im am now a 26 year old female. when i lost my virginity i was 13. with someone who i thought i was ihn love with. I regret not waiting! bu life goes on. the guy i had lost mine to was a couplke years older and def not a virgin himself! i had lied and told him i wasnt because i thought he would someone who knew what they were doing and not a first timer. But anyway we had started by pre-intimacy and he inserted one finger then two. i wonder to this day if he could tell i was a virgin my using just his fingers. then he slowly started to enter me with his penis. i remember it was quite hard to get in. very hard actualy( he was a biggger size then average, like 9 inches long and quite thick ) i remember after he tried slowly a couple times he asked me if i was ok, i said yes. he then said im going to have push a little harder .. i agreed. then i remember this painful burning sensation im guessing thats when he started t break my hymen ring, that was only the head of the penis that made it painful when he entered the rest of the way the burnin hot feeling got worse. when we were done i remember getting up from the couch and seen blood all over his white couch not too much but enough to startle him. he then asked me " were you a virgin" i admitted that i was. he flipped the couch cusion then w watched a movie and walked me home. so yes some virgins bleed while other dont. my partner had a big penis causing me to bleed.