I was thinking of opening such a thread.

I use to be pro-marriage, before I move in with a guy, we have to be married, before having kids, I have to be married.

I starting seeing things in a different light, omfg! It is so boring. I stayed with my cousin after she gave birth for a while and oh, God! No! No! The husband would go to work early in the morning come back again, she will do her duties at home. Same old routine every single day. It isn't even just her, I have seen many others.

Even staying at my bf's place has become boring for me. He goes to work and doesn't come back til late. No loving or anything. Just bed straight due to exhaustion. No time spent together. My eyes have opened. Imagine, I am not yet married but experiences this. It is slowly putting me off it. Marriage life seems to be boring, even relationships sha after a few years.

I will now tell people to live your life and stop stressing about getting marriage . Enjoy your life, when the time comes you will gÉt married if you want to but things will definitely change.

^^^ You aint the only one.

I think the main thing that drives me to marriage is my religion. If I was an athiest, I did say Bleep it. If it happens, happens.

In fact, It will be easier for me because then if I am single and can afford for a child. I can choose the perfect man I want to donate sperm without any attachment to make my designer baby.

Hi guys,
I like your post Kandii...
Life eventually becomes a routine whether you're married or not.
For me, fear of marriage is basically my fear for entrapment. Being joined to a man you might loath later on.
But still, a collection of moments that take our breath away is what life is all about. Religion, family, culture will all play a part in our lives that we might not be able to avoid. I can't tell my parents i dont want to be married, they'd probably kill me so i have to dress it up the best way i can and make the most of it. Perhaps marry a man whose good loving behind closed doors is the best part of him, atleast i'll have something to look forward to.
Ladies, why do we women nag our men?? Share your views please...

By the way... Mynd
I no think say you like woman at all. Na man be your preference abi? Talk true! Why are you badgering the ladies?

You think so? Perhaps they started it

MsDarkSkin:



Male version of tpia@

Matchmaking in d process!

Deeicash: Hello guys....
First of all...
I have no idea why Mynd is so negative, he does need love and he's a hater. You know guys that criticizes everything and everybody but never lift a finger to do something themselves, well that Mynd. You're on the hot sit now buddy, bring something to the table or play nice!
He's had several opportunities to bring something to the table but all he does is behave badly. I have no love for you man, seek it somewhere else.
And yes i do have a bit of an attitude, i'm Nigerian afterall.
So my dear Ayobase...
Always a pleasure to chat with you.
Tell me, you are a christian and indulge in fornication??
Does my justification work for you? Even though its spiritually wrong??
Tell me the number 1 thing that you hate in a woman??
Attribute or in behaviour...
Take it easy...

With time, u will understand Mynd!
Just giving u my ''church'' mind!
No two ways about it, Im a christian and I commit fornication. Wouldnt justify it.....its against my belief!
I hate an unfaithful&ungodly one!

Mynd-44:

The same person.

I was wondering fa!

I can see the OP sees me as an hater but what is my business? Think what you want that does ot remove the apparent lack of brains in this

Man... You are conflicted!

Deeicash: Man... You are conflicted!

At least I have a brain and I use it

Mynd_44:
This is where I draw the line. If you know you cannot be civil and sensible enough to leave parents out of discussions please don't reply my posts. I don't normally warn people but seeing as I put myself out like this it is only fair.
Seriously I wonder why some so called chicks are just brain dead. If you cant take a darned joke just say so.
Dumb puta

ayobase:

Matchmaking in d process!

oh HEAVEN FORBID!!

Mynd_44:
This is where I draw the line. If you know you cannot be civil and sensible enough to leave parents out of discussions please don't reply my posts. I don't normally warn people but seeing as I put myself out like this it is only fair.
Seriously I wonder why some so called chicks are just brain dead. If you cant take a darned joke just say so.
Dumb puta

Well I'm nothing close to dumb...ugly....hahaha, I'm pretty far from it. :p

sosoluv:
Well I'm nothing close to dumb...ugly....hahaha, I'm pretty far from it. :p

did your BF tell you that or your mirror?

J

sosoluv:
I know so...I look at my face on a daily basis I'm pretty sure I know what it looks like luv

Sounds more like you are reassuring yourself

O

sosoluv:
Its called loving what I see and not getting enough of it

Now you are simply saying you are touching yourself

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sosoluv:
Yes it involves touching myself...but not the kind of touching ur dirty mind is thinking.

How do you know what my mind is thinking?

1

sosoluv:
Its obvious

Are you on YIM?

H

sosoluv:
Yeah I am

okay you think we could have a chat? My Id is on my profile

ZS

sosoluv:
Sure we can. I will invite u

KK

End of thread and Im out.
A marriage eventually resulted!