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lastempero:
I don't really understand Islam again, first was gaduje daughter wearing white wedding gown now its dangote daughter wearing white wedding gown my question now is whether Islam for the wealthy is it different for Islam for the poor.

No, it isn't different, they decides to do what pleases them. Just like you and I, we'll know what is right as per religion, and we'll do the opposite. We sometimes commit sins even tho we know it's not right. They choose what please them and God will judge us, either rich or poor... God is fair and just, he's going to judge us on what we have done here on earth depending on d wealth he has given us, whether it's health, riches, knowledge etc

Nwaohafia1:
I hope the poor Muslims in villages are reading this? This is what they will tell you is haram. Fatima wearing Western/Christian wedding gown.

Yes, they will be tagged as such because it isn't allowed. Being rich doesn't mean anything in front of God, we're all the same. If they've done something right, we will commend them. Besides, showing off is something that comes with being rich, either Christians or Muslims, so spare us your mentality of poor Muslims or unenlightened Muslims cover themselves.

Lordspenzo:
You will agree with me that the yorubas are highly liberal and extremely civilized,these tend to make the Yoruba muslims more reasonable, and tolerant..they are not fanatics and unreasonable like the hausas up north..and that's why the hausas don't see them as real muslims..

Well, it's not the hausa that will tell me whether I'm a real Muslim or not. Just like no one can tell u whether you are a real Christian or not. Now, you'd agree with me that Islam is not d problem but those practicing it. I swear to God, all their actions are grievous sins which each and everyone of them will suffer for on the day of judgements. God is very capable of defending himself, no one is needed to kill for Him, I mean God doesn't eat human, or drink blood. Why would He order them to kill..

enemyofprogress:
abeg leave me I wan fok one of your girls

And your *beautiful* religion permits that..... All the best

enemyofprogress:
I need not answer your question. You know as well as we do that your people including married women use their hijabs to commit atrocities EOD

If your atrocities means those committing adultery, we'll hijab doesn't state how pure you're, I repeat, its a piece of clothing. People naturally expect you that you're covering yourself to respectthe covering and not commit sins but as we all know we are human, and we'll always commit sins. Using hijab doesn't mean you're pure or special. It's your actions as regard that covering that would make you pure

Lordspenzo:
This is what worries me, some muslims no matter their level of education thinks boko haram and other terrorist activities are politically sponsored, they don't see anything wrong with their religion of peace..

Yes I'd say that over n over again. My religion never preaches that. Or have you ever heard of such in the southwest. The way you guys relate with what you hate baffles me. You did not see anything wrong in Israeli bombing Palestinians, America bombing Iraq and so on. If boko haram are killing, they are on there own. If it's right to kill unlawfully, then all Muslims will be on a killing spree.

enemyofprogress:
the fokn hijab that you people use to commit atrocities

Atrocities like....? I don't know your qualms, it's just an headcover, a piece of clothing. Anyone who wants to could have use any piece of clothing, but so you can have something to insult, they use hijab.

When I was in nursing school. A catholic sister joined us and without any struggle or stress, without writing any letter, without holding any meetings with the school management, she was allowed to be using the sister cape. But we Muslims held series of meetings, countless letters, struggles and stress before we were allowed to be using one small tucked in cape after like 20 years. You guys are just being hypocritical. Is it not high time you guys should know that hijab is part of us. You guys think it's fun insulting Muslims which it's not at all. A catholic sister uses cape, it's not a big deal, a Muslim covers herself, the whole world will start shouting. Just because some people are being sponsored politically to be killing people in the guise of religion. May God save us

LancelLogan:
I have chronic OCD coupled with other mental issues like ADHD, chronic depression, extreme anxiety, bipolar, Low self-esteem, Perfectionism(OCPD similar to OCD) and the Fantasy Disorder (i waste hours fantasizing about a character rich fantasy world i have created in my head for almost a decade now) and (i don't know) i think i'm autistic... It kills me inside... I have contemplated suicide but i'm afraid it will be too painful or unsuccessful (since firearms are not sold in this country)...

My mental issues started when i was around 5 years (or maybe since child birth)... My depression heightened during my secondary education at a military secondary school (Nigerian Navy Port Harcourt).

I stay in Port Harcourt and school in the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport)... I'm repeating my final year because my mental issues did not allow me focus on my project and two difficult Maths courses.. i find it hard to focus (ADHD) and study... If i am not battling with that ever present inner OCD voice, I'm fantasizing about another world inside my head...

Everybody thinks i'm rude because i am never smiling and i don't know how to talk to or reply people (I'm always anxious even when i'm familiar with the person trying to talk to me)... no matter how i try i will always say something awkward or I wouldn't be able to say anything at all (my heart will always seem to be racing and my speech stuttering)... So i just detach myself from people generally to save myself from embarrassment...

What my OCD and OCPD has obsessed and compelled me to do over the years is just so much i can't write all about it here... It's more than the regular "wash your hand before and after you touch anything if not you will be infected or fall sick" or "if you press the wrong letter while typing a document, you must clear the whole page and start again if not the document file will be corrupted"]... If ever i try to resist the OCD voice, I'll feel so uncomfortable, anxious, disturbed and drowsy... i won't be able to concentrate on anything at all...

Also, it has made me abusive to my younger brother... If he does something I(or the OCD rather) don't(doesn't) like ... Example, if he doesn't wash his hand before touching things in our room or doesn't follow a couple of sequence i normally carry out while cleaning our room... i get so angry, i yell or sometimes(rarely though) physically abuse him... Any little thing he does irritates me even if he is just playing music, making a call or even laughing at a joke he read on his phone... This makes me hate myself but i can't stop this behavior...

Side note:[I have nothing against Christians or religious people... Please, don't be offended] I recently stop believing in religion (Christianity in my case)... I see it as a mechanism implemented to make people behave and make people be motivated to live and enjoy life... I also don't identify as an atheist because most atheist these days are just religious about their non-believe... They will undoubtedly support theories like The Big Bang Theory and yet criticizes Christians for believing in the Creation Story... I don't believe both of the aforementioned theories(stories)... I can say I'm agnostic because i do not know about the origin of existence.. Although, when i was still an ardent Christian, my OCD voice will compel me to give large portions of my personal savings to "God" so that i'll receive a specific blessing or answer to a prayer request... lol...

I have not talked to anyone about my issues because i know they will not understand... during my secondary school days, i told my parents i was contemplating suicide... they beat me up and took me to church for deliverance... lol... so there is no point talking about it to my family...


I will appreciate talking to someone who understands... Please reply or email me...

Thanks...

I don't know if you can follow dz advice but I can assure you it will work.... Go to a psychiatric hospital and lodge your complaint. I'm sure they will know d right treatment to give you.
When I was a student nurse, I met a lot of patients like that at d neuropsychiatric hospital, Aro. I have friends among them till date and they are fine. As long as you're following the prescribed treatment, you'll be fine. All the best

lucrownt:
Sugar Mummy for your mind
Of course it can happen, how I wish myself and my unborn child be birthday mates...
It is lovely tho

Happy Birthday fella @OP

It can happen.... It just need some planning...

tundeayo2020:
I think I am dying, It all started in 2012, I had a terrible dream that night and ever since then, my life has not remained the same.

In 2012 I weighed 71kg but now I'm 48kg and I don't know when this will stop, every day I'm losing weight the more I try to eat the more I lose weight. I used to have really big muscles and thick thighs, I never slim fit my clothes, but now I can count all the bones on my chest, my hands have become so thin, all bones and no fat.

I have to wear long sleeves and trousers to hide my problem from the rest of the world- And its eating me deeply.
I can no longer engage in activities I find pleasurable, such as sports, running, swimming, working out etc. These where activities I could do before for lengthy hours I can barely do them now for three minutes without
getting super tired and all my body will ache for days afterwards.

I've spent all the money I have on treating myself at local clinics but nothing seem to be working.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS EATING MY MUSCLES AND FAT.

And its getting worse, Even though I've never had sex before in my life, yet I've gone for HIV test three times and it's always negative, I've done diabetes test several times and the docs said I'm not diabetic.

EVERY MONTH I KEEP LOSING WEIGHT, LIKE IN MAY I WAS 53KG BUT IN JULY I'M 49KG AND NOW IN AUGUST I'M 48KG.

GUYS I NEED HELP ADVICE OR ANYTHING TO HALT THIS UNINTENTIONAL WEIGHT LOSS.

I mean I eat at least four times a day and barely work hard. cos I'm a full time fiverr worker.

If things should progress at this rate I may end up with less than 30kg by December. And I dont want to die, I'm still in my late twenties.



Mods please push this to front page. Thanks

Please, visit the nearest teaching hospital and tell them all your complaints without leaving any. I think it's majorly a medical problem, might be hyperthyroidism... Pls, make it snappy!

Yahya Bello, o ni ku re........ You didn't pay my uncle and others their salaries for up to 10 months, u didn't pay my aunt her pension..... U are making people suffer... God will punish u!!!

ikevin:
I understand your point though.....yet don't generalize uhnmm. With all of these issues in our system, our health system is not the crown jewel in Africa. Improved unity is needed.

exactly, improved unity is needed, no need feeling superior or inferior. our elders aren't helping, feeding people's ego, and teaching some never to bow