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This op needs some evaluation.

Omotola is simply amazing. Everything always fits.
Tolu Oniru muaaaah!

TheCongo:
While I don't agree with the marriage cancellation given that nothing indicates the OP had opened up to her fiance regarding her frustration, I strongly disagree with the bolded. You don't marry someone expecting that they would change with prayers. You don't get into a relationship to change a person. What if they don't want to change ? That is going to be another recipe for disaster.

oh you misunderstood me. Remember I said that its her cross to carry, that is because I know that you don't enter a relationship to change a person. Again, I said prayers may change the person which is actually true.

shymexx:
at least they don't run from water like other folks

could you please explain this?

Lol this is disturbing honestly. But you said he still made some contributions right? All I would say is, since you have gotten to the marriage preparations stage, it would be absurd to cancel a wedding because you now suddenly know that he is somewhat stingy. I think that is your cross to carry in the marriage, and with prayers that he may change. He is God fearing and all you said, that is his own lapse, he can't be very perfect. It is welli o.

Mprex:
Op sorry oh! You are paying the price for another lady's action
but like someone said earlier, try to meet your man's father. He will be in a better position to fix this delima.



Wish you the best

the bold is so true. Kinda unfortunate sha.
Op I think too that meeting the man's dad is best. If he changes his stance, he could influence his wife too.

major466:
Love is commitment to care for anyone without expecting anything in return.
Remember the bible say: Love your enemies as yourself and do good to them. This is a pointer to the fact that Love is not based on feelings but action.
Good write up. Though I don't agree with the last paragraph.

haa this to me is not completely true o. Are you trying to define agape love?- the love of God which cannot be returned in a way that matches.
If its eros- the romantic love, that one has to be requited o. It has to be returned and its not bad to expect a return in this case. Tenku.

Lool, have you been close friends before the incident? If its no, you could be lucky sha.

hmm, its not a good thing if he lies that frequently, right! But did you try to find out why he does? Its okay to make him know that you know he does lie most times and that he should stop. Its some peoples weakness, lies slip off their mouths like nobody's business. You can be of help to him. I don't think it means he doesn't respect you.

Awww, you could be just one extra pm away to your response before you did this. Why did you stop trying?

Sheuns:
Guessing u will make a good wife and loving mother
Guessing u will make a good wife and loving mother

oh its a guess.
So you could be wrong.

okzcorp:
An evidence of marital status will suffice, else you will b mine.

hehe. the evidence lies in the heart. Our hearts. My hubby and I.

GuyFawkes:
Oui mademoiselle

Bon!

Cancerian

well I had a course mate who got married in year three. She coped, although with the understanding of the lecturers. She even had a baby in the final year. If there is a reason that puts the lady under any necessary pressure to do so, then she should go ahead. This could mostly likely be that her man is well established and isn't willing to wait or see another man take her love in school.

GuyFawkes:
Since when did Kwara become Ilorin
The fulanis captured a city in present day Kwara state and the yanm1ris are still salivating
An igbomina man is the governor put on the seat by a fellow yoruba man.

Who rules the state?

Are you Yoruba?

okzcorp:
I wanted only you, are you willing?

you wanted? but now you want us all?
which self? anyways me I am a married woman o.

Taiye4Christ:
Welcome ma.


“Neoner“ ain‘t bad at all...
just stumbled on it last night and very cooooool
#following

Wow I knew that was where you got that. thanks much

okzcorp:
[b][/b]

Indi Amin said so, and I have verified it. Destante, honipet, marvellousGod et al.
Will be mine before this thread gets to 7th page.

this one na real wa!
all of us for only you?

Lol looks like it is getting a bit interesting.

okzcorp:
Let him Speak for himself just like three7 did.

He can only ban the acct not the heart, what the heart desires, it gets.

If he finally speaks for himself, am afraid I can't let you both empty my wantlist, so I will want you two.

Then give Lero15 one for being there for me.

Loool. This is a nicee composition. I like.
Im not sure about him not being able to ban a heart sha. Well Over to him then.

Emmysteve:
Shut up there. People like you would do worse than tha

Huh?
Is this one high on coke?
I answered a question honestly and you say I should shut what? Did I justify anyone? Swerve puhlease.

okzcorp:
One down, I needed you to clear the air for her matter.

So I got just destante for my wantlist. Tolutweety start work.

Lol who do we have here.
You know Davide470 can ban you right?

Taiye4Christ:
Congrats!

Tenku sir

sorry but anything that has been gifted is no longer yours. pele

Your life partner says to you: "Honey, there are
so may homeless, orphans, we don't need to
have any children of our own, let's just adopt."
Would you agree? Or would you end it?

1. Saying “I know” too much.
2. Dishing the dirt
3. Failing to acknowledge the top dogs.
4. Being rude with technology.
5. Showing up with orange hair.
6. Not writing things down.
7. Not hitting your marks.
8. Turning down happy hour.
9. Talking too much about past successes.
10. Failing to make eye contact and smile.

Full discussion here: http://quickbase.intuit.com/blog/2013/07/01/10-of-the-biggest-mistakes-made-by-new-employees/

MissMeiya:
Thirst.

lool. spot on!

omg!
the funniest is the transformation into Miley.
dude looks like a timid version.

naijaboiy:
how about naijabo.iy...

Does it predict anything of that kind

okies yours doesnt actually. More like a man that is "all over"

AgapeCharis:
and u couldn't predict mine

Lol ionno o.

I suppose you are a Yoruba man nau.
Your mum couldn't have slapped you literally now.
she said that to just show her authority that is still over you.
in my opinion, just talk her into not getting annoyed with you again. I can't say apologise because you haven't said much wrong too.