Riqueleme: “Encouraging a child means that one or more of the following critical life messages are coming through, either by word or by action: I believe in you, I trust you, I know you can handle this, You are listened to, You are cared for, You are very important to me.”
As man, you can't cook, clean the kitchen, wash your clothes, your wife's clothes and your children's clothes. You can't clean your home properly? You can't kneel down and pray for your home? Can you even call yourself a man?
You can't feed a baby, bathe a baby, bathe your kids, make traditional and intercontinental meals? Then you should remain in your father's house and don't be a burden to one innocent woman in her marital home please.
As a man, your sole purpose and existence on this earth must be used to please your woman.
This is especially for men who are earning less than ₦5 million per month. With a salary less than 5 m a month, you will not be able to maintain a retinue of domestic staffs, so you must learn home making skills.
Tufia Kwa for these untrained dick carriers, I pity the SIMPle women that will marry you people.
How can a man be doing all this? If he wants to help with things like when she's not feeling well, that won't affect him. But to do all her duties is impossible at this time.
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My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation. Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well. Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for. She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores ,clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her. I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues,stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for. The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment. Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for. Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs
Just tell her the truth and ask her to move on. She should pack all her things and keep them in one place. Alternatively, you could give her a few weeks to leave because you want to travel, and you don’t want to leave her alone there.
phemmylink: Some people especially oversees find it hard to help their family members relocate. Some will have information and wont divulge based on reasons known to them and I wanna ask the house why is this so?
Some people are not living well enough in the country they are in, or they are not working hard enough to earn money that can help support their family.
fadilaMaikiriki: I really want to learn how to drive.Please, can someone learn how to drive with a glk 4matic jeep? I have a friend who has who has a glk 4matic jeep. I would like to know if one can learn how to drive with it. Will it be more difficult learning how to drive with these types of vehicles? Or is it advisable to learn smaller cars? I really want to know how to drive.
What's your suggestions or opinions on this?
there’s schools for learning how to drive my advice here is better for you to go and learn more about it good luck 🤞
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In two days, what kind of mess has she made? How can she leave her kitchen like this, for goodness' sake? 😩 The woman isn't even trying! 🤦♀️ They are the ones who make us look bad by saying that most women can't keep their homes clean when they are married 🙆♀️
NevetsIbot: I moved to this new apartment in January. Did all the cleaning and all of that. Everything seemed cool.
The first night I spent here, I noticed I was dealing with a lot of cockroaches… Big ones coming from the bathroom drain and tiny ones littered around in the kitchen.
I was so irritated and I inquired about who stayed in the apartment before me. According to the neighbors, the previous guy was dirtier than a pig and a sloth combined. This guy must have been breeding these irritating insects. They clearly said no one could enter the apartment while he was living there cos of how dirty he was.
I killed nothing less than 500 cockroaches after spraying a full can of insecticide in the house and on God! I’m not even exaggerating.
I had peace for three days and started seeing them again. I have used Sniper! Ran out of the house for three days and doused the whole apartment in sniper!! I only had peace for three days too.
I practically wine and dine with cockroaches now. I empty a full can every week to kill them and I still end up killing a lot every single time but they never just stop coming. After spraying, I’m always greeted with cockroaches when I’m walking in. I’m fed up and tired.
How will I have a visitor and I and the visitor will be killing tiny cockroaches with me giving excuses and feeling embarrassed.
My apartment is always clean! I hate cockroaches especially the tiny ones.
Please I’ve run out of options. I’m contemplating moving out if I can’t get some type of long term fix.
Please I’m very open to suggestions!! I’m facing more shege from cockroaches than I’m facing from Mr President.
buy insecticide powder and pour it in your room ,coners and hidden areas of your house
enemyofprogress: AFTER DIVORCE, WIFE SENDS HUSBAND A MESSAGE:
WIFE: ... I am sorry to inform you that the daughter you kept for *20years* is not your daughter ... She belongs to ur Best Friend Alhaji. ... Alhaji has just sent her to America last month to start a New life. ... Kindly take heart and start a Fresh New life. ... May u be guided right. Byeeeeeeee
HUSBAND:
... Glory! Glory!! Glory!! ... Thank u Jesus, for answering my prayers. ... The siege is over and I am free at last from spirit of guilt. ... All these years I thought I was sleeping with my daughter. ... Kindly encourage her not to exercise any fear again. ... She doesnt need to abort our pregnancy anymore. ... She can come back home now to possess her possessions
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both of them are bad people 🙄🙄 how can she made that mistake having sex with another man while she was married?? as this point she is the one who caused the issue 💯he can’t have sex with his biological daughter
chukwuibuipob: people dnt just get upset/angry.Tell us weyin u dey do him .. If u are the annoying, talkative,gossip,nagging one,pls,change your attitude/lifestyle. Satisfy him,be a good wife. Cook and serve his food accordingly ,give him sex .Dnt padlock ur pusssi..Above all,PRAY