₦airaland Forum

Sibrah:
Prayer is better if not best among many options available to the masses but political awareness cannot be subsituted with prayers. We need more than prayers ooo.
Nice step though.

mrkings84:
And unfortunately that's the headquarters of consumers of spoiled tomatoes, and the whole owambe nation

SafariHunter:
Down here them dey sundry am oo.


Does that rid it of toxins ??

owiko:
May their innocent children return safe and sound. But I doubt if this incident would deter them from voting along religious or ethnic lines.

Nice2023:
If u fear God u will call them out.

Jesus was not afraid when he rebuked the Devil. And from what is happening in Nigeria today,some of these pastors are the mundane devil in our midst.

Last week alone,two pastors were arrested for raping under age girls and does not mean they are working for God or the devil.

People like u are the reasons why Christianity is housing criminals because many u are shielding those who should be in prison.


Jesus rebuked his disciples in shocking and uncomfortable ways.

Shame on u.

lecowas:
This matter go go far o, that guy is courageous but he is risking his life, I fear police offers pass armed robbers! Nice one!

SpencerForbes:
Nigeria has been damaged almost beyond repair because of past mistakes, and currently, I don’t see any viable candidate on the horizon. Peter Obi is far too soft for the presidency; he lacks the political grit and would likely be intimidated when facing powerful figures like Lamido Sanusi or Sheikh Gumi. Kwankwaso, on the other hand, is just another Namadi Sambo or Shettima in the making, and his alliances seem completely driven by selfish purposes.

​Tinubu has the traits of a tyrant. His style would have fit properly if he were much younger and closer to the people, but his administration is heavily tailored toward personal gratification and selfish interests.

​Looking at the options, Goodluck Jonathan might actually be a better alternative due to his presidential experience. He certainly has his flaws, but he understands the terrain now, and I’m sure he has learned a thing or two from his past mistakes.
​He is the only one I see who possesses the leverage to talk Northern leaders into action. The rest of these candidates will simply cower in front of the emirate.

aydought:
Take heart Sir. Only God can console you and carry you through. I feel your pain cos I'm also struggling to heal from the loss of my own dearest wife, too.

SpencerForbes:
​I always knew that APC coalition was a complete scam. I remember arguing with so many people back then that the man wasn't the best option, but they kept chanting the narrative that he was an "old soldier" who would end insecurity.

​I said the exact same thing regarding Tinubu, and I was almost lynched by his loyalists. It is deeply unfortunate that after 11 years, we are still trapped in the disaster of our wrong decisions, and tragically, people are still planning to make even more.

Greencloud:
Why does America always support separatist groups in every country and every generation?

Kobojunkie:
Women without financial independence are preys to the wolves masquerading as husband material out there. 🥱

2. Well, it is his word against hers in that case, right? Are the children with the man or with your sister? If they are with him, then she should still go to court to ensure that she at least pay her share of child support to him in the meantime. That way, when she is finally becomes financially independent and then files for shared custody, there would be court records to show that despite not being able to care for the kids,she was at least doing her part as there parent. 🥱

If the kids are already with her, she still should go to the courts to end the marriage, and to work on the custody issues. So long as he is not violent towards the children, he should make contributions to their card and education.

Whatever decision, getting the courts involved is a good way to go, in my opinion.

Naya261:
Thanks alot. As for now she's staying with me in my 3bedroom apartment. I am also married with 3kids. She's staying in one room in the apartment. She was a full-time housewife and was 100% dependant on the man, but i have enrolled her in a place that she's learning graphics design and printing because that was her job in the village before she got married but the man didn't allow her to work. I want her to upgrade her knowledge and learn new things. Considering the issue of shared custody, she doesn't have her own place yet and the man said that i am his sworn enemy for life because I allowed my sister to stay in my house instead of allowing her to go to the village and stay with my parents. He might tell the court that his children are not safe under my roof.

Naya261:
My sister said she doesn't want the marriage again but they have 3kids together. 13, 11 and 8 yrs. Its only because of the kids that she's considering going back but I told her that she can always see the kids and spend time with them.

Nice2023:
U guys made a mistake letting ur sister marry a pastor.

There is simply no truth in them.

Pastors in Nigeria 99% of them are thieves...manipulators and evil doers. They preach on the pulpit,and u will see tears trickle down their cheeks but at night they are hooligans and monsters...all the above are done in the name of God.
Haba,do you fear God at all,you will give account of yourself to God for all these slanders against God's own. Of a truth,there are pastors that are wolves in sheep clothings.Does that make all pastors devils


U guys are calm for such a wicked man. Pastors in Nigeria are ruining people with their fake miracles,signs and wonders.

Fiscus105:
Do you hear from pastor side before you call him madman? The way you people react with emotion ehn, no wonder, lot of crises globally.

Maybe, Op is the one that lying pathologically you don't, you quickly given all sort of names because of one sided accusation.
I love you, you're wise bro.

Who they will give chance to talk that won't side himself? Learn how to calm and neutral going forward, it would help you take good decisions, most importantly if you opportune to get to leadership positions.

Amotolongbo:
You went to stay with the husband to your younger sister for 4months? 😳
Shame is catching me on your behalf.
You totally lost the respect from the bro in-law doing that

Yorubastardz:
It's getting ridiculous

Kingray10:
A country where can carry a gun and shot at anybody he wishes

koladata:
Go into a very very deep fasting and prayer , postpone the weeding date. Wait for God to give you a very obvious sign that she's your wife... I'm not a very religious person but believe me when it comes to choosing life partner, God will personally intervene if you ask him for direction

Cherrybae:
You did it in Rivers state as a governor. Your track records are still visible for all to see.

Amaechi campaigning with his achievements whereas Peter obi is campaigning with emotions and criticisms.

Amaechi Nigerians will vote you massively even if you don't win at last.

Your achievements are much appreciated.

spiceadole:
Well, it doesn't .
My touch does it better.
Sometimes, when he is done, and snoring away I proceed to touch myself and that's when I can reach orgasm

frog12:
she probably has a big mansion in village

spiceadole:
Yes.
I get more aroused and reach orgasm when I touch myself than when my husband touches me

Indelibleage:
The people behind the killings have spoken. It's left for the government to act decisively.

olaiya2007:
The Governor should rescind his order so you people can continue destroying people's farm unchecked

wehdone:
Mind your own business ma guy. What an adult decides to do with their body, or how they chose to live their lives is none of your effing business. Okay?

I masturbate, nack people gf and fiancees, video our sexual acts, do anal, adulterate, etc.

E no concern you ma guy. Mind your own business!!!

spiceadole:
Even as a married woman, I can't stop masturbation.

I don't regard it as a sin.. It does not affect me negatively. It helped me relieve sexual tension when I was single instead of messing around with men.

I can go forever without penis(I don born finish ) but not without my fingers doing the do

IronCondemned:
We are human and respond to stimuli. We can get crazy feelings and desires sometimes. Women have these desires much more than men do but they suppress it, hide it and pretend they don't exist.

I have mature female friends who open up to me and tell me a lot of women behaviour which one would never think exsit as a man.

All those things you listed up there will never cease to be done by humans till eternity because they're part of human behavioural traits since human existence.

stuffs2002:
OP,

your story is not adding up. You claimed he got married after 7 years of being with his girlfriend only to come back and tell us about an elderly woman that he was dating for many years and you finally closed your disjointed story that he met another lady abroad and everything changed fast.

chicfarmer:
This fiction has holes...
1. Your friend dated the girlfriend he later married for seven years. So at what point did he date this woman wey no gree move on?

2. How come you didn't know about this woman since the groom na your friend wey e come be say na friend of the groom (groom when suppose be your friend) na him come dey give you gist?