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its no longer news today.. most relationships are not definite or defined.. they just "happen".. labeling or defining a relationship has been said to ruin it.. with labels come expectations which bring about disappointment and heartbreak... but even the "not-defined" relationships can also cause hurt if the other.partner just sees it as a fling while you have already developed feelings.. these are just my thoughts tho... share yours

this debate has probably re-occured a million times in history.. LOVE, LUST,SEX. some say they are the same... some say sex cant exist without love.. some say actual love cant be felt without sex.. while some on the other hand say lust (physical/sexual) attraction is same as love.. so whatz your say??

lool or yunywizzy lool the list goes on n on n on

marieolae: yh it could actually be mrcork. Or andyblaze? Lool who knows?

loool! or lirushen

maynation: hide

Ha Ha

maynation: u dont Ave a DP tho.

sooo??

@Op the girls on your list are really pretty buh some of the guys are NOT JUST IT AT ALL

lirusehn:
Blushing

JESUS YOU!!! on the list?!!

what's that?

!

terrimatix: I think you have too much time in your hand.

and why do u think so??

yea now.. dnt be mean ANDYBLAZE will definately be a horrible kisser with his usual upside down posts

so these many people are still awake??

loool wt did i do

well i think marieloe wld be a good kisser, lirushen would be horrible at evrything uhhh mr cork wld probably be a good kisser

i was thinking y'all seem to know each other reasonably well.. soo totally using your discretion or "(personal experiences)" who do u think would
a) good kisser
b) horrible kisser
c) have great sex
d) good pre-intimacy
e) horrible sex
sooo let the texting begin!!

this thread tho

;Dall the ladies in the house want the hand chopped off

cut your hand off, take some aspirin and sleep

kika23: Thank you!

you're welcome love

kika23: That should be part of it....

i know exactly how you feel.. i use to feel like dt b4.. buh den it struck me dt i was really just hurting myself.. instead of holding in n pretending to not care sooo much even when you do... just let it go and be totally in love

i just feel people shouldnt be scared of letting out their emotions because of fear or insecurity.. its better than just "assuming" your partner loves you back or that he sees you the way the you see him and at the end of the day u end up being unnecessarily hurt

djeezy: Very well then. Just out of curiosity, are you in that situation?

no dear am not

djeezy: lol.......perhaps. The thing is if he or she doesn't reply. You ask again, do you or do you not love me. At least know where you stand. Heartbreak isn't a new thing.

yea true.. its better this way

djeezy: okay he replies "baby I love you with all my heart" but his actions proves otherwise, would you still be okay?

of course not.. the actions and words should be in unison

kika23: I'm not sure why... Ego.. Maybe, not sure but its just hard!!

or its just really scary.. you feel like ure giving him total power if u say the words yeah?

marieolae: lool I think I will try dat

marie its better to be open about your feelings tho.. even if it hurts.. u'll def get over it

djeezy: Yea yea. Maybe you can say it this way. "I love you, talk your own"?

lool fear fear.. so that way, if he doesnt ansa u cn just cover up n call it a joke abi.. scam!

Ab025: @poster...u re very funny

is it compulsory u must be told "i luv u" simply becos u mentioned it to ur partner?

e even try wey e tell u thanks....not everyone xpresses their luv that way

rather, why cant u directly ask him the question in ur mind, as in, "i luv u, do u luv me....?"

be direct to the point...

what difference does it make if you say it or you ask it.. my point is hw wld u react if d reply is cold not methods of finding out if ur partner loves you