₦airaland Forum

geoworldedu:
Lol. So God can be wined and vex like humans. Oshey. That one na baba sala god o, with emotions like humans. As per taking the country back, just forget it. The people ruling the affairs are the ones that can take it back, but they are not interested. So the country can only get worse.

You are asking if God can be wined and vex like humans? Lol; not like humans but like God. Baba sala god you say. Lol na matter of time e go clear.
The people rulling are not different from most of those being rulled. The right people will come.

Meanwhile those they govern are dying like flies in the country. Terrorism, poverty, insecurity, crime etc ravaging the land and they don't care. Northern, Eastern and Western men in power. I see you guys holding inner circle meetings plotting against each other for power and control.

Nigerians, this is not the will of God o. It was caused by man's wickedness to fellow man..That truck driver knew his breaks were not good. Saving pennies and doing patch work not weighing the risk and losses it will cost fellow humans if it fails. Humans are wicked to fellow humans and then they claim it's the will of God.

geoworldedu:
That's the problem, handing people over to God who cannot even help himself. The quicker Africans realize that God needs more help than humans, the better people start taking charge of affairs themselves for a quick result.

As I no fit fight them. Since you can help yourself and even help beyond humans, it won't be bad if you do the needful. You have discovered the secret to taking back our country. Please help us do the needful cos I am tired. I am talking what is gonna happen you are talking blasphemy. No vex God pass as you don vex am reach.

Nuf said

Wow! Thank God.

Ehismarkninetee:
I was introduced to Tramadol in 2015 because I complained to him that I wasn’t lasting long during sex. So he prescribed Tm to me. At first I hated the feeling I just took it because it really helped with the early ejaculation.

Fast forward to 2020; I am now fully attended to this evil, it is now holding me by my neck, choking me . But I cannot seem to let go.

Tramadol has taken a lot from me; My pride, my focus, my Looks, my health, my family and most importantly my finances. I have had serious seizures that nearly took my life with my family members as witness. Now they know my situation and they are indeed very disappointed in me.

I had another seizure yesterday but the worst part of it is that it wasn’t only the seizure, I was acting demented with my clothes off. I take nothing less than 1500mg daily.

It has ruined everything because just calculate how much I have to spend for this evil everyday. For example I didn’t miss one last year 2024. It seems am now powerless to this evil. I cannot hustle anymore, I just want to take Tramadol and just lock myself indoors, all my friends have left me behind but am still living with my mum at age 31. Indeed am tired. Am really tired

I need help to stop this. I have prayed, I have tried everything. It’s not working. Please has anyone been in the situation before?? Please help me!!!!!

You don't quit cold turkey na. Wean it off and make sure you sta d on business.

All white women. Na wa.

2special:
They always believe they're better than Pentecostals.

If he was pentecostal doing what is wrong in his church; his followers would protect him. He would curse those who call out his conduct and use death to threaten them while claiming to be a daddy in the lord. At least the Catholic church fixed the problem. Pentecostal would protect his image siting "thou shall not judge"

Starz825:
Say yours or learn bro

Nothing to learn from the BS you just typed.

Starz825:
The pregnancy is not yours

Simple...

..she bleeped someone else over there...trust women at your own loss...

My reasons:

1. You made use of condom..I want to believe you used CD cos of her remnants discharge that still shows when she's rounding up her period session

2. Sex immediately after period is less likely to result in pregnancy. Let alone the last day of period

The best time to have sex without condom are 1-3 days before her period...and 1-3 days after her period but beware of ladies with 23 days cycle....they can menstruate twice in a month sef... meaning they often ovulates...

There is 23, 27, 30, 31 Day cycle ..if stressed..some can be 32 sef...this one might not even see it in a whole month sef..and then see it immediately the next month comes in on 1st...

Ovulation period counts 10-16 days to menstruation

Your wife's ovulation period will be 1st -7th of the month.....if her menstruation will come up between 11th -17th of same month


There is a lot to understand about women.... guy.... women can not do without us...tbh...

Women who you see hate men...are women who

1 have had bad experience with men
2. Who has been educated badly abt men
3. Or who's just literally confused and may be too proud to submit.


Na Men complete woMEN....if not she for be WO.....

Talking B's with full chest.

Brimstone77:
Hi guys,I have been dating this girl for about 5months now.

Two weeks ago,she travelled out of the country,2days before she travelled we had a protected sex,and that day happens to be the last day she's seeing her period, too..

Today she chatted me telling that the company she went to work for did a pregnancy test and it came out positive..

N:B she did a pregnancy test before she travelled and it came out negative..

We had sex (with condoms)on second January this year,and she travelled on 4 January this year,she said the test was done on over there on the 14th..

Right now I don't know what to do,what are the possibilities that she can get pregnant on the last day of her menstrual period and also a protected sex too..

I need your advice please!

Admins please do the needful!

Wait and do DNA. What other advice do you want to hear?

Na so. God go judge all of us.

As Nigerians view money to be the only thing that indicates how "good/worthy" a person is, I pity those who can't look beyond that and appreciate life as a process.

Looking4Trouble:
Isn’t it obvious that we just want to fucck our own and move on to the next prostitute? Why are you so unfortunate in life?

And you have a mother o. See how shameless you are? As you Bleep ashewo, wetin make you think say you better pass the ashewo? You no like shit to touch you but you dey enjoy to chop shit. hypocrisy. Keep fucking na AIDS/Syphilis and you go get last discussion.

Dtruthspeaker:
Na 2 of dem go suffer na. And we know one of the pressures that makes him break is because of they must lie promising to take care of him and his family whereas they will abandon him completely and not even open the door when he comes to their house.

Sadly so.

Dtruthspeaker:
https://www.nairaland.com/8316760/man-commits-suicide-over-pressure

We have seen and heard too many times how a poor man struggling and managing his life is often pressured and forced into marrying.

And we have seen that some families go as far as even forcing a girl to marry him.

If it is not wickedness and an attempt to throw him into more torment, so why?

What is the rationale for this wickedness?

And it is not that these families will always be there for them O.

And why do the girls/women they bring to him not have sense to run away from him?

As the mumu man who is supposed to be head of family and man in society didn't have sense to run when they force him to marry, why do you think the women who are mostly in worse situation than him should d be the ones to run?

englishmart:
I don't understand the need to call your boss to thank him for giving you your unwritten entitlements.
A guy was fired for this

So rice, oil and maggi dey for the entitlemets? There is nothing like unwritten entitlement where a job contract is concerned. You are either entitled to it formally or you are not. Anything else is subject to the boss' abilityand charity. Clearly those were gifts from the boss to tbe staff.
In my opinion the staff should have come together to buy a tbank you card signed by every staff member and presented to the boss. In absence of that, wisdom should have told him to send a thank you message to oga for the ntanta he so generously gave.

Lol, so they want me to believe that those rusty fire arms are what a sane man is so called stockpiling? Those rusty trash? He deserves to be arrested.

E no better if say she born girl wey dey do hookup and love her mom dearly; instead of having a son that is hookup free but will tie her up and throw her alive into a well?

Nigerians are the most manipulative Negros on earth. Sir don't worry, it's cos those fighting against you have not used religious angle to confuse your supporters.
If a whole presidential candidate can because of religious sentiment delete his comment against the barbaric murder of Esther in the north, you think if they gather them in their meeting places and condemn you, they won't fall for it? Nigeria s are the weakest when it comes to falling for manipulative control.

Atk1nson:
Speak of the devil. Asylum -seeker life is not as easy as she thinks. She will living on bare minimum handout from the government and will not be able to get a good job till her asylum claim is determined which could take years

It's crazy. I guess she thought it over and came to the conclusion that asylum is the fastest way to get residency because the post grad visa doesn't come cheap and it doesn't guarantee anything. COS too don scarce so better to throw him under the bus and seek asylum.

And another will happen, and another, and another and another and all they'll keep saying is "they will pay dearly"

EmperorCaesar:


Pity giriiiigoory just talk for the sake of it

He cant even call a spade a spade, hypocritical person and his useless pauline epistles

Top-level dumbo

Mumu it's Gregory

004gist:
It's a common practice. I was asking the lady how far ur previous oga. She said she don't have any idea where he is. She just mail home office n they got him removed.

Just imagine? This Japa is not easy o.

Atk1nson:
This is plain stupidity.

She has no idea how hard it is to raise 3 children in a country like the UK without public fund and spousal support. The career sacrifice She will have to make as a single parent of 3 children.

She would need at least a 2 bedroom apartment. If they are less than 10 years old, she will have to drop and pick them from school, pay for after school of She can't pick them by 3pm, ensure there is always someone at home with them with no recourse to public funds for at least 5 years.

She is also unlikely to find anyone willing to shoulder than responsibility in a country where people love to live their best life.

She just set herself

2 are teens and one is going on 11. She claimed domestic violence and they came and took them to a "safe place" she then took opportunity to file for asylum claiming he might harm her if she goes to naija after her education. So my guy is just hanging. She has removed him from her dependant and I don't know his next plan.

The dream of many Nigerian big men is to have people sit like this outside their homes begging for food.

004gist:
Currently i have or know 3 Nigerians that removed theie husbands as dependants. This is husband that paid for everything saw them through school... Paid 100% school fees and immediately after school theu chased the man out from house.

I know one currently o. Lord have mercy. I thought the stories I was hearing were mere fiction until it happened to my guy. Omo she took their 3 kids, called cops on him and is looking for aduro.

Abductors reaching out to victims and govt no fit trace them but if I sit-down for Mars insult their wives Dem go locate me sharp sharp

004gist:
Am just giving u a clue on how sponsorship visa is a hot cake.
Had it been i know na watin i for do leave school cos school na wahala.
The amount i quoted i earn is the minimum like its a crime for any employer to pay u that. Like jobs u do with a secondary school certificate not uni. So anyone working full time in uk that's what they earn

Back to the girl. The 2022 she came sponsorship jobs was everywhere so she knew she will get it with money saved or the place she was working promised her thats the reason she ghosted the guy but it turned out they eventually failed her or the huge amount she paid to get it was turn out to be scam like they ate her money she now have to fall back to her last option which is the guy she ghosted all those two years. The 2022 they came work was everywhere we heard companies move from street to streets looking for people to work with them unlike me that came in 2023 September. So she was in a better chance to earn and work than 2023 set

If u stay in this UK on full work visa no restrictions like spouse dependent visa my brother in that 24 month u can wipe poverty from ur lineage if u are prudent in savings... not to talk of getting sponsored thats another level. Nigerian are cunning and hardly keep to promises or a deal.

I understand you now. Mehn she wicked o. Karma got her real fast.
Yes the average Nigerian is a user. They can pretend till they get what they want. I thank God that I fear God and naturally hate to ne the reason anyone would cry if not, I know I would have become a user too

004gist:
Oga what you don't know no put mouth. Work visa for Healthcare as at today cost over 30m n its difficult to even see as scamers are everywhere n uk government tightening the process.
School dependant visa was sold as high as 8 million as at last year and u pay all this money upfront.

The period they are talking about was 2022 September and pounds was sold then 540 browse ur Google.

Do u know what dependant visa is all about? In fact na u hold u real visa as the other person won't be able to work full time.

I am in UNITED KINGDOM right now and a day i get 110 pounds after tax which is 230k naira. I work 5 days per week which gives me 1.15 million naira per week and 4.6 million per month now calculate that for 2 years the girl stayed in uk.. But a student can't make this that's why people go with spouse to work full time.

If it didn't benefit her then why did she come back to beg with common 2k pounds when the guy will easily untagged her n bring in his relative or wife?

Me from September this year to this month i have been able to saved and repay back a loan of 7k pounds aside house rent and running my family cos i be family person.

The lady was asked to pay 50% of the school fees and fee was 18k for the two years program and they paid probably 2k from Nigeria remaining a balance of 16k which she will pay 8k and 8k pounds at when the deal was entered was about 5m

Currently see someon selling a spot of Finland dependant visa for 6k pounds.. Thats over 12m and it's payment upfront.

If you read my comment well, you will see that I didn't support her action neither did I support his action. The lady for reach out and discuss things instead of just disappearing. Plus the fact that you are lucky to earn good pay doesn't mean it's everybody's reality.
What he offered is it work visa? Can she use the year he spent in school plus the 2 years of post graduate visa to count for her ILR? Now wey sponsorship hard to find Naim person go waste that kind money for weyin no sure
Na mumu go pay that amount to go Finland if it's not a visa that would lead to residency.

004gist:
Anyone on dependant visa works unlimited. As at 2022 dependant slot was sold for 5m and above.

I believe the guy gave him a soft landing but she wanted to outsmart the guy.

Do u know that if u don't pass ur course u can't allow to stau back?

The guy struggled to pass and now she want to be tagged on the next visa for why?

Convert £18k to naira and tell me if it's same as #5million. Abeg let's call a spade a spade.
She contributed in the process from start till they got there. Gave him £2000 for support on school fees. Make she work till she die before he go know say £18 k is too much for her to pay?
Either she didn't know how hard she would have to work and save that £16k or she just agreed with him till she get what she wants. If he thinks she got off lightly, she can also pay him in kind by reporting him to the UK authority that he scammed his way into the UK.
They both effed up. He knew she was catching feelings for him, yet went ahead and saw her as business opportunity. Lol if a girl should receive a contract from an obvious admirer and later cries about him not wanting to continue with the deal cos she didn't play ball, shebi it's still the society that will ask her why she went ahead with the deal when she knew what he wanted after all?
I just believe they could have talked things over. The lady should explain her hardship in raising £16k and they resolve it some other way.
When she came with her £2k, he could have asked her to include half his school fees and continued with his life. Now that he kicked her out, what if she go ahead to report am?