Hi all, I got married few months ago and it has been okay by God's grace, I've known hubby for a long time, we dated right from our university days. But few days ago, I have been feeling uneasy, so I slept off and the food got burnt, that was the only cooked food at home, and hubby came back very late and hungry, I saw his missed calls when I woke up to the smell of burnt food. He came back just in time to perceive the burning food. I've apologized and he said okay, he slept without food that night because it was very late. Since that day, he has been hostile, always moody and it has not been easy at home, he picks offence at every little thing. I'm very tired. Please how do I go about this?

Have you called his attention to his behavioural changes to know what could be responsible for such? If no, then u deserve no serious advice from this forum.
Thank you

Nne,you don't have to bring everything to the Internet.

But to answer your question, cook a good meal and while he eateth,apologise again.

If e no gree,leave am.Recession is biting hard.

Allow him to sulk and throw tantrum. A lot of things changes after marriage especially the he is my best friend and he has been friends for aeon ish.

Welcome to master-slave relationship called marriage.... But you know try ooo what if the house burn down with you in it nko.

Datsme:
Have you called his attention to his behavioural changes to know what could be responsible for such? If no, then u deserve no serious advice from this forum.
Thank you

he says it's work stress na. I have, I have asked and asked. Something just tells me it's because of that day

GodnGold:
Nne,you don't have to bring everything to the Internet.

But to answer your question, cook a good meal and while he eateth,apologise again.

If e no gree,leave am.Recession is biting hard.

thanks

TheArchangel:
Allow him to sulk and throw tantrum. A lot of things changes after marriage especially the he is my best friend and he has been friends for aeon ish.

Welcome to master-slave relationship called marriage.... But you know try ooo what if the house burn down with you in it nko.

I've been feeling so differently recently. It's not like me at all, I usually don't leave the kitchen until I'm done. But I just had to, couldn't breathe well, my joints were too tired that day.

Cook a delicious meal for him and while he's eating,ask him why he has been moody lately.Apologise again to him for the other time the food got burnt.
If he keeps being moody around the house,ignore him.Na small boy they worry am.

You know how many times my wife don spoil my expensive clothes.Mcheeew

Dezolo:
I've been feeling so differently recently. It's not like me at all, I usually don't leave the kitchen until I'm done. But I just had to, couldn't breathe well, my joints were too tired that day.

Seems you are coming down with something. Malaria, pregnancy......... Go get yourself checked out before you burn the house down with you in it.

Dezolo:
I've been feeling so differently recently. It's not like me at all, I usually don't leave the kitchen until I'm done. But I just had to, couldn't breathe well, my joints were too tired that day.

Sorry o...
Pls, let me see your palms...
Is it white? Have you been vomitting?

Then you must be pregnant,

Duhhh.....

Na joke o, OP. Just enacting our nollywood method of diagnosing pregnancy

thorpido:
Cook a delicious meal for him and while he's eating,ask him why he has been moody lately.Apologise again to him for the other time the food got burnt.
If he keeps being moody around the house,ignore him.Na small boy they worry am.

You know how many times my wife don spoil my expensive clothes.Mcheeew

Lol. Thanks

TheArchangel:
Seems you are coming down with something. Malaria, pregnancy......... Go get yourself checked out before you burn the house down with you in it.

Lol. Can't be malaria but I'll check

eyinjuege:


Sorry o...
Pls, let me see your palms...
Is it white? Have you been vomitting?

Then you must be pregnant,

Duhhh.....

Na joke o, OP. Just enacting our nollywood method of diagnosing pregnancy

lol oga nollywood doctor

TheArchangel:
Allow him to sulk and throw tantrum. A lot of things changes after marriage especially the he is my best friend and he has been friends for aeon ish.

Welcome to master-slave relationship called marriage.... But you know try ooo what if the house burn down with you in it nko.

Your experience@bolded but not everyone's experience.

thorpido:
Your experience@bolded but not everyone's experience.

I have not created any thread on my personal experiences or problems, so back off.

He already told you is stress from work, believe him and stop assuming wrongly. Because I don't think that one incidence can cause him to be hostile, except may be you are in the habit of burning food.

TheArchangel:
I have not created any thread on my personal experiences or problems, so back off.

There are young spinsters who are not married and are apprehensive about marriage.Words can increase their anxiety or mislead them so I ain't backing nowhere.

They know all and see other opinion has thrash!

Lady, you've gotten enough already just do as they've said... It is well with you

Ishilove...

thorpido:
There are young spinsters who are not married and are apprehensive about marriage.Words can increase their anxiety or mislead them so I ain't backing nowhere.

I will break your bone for this recession,....

So kindly go and jerk off abeg

I am on my way to work now....

buoye1:
They know all and see other opinion has thrash!

Lady, you've gotten enough already just do as they've said... It is well with you

thank you

Mimzyy:
Ishilov...

Hi dear

TheArchangel:
I will break your bone for this recession,....

So kindly go and jerk off abeg

I am on my way to work now....

You're thinking of jerking off this early morning?smh

Cook something seriously sumptuous, present it in a lovely way (presentation must be better looking than food o) then wear you finest look plus most innocent smile and tell him that "baby boy, this is a replacement for your food that I burnt o, I won't do that again but I will definitely collect my own back if you too burn food". And smile. If your bobo no get sense of humour...biko skip the talk part. Life is too short to be so serious! Good luck.

sisisioge:
Cook something seriously sumptuous, present it in a lovely way (presentation must be better looking than food o) then wear you finest look plus most innocent smile and tell him that "baby boy, this is a replacement for your food that I burnt o, I won't do that again but I will definitely collect my own back if you too burn food". And smile. If your bobo no get sense of humour...biko skip the talk part. Life is too short to be so serious! Good luck.

wow. Best, thanks dear

Dezolo:
Hi all, I got married few months ago and it has been okay by God's grace, I've known hubby for a long time, we dated right from our university days. But few days ago, I have been feeling uneasy, so I slept off and the food got burnt, that was the only cooked food at home, and hubby came back very late and hungry, I saw his missed calls when I woke up to the smell of burnt food. He came back just in time to perceive the burning food. I've apologized and he said okay, he slept without food that night because it was very late. Since that day, he has been hostile, always moody and it has not been easy at home, he picks offence at every little thing. I'm very tired. Please how do I go about this?

From what you have said I don't think the burnt food is the issue here, their is another thing that is making him angry at you... He is your husband, you should know him better than any one
But am sure he is not picking offence from the burnt food(according to what you said)

Dezolo:
Hi dear

I know you... too well

OLAJADON:

From what you have said I don't think the burnt food is the issue here, their is another thing that is making him angry at you... He is your husband, you should know him better than any one
But am sure he is not picking offence from the burnt food(according to what you said)

I have asked and he said it' s work stress. I've gotten the advice I think is suitable. Thanks very much

Mimzyy:


I know you... too well

I know dear, can't deny

Dezolo:
I know dear, can't deny

Lol. enjoy. catch ya

Because of food! The day my hubby try to fight because of food, he knows he's in big trouble because I will laugh at him ehen!!! You sound like you are pregnant. Just tell him to stop fighting over food abeg. Is he a child? One of you could have gone out to buy some food to eat now. At least it's not like you are burning all the food in the house every night.

Deep sigh