marvin906:
she's brave..
which is rare..
most chicks will just drink poison than confess their feelings

anonymous1759:
.. Count me out I look good and still BaaaaaD in the Other Room ... You never the JAM that's why..

Prolificdeman:
No rashes, no itching just the discharge

skillful01:
Yes... without the introvert qualities.

Stevengerd:
God bless u bro! because he has given u any gift, u wanna quit. Hw wil u expect me to buy u gift. who are you Gf, Not wife.

Danielalhassan66:
If i slap you eeh
what is the meaning of this rubbish u are saying
how this want take affect me

Chommieblaq:
Some stories I read in nairaland just makes me laugh, more like comedyland.


You cheated on your relationship of 7 years, got pregnant and finally broke up with him.
Why in Heaven's name are you guys still living together?
Cheated and got preggy right under his nose , you don't even have regard for your so called new beau. In a relationship with him while you living with another, or he's not aware that you living with your ex?
Only God knows that kind of man that will be comfortable with his girlfriend longing with another man and doing "wifely" duties for that man too..

QueenSekxy:
I just deh vex for you ..

coolestdude01:
Are u kidding me? I wish you all the best. And i hope the new guy is worth it in the end.

Kkposky:
what Assurance do you have that your next relationship will be better than this one. My dear, you are not a saint. you have your flaws also. .. drop ur ego and make ur relationship work. Tell him what you want.. There's no perfect relationship.. All relationships are function of the effort we put in it. if u had played ur part well. the relationship would have been 50% perfect.

coolestdude01:
Jesu!! You're 36. He's probably scared u might have difficulty giving birth. Not saying this is a justification for his wanting to impregnate you before marrying you. He's also not likely to change in the aspect of showering u with gifts but the choice is yours to make to either accept him the way he is or move on. For all we know, he might even be gunning for a way younger lady to marry.

coolestdude01:
Jesu!! You're 36. He's probably scared u might have difficulty giving birth. Not saying this is a justification for his wanting to impregnate you before marrying you. He's also not likely to change in the aspect of showering u with gifts but the choice is yours to make to either accept him the way he is or move on. For all we know, he might even be gunning for a way younger lady to marry.

coolestdude01:
Chai, you've said it all.

Prognose:
You met him 'when he had nothing'

You have been feeding him, clothing him, and your provided a roof over his head. It is safe to say you have been fucking him as well. Its very possible you have done one or two abortions self.

My dear na wife you be already na, he don see you finish abi wetin you want again?

You have been living with a man not your husband for seven good years, what urge or urgency will he have to want to put the ring on it? You're always available, I'm sure you have practiced every sex style under the sun with him, what do you want to impress him with again? Why would he want to marry you, seriously? When you already provide every every for him, food, money, sex, etc.


This quarrel you are quarreling with him now is married people's quarrel in case you don't know.

"He's not romantic" , " he has never bought any clothes for me in seven years" . Did you ever give him the chance to struggle for himself and be a man?

You are the breadwinner in this relationship in case you don't know. The thing he is doing to you is what girls do to guys. Your money is for both of you while his money is for himself.

My advice to you. Buy an engagement ring and propose to the fellow! Am serious.


(If it was those days I would berate you for living with a man that isn't your husband. This is the consequence of doing such things, the man don see you finish now even if you drive him from the house he has enjoyed you very well and very unofficially. What elders see sitting down children of this generation cannot see standing up instead they call it old-fashioned morality. But its not those days. These days its "your life, your rules". )
Cheers.

26Clueless:
Lol I pity u .... besides instead of breaking up with him why don't u jeez sit him down and have a decent conversation abuh d ongoing issue with u guys

QueenSekxy:
I just deh vex for you ..

solbinho:
The guy still geh mind dey chaow your food. Sha no poison the niggie...

raylord:
From all u said. D only reason u are breaking up with him is because he dosn't buy u things. I swear that's d only reason u were able to give. Let me tel u. I as a person do not intend to buy any gal friend a damn gift. It's just a matter of volition. I know I can buy d world for my wife(when I get married). So u better don't labour in vain. This one u say d guy is now financially alright. Later u people will say it's only Bleep boys that are coming yr way. After breaking up with responsible guys over little issue

Kaxmytex:
You are tired of the relationship buh that 7years still dey ring for your head....

the question popping up in ur brain is...

What if i date another guy and situation never change?
Where do i start from after 7years

You are thinking the guy will chase you out one day which might not happen

laliga01:


But why are you guys still living together.. I dnt get it.

LifeofAirforce:
That you chose to spend your money on him at your own free will is no guarantee that you guys would end up marrying each other.


Lets always remember thisss..

deafeyez:
What's the age difference. U sleep in the same bed, how long has this been.

Kaxmytex:
The guy really nid the baby Badly buh u aint giving it to him...
He feels lyk letting you go buh his guilty conscience aint gonna free him for wasting 7years of an innocent lady....

u guyz nid to see a Doc. ASAP...

NwaAmaikpe:


You are simply deceiving yourself; you just need a window period to be a hoe, flirt with other guys...while still keeping this poor boy as an unfortunate rebound.

In civilised climes, you two can opt for an open relationship rather than this nonsense.

It's either you've totally effeminated that man or he just enjoys being cuckolded.

I weep for the sissy men of this new generation.

DeadRat:
I Never Hear Thing Kind Thing Before