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husbandsnatcha:
I Saw A mentioned out of 725 of you hating ,
amatarasha and liking me for my maturity.



Ar you for real

Omg husbandsnatcha my love is that really you? Am so damm glad to hear from you again, I missed you like crazy of course am for real you are my number one crush welcome back honey

Husbandsnatcha pls snatch me from the hands of amatarasha she wants to kill me

Beyonce is beautiful but I really don't like light skin girls, I prefer Kelly Rowland to Beyonce

In a country where one overpopulated region with uneducated people ruling the entire country all the time, separation is the solution at least the other regions we have the chance to rule themselves and make plans to develop their own regions

catwalq:
Beauty for men and money for women are fantasies. Of course we'll take good character and intellect over money or beauty if we were to choose. Because those are values that are worthwhile.

Beauty for men money for women here in Nigeria


In the Western world women dream of handsome physically strong looking men, they don't dream of rich men they dream of becoming rich themselves

khiaa:
Black people neeeeeeeever call each other NIGGER, you can seriously get beaten if you call a black American that word. That is a dirty racist word created by racist whites that they called the original Africans in this country. What you hear black Americans say is NIGGA, there's a difference eventhough I hate both words.

It's not even nigger is negro black Americans hate when they are called negro but, ghetto thugs coined the name to nigga 2pac once said, the nigga they call each other means, ( Never Ignorant of Getting Goals Accomplished) even though negro was an offensive word it simply means black dark brown skin people, Malcolm X was always called the outspoken negro leader and he was proud of it

Adaibeku:
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As people chat on Facebook for fun, so do Others chat here for Recreation ,stress reduction and to Make the Blind see*( To Make the blind see) can be a grievous crime against Humanity in Nairaland , But We dont give a Damn , So Lets just make sure we are on the side of justice! Because the inevitable is coming soon! Onye gba oso mpaya!!!


Signed : Hon (mrs) Aondo mimidoo Ada
Ladies-F Multi-Mart plaza

When will you invite us for thanksgiving on your new appointment hon(Mrs) mimidoo ada torkwase

catwalq:
Now we are talking. We might dream of ending up with rich men but in reality we sometimes fall in love with guys who aren't rich. And that's the staying power.

Girls who are raised the right way only dream of unconditional love , when dreaming about a man love good looking intellects, is all the fantasy on, just like when a man who is raised well all he fantasy of a woman is not what she has achieved but her beauty and love intellects

catwalq:
Dreaming of being with a rich guy is what it is - A DREAM.
But being with humble guy is a reality.

Ask all your female friends,sisters,female relations to list out ten attributes of a worthy mate and see if 'rich' won't show up on the lists.

All Nigerian girls are raised with this mentality to live under a man, instead of over taking a man so why won't you all think that way

Safitu:
OGA please go and marry a lady that will feed you since that’s what you want. Or a woman that will pet you and treat you like a child. You live in Nigeria where it’s predominantly men who provide, and you’re arguing a baseless argument that doesn’t really apply in the real world? In Nigeria, we don’t respect men who cannot provide. We don’t respect men who look for women to help them out. We don’t respect who look for corners to cut. If you’re fine with that, then please live your life peacefully and let me see road for better tin.

I will not stay in Nigeria forever so I don't think like a Nigerian shikena

catwalq:
They give men money to pay their bride price,even set up something for these men. You know why?

Because they want these men to stand on their own and take up the responsibility of being the providers.
Why do you think a working class woman who can afford life's luxuries will still gush and brag over a cheap gift presented to her by her broke bae?

No because the African society makes it looks like men are superior and providers I know a woman who was already successful when she met her husband who was also rich she asked the man not to pay her bride price, they do everything in the house equal, in fact she personally told me when she married her husband, for 2 yrs she never cooked it was the man that cooked most of the time

A woman who has everything will gush and brag about a cheap gift her broke bae gives her cause it's a gift of love, to show I care about you that's all, that's why a rich white woman will be excited when she gets flowers from her man more than a car

MrBrownJay1:
A p0rnstar has to do what the DIRECTOR wants her to do, whether she likes/desires it or not. He will ask her to be on set for however time he desires, until he has enough footage for the scene he has in mind. This is completely different than two lovers making love/ pleasing one another, and recording their act. Duh!



So long as you don't write rubbish about RAPIST/PEDOS/MURDERERS/THIEVES/ FRAUDSTERS being right to do their evil crimes, then by all means, believe what you desire, but I will always tell you otherwise.



The world is indeed a jungle when ANIMALS like yourself believe it's right for someone to RAPE, SEXUALLY ABUSE KIDS, KILL, STEAL, CHEAT OR DEFRAUD OTHERS...so long as they don't get caught.



Obviously you have no clue about either A) women or B) sex, if you believe that a man can't satisfy multiple women at the same time. But hey, Hugh Hefner had no less than 5 biatches that he was mounting everyday, well into his late 80s, thanks to viagra etc.... I won't even talk of the many married African men who have countless of mistresses to service, while taking care of wifey.
Again, stop writing rubbish online just because YOU lack in the bedroom dept and can't satisfy multiple women

And I will still tell you a p*rn director can not force a woman to do what she can't do on camera she has the complete right to say no and walk away, so what you said is empty, and I tell you to save that trash of two lovers recording themselves, cause 80% of the so called two lovers recording themselves that gets to the p*rnsite are leaks


Whether you tell me otherwise or not that doesn't change the fact that, that's my belief and there are million of smart people like me who share same beliefs with me


Lol I said pls don't talk to me about women cause you sound so so dumb, you have no idea what it means to satisfy a woman,
Just because a man climbs a woman and ejaculates into her doesn't mean she's satisfied, if one man can f*ck 24 hrs one woman can equally f*ck 24 hrs I have heard a prostitutes who said she f*cks 10 to 15 men a day, so this trash of one man f*cking 5 women a day how many rounds was he going with each of them cause one woman can go upto 5 to 7 rounds, like I said, tell this trash to your dumb friends who no nothing about women or sex, your knowledge of sex sounds so pathetic

IamCharles123:
Have u seen a smart n powerful poor man?

No I haven't that's why I said the smart and powerful rule this world, riches means power

The world is a jungle ruled by the smart and powerful, you can do anything you want in this world as long as you are smart enough and powerful enough to get away with it

Very good, unlike dangote who promised them in 2013 but never kept to his words they kept reminding him over and over again

catwalq:
You are missing my point. Dreaming of marrying a rich man and actually marrying a rich man are two different things.
Just like some people desire tall guys or fair guys,but in most cases they end up with something different.

So,universally all girls DREAM of marrying rich men. Now whether they end up with rich men or not is another thing entirely. Do you understand what I'm saying?

How do you know universally all girls dream of marrying a rich man? A girl that's born with riches with a lot of inheritance will never dream of a man with riches, rather a handsome loving man is what she will dream of, cause she already has all a man can ever give her get my point too

catwalq:
Any sensible woman will definitely want to control her own resources, that's a given. I'm talking about desires and wishes, and I reiterate,no woman on earth dreams of ending up with a poor man . Whether she be broke or made.

Haven't you heard of women who have everything in life and all they desire from a man is just true love? They are thousands of them out there, even here in Nigeria they are rich women who desire a husband that will love them, most of them even enrich this young men and give them money to go pay for their pride prize

Safitu:
Get this into your head that men and women are not the same. They do not have the same physically, mentally and emotionally abilities to handle situations. As rich as Rihanna is, she chose to date an Arab billionaire because she wants a man who can take control and be a man. No woman wants to date a man with no cash no matter how accomplished one is. Get that into your head and stop making excuses. We all want companionship, and companionship with someone who compliments us.

Lol really but how come as rich as Jenifer Lopez is she once dated her backup dancer?
What control are you talking about? If Rihanna wants someone to control her why didn't she stay with Chris Brown cause Chris was really in control,

If you believe men are superior to women than keep it to yourself, but know that not all women share same belief with you, speak for yourself not all women, there are women who say they will never get married to live under a man

You Nigerian girls are raised the wrong way that's why you see marrying a rich man as the ultimate achievement in life

catwalq:
There's no girl on earth,under the sun, wherever in this world who dreams of marrying a poor man.

There are thousands of girls who dream of competing with men not living under their riches, there are thousands of girls who dream of being richer than the man they will love to marry, so what are you talking about? Why not dream of achieving what men achieve instead of dreaming of a man who has achieved if you can achieve it yourself, men don't dream of it

MrBrownJay1:
There is a difference between a woman (or man) who goes into porn and has to do things she may not desire/like on camera (with a stranger), because of money AND 2 mature lovers, not forced into doing anything they don't desire, recording their sexual acrobatics, in order to sell it for money.



And you are entitled to your opinion, but I still stand that since you think that everything is about making money in life, then why don't you go and sell your anus virginity then?!



Again.... The day you get raped by gay rapist OR your children get sexually abused OR you get murdered to steal your belonging (you worked hard for) OR you get cheated on and realize your kids ant yours OR get defrauded of all your life's hardwork, that's when you will finally see that these actions are WRONG.... Until then, continue believing that these acts are right.



As I told you before....
A) If that said woman agreed to enter such polygamous marriage then she has nothing to complain about, and if she doesn't get satisfied, she can easily divorce.
B) with the beauty of Viagra/ Cialis etc, and 24hs in every single days, any man (even 80yrs great grandpas) can satisfy their 20 spouse if he desires to do so.... The fact that you automatically assume that because YOU can't satisfy multiple women, therefore no man can, is a JOKE

Lol very funny, I told you p*rnstars are never forced to do anything, they are genuine business actors and actresses doing genuine business with the producers, agreements are made, they know exactly what they are going to do it's all scripted and given to them to act based on the script, I even gave you example of how some of these p*rnstars gave up other good monthly paying jobs to to act porn cause they love the job what is bad there? Pls save the lovers recording themselves sh*t

Am entitled to my own opinion yes and I kept telling you this right from the beginning my beliefs are different from yours why continue to argue my personal beliefs with me

Well I know the world is a jungle and I always keep my eyes open and ready to fight my way through whatever situation that comes my way no one is completely safe in this jungle

Lol your last paragraph (b)is laughable one man f*cking 24hrs of the day , can even satisfy 20 women, you are damm funny dumb, tell that to your dull friends who knows nothing about sex, I have been f*cking since my early teens till date, don't talk to me about sex, cause any man who depends on drugs for sex has a sexual problem

Safitu:
A woman can have all the money in the world, instead of her man to respect her he will feel intimidated and inferior. So this is not about women, this is about men, I’m focusing on that and that’s what the topic is about. Make money as a man, make yourself proud.

You should do same

MariaLavina:
Really?



Never mind.

Maybe you will say the difference is religion and tradition says men are superior to women that's why

MariaLavina:
You think you did, but you didn't. There's a difference.

Tell me the difference

Safitu:
If you like, cry and get mad. The truth shall always remain the truth. No money no love. It’s not about being a millionaire, but you must set a stable foundation for yourself and your partner to build on. A lazy man with empty pockets can never be respected by his woman or the people around him.

Why are you more concerned about a mans respect? Dont women like to be respected too? Or do women love to be treated as trash? Why not make money and let your husband respect you and people around you too? Are you allergic to respect?

MariaLavina:
What are you saying? Do you understand the question at all?

I just answered the question, "can a man make a woman happy without money"

MrBrownJay1:
Show me where I have said that prostitution is RIGHT/OK....?! Do you have English comprehension issues?!



You can try all you want mixing apples with oranges, everything is written here on NL....
YOU said that it was better for a woman to sell her virginity for money than to give it for free to the man that she loved.... And I told you that her virginity belongs to the man she loves, not to be given away for money to any animals out there, who will abuse this virgin, under the guise of making some little money.

YOU Said it was easy to act in p0rn movies and I have been telling you that it certainly wasnt easy...

Now, how you take the 2above points and see any relevance to me telling 2mature people that they should think very carefully about the consequences of their action, is just amazing. are these 2 mature people being abused by strangers to do what they don't want to do?! Are they being forced to perform act that they don't desire/like etc?! USE YOUR BRAIN!!!!



YOU Said that a woman in a polygamous marriage should cheat on her husband because he is selfish to desire more than one wife.... and my beef with you is to let you understand that if this woman (of sound mind) was fully aware of such polygamous arrangement before marriage, and gladly went into it, then she has no reason to cheat....and if she ain't happy with the arrangement she should simply DIVORCE.



Yes many deluded people commit these crimes, and it certainly does NOT make these crime RIGHT, does it?! The fact that YOU would see rapist/murderers/thieves/pedofiles/fraudsters/cheaters and say:" so long as they don't get caught, what they do is RIGHT"....makes you deluded in my world.... And only when they will deal with you, that you will now change your tune.

No I don't have English comprehension issues but I find it hard to understand the difference between someone having sex on camera and someone having sex privately for money, if you support porn as adults doing whatever they desire why not support prostitutes too? They are all prostitutes, nothing like mixing oranges and apples there

I said there was nothing wrong with a girl selling her virginity to enrich herself, smart girls sell it for millions of dollars, girls that are not smart enough give it for free, and I still stand by my words


And lastly I said right or wrong is personal belief what might be wrong in your eyes might right in my eyes
Do whatever you desire as long as you are smart enough to get away with it , if you get caught accept your fate and face the consequences,
Good bad right wrong is a personal belief and we are born with it,
The story I narrated to you to prove evil is a natural part of our lives confirms my school of thoughts, you can say am wrong you can say am right it's your personal belief

A married man who can't give his multiple wifes the sexual desire they need are free to have other men to satisfy them, you have no right to stop a woman from getting the pleasure, you can't give
Smart people and powerful own this world

MariaLavina:
To all these hypocritical beings wanting Safiatu's head for lunch here's a question :

Can a Nigerian Man make a Woman happy without Money?

Why not ? poor Nigerian women without money marry rich men and make them happy, same thing poor Nigerian men without money can marry a rich woman and make her happy

MariaLavina:
When they are married? Do they continue paying the family bills too? Lol , when I was a teen, (19) specifically I used to have your mentality. Then I believed love is enough , money does not matter but now I know better.For a relationship to survive, money must be involved. From buying airtime to communicate, to little gift exchange, celebrating special dates, helping out financially, to wedding, running the family and providing for kids.Yes Love is good, it's the foundation but money makes it better.Let's not frustrate love.

Well I'm not saying the man must be wealthy and all but must be financially stable to avoid stories that touch.

Both the man and the woman should be financially stable to avoid stories that touch

Oma307:
I doubt if she will answer this question. so a boyfriend is to take care of a grown lady who's not handicap all in the name of girlfriend. I hope most of our ladies will not be used for yahoo yahoo

She's just thinking like a typical Nigerian girl, with no dreams or career, her biggest dream in life will be to marry a rich man, instead of dreaming of been rich herself

LilMissFavvy:
I think he should, aren't men supposed to be the main providers? I can perfectly agree to the 50:50 if he does not want to claim the head in such relationship.

In my own world we don't believe in what tradition and religion preaches about men been providers and head of the house, we believe a man and woman are same humans capable of achieving anything in live on equal levels, I believe Mr Eze belongs to our world a lot of white people belong to our world

Safitu:
Most women have cash in their bank accounts. Most women are in school/ trading/ doing some kind of business/hustling. The truth of the matter is that, if a man must come into your life, he must have something to offer. That doesn’t mean I don’t have my own money, but as a man you must show your capability to provide for me. That’s what makes you a man. How can I be paying for all my bills, and you call yourself my boyfriend? What is now your role in my life? Just to be looking at me and wasting my time? Ah beg jare.

What is your role in the life of a man as a girlfriend? If what makes a man, a man it's his capability to provide for his woman, then what exactly makes a woman a woman?

She is out there she's out there working for her husband, that man will still enjoy in prison

LilMissFavvy:
Mr. Easy may be a low class, not too handsome gold digger. But if he has good character, then why not? It is amazing that of all the men in the world, Temi chooses him. Big gals like the Otedola's should wise up when dating these kinds of men......a wise lady should never invest too much on a man she isn't married to. Its not worth it.

A wise man should never invest too much on a lady he isn't married to, its not worth it, it's simple 50/50

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT IRRELEVANT NONSENSE
What these people are doing is NOT prostitution, stop mixing apples with oranges... And so Long as these people are aware of the consequences of their actions (and it ain't illegal or against the law) then who gives a damn what their families think?! They know that it will hurt their families and decide to do what they please, because it's their life (and they are not doing any crime)
The above you wrote would be as deluded as saying that being a musician is wrong because Davido's father wanted him to be a doctor and he is ashamed of him being a singer. Duh! So long as you are not abusing people, doing crimes etc, then it's all a PERSNAL LIFE CHOICE...

Now, my beef with people like you is when you would come here and say that raping women, raping children, stealing, killing people etc is also a personal choice, while not seeing the HUGE difference.



YES, so long as you don't rape women and children, you don't steal, kill or defraud people, YES YES YES...but the minute you commit the crimes I just mentioned (and all other evil acts) then it is our duties to stand against it. People like you who think that these crimes are OK, so long as these criminals don't get caught, are just living in la la land, and driven by your desperation for money.

Lol very funny so your beef with me now it's only about rape, killing stealing etc you sound so confused cause you are contradicting your initial belief, which says prostitution is wrong, it's is wrong for a virgin to sell her virginity instead she should give it free for love, it's a deluded shameful thing to do for money, now you are in support of porn, whats the difference between having sex on camera and having sex privately in exchange for money? have you forgotten how you preached to me how hard it is to act porn and this women are forced to do certain stuff they can't do?

Your beef with me was because I said if a man marries many women and can't satisfy them sexually it's right for them to get their sexual satisfaction elsewhere , and I still stand on my beliefs they are both selfish adults playing for their own selfishness, it's right


Lol people who commit this crimes you said are living in lal la land, I don't know what that is but I will tell you everywhere is la La Land cause it's happening everywhere globally, human beings are born with that instinct to do things desperate for their own selfish satisfaction

Let me give you an example, it's going to be a long article , but it's worth reading
A research test was once carried out on little innocent kids between age 5 to 10 to prove evil is part of humans

This kids were taken to an empty room, in this empty room, the placed boxes at the end of the room, then drew a crooket line from were the boxes were kept to the other end of the room, a CCTV was installed in that room with out the knowledge of the kids

The game was simple any kid who can move those boxes one by one and walk on the crooket line to the other end of the room, with the fastest time wins the price
They were 10 kids in number, each kid will enter the room alone while the instructor and the rest of the kids waits outside not knowing what the kid that entered in the empty room moving the boxes is doing

The first kid entered he did as they were instructed he move the boxes walked on a the crooked line step by step and completely the task in 8 minutes and knocked at the door to indicate he completed the task

Now the time to beat was 8 minutes, the second kid entered, he started moving the boxes, realizing how hard it is to move those boxes to the other end walking on the crooket line, and his running out of time, he jumped the line he cheated cause he believes no one is watching, he completed the task in 5 minutes and knocked at the door, when he came out the instructor asked him did you follow the instruction he said yes he did,

Out of those 10 kids all of them cheated desperately to beat the time set by the previous kid only the first kid didn't cheat cause he was not under any pressure at all

Now the second round of the game this time a chair was brought in the room, the kids were told that someone invisible is sitting in the chair to monitor what each kid is doing in that room they can't see the invisible man but they truly believe someone is sitting there watching,

The first kid entered, followed the instruction finished in 8 minutes again,
The second kid that cheated before to finish in 5 minutes didn't cheat this time cause he believes the invisible man in the chair is watching, he finished in 9 minutes ,
But there was a smart kid amongst them, the first thing he did when he entered the room, he stared at the chair trying to know if truly there is an invisible man sitting in that chair, he went to were the chair was lifted the chair up, realizing it's all false their is no invisible man in that chair he cheated and completed the task in 5 minutes

So you see right, wrong, bad evil good it's a natural thing for humans, as long as you are smart enough to get away with it, you have no problem, the smart kid cheated and won the price