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if after mustering up all the courage you can.. tearing down all your walls.. putting your insecurity aside, you sincerely tell your partner " i love you' and instead a heart throbbing kiss and " i.love.you too" u are met with awkward slience.or a.sheepish "really? thanks".. what would you do??

Its better for him to tell me thanks than for him to look me in my eyes and tell me a unforgettable lie. You can't force someone to love you.

I even prefer been showed than just saying it. We don hear am tire jare

marieolae: Its better for him to tell me thanks than for him to look me in my eyes and tell me a unforgettable lie. You can't force someone to love you.

true true.. buh it wld hurt like crazy

tosingcfr: I even prefer been showed than just saying it. We don hear am tire jare

lol dtz why i earlier stated dt it's sincere

deneris: true true.. buh it wld hurt like crazy

yeah it would but you'll just have to get over it

is ''I love you" a question?

deneris: lol dtz why i earlier stated dt it's sincere

. But honestly, no big deal in saying the three words if truly you mean it. Why bottle up your feelings

djeezy: is ''I love you" a question?

lol you ehn!! But u understand what she's tryna say sha

djeezy: is ''I love you" a question?

true, buh evrybody wnts to love n be loved bk... no 1 wants a one-sided love

marieolae: lol you ehn!! But u understand what she's tryna say sha

Yes I do......lol, I didn't want to imagine the situation. its so awkward sha. I can't tell you I love you until I'm certain you love me too.

@ marie u know naira landers na.. they would want to prove that they are "nairalanders"

I don't say "I love you"

deneris: true, buh evrybody wnts to love n be loved bk... no 1 wants a one-sided love

If through his actions he proves his love for you but didn't reply you when you told him, would you still feel like it's unrequited?

djeezy: Yes I do......lol, I didn't want to imagine the situation. its so awkward sha. I can't tell you I love you until I'm certain you love me too.

ehen u want love too?? i thought u didnt mind... na after all its nt a question... *narrows eyes

djeezy: Yes I do......lol, I didn't want to imagine the situation. its so awkward sha. I can't tell you I love you until I'm certain you love me too.

yeah really, the thing Is so heart breaking

kika23: I don't say "I love you"

why

deneris: ehen u want love too?? i thought u didnt mind... na after all its nt a question... *narrows eyes

Yea in all the word dont matter when the action is res ipsa loquitor.

@poster...u re very funny

is it compulsory u must be told "i luv u" simply becos u mentioned it to ur partner?

e even try wey e tell u thanks....not everyone xpresses their luv that way

rather, why cant u directly ask him the question in ur mind, as in, "i luv u, do u luv me....?"

be direct to the point...

djeezy: If through his actions he proves his love for you but didn't reply you when you told him, would you still feel like it's unrequited?

no.matter how much u prove to me that u love me.. even if u move mountains for me.. deep down inside i would still hv an iota of doubt dt u do not totally love me... its natural

marieolae: yeah really, the thing Is so heart breaking

Yea yea. Maybe you can say it this way. "I love you, talk your own"?

Ab025: @poster...u re very funny

is it compulsory u must be told "i luv u" simply becos u mentioned it to ur partner?

e even try wey e tell u thanks....not everyone xpresses their luv that way

rather, why cant u directly ask him the question in ur mind, as in, "i luv u, do u luv me....?"

be direct to the point...

what difference does it make if you say it or you ask it.. my point is hw wld u react if d reply is cold not methods of finding out if ur partner loves you

djeezy: Yea yea. Maybe you can say it this way. "I love you, talk your own"?

lool I think I will try dat

djeezy: Yea yea. Maybe you can say it this way. "I love you, talk your own"?

lool fear fear.. so that way, if he doesnt ansa u cn just cover up n call it a joke abi.. scam!

deneris: no.matter how much u prove to me that u love me.. even if u move mountains for me.. deep down inside i would still hv an iota of doubt dt u do not totally love me... its natural

okay he replies "baby I love you with all my heart" but his actions proves otherwise, would you still be okay?

deneris: why

I'm not sure why... Ego.. Maybe, not sure but its just hard!!

marieolae: lool I think I will try dat

marie its better to be open about your feelings tho.. even if it hurts.. u'll def get over it

kika23: I'm not sure why... Ego.. Maybe, not sure but its just hard!!

or its just really scary.. you feel like ure giving him total power if u say the words yeah?

deneris: lool fear fear.. so that way, if he doesnt ansa u cn just cover up n call it a joke abi.. scam!

lol.......perhaps. The thing is if he or she doesn't reply. You ask again, do you or do you not love me. At least know where you stand. Heartbreak isn't a new thing.

djeezy: okay he replies "baby I love you with all my heart" but his actions proves otherwise, would you still be okay?

of course not.. the actions and words should be in unison

deneris: of course not.. the actions and words should be in unison

Very well then. Just out of curiosity, are you in that situation?

djeezy: lol.......perhaps. The thing is if he or she doesn't reply. You ask again, do you or do you not love me. At least know where you stand. Heartbreak isn't a new thing.

yea true.. its better this way