₦airaland Forum

Gbogboski:
For the records, most of the prisoners are held for visa overstay. They were our young men that japad to the wrong destination.

We have an epidemic of young Nigerians that wants to leave the country by fire by force, while at it, they should do a proper research of their japa destinations. There are a lot of shit hole countries out there.

ZaddyJ:
When u send her to death what will now be the fate of the notorious repentant boko haram ex fighters?
Na why I leave the country in the first place.

Zonefree:
Same sentence should be extended to the actual terrorists rather than the 'rehabilitation and reintegration' program.

Chachalogo:
How is Tinubu able to sleep every night?

Ezeama400:
I thought the Gov said that this man has been eliminated?

ElSudani:
He is clueless. There's no on the job training for the president. You either know what the problems are or you don't.
You heard him, he doesn't know.

Ekitiolofofo:
Are you sure the caterer is not n APC member?

brain54:
I'm a man and personally if I block a girl I'm dating from entering my home...


It means I do not love or value her. I don't even respect her. Simple.



There is a way I would convey my feelings to her if I'm unsatisfied about her sudden appearance. They are ways to handle such... respectfully.


People think differently I agree. But if I stand at my door and prevent you from entering just know that it's time for you to move on even if I haven't told you so orally.


It's even difficult for me to threat someone I'm not dating that way!

datola:
Time to reward loyal allies!

phemmie06:
How I wish everyone will reflect on this, both who believe religion is a crime or scam and those who don't.

One day everyone will leave this would but the question is where will you open your eyes after death?

Where will you spend eternity?

Even let's put eternity aside, will people be glad seeing your children, wife, husband etc based on what you did before leaving this world?

BarrElChapo:
See her thieving eyes shining 😒

samsegs:
But he wont live forever naaa...

slivertongue:
The north has pressing issues and discussing a mosque's demolition shouldn't be a priority.

mecuries:
Was the teacher also employed as a barber?

shortgun:
Same way Tinubu used tribalism to divide the country. I see no difference between shekau and Tinubu.
Nigeria will never be the same again after Tinubu. The damage he has done will take more than 600 years to correct

femi4:
Vdm day just dey break....always looking for content..abeg rest, this is stale

thinkmoney:
Where you see AK47 for these ones?

AdisGlobal01:
SHE_NEEDS_YOUR_ADVICE

My wedding was scheduled for March this year, but everything changed after my fiancé's father passed away unexpectedly in November.

His funeral was held just three weeks later, in December. I genuinely wanted to attend, but there was one major problem: my employer had a strict policy against granting leave during the December holiday period. When I accepted the job, this condition was clearly stated. Despite explaining my situation and pleading for an exception, my request was denied.

I informed my fiancé immediately. At first, he appeared understanding. I even contributed financially to support the funeral arrangements.

Then his mother called.

She told me that if I truly wanted to become part of their family, I had to be physically present at her husband's funeral. I tried explaining my circumstances, but she ended the call before I could finish.

When I called my fiancé afterward, I expected him to stand by me. Instead, he asked:

"If it were your own father, wouldn't you find a way to attend?"

I explained that the situations were different because my employer might make an exception if it were my immediate family member.

That was when he dropped the bombshell:

"No presence. No wedding."

I thought grief was speaking. I thought time would calm him down.

I was wrong.

The wedding was officially cancelled.

My family tried everything to reconcile the situation, but his family refused every attempt. Eventually, my father advised me to accept the loss and move forward with my life.

It broke me, but I did.

Months passed.

Then, on May 20th, my ex-fiancé called me.

What he said left me speechless.

According to him, I had failed the test of being a good wife because I stopped trying to convince his family after the wedding was cancelled. He said a "real wife" would have kept begging until she was accepted.

Then he announced that he had "forgiven" me.

Not only that, he had already chosen a new wedding date in August and expected me to start preparing immediately.

As if the breakup had never happened.

As if my feelings didn't matter.

As if he alone had the authority to decide when a relationship ends—and when it resumes.

Without hesitation, I told him I was no longer interested.

His response shocked me even more.

He said:

"I'm not done. You don't have the right to be done."

I blocked his number immediately.

But that wasn't the end.

A few days later, he appeared at my father's house carrying the bride price and all the marriage items he had previously rejected.

My father told him clearly:

"My daughter has moved on. As far as this family is concerned, she is no longer available."

Still, he refused to accept it.

Since then, he and his mother have continued calling, visiting, and pressuring both me and my family despite my repeated refusal.

Now I'm beginning to wonder:

Is this really about love, or is there something deeper behind their sudden determination?

What troubles me most is the mindset that someone can cancel a wedding, disappear for months, return when it suits them, and expect another person to simply obey.

I am now considering legal action because the constant calls, visits, and refusal to respect my decision are becoming disturbing.

My question is:

If someone ends a relationship, then later decides to "forgive" you and resume the wedding without your consent, would you see that as love... or as a dangerous sense of entitlement?

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

Btruth:
I don't know if we still have the immigrations in this country again self? Why are all our boarders so porous? .....but thorough investigation should be done though. Because these ones look innocent to me, except deadly weapons were found with them. They look to me like they want survival ☹️

Apcshit:
They are into network marketing. Free thrm abeg

Mitsurugi:
They wanted to join the brisk booming bizness in Naijeriya

thinkmoney:
There is a serious illiteracy issue in Nigeria, and it affects the way we see problems and the way we proffer solutions.

Many of the people being arrested by communities in Lagos, especially the ones in Ikorodu today, are not Fulanis or bandits as they have been tagged. In interrogation, you will hear most of them say they are from Sudan. The ones from Sudan are most likely not Fulani because the Fula ethnic group is not a major ethnic group in Sudan and South Sudan. We have the Dinka, Nuba, Arab Sudanese, etc., as some of the major ethnic groups there.

The ones from Chad may very well be Fulanis or even Hausas. These two tribes are many in Chad. You can even tell from their physical features.

Many of these men that are being arrested in Lagos, at the back of the recent surge in kidnappings in the southwest, may very well be just immigrants. One will not blame the locals much, because everyone’s nervous now.

However, if Nigeria had been a largely educated country, many of these problems would have been averted. Thankfully, the communities have shown, at the least, that they are civil and we haven’t heard of lynchings.

Mitsurugi:
They wanted to join the brisk booming bizness in Naijeriya

Rapmoney:
A woman was paraded yesterday at Ikom-Obudu Road, Cross Rivers State for using her poo to fry Akara that she sells to people. Trust Nigerians. They showed her a little bit of love and affection.

See the video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQCbYNiULjQ

Source: WarriParrot

UncleAyo:
They are commanded to convert the whole world through the sword but Islam is failing already. The Internet will be the end of Islam.

They have lied for so long due to followers' ignorance and the translation difficulty, but the truth of their idolatory religion of stone worship is getting exposed day after day now.
A fool says in his heart, there's no God.

It is only a matter of time.

Zoroastrianism was once a very popular religion (Abrahamic religion got their concept of heaven and hell from that religion), where is it today? Other religion are gone too and Islam is a no difference.


All these fake imported religions have destroyed the normal mental processes of a lot of our people.

If you are following any of the two religion, you should know for fact that:

There is no heaven, there is no hell, there is no God (or god), there is no Allah, there are no angels, there are no demons, there are no spirits, there is no life after death, juju don't work, there is no eternal judgment, there is no karma, there was no historical Jesus. All those are figment of human imaginations and tools use by a very few some to control the very many others. The earlier you understand and accept these facts as facts, the happier and merrier your life and existence will be.

The religion you're currently claiming is the religion of your parents, if you were born into a different family of another religion (say Hinduism), that is the exact religion you will practice.

You were born without a religion in you, your factory reset has no religion in it. If you were to be a phone and they do factory reset on you today being a phone, there will not be anything found related to religion in your settings, files and file systems anymore; you learn religion only after your birth growing up.


Islam is idolatry and paganism, Christianity aswell is idolatry - All the world religion is idolatry, including all the Abrahamic religion. Holy communion is idolatory, bowing for a stone call Kaaba of the Bedouin tribes is also idolatory, killing of rams is idolatory, kissing or licking of a stone at mecca is idolatory, throwing of stone at pilgrimage is idolatory too.

Infact, Illah is what the Arabic call God and not Allah. Allah was one of the diety been worshiped before the invention of Islam. That is why muslims will say something like "la ilah ila huwa" meaning Allah is one Illah (God). Have you ask yourself why Prophet Mohammed's father who was an idol worshiper and who lived before the invention of islam has Allah in is name Abdullai== Abdu Allah? It is because Allah has been an idol worshiped by paganists before the Prophet received his revelations.

Nakedly circumambulations of the Kaaba, annual prigrimage to mecca, kissing of black stone, bowing towards the stone (stone worship) are all preislamic pagan practises by the nomadic Bedouin tribe and the same is what they still practice today.

All Abrahamic religion are idolatory, they only package them well and condemn your heritage as evil, whereas, Nigeria was better in terms of morality, honesty and integrity before they brought the foreign religions.

In peace loving, emotional intelligence, love for neighbors, respect for sanctity of life, we are even better than those who brought those religion with primitive leaders and prophets whose morality and characters are highly questionable.


Release yourself today from the shackles of religion. Stop wasting away your life and existence!

If you like, allow one illiterate alfa, imam or pastor to keep telling you "you will go to hell". When you die, your dead experience will be like the same experience you had before your conception (pregnancy) ie. There is nothing like afterlife. Or where were you before your mother gave birth to you?

Noneroone:
yes, it is one of their demands.