to come visit you again but thats when the female shakara will start which might even drive you into depression sef. Believe you me its frustrating for somebody you just found out you are attached to, to start avoiding or snubbing you, its frustrating.

My advice, just allow things to play out naturally, something will come up on its own that will distract her from coming to your house but let it not be you that will tell her to stop coming cos believe me, you will regret it if you tell her yourself.

I know this cos I've been there before. You are getting attached to her but you don't know it until you chase her away, thats when it will dawn on you what you just did.

Please help Me, I need how to settle this with my fiancee. I can't seem to forgive myself for laying my hands on her as this is my first time of ever hiting a girl in my life. We've been on logger head of who is at fault and who will be the first to appologise but I felt betrayed and embarassed by her cos I love her so much.
We've been dating for over 7months and I've made my intentions open to her about settling down with her and she accepted.
Things took another turn in our relationship since last week of June. I'm a sales person in one of the companies in lagos and I have a client (a lady) I've pursuing to market my product to but have not been able to get an appointment with her. It happens that last week I called her (my client) and she told me she didn't go to work that day but if I want to see her it will be outside her office by 5pm. I obliged, and she sent me the address of the place where I will meet with her which is at a bar in one of the hotels on the island which happens to be near to where I reside.
The thing now is that I called my fiancee to notify her of my appointment with the said lady since its in the evening which means I will be coming back home late but her number did not go through may be due to network but I sent her a text which I know must deliver.
To cut the long story short, during the meeting with the lady at the hotel, to my authmost shock or will I call it coincidence I saw my fiancee at the other end of the bar with a guy. I couldn't believe my eyes so I had to call her phone and she picked and I told her to turn around from where she's seated which she did.
I didn't even believe what happened next as she stood up and rushed me at my table and started harassing and embarrassing me that I came to a hotel with a lady that I'm cheating on her. I was so astoned as I stood up and grabbed her to calm her down. I asked her what she was doing there with a man but she wasn't even listening to me. I told her I called her but her number didn't connect and I sent her a text but obviously she didn't see the text cos her phone must have been on silent cos she has been with a guy. She kept on acting crazy there and I had to slap her very hard cos she was acting creazily and embarrassing me and my client and also not answering my question of what she was doing there. While this was hapening, my client just left me and walked away which I don't blame her. I had to bolt out immediately too cos I couldn't stand the heart break and embarrassment.
The next day I received an sms from my fiancee still accusing me and saying that the man is her cousin who came to the house that day but they decided to go out to relax.
I later found out that the guy was her cousin who I'm yet to meet but the point now, is how could she act creazily like that the other day embarrassing me and my client and accusing me too.
We've not spoken for like 4days now looking for who will be the first person to appologise.
the thing is I love this girl and wouldn't want to loose her. But I didn't do anything bad to appologise cos I sent her a text to intimate her of my where about but she didn't tell me where she was going to.
Should I be the one to appologise to cos I was really embarrased that day or should I wait for her to do so cos she's at fault her from my own judgment.
Kindly advice me cos I've been loosing my mind since.

The devil you know they say is better than the angel you don't know.

You've lived with you sis at the early stage of you life so you know what she can do and what she can't do (I mean her bad character). Believe me environment can change people. You sister is wayward but she can't get worst than that. She can only get better

However, you boss daughter might be a good girl for now as you said, but do you think you know her real personality?

Another thing, If anything happens to your boss daughter over there, what will you do as you said that you don't want to let your parents know.

If eventually you younger sis and your parents finds out that you are sponsoring MSC prog for a stranger, do you think your family will ever forgive you? Even if you are the bread winner.

Like I said b4 the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.
Your sister will forever love you if you do this for her. I know what I'm saying.

Even tbough he's not one of my favorite artists but I will say that the industry thrives on controversies. The more controversial you are the more you make your mark in the industry. He's just trying to still remain relevant in the industry.

I will say this is truly a dicy decision and you should be very carefully while making your choice. If you take the govt job, it will expose you in terms of wider experience and connection. The govt job will open your eyes to certain things like business opportunities and any other hustle which you can survive with even when the govt job is no longer there.
For the microfinance job, bro you can stay there for 20 years without increment in that your salary. Forget the job security cos ones you start small with such orginazation you will keep crawling in your career growth and at the end of the day you might even resign on your own after wasting so many years.
My take, go for the govt job.

May this New Year bring us happiness, peace, and prosperity. Wishing us a joyous 2020!... Amen

HMMD:
Reports had it that people have been receiving the october stipend in their respective banks.

Have you seen yours? I'm looking forward to mine.

I'm batch B and yet to receive mine.
I hope they pay oo cos e don red

You sound like a kid. Can you please and please face your studies. In 6 years time you will actually know if you are ready for marriage or not.

Please is this the JUPEB recruitment for September 2019? I'm particular about the date and year.

Can you loud the volume please?

Is there ever a rule that states that it must be only guys that must woo girls in Nigeria?

A girl will expect guys to approach them and Woo them with the best words and they will still play hard to get. yet they can't even approach a guy first to say hi. They think wooing is easy for every guy.

Girls loose their crush cos of this singular act.

Believe me 95% of guys will never turn down girls that said hi to them first.

If that's what really happened, your sis is not at fault. What matters most here, is that the guy understands the truth so what ever the girl does is of no consequence. Just ignore her.