Hello,
There have been some speculation about the "Man of God" Pastor Chris Oyakhilome about his authenticity. Many are afraid to speak out even if they are discontented and many are uncertain because of the supposed wisdom he ministers with. I employ you to take this poll, answer these 5 questions earnestly in your heart and give a feed back whether your answers are "YES" or "NO".

1. Has your life gradually become tougher, worse off or more financially deprived since you began to attend Christ embassy?
Have you found it difficult to make progress or suffer a terrible loss in something that ought to have improved your life?

2. Have you been led, coarse to give financially but never seem to receive a harvest, no matter how much you gave?

3. Have you found it difficult or even impossible to get married or you are married and your marriage has been terribly strained since you began attending Christ Embassy?

4. Have you found it more difficult to study the Bible for yourself and learn the Word of God by yourself other than what you heard in church?

5. Does it seem as though God does not hear you when you pray and no changes in you life no matter how much you pray or cry?

[b][/b]If you answer "YES" to 3 or more questions, please give a feed back with your answer "Yes" and if your answer is "NO" to 3 or more questions, please give a feed back with your answer. Thank you

Man... You are conflicted!

Hi guys,
I like your post Kandii...
Life eventually becomes a routine whether you're married or not.
For me, fear of marriage is basically my fear for entrapment. Being joined to a man you might loath later on.
But still, a collection of moments that take our breath away is what life is all about. Religion, family, culture will all play a part in our lives that we might not be able to avoid. I can't tell my parents i dont want to be married, they'd probably kill me so i have to dress it up the best way i can and make the most of it. Perhaps marry a man whose good loving behind closed doors is the best part of him, atleast i'll have something to look forward to.
Ladies, why do we women nag our men?? Share your views please...

By the way... Mynd
I no think say you like woman at all. Na man be your preference abi? Talk true! Why are you badgering the ladies?

Hello guys....
First of all...
I have no idea why Mynd is so negative, he does need love and he's a hater. You know guys that criticizes everything and everybody but never lift a finger to do something themselves, well that Mynd. You're on the hot sit now buddy, bring something to the table or play nice!
He's had several opportunities to bring something to the table but all he does is behave badly. I have no love for you man, seek it somewhere else.
And yes i do have a bit of an attitude, i'm Nigerian afterall.
So my dear Ayobase...
Always a pleasure to chat with you.
Tell me, you are a christian and indulge in fornication??
Does my justification work for you? Even though its spiritually wrong??
Tell me the number 1 thing that you hate in a woman??
Attribute or in behaviour...
Take it easy...

Hello Ayobase, how are you?
I kinda missed you! Hope you don't feel like you're hot sit anymore?
How was your weekend? Getting ideas here...
Ok back to your question... Justify fornication??
I'm a christian too but to justify what is clearly wrong from our world's standards today...
$3X was created by God for our enjoyment and He put restrictions...true.
But it has an appetite that has to be fed, an apepetite that never goes away.
Provided you're moral about stealing the act which is fornication, it is acceptable by world's standard. It seems to be ok if you love that person you're "doing" with.
You have one partner and stick with that one till wedding bells or break up...
Bottom line, once you've tasted of the sweet nectar, its hard to stay off, our body requires it.
Ever heard..."Why does it feel so good if its bad" or some BS like that??
Well, thats the best i can come up with for justifying a wrong...
How about you?

What is your thread Mynd, i'd like to comment on it....

YButterdly... That is just harse, we're having a genuine conversation.
Mynd, you're not really clear on your thoughts but for me adulty is an unforgivable act. You promise to love one forever then you cheat on that one. I think its unforgiveable. Like the dude who got his wife's sister pregnant (a thread on this forum), my opinion...he should be stoned to death, he's worse than a punk!
I don't think any religion permits fornication but in our day and age, intimacy is a need for survival. Have you meet a 30year old virgin?? If at all you did, it will be one in a million. The urge for intimacy has to be feed just like any other form of hunger and once you've tasted of that fruit...Baby...its hard to turn back.
So in our world today, a career woman who does not want to be tied down to a "Bufoon" but desires the pleasure of intimacy on a regular basis. Is it unacceptabel? Particularly for our Nigerain culture??

Lighten up Mynd, we're all having fun here, why ruin it?
You've never searched for love on the internet before?
I was mistaken, you are the angry one, not Ayobase, he's a sweetheart with insightful words.
You on the other hand have not brought anything to the table, lets hear your views on marriage, celibacy and fornication!!

Hello you!
My day is going fine, thanks...Its about 1:30pm.
How are you? And i hope your day was beautiful as you say you are
Partdon me, i'm a tease
Thank you for your reply.
Questions still...
Your response is contractdictory i think
God didn't make an exception for Paul yet he had a special calling that prevented him from marriage?
And don't get me started with the pope, we all know there are no virgins in vetican city.
They are as rotten as the next man...No offense to catholics.
So if i say i don't want to be married but need a relationship and intimacy (in line with the God's law)
Would that make me a crazy person?? Unethical? Or non-nigerian??
How about soul mate? What are your thoughts on that?

Hello,
My question is to Ayobase again...
Did God make an exception for Paul??
I really would like to know your thoughts on this.

Honey....i'm a female...lol
You don't seem like you can receive love.
Its a friends book actually and a wonderful read.
You should read it, i'll buy you a copy if you will.
You're obviously a man and you still sound angry... Lighten up!
Life can be beautiful.

Then why do you care to respond? You sound so angry, maybe you need some love.
My question is directed to Ayobase, will appreciate his reply...

Hiya!
You guys are funny, thats why i like this forum. Exclusively Niaja touch.
Yes, i'm advertizing a book but also single and wondering why i have to be tied in marriage.
I get the morality thing, assuming one can remain celibate (which is almost impossible coz i love sex), is it still an offense?
God gave us an instruction to multiply why did He make an exception for Paul??
What about the nuns and priests?? Are they doing something wrong?

Reading the various treads in this section, the subject of love, dating, relationship and marriage is highly debatable. Everybody's got an opinion!
My question is... Why Marry?
Why all the fuzz? Can i be happy single? Am i defective because i've never found love?
Help me out here guys, why do i have to be married?
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