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Dramadiddy:
It means what it means... sexually.. whatever has to do with sex, thats why i wasnt being specific at first so that the grl in question can code, unless shes not smart

It’s too generic, she will not code anything...more so, most sexually active people think that they sexually careful and they take that advise casually, plus generally, that wouldn’t be their first time of hearing it.....

but, tell those same people that their partner is HIV+, their subconsciousness will come alive and will take uttermost precaution including researching/reading up more above HIV, checking themselves for symptoms and even considering going for a test plus cutting off from that partner sexually.

I think the OP should tell her and be serious when doing that, and should also mention to her that his goal is not to get back together and that if she doubt what he is saying, she should around or point her to others that might be in the know.

If he can’t bring himselve to doing that, go through a friend or type up an anonymous letter to her or open new email address with a different name and email her.

Dramadiddy:
U can tell her to be sexually careful. She should be able to code that.

What does ‘sexually careful’ mean?

Does it mean, she should avoid the rough kind of ble***ding or she should abstain from certain dangerous styles and positions?

When you take it upon yourself to advise someone, you own them a duty to effectively communicate your advise in such a way that, there will be no room for misinterpretation or ambiguity.

Maka why? Is Christmas her birthday?

Let’s wait and see what you will buy for the person whose birthday is been celebrated...

OP, correct your screw up.

Is he a Nigerian Soldier or a US Soldier? You referred to him using both, which is which? Though by his uniform he appear to be a US Soldier, but it is plausible that Nigerian Soldiers on attachee in the US can wear US Soldier’s uniform.

However, it only makes sense for a Nigerian Soldier to go for a tour in US...a US soldier touring in the US does not make a lot of sense.

I don’t know if you can technically refer to someone who is in the US temporary aka on a tour as ‘based in the US’. We know he is staying in the US currently, but is he based there?

You can see the level of your screw up, that undermined your ability to communicate effectively.

Profcamsey:
Why broadcasting it? Smh.
I'm not God though but he shouldn't have showed off on the social media.

I didn’t see where he said he is doing it for God or in expectation of the favor or blessings for God.

The Bible did not condemn the act of broadcasting one’s goodwill, it only essentially states that, if you don’t want your rewards on earth but rather in heaven, then don’t broadcast it.

When Jesus was feeding the 5000, then 4000 who were hungry and had no body to turn to for feeding allowance; he did not do it behind closed doors, rather on a mountain top.

thesicilian:
Some will say marriage is between you and your partner and your parents have no right to interfere. Thay be true, but what elderly person sees sitting down, a child may not see while standing up

It is the same as saying that, they are very selfish and as such desiressomeone that fits certain current or future criteria of theirs, rather than that of the person who wants to marry and live live with this individual for the rest of their lives.

@ready2give, dhl the stuff come my end na:

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