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American25:
Marriage is a personal decision one has to make. Jehovah Witnesses are NOT allowed to attend another church. It is an offense if caught. Marriage is for life. The only solution for remarriage is that of adultery or death of a spouse. Here is some scriptural facts as follows:

1Cor. 7: 39--Marry only in the Lord

This means that a baptized servant of Jehovah should marry a fellow worshiper. They study God's Word and do family study together. This strengthens the marriage and makes it easy to manage family problems. There is no compatibility if a Witness marries an unbeliever, be they church goers, Muslims, and idol worshipers. Because the two have antipodal or opposing beliefs and ways of life.

Gal. 6:4,5--Each one will carry his own load

We should not compare ourselves with the other person. Each one's circumstances differs. We should think before making decisions. Because our decisions can have beneficial or adverse results. And they may be irreversible. Whatever decision we make, we should be ready to live with it whether for good or bad.

Gal. 6:7--We reap what we sow

Some Witnesses have disobeyed Jehovah's laws and are reaping the sad results. With regard to marriage, I know Witnesses who married outside the organization for different reasons but who experienced things shocking to relate in their marriage. It means that there is "punishment" for anyone who disobeys Jehovah's laws.




PS. Any Nigerians or Americans who are Jehovah Witnesses in this forum that would like to share testimony?

PLS could u elaborate more specifically on the nature of the bad results u mentioned?
And what's "jehovah's law"? ( i mean is  there any law in the bible that states one shouldn't marry from other religion)-just curious-
i perceive u re a jehovah witness member coz u all sound similar and likewise give bible quotation that is not quite in sync or related to wateva u intend to prove-just curious to knw more like i said no offense intended-

rokiatu:
I think you are being a bit paranoid and should call her, ask her to be try with you if anything, to put you out of your misery.
I'm a girl and I know the game we play. There shouldn't be a dominant person in a relationship, both should be equal. Do not be
a dummy if not you backside will get burn in the process. Common LDRS is not easy, do not waste your time waiting for someone who is
not worth it. Could be that she is only using you, maybe she's using you as a back up relief. Someone she calls only when she get lonely/ needs someone to talk to. I could be wrong, but still be straight forward with her, tell her you need some answers.

Hmmmm, nw dats an honest dudette

I think i might need an ear plug and nose mask b4 getting hitched

Some things are so silly that they are not worth responding to.  Sorry but are u now in MOBO'S class of intelligence too?

The only thing i see being silly is your sick a$$ being dumped by a filipino and u come up here whining like a baby whose mouth  have been cut- off from the bosom of the mother
I don't speak for 'MOBO' and everyman has got his own level of intelligence i dont see him as a fool rather i think he's emotionally infuriated
other than the fact that he incessantly castigates black  women i dont think u're more intelligent than him.

wat is fine in aboki-like yansh

:O BOY SEE PIMPLE FOR YANSH CHEI DAM-BURUBA GASKIA 

C'mmon guyz i don't see any reasons to debate over this  

If a gurl logically refuse to update her status to "Engaged' on FB when she's already committed
i'll simply go right back and put mine boldly SINGE to make sure am not out of the game too
Afterwards we'll see who's gonna get a heart attack  for that to be mutually returned

Hmmm quite predictable
i knw wat am abt to write/say will hurt u bt it remains a fact

I could  still recall vividly when a guy here widely known as a clown 'MOBO44' advised u to give it up on the filipinos that they were international maids
well i guess all hell was let loose on him when he said that, Believe it or not he was right.
I didnt want to add a thing cos i'll probably tell u the same and that would make me appear sarcastic for those who dont understand
I've  got similar experience with a fellow nigerian dudes who undergo the same circular madness and later crumble or come to their senses
look at it this way, Mobo44 virtually detest Black women but on that  thread he gave u an advice that is worth a piece of his integrity ( by asking u to go back home and get a nigerian gurl )u shld have considered. No filipino could be as down-to-earth as a naija lady
well this is a good sign for u to knw she couldn't hack it

[s]Damn it , i wonder what gives some dudes the impression that filipinos are white. [/s]

what is wrong in being single ?

afterall if you marry na only you go dey pay house-rent,school fees,shopping,MR BIGGS and the list goes on~
she can never help u pay half
instead she go save the money or use am buy brazzilian wig of 200,000 naira

well on the other hand if she go pay all den i'll decline from singlehood

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@inked_nerd

I luv your response to the above questions,
wow! am impressed at the age of 21 i think u've learned alot and got  a very sound knowledge in regard to few positive post u've made to several threads on NL,
All the same wish u cld give me a chance to knw u more better
I understand hw protective u re about revealing your true identity on NL, me neither, i can assure u dat   i knw no one on NL merely got registered by june and only interested in fascinating topics
better still u can make it a platonic one with me thru YIM or FB

tanx

Rooneyboy:
oya start toasting ~ she has told u now that she's not shy . Oya we dey hear u .START . . . .

C'mmon u guyz are making this seem like a wedding ceremony
quit diverting the attention to us and carry on with your thread

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=508327.msg6701324#msg6701324 date=1283692424]come if u try am, i nor go hesitate to down u, i be merciless militant https://www.smileyshut.com/smileys/new/Battle/gunfight30.gif[/quote]hehehehe dnt start nothing wont be nothing
so be cool

Rooneyboy:
hope u r for real and caring ? i wouldnt want one Hot boi down the street to break an innocent girl's heart . @ inked_nerd, give this young man a chance .

Tanx mahn,only tym will tell and if i aint i guess my pics will be all over NL as the latest scam dude

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=508327.msg6700871#msg6700871 date=1283684838]passin tru~[/quote]hey dude stop snooping around i knw wat u re capable of doing
so dnt ruin dis for me otherwise i'll be hitting on ur omolola

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=508327.msg6699635#msg6699635 date=1283647932]Lucky you, I guess you got one of the good ones. Girl, please tell me where you found him so I can go get one.[/quote]Hmmm, all hope is not lost hw abt ur YIM ID OR FB?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=508880.msg6698169#msg6698169 date=1283627667]I'll be sure to be on the look out for guys like this next I come to Naija. I go slap am if they try it [/quote]wish to be the one to grab those hands

^^^ yeah dude dats wat am talking abt

someone to use as a defense

incase there's a criminal attack who wan die 1st

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=506132.msg6671961#msg6671961 date=1283255362]No offense but why do you care if I'm always online? If you must know, my account is permanently logged on. I can chose to log of if I want to. Why is it a big deal?

Didn't mean any disrespect gurl,
just kinda curious my apologies if i got u stirred-up[/quote]

@ Inked_Nerd

come, u dey work for MTN ?  
I guess dats one of the reason they made u VP coz u're alwayz online
even me self wey dey frequently and secretly do am from work no fit measure up to your duration

publisher:
@ Poster:
Most (not all) Edo girls prefer to marry two types of men, a. A very strong,intimidating,successful,dangerous man OR b. An extremely weak,less than average,laid-back man.

If you dont belong to either of the two, plsssssssssssssssssssssssss RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

Edo girls who prefer category A men belong to the school of thought which believes that if a man doesnt beat you that means he doesnt love you. They like men who can command them,take charge and cater 'fully' for her needs,especially financially and in bed. Even when such men cheat on them,these brand of Edo ladies will not disturb their guy,rather they'll deal with (seriously) their man's mistress!

Edo girls who prefer category B men are most times ex-love peddlers,ex-bad girls,ex-wives of category A men or husslers. They prefer weaker men most times cos they've not had much luck with 'hard guys'. These brand of Edo girls make very good wives to non-ambitious men,they takecare of their husbands and will even sleep with category A men in order to gain money or some kind of favours to be used for her hubby's well being. Problems only start when their 'mumu' husbands begins to 'soji' and starts to behave like category A men,the relationship crumbles almost immediately.

Having said that you could still locate a 'between the line' Edo girl,they are very rare though and i sincerely hope your present girlfriend is one of them.

Good luck son,

Damn! dis dude is Good.

This is quite astonishing, despite the fact that MOBO44 has been posting alot of crap abt nigerian women
i find 98% of wat he has written makes a whole damn sense although my own sisters are involved in this sort of classification but i see nothing wrong in calling a spade a spade and no matter hw long u gurls keep yapping out there deep inside u know its the truth to only those whom are participant with the act mention above.

However there are no place, home or country without flaws and amidst the defected we also have really really gud gud women that gives us little hope
the only way to move 4wd is to acknowledge the truth and retrieve our steps to eradicate this prolific act.

@ mobo44
dude u've got a whole bunch of stashed in grudge for our women
its tym u start focussing on the bright side of women perhaps they outweigh the bad ones
Dont 4get we the men ( so-called leaders and politicians ) are a contributing factor to most of the acts women portrays in our society.