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Crime / Re: Yahoo Boy Runs Mad, Destroy His Car In Lagos (video) by DEXTROVERT: 7:55pm On May 07, 2019
BEING
CONTEMPT
IS
THE
SECRET
OF
LIFE

POVERTY
IS
BAD
AS
ILL GOTTEN
CASH

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Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye To Commission ICU At Plateau Specialist Hospital, Jos (Photos) by DEXTROVERT: 6:34am On May 07, 2019
This
Is
Commendable
More
Grace
Sir

10 Likes

Celebrities / Re: Premature Ejalucation Might Be 40 Seconds But Sperm Works - Tonto Dikeh Shades by DEXTROVERT: 6:22am On May 04, 2019
SIGN
PETITION
AGAINST
THIS
TONTO
NEWS
HITING
FRONT PAGE
WITH
YOUR

LIKES

WE
RESIST
TONTO
AND
REGINA

NL
SHOULD
PUT
VALUABLE
NEWS
Family / Re: I Cheated On My Husband With A Guy From Work And I Don't Know What To Do. by DEXTROVERT: 8:38am On May 01, 2019
Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.


I don't usually comment on stuff like this
but ,here I my advise for you.

1. Let the truth die with you,
No Man no matter how gentle will hear this true and
still see you the same.infact the marriage is gone
if not physically, but emotionally.
I'm a Man, even if he tells you he forgive you,it will
forever play in his head. Be strong enough to act as if nothing happened.

2. Transfer if it's easy
Cos distance can have an impact separating you guys, if not on you, your cheat partner will get disinterested ,bet it with me things will not flow as usual.

3. Remember your kids anytime you feel the urge to do such again, imagine if this explode
you will join the league of divorcee, your kids suffer most, so much trauma, families will see you as a cheat

4. Don't spite your husband for sex beyond his ability
he'll suspect you, otherwise if he'll permit you use gadget.

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Crime / Re: Nigerian Police Arrests 18 Notorious Kidnappers; Several Arms Recovered (photos) by DEXTROVERT: 3:49pm On Apr 29, 2019
How
Are
We
Sure
They
Aren't
Innocent

IGP
Because
He
Was
Questioned
Went
And
Harassed
these
People
Snapped
Then
For
Us
To
Thank
Him
Abi...

Is
That
Not
Why
He's
Been
Paid
Monthly...

Until
We
See
Them
In
Gallows
Then
It's
Fake
Politics / Re: FG Declares Friday, Monday, Public Holidays by DEXTROVERT: 6:25pm On Apr 17, 2019
That's
Too
Much
Na
Four
days
in
a
week
as
public
Holiday

Buhari
Self

Na
wa
ooo
Family / Re: Can Genotype AS And AS Get Married To Each Other by DEXTROVERT: 9:20am On Apr 17, 2019
Yes na
even
ss and ss
can
marry
but if AS and AS marries
expect 25% chance off SS per birth
and the child could be in lifelong pain and sickness
Pets / Re: I Have An EMERGENCY!!!! by DEXTROVERT: 9:17am On Apr 17, 2019
village people
take sacrifice 1am
at tee junction
with white boxers only
don't greet anyone you meet

I think Autopsy need to be done on the dead ones
it's seriously epidemic
see a confirmed vet
Culture / Re: Ooni Of Ife: Whenever You Use Google, You’re Consulting Ifa -Oba Enitan Ogunwusi by DEXTROVERT: 6:47am On Apr 11, 2019
Baba
oooooooo

Sorry
sir
you
goofed
on
this
one

na
joke
ba

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Romance / Re: He Had Sex With My Friend And I Did Same With His Friend Too by DEXTROVERT: 8:16pm On Mar 24, 2019
lol

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Celebrities / Re: Top 10 Richest Female Musicians In Nigeria 2019 by DEXTROVERT: 11:53pm On Mar 23, 2019
Poor
Lost

What
Of
Genevieve
And
Celine Dion
Poems For Review / Re: I Think Of You by DEXTROVERT: 10:23pm On Mar 13, 2019
Melimolli:
I love it, I wish someone I used to know thinks of me like that, but I know it's just wishful thinking.

what of me that is thinking of you right now and every other time .
Health / Re: How I Contacted The Deadly HIV On First Sexcapade - Please Becareful by DEXTROVERT: 6:59am On Mar 10, 2019
Doomed:


I've not been tested but the symptoms are obvious on me
tell me what symptoms do you have already and how long ago did you have sex
I'm a doctor, I can help you make diagnosis and possible treatment

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Politics / Re: IGP, Adamu Visits 44 Police Officers Involved In Auto Crash - Photos by DEXTROVERT: 5:00pm On Mar 09, 2019
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Health / Re: Muhammadu Buhari Hospital Kano Records First Spinal Cord Surgery (Photos) by DEXTROVERT: 10:28am On Mar 09, 2019
Hold your Governor Responsible

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Celebrities / Re: Efe Accident: Nigerian Music Executive Survives A Ghastly Car Crash by DEXTROVERT: 11:28pm On Mar 08, 2019
LIKES
IF
YOU
WERE
THINKING
IS
BASED
ON
LOGISTICS

THE
WRONGLY
ADVISED
MUSCIAN
DUMPED
BY
MARVIS
LEARNT
THE
25m
REMAIN
3K

6 Likes

Romance / Re: Why Was The Doctor Touching My Leg by DEXTROVERT: 2:26pm On Mar 07, 2019
Ilamina:
smiley

Is that what they do, when you have a fracture
maybe he was hunting for something
Foreign Affairs / Re: Bernie Sanders, US President In Waiting - Mr Rights by DEXTROVERT: 6:38am On Mar 05, 2019
DEXTROVERT:
kk

rentAcock:
Well I think Bernie Sanders has a better chance of beating Trump. He is a white man with a sharp tongue just like Trump. America isn't ready for a female president and definitely no black man will win for another 100 years. Elizabeth Warren already has a weak point that Trump can explore, her claims of being a native American doesn't help her cause. The pretty Kamala Harris already has to deal with her recent gaffe about coming from a weed smoking family of which her father denied. The protestant populace is definitely not ready for Cory Brooker the gay black senator. So Bernie Sanders and Joe Biden have the most chance of winning the democratic ticket but we should never forget that in 1994 Rashidi Yekini became the first Nigerian player to score in the world cup tournament where we defeated Bulgaria 3-0.

goat22:



Wrong, without the backing of Tinubu and Ekweremadu, Sen. Cindy would have lost. When Saraki went to Washington he warned the citizens of Mississippi to vote Sen. Cindy or face the music, in fact Tinubu has been the deciding factor of the American presidency, he was the one who installed Bush jnr and Obama after he paid the American electorate to vote for them. Stop spreading wrong information please.


Please
Go
Back
To
Sleep
You
Both
Woke
Up
Too
Early

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Bernie Sanders, US President In Waiting - Mr Rights by DEXTROVERT: 6:36am On Mar 05, 2019
kk
Politics / Re: S’west Forum Wants Senate Presidency Zoned To S’south by DEXTROVERT: 5:31am On Mar 04, 2019
LIKES
FOR
OMO-AGEGE
FROM
DELTA CENTRAL
SENATRIAL SEAT
AS
NEXT
SENATE
PRESIDENT

42 Likes 3 Shares

Romance / Re: Why You Should Never Underrate Someone You Meet For The First Time by DEXTROVERT: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2019
Adverter15:
See below

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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2019 Batch A Corps Members Thread by DEXTROVERT: 1:20pm On Mar 01, 2019
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Politics / Re: Meet The 6 Women Senators-elect In Nigeria by DEXTROVERT: 7:43pm On Feb 28, 2019
LIKES
FOR
OMO-AGEGE
representing
Delta
Central
THE
INCOMING
SENATE
PRESIDENT

CHEERS

149 Likes 6 Shares

Politics / Re: Kwankwaso Visits Atiku In Abuja After Election Defeat, Peter Obi Present. Photos by DEXTROVERT: 5:10pm On Feb 27, 2019
KWAKWANSO
went
to
collect
the
balance
of
his
campaign
Money

Whether
Market
sell
or
not
labourer
balance
must
complete

82 Likes 9 Shares

Politics / Re: 2019 Presidential Election Results Announcement By Mahmood Yakubu, INEC Chairman by DEXTROVERT: 1:52pm On Feb 24, 2019
LIKES
FOR
BUHARI

SHARES
FOR
ATIKU

263 Likes 1154 Shares

Celebrities / Re: Banky W Wins His Polling Unit by DEXTROVERT: 9:51pm On Feb 23, 2019
ADESUWA
WILL
FLEX
HIM
TONIGHT

GOOD
GREAT
NEWS
Politics / Re: Buhari Gets Zero Vote In Ekweremadu's Ward by DEXTROVERT: 8:52pm On Feb 23, 2019
LIKES
TO
YIMMU
JOOR
Politics / Re: PDP Reacts To Today's Elections, Blame APC For The Killings by DEXTROVERT: 8:48pm On Feb 23, 2019
Clike
Likes
If
You
Wonder
What
type
of
Secretary
Types
Their
Document
Like
each
line
is
a
topic

May
Be
The
Secretary
Is
Disarticulated

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Politics / Re: BREAKING: Sowore Floors Buhari, Atiku In His Polling Unit by DEXTROVERT: 8:41pm On Feb 23, 2019
MY
GUY
SOWORE

I
AM
PROUD
OF
YOUR
COURAGE

I
WANTED
YOU.

BUT
NIGERIANS
HAVE
SPOKEN

TAKE
HEART

GOD
BLESS
YOU
Politics / Re: Buba Galadima's Polling Unit In Yobe State As Shared By A Facebook User by DEXTROVERT: 8:37pm On Feb 23, 2019
LETS
INTIMIDATE
THEM
WITH
1000

LIKES
FOR
BUAHRI

MASTURBATION
FOR
GALADIMMA

5 Likes

Politics / Re: Kwankwaso Fail To Deliver His Ward To APC by DEXTROVERT: 8:35pm On Feb 23, 2019
LIKES
FOR
BUHARI


MASTURBATION
FOR
KWANKWASO

15 Likes

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