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Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 9:39pm On Nov 22, 2016
Raine80:

If the evidence is there in front of you what response will make what they did ok?
If somedone cheats on you & you find out that this is indeed the case, you ask them 101 questions in the hope that it will solve what exactly? I value my self worth, this is my perpective I don't speak for all womenkind if you want to hang around that is your perogative.
lol since it's your own perspective, that's okay.

It's still a feeling that can't be scratched. Getting caught in the act is a different case scenario, deserves a much different and harsher decision.
Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 9:32pm On Nov 22, 2016
bbmpin:
Personally i don't believe in "feeling that" He is clearly cheating hence the quandary

You have two simple choices ignore it(which is extremely difficult) Or face it head on and clear your doubts which usually lead to more pain

You also have to consider the "plausible fact" that you may just be imagining things out of insecurity

But from personal experiences "most times" when such thoughts begin to reside in your mind, its always "TRUE"
lol now you just "increased the feeling" if that's possible
Romance / Re: How To Get A Girl To Kiss You - Super Amazing Tricks You Just Don't Want To Miss by Dezolo(f): 9:22pm On Nov 22, 2016
And something told you it will work on just any girl?
Romance / Re: The Finest Girl In Nigeria Appear In New Pic by Dezolo(f): 9:20pm On Nov 22, 2016
She is okay.
Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 9:13pm On Nov 22, 2016
Sempumping:
Talk about it ....Ask him about it in a soft tone ,take him on a date ,on the bed in za oda room when you are sure he is already hard down der wink ,or over a good home cooked meal

Or any happy moment ...You need to be right about the timing so it doesn't escalate and you might not achieve anything
.....
When he tells u the truth , you can leave his sorry A*s or forgive him ...that's up to u
Lol this is fattening the ram for sacrifice approach.

You don't expect the truth to just pop out after the fattening process, what if he's a cave of secrets?
Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 9:10pm On Nov 22, 2016
Raine80:
You make sure that it's not just your paranoia
And when gut feelings are indeed verified, you let him or her know you know.
And you leave with your dignity intact.
verified? How does someone verify and doesn't put up other questions?

Leaving isn't that easy when you look at it

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Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 8:58pm On Nov 22, 2016
Masonic:
Welcome back Dezolo smiley
Hi dear, Thanks. smiley
Romance / Re: How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 8:54pm On Nov 22, 2016
Herlyne:
I wd just dump him straightaway. No tym.
Just like that?


K o
Romance / How To Handle The Feeling He's Cheating? by Dezolo(f): 8:36pm On Nov 22, 2016
Let's say you think your man is cheating, how do you handle that feeling?
Sometimes it's too strong to scratch.
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 12:17pm On Oct 28, 2016
Mimzyy:


I know you... too well smiley
cheesy I know dear, can't deny
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 12:17pm On Oct 28, 2016
OLAJADON:

From what you have said I don't think the burnt food is the issue here, their is another thing that is making him angry at you... He is your husband, you should know him better than any one
But am sure he is not picking offence from the burnt food(according to what you said)
I have asked and he said it' s work stress. I've gotten the advice I think is suitable. Thanks very much
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 12:02pm On Oct 28, 2016
sisisioge:
Cook something seriously sumptuous, present it in a lovely way (presentation must be better looking than food o) then wear you finest look plus most innocent smile and tell him that "baby boy, this is a replacement for your food that I burnt o, I won't do that again but I will definitely collect my own back if you too burn food". And smile. If your bobo no get sense of humour...biko skip the talk part. Life is too short to be so serious! Good luck.
wow. Best, thanks dear

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Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:54am On Oct 28, 2016
Mimzyy:
Ishilov...
cheesy Hi dear
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:52am On Oct 28, 2016
buoye1:
They know all and see other opinion has thrash!

Lady, you've gotten enough already just do as they've said... It is well with you
thank you
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:27am On Oct 28, 2016
eyinjuege:


Sorry o...
Pls, let me see your palms...
Is it white? Have you been vomitting?

Then you must be pregnant,

Duhhh..... cheesy cheesy

Na joke o, OP. Just enacting our nollywood method of diagnosing pregnancy
lol oga nollywood doctor
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:27am On Oct 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
Seems you are coming down with something. Malaria, pregnancy......... Go get yourself checked out before you burn the house down with you in it.
Lol. Can't be malaria but I'll check
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:26am On Oct 28, 2016
thorpido:
Cook a delicious meal for him and while he's eating,ask him why he has been moody lately.Apologise again to him for the other time the food got burnt.
If he keeps being moody around the house,ignore him.Na small boy they worry am.

You know how many times my wife don spoil my expensive clothes.Mcheeew
Lol. Thanks
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:19am On Oct 28, 2016
TheArchangel:
Allow him to sulk and throw tantrum. A lot of things changes after marriage especially the he is my best friend and he has been friends for aeon ish.

Welcome to master-slave relationship called marriage.... But you know try ooo what if the house burn down with you in it nko.
I've been feeling so differently recently. It's not like me at all, I usually don't leave the kitchen until I'm done. But I just had to, couldn't breathe well, my joints were too tired that day.
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:16am On Oct 28, 2016
GodnGold:
Nne,you don't have to bring everything to the Internet.

But to answer your question, cook a good meal and while he eateth,apologise again.

If e no gree,leave am.Recession is biting hard.
thanks
Family / Re: Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:16am On Oct 28, 2016
Datsme:
Have you called his attention to his behavioural changes to know what could be responsible for such? If no, then u deserve no serious advice from this forum.
Thank you
he says it's work stress na. I have, I have asked and asked. Something just tells me it's because of that day
Family / Help A Lady In Marriage by Dezolo(f): 11:06am On Oct 28, 2016
Hi all, I got married few months ago and it has been okay by God's grace, I've known hubby for a long time, we dated right from our university days. But few days ago, I have been feeling uneasy, so I slept off and the food got burnt, that was the only cooked food at home, and hubby came back very late and hungry, I saw his missed calls when I woke up to the smell of burnt food. He came back just in time to perceive the burning food. I've apologized and he said okay, he slept without food that night because it was very late. Since that day, he has been hostile, always moody and it has not been easy at home, he picks offence at every little thing. I'm very tired. Please how do I go about this?
Politics / Re: Fatima Buhari Marries Gimba Kumo Today, October 28th, 2016 by Dezolo(f): 10:58am On Oct 28, 2016
Happy married life
Fashion / Re: Mr Nairaland 2016 - Grand Finale by Dezolo(f): 10:38am On Aug 06, 2016
Vizkiz cc: Nljega
Fashion / Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Semi-final by Dezolo(f): 11:16am On Aug 03, 2016
VIZKIZ
Kenneth205
Photoshoot

Cc: NLjega
Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Dezolo(f): 12:03pm On Aug 02, 2016
tizzleseun:


INVALID LESS POST

CC DYGEASY TOO MANY INVALID POSTS .......VIZKIZ DIDNT YOU TELL YOUR VOTERS THEY MUST HAVE MORE THAN 300 POSTS?
smh. Oga driver I don see you wey sabi mind business. Mtcheeew
Fashion / Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Dezolo(f): 12:01pm On Aug 02, 2016
Just copy "I vote vizkiz cc: NLjega"
Fashion / Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 1 by Dezolo(f): 1:48pm On Aug 01, 2016
Loyalblak007:
I vote
Photoshoot
Vizkiz
Cc Nl jega
Pls ma'm it's NLJega NOT NL jega. There's no space in between
Fashion / Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 1 by Dezolo(f): 10:58am On Aug 01, 2016
Vizkiz falconey iamkingzlee

Cc: NLjega

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Events / Re: Happy Birthday Guys. by Dezolo(f): 9:18am On Jul 16, 2016
Hey dearies.. Happy birthday to you all from teamvizkiz


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Events / Re: Nigerian, Constance Onyeka Weds In A Wheelchair (Photos) by Dezolo(f): 5:02pm On Jul 12, 2016
slyIsaac:


hey cutie?.... you wann ditch nairaland and run away with me to the beautiful mountains? wink wink
sorry.. I'm engaged tongue
Events / Re: Nigerian, Constance Onyeka Weds In A Wheelchair (Photos) by Dezolo(f): 9:54am On Jul 12, 2016
embarassed I wish them a happy married life.
Romance / Re: When Is The Right Age To Get Married by Dezolo(f): 9:51am On Jul 12, 2016
westlee:
Abeg aunty, me is reserving space for two already oo...
I luff fried rice and chicken with any drink
cool ok o. I'll be expecting you.

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