₦airaland Forum

jboy73:
vote for me.

no. Pele.

jboy73:
ur pic fine no be small.

tenk

SirShymex:
The black woman lost the nucleus of her blackness froma cultural perspective, when she decided to emulate an Eurocentric ideology that doesn't cater to people of colour. Hence the first group black women who got caught up in the matrix, had to fall back after a while cos they discovered that we as black are more family-oriented from a cultural perspective. And equality is a pipe-dream, since we all can never be equal. Heck, even all fingers aren't equal...and there's no perfect society out there where people are equal. A lot of things are still race/class based, and that's how it's always going to be. Black women have it good, trust me. They just need to continue to be a support system, and stop being rebellious.

You can create an utopian society in your head, but the real world is the real world. And supreme minds deal with the real world, not jejune tales. Now that you've got a situation whereby these women are leading their lives on pipe-dreams, you just have to adapt, to maintain control. And that's the crossroad we're at right now.

Black women stopped blazing any trail, after they decided to become anything but black. You can't be a trailblazer, if you're a follower, and not unique and creative. Heck, I'm trying to think of any black woman that has broken new grounds by achieving something ground-breaking in the last 20 years - can you please help me out cos I can't remember any?

LOL. All these for black women? Dunno where to even start from.
See shymexx, it will be difficult for me to pick on any of your points as they are mostly generalized statements. The fundamental thing is not all women are belligerent. Not all women are insubordinate. Not all women are antagonists to the male folks. This still will not change the underlying fact that black women can be strong and supportive. Okay? Tenk.

she doesn't want sexx nooni. simple.

kirikiristars:
Because we get plenty customers to attend to.

jboy73:
Bleep her till she becomes adultish

waawu!

SirShymex:
Lol, each one, teach one. And perhaps, you'll be a catalyst to change this angry black woman syndrome that's rife everywhere now.

The black man never changes nor complains - he just adapts to whatever life throws at him.

That's why he's still out here surviving and breaking new grounds. And Nigeria has the highest population of black men on the planet.


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So the black woman is extinct and docile? Not blazing any trail and doesn't endure the quagmire she finds herself a times? And the plethora of derogatory remarks hurled at her by her male counterparts. Nigerian women don't also make up the largest of black women on earth's surface? Go on...

SirShymex:
These women are utterly disrespectful!

Women need to start acting like women, not trannys with willies.

sheesh! trannys with willies? **sigh
I give up.

your last question should have been "what is wrong with me?"
mehn..you just met a girl and you went collecting the contact of a new friend's friend. how na.

vizkiz:
Don't you like it?

its not bad, just that coloured fonts are a bit distracting jor.

kilokeys:
@destante .. d internet and qwerty pad is too slow and inaccurate in describing who i am in real life.
whatever u think i am.. know i am 10X better.

haha wash jor.

SirShymex:
But all I see on NL are disrespectful women, with big mouths. And there's absolutely nothing strong about these women folk, apart from spouting fantasies out of Alice the Wonderland, attaching importance to the most ridiculous things, and saying a lot without actually saying anything.

Gosh honestly my mind went to you first. All you see on nl are disrespectful women..... Really? shymex really? Puhlease get this ill-conceived view over with already. You need to.

kirikiristars:
You made him your priority, cook, wash and give him money yet he never appreciates.....
Sweetheart what are you doing with someone that sees and treats you like an option

very good question
op there is a link between how he doesn't appreciate you and whether he would forgive you. It would be easy for someone who appreciates you to forgive you over that na.

tosyne2much:
yippppppeeeeeee despite the female bashing? Haaaaaaa thank u oooooo. ** covers face in shame **

Lol smh4u

vizkiz:
Swirry, my fonts are readable

for you, I referred to the blue font

strong women and disrespectful women are two different things. a woman can be strong and respectful. Nigerian men especially nairaland men have problems with diferenciating. I guess that's why they bash ladies on here like nobody's business.

tosyne2much:
destante, it's simply because I prefer to be embarrassed and bashed by the male folk, but when a lady bashes me, I touches my bone that's why I'm kind harsh

Hope say I don answer ur kweshion well sha ?

I see. But no normal lady would suddenly start bashing a guy that is nicee to them except you were rude first. Isokay sha. Saw your mention too, and you have my humble vote for the contest.

Three7Ty9:
I know. I'm taking my convo outta here.

Okies then take it out

Three7Ty9:
Lol, is that the japanese way of saying hi?

its still English nau.

kilokeys are you as clownish as you are here offline too or you are just that timid man that uses internet to voice what you can't in real life?

valmunich do you always get on with pot in real life as you do on almost all threads.

mizmycoli you appear to know so much. where do you learn all those things from?

tosynetoomuch rentedreality and some other men, why do you all come as somewhat rude to some ladies in the hope that you don't want to be seen as woman-wrappering.?

vizkiz iceberylyn why do you always type in blue and unreadable fonts respectively?

thats all I can remember for now

Three7Ty9:
Destante!

hiya!

kirikiristars:
I play destante, kachis and your VN almost every day.


Mehn!!!! Una voice no be here oooo

loool. Good you are back sha.

its hard to disrespect someone you like simply because they asked for money when they sincerely needed it na. If they don't make it a habit

andysnoopy:
Watch Mumu Africans now... them go begin follow her dey wear Ankanra +Long sleeve

you would be surprised. But if it looks good, its not a bad thing na. Its sha someone that started all the trends that are in vogue now.

in Ankara fabric. cute.

tobloj:
I've got packs... please vote for www.nairaland.com/boombay

post the pictures of the packs na

kirikiristars:
Hahahhahahahahahahahhaha I missed you and my guy valmunich, I owe him a bottle of drink though.
I planned not to come back but you guys VN and mentions brought me back . Sorry I won't go away again

Awwwn you read and listened to all that.
welcome back dear
this your new moniker sha, what inspired it ?

if church wedding is around the corner, wait na.

kirikiristars:
Come closer let me whisper to your ears only ○○○○Dat friend u miss so much dat takes you around all threads shhhhhh○○○○

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!! babes I missed you.
where have you been?
copy: valmunich

kirikiristars:
How are you my friend.

hello. who do I have here pls?

shidoshi:
Op is funny and untruthful.
Who deports a traveller without cancellation from the POE. I wonder what op meant by "you can only be deported wen u in the territory " maybe he doesn't know the issuing country can still cancel visa from even the WAiting room right der in the airport! !!!!

right!

SirShymex:
Huh?

Why are these "modern" African women interested in bride price, when progressive women in the west, don't do that shiit?

buying a wife in 2014, especially a bearded one? - smh.

I haven't said anything yet about buying or not buying a wife. I only said your joke was a wicked one

.

dimples2:
I won't na! He is supposed to be my brother

oh I see. lol