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DenreleDave:
Stick to you ex... Let ur boyfriend marry another fresh babe jare... Ur pussy don tire am, he needs another fresh pussy...



Carry ur 3rd or 4th hand pussy back to ur exs... Let him keep. You as a consolation prize

my ex was the first to make attempt to disvirgin me and current boyfriend is the second guy I have dated so don't say sense

chrismex:
Dear I feel for you, because this is the hardest part been a lady, not to make the wrong choice.

My advice is try give your boyfriend trust. Watch him closely, you said his mum likes you, try to be close with the mum to help you caution him.

There is a saying that "A man knows where his heart belongs". I believe your boyfriend loves you that's why his open and transparent with you.but not withstanding you need to protect what is yours. Just give him some space give him trust. Don't let those ex get to your head because it will really mess your head up, try act like it's nothing don't bring any issues concerning the ex. then watch his attitude and actions towards you.


Don't be to hurry to rush back to your ex there was a reason you broke up in the first place, you really need wisdom here if not, you might mess up everything . Please still find someone close (mother or big sister). To share your problems

God help you make the best choice.

I don't have sisters but my mom is my best friend, I don't want to tell her..His mum and my mum want us to get married. My mum like him,they do communicate very well.

luckyedgal1:
Why did you contact your ex? what do you think will happen when your boy friend find out you r now dating your ex? when you know that he will propose anytime... if he knows about you are your ex you will find yourself to blame..
do you mean your ex dont have a babe? you want to use your own to spoil your ex babe abi is that what you want..

I contacted him because I felt, my boyfriend is taking my grated since he knows I love him more..

chrismex:
Dear I feel for you, because this is the hardest part been a lady, not to make the wrong choice.

My advice is try give your boyfriend trust. Watch him closely, you said his mum likes you, try to be close with the mum to help you caution him.

There is a saying that "A man knows where his heart belongs". I believe your boyfriend loves you that's why his open and transparent with you.but not withstanding you need to protect what is yours. Just give him some space give him trust. Don't let those ex get to your head because it will really mess your head up, try act like it's nothing don't bring any issues concerning the ex. then watch his attitude and actions towards you.


Don't be to hurry to rush back to your ex there was a reason you broke up in the first place, you really need wisdom here if not, you might mess up everything . Please still find someone close (mother or big sister). To share your problems

God help you make the best choice.

thanks for your advice..I broke up with him without no reason,he was my first boyfriend.. I was actually surprised he still loves me.

slimanyd:
Maliannn!!!!!!!!!! Gbeseeeeeee. Bar man , Give me one Juice there.


And to the op, let me tell you the blank truth no one will tell you. You would loose both guys at the Long run and you will start your boyfriend hunting afresh all over again and by that time ,you will have become an evening newspaper and laslas , You wont have any other option than become a baby mama . Think think . ronu e

I know that, I'm worried about that happening.

donbachi:
What if he borrowed or collected money from those his exs.and he's paying back.

No of them borrowed him money,they all call him for him and he is soft hearted.

SUPERPACK:
After reading all this nonsense lamentations, My only advice for you is, "You need a job"

lol... money is not the issue and my boyfriend knows that because I'm jack of trade and my parents takes care of me financially also.

SeverusSnape:
Confusion, That's what is doing you.

I'm really confused � don't know what have gotten myself into

Hello nairalander, good evening everyone.Have made things so complicated don't know what to do right now and I'm deeply troubled.
Last year, I was here asking for business suggestions for my boyfriend, thanks to everyone who gave me good business plans and some were saying he was going to change as soon as he starts making money, he is financially stable now and he takes care of me.
The problem I'm having with him is that he is still communicate and send his with his exs money although they are married, he always tells me he can't do anything with them because they are married, what about other way round? He told me his ex was was blaming him for making her getting married to her husband, apart from his exs so many other issues I'm scared of not now but in the future, that he might get married to another woman or have other children.
Six months ago we had some issues because of his exs Who is not married,I stopped talking to him but he called my mum and explain things to her, my mum settled us, but he still communicate with her. Whenever I complain about them, he always tells me all his exs and female friends knows I'm his girlfriend and that he his ready to get married but he his waiting for me which is true, because I'm still in school.
Two months ago, he said giving me attitude,he doesn't even have my time, we don't talk like we used to even if I call he always tell me he is busy and whenever I call at night he is on another call, that's the time we usually talk at night. I couldn't busy so I told him how I feeling, his response was " the reason I call you most time is because that's my responsibility as a boyfriend not because I missed you" I was angry and I ended the call, although he was trying to apologize, he called back I didn't pick his call, although. After two days I spent him a breakup msg in the morning, he didn't reply or called. Later that evening, I regretted sending him that msg, so sent him apology messages he didn't returned, although my mom settled the two of us again.
He traveled to our hometown for a friend's wedding and also because of his house project too. He told me is mom and my mom asked him when we are getting married. His mum like me so much and she has given advice on how to cope with his son.
We have been dating for almost three years now I have never cheated on him..
The problem now is that during the period that he was giving me attitude, I sent my ex apology msg last week which he accepted after three years breakup,I'm currently dating my ex though it's just a week,My exs love me more than I love but I love my boyfriend more than he love me.
My exs is very caring and he haven't changed a bit though he is broke, I don't know if he is going to cheat on me when he starts making money.
My boyfriend isn't really give me attention but he gives me money, I found out he is cheating on me with other girls, though he always tells me even if he wants to cheat he won't do it to my face. My boyfriend might propose anytime soon, I don't want to hurt my ex again.Im worried of getting getting married to my boyfriend because he might become someone else after marriage. Now my boyfriend seems to be more caring.
Should I stick to my boyfriend or my ex who loves me?
How do I handle the issue at hand now?

Gaspardd:
Redeem or catholic?
Most likely redeem, that church does so many meaniless things

why redeem? there are so many churches why most you choose to mention redeem?

He called me and he has been begging me to forgive him..He said he was very angry with me the day I left him and his friend..that his friend was amazed that he doesn't have control over me. Although his brother told me that he could have said those words out of anger that the relationship was over. he never told me it was over between the both of us,i was the one who told him bcus of what his brother told me. I don't know if I should forgive him or just move on with my life...the truth is I still love him and he knows I do love him. am really confused

Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word.the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much

milemimi93:
Lil leech go finger yourself

I think that's what you're good at,Fingering lil leeches... that's why you so unlucky...change your ways and get good Luck Fool

greggng:
Is a good idea but he should support it with business like car selling.....I can teach him how to start it without capital but it will cost him 45k. But his testimony will overwhelm him.

Without capital??

milemimi93:
You are a cheap slu.t

Go get a life...I can't waste my time exchanging words with you,because I can't stoop too low for that

abbeyfel:
Instead of wanting him to do what you think is good, why not ask for what he likes doing. Where is passion lies. You can then give him all the support you can as this will mean a lot to him...

Is just a suggestion..am not forcing him or trying to push him into doing what I want.Is just a suggestion

Megaflex:
Bros which girl do you this kind thing? Why are you generalizing all females as whores? You must really be hurt men. Jst try to relax. You'll be alright

please tell that unlucky fellow.

milemimi93:
FAKE!!! FAKE!!! FAKE!!!

Because naija girls have been bashed lately on this platform and are tagged *Leeches, Cheaters and Good For Sex Objects* you came up here to paint a picture of a good girl. Excpt you are not a Nigerian girl that I would believe this. Cause I know una. No naija girl will want to date a recharge card boy.

You wanna claim supportive girlfriend when we all know who y'all females are. Bunch of leeches and unfaithful b!tches..

B!tch go and finger yourself. You are a leech. All y'all naija girls are leeches and written_off.

milemimi93:
FAKE!!! FAKE!!! FAKE!!!

Because naija girls have been bashed lately on this platform and are tagged *Leeches, Cheaters and Good For Sex Objects* you came up here to paint a picture of a good girl. Excpt you are not a Nigerian girl that I would believe this. Cause I know una. No naija girl will want to date a recharge card boy.

You wanna claim supportive girlfriend when we all know who y'all females are. Bunch of leeches and unfaithful b!tches..

B!tch go and finger yourself. You are a leech. All y'all naija girls are leeches and written_off.

Lol what makes you think I just cook up this? Am different from the ones you've met. so stop making fool of yourself...you are just too unlucky that is why you end up with leeches..pathetic gay

Zedoo:
run.... such a person that looks down on some businesses dsnt know the value of money but just wants to have it...
I can promise you that as soon as he starts touching money, the whores will blot you out in their hoardes. He is more concerned with what people think and 'levels' ..and time will come when you will be too low for his standard WHEN he eventually gets as rich as he feels he should be....

He is not that kind of guy..we have come a long away together.. so he is not going to change.

TheKabal:
Recharge card printing , my dear people shop online. Always go for a sustainable business, and it must be tightly supported by government policies.

Recharge card printing, betting and the likes have no protection from the government or laws, so it is not a sustainable business.

Even if you had 1000 naira only. I would rather advice you to use the cash to research government policies and see if anything commercial activity the government is protecting will catch his fancy. Remember having interest in the business is paramount, you cannot solve business challenges if your only doing it for cash. There has to be some sort of pleasure or self actualization in the game

He can start by looking at : exports, mostly agricultural products. or look at investing in farms. Nigeria has the AGOA with the united states, and other trade treaties with other countries. he can start from there.

He should not run faster than his shadow, in any government protected industry he decides to invest in, he should be willing to attain mastery at it, and he can only do that by reading and researching about the products or services. Big business pay consultants to do that for them, but since he is starting he need to do it himself and develop the habit of seeking for answers in books, journals, business sections of newspapers, and also ask questions.

Do not invest in a roadside business, think longterm and always ride on the governments policies, that is a surest way to overnight success. I cannot stress that enough, Dangote, has given Nigerians this secret over and over again; government policies are the key to sustainable wealth.

Also first thing tomorrow, he should go to the Lagos chamber of commerce if he is Lagos. If he is not, he should consider visiting Lagos for that. He should always be in a search for information. Nigerian business practices are changing, with the current government, if he is one of the pessimist, he should dust the scales of his eyes and sit down, and dig through the data, in search of patterns.

He should also protect his name with his life. No shady deals

And while he is thinking of what business to start he should lock the money down in a fixed deposit or treasury bill for atleast 3 months. Till he is sure of what to do. I repeat,stay away from any business the government is not protecting.

Thanks a lot

Fidelarinze9:
Is your boyfriend a dummy or what? There is some disrespect in the way you talk about him.

Excuse me!! if you don't have anything good to say just shut up and stop saying nonsense... what do you mean by calling my boyfriend a dummy?.you better respect yourself please.

Avedonn:
I suggest he start animal fattening since he resides in the north where animals are cheap.

He can purchase malnourished goat or ram and rear them for 2 months and sell them off.

Malnourished goat would be around N6000 and he'll sell at N12000 after two months.

While ram cost about N15-18,000 at present and sell them during Moslem ilaiya period for N40- 50,000. The sallah would come up around August I guess.

40 malnourished goat will cost N240,000
Selling price after two months of fattening that's N12,000 × 40 = N480,000

*Note: the selling price may be more than N12,000

While for Ram, N18,000× 15= N270,000

Selling price N40,000× 15= N600,000 in two months time.

Since he resides in Abuja, he can purchase the livestock at any of the neighboring villages or Niger state.

You are indeed a woman of substance because it hard to come across a lady willing to support her boyfriend just like how you are doing.

If you he prefer cash crop business, let me know so that I'll give you the breakdown and the processes.

Thank you very much...I really buy this idea.
But getting land in Abuja where he will rear this animals is it expensive? or thing am considering is that he is just living in Abuja for the main time he is not planning on settling there.

The money he has is 300k..he thought about opening a bet shop,but because of the nature of his job,he said he wants my younger brother to run it but I declined..I suggested he should set up a business that he can run by himself for sometime before employing someone to work for him..to enable himself know more about the business to fraud.

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Try opening a bet shop. But if your religious beliefs don't permit it, he can venture into animal husbandry if he is the "I can do anything" kind of person. I suggested animal husbandry because it is somewhat tax free. Government won't disturb you guys with levies. Unlike opening shops or having a registered company for a start.

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Thank you very much...
He has interest in animal husbandry but he is far away from home..starting up Animal husbandry in Abjua will be very expensive.other thing is that I want him to be fully in charge he any business he is going to do instead of getting his siblings involved.

GraveMan:
he should start yahoo boy business...if he wants to get rich over night

Yahoo is out of the line

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Please dream big for your Bf. Come up with other ideas abi na only recharge card business dey?

Brainstorm with him please.

I know there are other business... but with what he has now. you can still tell me the ones u know.

Good afternoon nairalanders...I was discussing with my boyfriend about setting up a business, with what he has,I suggested he should go for recharge card business.he should buy the machine needed for printing recharge card.He said,he cannot do that kind of business.To me I think there is money in that business.
what do you people think about recharge card business.

Nobodys:
hmm...... feel free...one important way to know if you are pregnant is through the nipples......check them like a week after ur menstrual flow when ur baby is balanced......

..do they hurt? can u squeeze it without feeling any pains? do u feel a heavy lump in ur breast...try jumping without a bra...does it seem impossible cause of pain and weird heaviness??

Your areola .the dark circle around ur nipple...are they darker? shinny and maybe much wider?.... do u feel seed like stuffs around that area?........

After this, try a blood test.....check if you feel abnormal,if you get weird discharges ...

If your answers are No... dear You are not pregnant....buh if ur breast really hurts biko don't
ignore that sign....best of luck....

I do feel pains in my nipple and there is also a lump in just the right part of my breast... the other thing is that have be feeling this pain for more than months now and I have gone to see a doctor,I did breast scan the Doctor said I should come back next month,the didn't say anything like pregnancy.

Thank you all so much..this has really been eating me up for sometime now.have done the urine test more than two times,the result is always negative.

thorpido:
You have or haven't?
Anyway go to a hospital or lab where your blood sample will be taken for a test.

I haven't missed my period,am also seeing my period now it started today

yes I had unprotected sex two months ago and since then I have been seeing my period and my period just started today.

thorpido:
Have you missed your period?
If so,go to the hospital/lab and do a BLOOD pregnancy test.


Feelings are nothing!

No I have missed my period, the reason am scared is that the color of the blood and for two months now I seen that thick cloth during menstruation