₦airaland Forum

Counterigbolies:
when was Nigeria d happiest in the world?

Around 2003....during president Obasanjo tenure.

But now, one of the sadest people....

Abdusamad Rabiu has done very, very well with his father's enterprise and has consistently been number 2 and 3 (often interchanging with Adenuga) of the richest Nigerians for over a decade now.

He should do well to continue his father's legacy of philantropy. Congrats to him.

Otedola is an intelligent man...he had great parents who led him in entrepreneurship and paved the way for him by helping him with access to the corridors of power. Good luck to him.
Do well to remember to lift your countrymen up.

cl0r0x:
The same country that took Isreal to the ICC

There's NOTHING like 'isreal'..... GO AND CHECK YOUR SPELLING. OR SIMPLY READ THE BIBLE, you will see how the name is written.

Lukuluku69:
Everyone should just go back home amd leave their Country for them.

If I was in South Africa that's what I would do.

Oh, so you think they don't want to leave that shithole country
THEY JUST DON'T HAVE THE MONEY! It will be great if you can send them transport fare, friend....it won't be much per person. Afterall Lilongwe is not too far from Durban.

Crashes just after takeoffs are majorly planned crashes, from my point of view.
Maybe planned....detonation still within range. Or the planes were shot at from close quarters on departure points......

Thorough investigation should be completed and acted upon. THIS IS NOT ORDINARY!

Reminds me of 2021 plane shooting-down of Gen. Ibrahim Attahiru, and other Generals, including then Chief of Army Intelligence, Brig Gen. Abdurahman Kuliya, and others.
When military officers get plane crashes, IT IS NOT HAPPENSTANCE!

Sorry to the bereaved families.....May God comfort their families.

Galaticos444:
Which supreme leader?
Supreme leader that hasn't appeared on air for a day is that one supreme leader? is either d new supreme leader is dead or seriously incapacitated

Don't mind him....supreme leader in hiding!!!

Obaofaba:
USA has never in history been this disgraced.

Trump might be referring to the US when made that famous comment of a "now disgraced country".

SHUT UP FOR ONCE!!!!



Iran that said it would NEVER sign deal, eventually did the same!!! Prez Trump could have decimated that place but he has a large heart.....he HUMBLED himself so as to let peace reign!

They have gone to fix their countries......they will soon be right back!

SA that is currently exercising apartheid against other black Africans. Your problems just started!

Wishing the dashing footballer many many caps ahead!!! Stay consistent Al.

AdisGlobal01:
SHE_NEEDS_YOUR_ADVICE

My wedding was scheduled for March this year, but everything changed after my fiancé's father passed away unexpectedly in November.

His funeral was held just three weeks later, in December. I genuinely wanted to attend, but there was one major problem: my employer had a strict policy against granting leave during the December holiday period. When I accepted the job, this condition was clearly stated. Despite explaining my situation and pleading for an exception, my request was denied.

I informed my fiancé immediately. At first, he appeared understanding. I even contributed financially to support the funeral arrangements.

Then his mother called.

She told me that if I truly wanted to become part of their family, I had to be physically present at her husband's funeral. I tried explaining my circumstances, but she ended the call before I could finish.

When I called my fiancé afterward, I expected him to stand by me. Instead, he asked:

"If it were your own father, wouldn't you find a way to attend?"

I explained that the situations were different because my employer might make an exception if it were my immediate family member.

That was when he dropped the bombshell:

"No presence. No wedding."

I thought grief was speaking. I thought time would calm him down.

I was wrong.

The wedding was officially cancelled.

My family tried everything to reconcile the situation, but his family refused every attempt. Eventually, my father advised me to accept the loss and move forward with my life.

It broke me, but I did.

Months passed.

Then, on May 20th, my ex-fiancé called me.

What he said left me speechless.

According to him, I had failed the test of being a good wife because I stopped trying to convince his family after the wedding was cancelled. He said a "real wife" would have kept begging until she was accepted.

Then he announced that he had "forgiven" me.

Not only that, he had already chosen a new wedding date in August and expected me to start preparing immediately.

As if the breakup had never happened.

As if my feelings didn't matter.

As if he alone had the authority to decide when a relationship ends—and when it resumes.

Without hesitation, I told him I was no longer interested.

His response shocked me even more.

He said:

"I'm not done. You don't have the right to be done."

I blocked his number immediately.

But that wasn't the end.

A few days later, he appeared at my father's house carrying the bride price and all the marriage items he had previously rejected.

My father told him clearly:

"My daughter has moved on. As far as this family is concerned, she is no longer available."

Still, he refused to accept it.

Since then, he and his mother have continued calling, visiting, and pressuring both me and my family despite my repeated refusal.

Now I'm beginning to wonder:

Is this really about love, or is there something deeper behind their sudden determination?

What troubles me most is the mindset that someone can cancel a wedding, disappear for months, return when it suits them, and expect another person to simply obey.

I am now considering legal action because the constant calls, visits, and refusal to respect my decision are becoming disturbing.

My question is:

If someone ends a relationship, then later decides to "forgive" you and resume the wedding without your consent, would you see that as love... or as a dangerous sense of entitlement?

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

You dey do shakara!!!

You don't want to look back at 40 years old and (if sadly so), still see yourself remaining single.

It's a very simple matter.......JUST ASK HIM TO WRITE AN APOLOGY LETTER FOR HIS BEHAVIOUR IN CANCELING THE WEDDING, you and him can draft it.
Then, talk personally to him, stating your own mind, and settle it between yourselves (this should actually come first--don't nag him about who's idea it was that made him cancel it.....IT WAS NOT HIS IDEA I CAN TELL YOU!)
Then talk to your parents carefully--he should NOT be there then, but should be praying , and also be ready on video call (probably with some of his family members in the video background too),,,
Then let your dad give him a date to come and, first present his Apology Letter, and then.....he can then bring his bride price (It will be great if he surprises you by adding even more things you didn't know about, or your family didn't even ask him==like extra things for you, clothes for ur mum and Dad, siblings, etc)!!!

YOU WILL NOT MARRY YOUR DAD OR UNCLES, Abi!!!!! But if my advice is too difficult for you (or him), then you should start looking for another suitor. I assure you there are eligible guys out there, you just haven't seen the right one........

MOST IMPORTANTLY, BE CLOSE TO The ALMIGHTY GOD & HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH! Amen!

You dey do shakara!!!

You don't want to look back at 40 years old and (if sadly so), still see yourself remaining single.

It's a very simple matter.......JUST ASK HIM TO WRITE AN APOLOGY LETTER FOR HIS BEHAVIOUR IN CANCELING THE WEDDING, you and him can draft it.
Then, talk personally to him, stating your own mind, and settle it between yourselves (this should actually come first--don't nag him about who's idea it was that made him cancel it.....IT WAS NOT HIS IDEA I CAN TELL YOU!)
Then talk to your parents carefully--he should NOT be there then, but should be praying , and also be ready on video call (probably with some of his family members in the video background too),,,
Then let your dad give him a date to come and, first present his Apology Letter, and then.....he can then bring his bride price (It will be great if he surprises you by adding even more things you didn't know about, or your family didn't even ask him==like extra things for you, clothes for ur mum and Dad, siblings, etc)!!!

YOU WILL NOT MARRY YOUR DAD OR UNCLES, Abi!!!!! But if my advice is too difficult for you (or him), then you should start looking for another suitor. I assure you there are eligible guys out there, you just haven't seen the right one........

MOST IMPORTANTLY, BR CLOSE TO The ALMIGHTY GOD & HE WILL SEE YOU THROUGH! Amen!

This is the most incredibly sensible thing I have heard from ANYONE on this insecurity issue!

Thanks Pastor Adeboye.

ebi n pa e.....what of the people you are abducting? ebi o pa'won abi? Look at this one....instead of practising his evil trade in his hometown, he preferred to do it in another region.

"You're f------ crazy. You'd be in prison if it weren't for me. I'm saving your a--,"

Big Daddy US seemingly having a hard time restraining playful, precocious, determined Israel.

All's good!

Well resourced material.
It's innovations are what keeps its clientele steadfast & satisfied I suppose.

I pray that the abductees will be free before June, in The Name of The LORD JESUS CHRIST.
Amen!

VaginaAcademic:
so Lord Jesus dey save some people leave some people are you telling me no faithful Christian has died of cancer just dey play you hear.

I hear

jasontrigga:
If Tinubu pick a northern Christian as Vp
The political game will change immediately
To his favor

I tell you/////he has won North central already, including northern west, like Kad south and Kebbi where there are sizable Christians, AND Borno- chibok, etc, Bauchi south, and Numan etc in Adamawa.

Wow. Use them to k**ill other Boko harm members first and show proof, before you pay them anything.
Ensure they're actually Nigerians, not other Africans.
Ensure the monetary payout is NOT to the amount mentioned here....Even civil servants of 10 years, and lecturers, don't earn up to that!

GanagiBitrus:
This Cancer na terrible disease from the pit of hell.

But Lord Jesus Christ has already conquered cancer & all other diseases in the world!

We simply have to appropriate it to ourselves by calling upon The Great Healer.

A chip off the oldblock. HML Don & Bettina.

Musa is there, the Gen.
Many other Christians from the North are there......

A northern Christian is the way that he will win the elections.

Rubbish mask....She's even more beautiful with her natural, God-given face!

Dailynewscover:
https://dailynewscover.com/transfield-college-principal-disappears-with-over-%e2%82%a624m-waec-registration-fund/

The man no get name? corruption everywhere...

Sensiblerealist:
They used to be very nice people until around year 2009. The hostility became noticeably profound.
I used to organise road trip excursions for university students back then.
When they stared showing other colours , I stopped altogether. They got unaccommodating, greedy and they cheat also at tourist markets.

You're quite right, but I would say a couple of years before that....2007 precisely we started hearing of their little xenophobia then.

Remember that in late 2007, 3 or 4 indolent and envious south African men robbed & killed the world famous reggae musician, their own countryman, Lucky Dube, who just took his child to school

In confession, after their girlfriends ratted them out, they sheepishly said they thought he was a Nigerian man picking up their girls!!!

See the envy and jealousy? They now transformed that to:: they are criminals, OR :: They should go and 'develop' their own countries too.


LAZY. ENVIOUS. BACKWARD. SPITEFUL PEOPLE.

Africans should boycott them ASAP

So sad for the man.....A thorough investigation process should be made by our hard working Nigeria Police.

So sad.....A thorough investigation process should be made by our hard working Nigeria Police.