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nicky20:
According to Sahara Reporters, President Buhari who left for the UK on May 7th, is scheduled to return to Nigeria on July 27th.

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https://mobile.twitter.com/SaharaReporters/status/887456164094648321

On my birthday? Damn!

Good or Bad birthday gift? Lawd have mercy!

haske7:
Ftc on an fp post after all these years... This has to be celebrated... please ping me for details of the party !!!!! Dancing sir SHINA Peters!!!!!!

You well soo?

NwaAmaikpe:


Lest we forget and celebrate this young man or mistake him for a responsible father
Let's ask him what he has done with the child born for him by Elshama Benson Igbanoi.

How come he shows off Anita's kids but not Elshama's?

A man who won't celebrate his other kids from a woman he is not married to is not a man.

Don't you think you should be directing this your quension to Paul? I sense you're in related to him or the 'Elshama Benson' lady... Bros if you don't know it is because he got blessed with a twin and 'maybe' set to follow 2baba's footsteps by getting married to Anita. Dey there dey ask rhetoric question.

is that not Mark Zukerberg kayaking in that pic?

Craven:
Too much juice.

Kudos to you for helping the lady. I admire your kindness. God bless you..

Craven:
You don't have any right to tell her what choices to make regarding her life. She has made it clear she is in an abusive marriage. If she needs to leave, she should be supported and empowered so she can support herself and her kid. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that seems to make her unhappy. A lifetime of unhappiness is a vile thing to expect a human being to endure. Jesus did not die on the cross for us to be maltreated by mere humans. This woman has her whole life ahead of her, she has a baby to look after, and she seems ready to take back control of that life and provide for her baby. Please don't encourage her to stay in a marriage that might cut that life short! An abusive marriage will ruin a person's mental and/or physical health and also that of their child. And what use is she to her child if she has poor health? In fact, an abusive marriage is no place for a baby to grow up in—can you imagine growing up in a place where your mother is constantly tortured psychologically and/or physically? Oftentimes, we hear cases of women being killed by their spouses; please don't make this the case for this woman. This woman has everything to live for, she has her child to live for. Her life and the life of her child is more important than what you or what society thinks about divorce. She deserves peace of mind even if she has to find it on her own—plus she wouldn't even be alone; she has a child with her who I believe would be her motivation to make it everyday. God did not bless us with life for us to throw it away living in the shadow of a vile human being and being made to endure all sorts of torture.

You are a woman yourself. In a way, this woman is your sister. Help her by providing her with opportunities to improve her life, don't give her recipes that might end it.

Na wa o! Too much sauce...

anaton:
Op please don't mislead people.That picture was taken during the Aburi accord meeting.Gowon later renegade which led to the civil war.

Was that not after the war? I need to dive into my archives for more....

Do you know that Gowon and Ojukwu settled on a plate of food after over 3million Igbo indigenes died after the war, a war where none of his family were killed.

And some ignorant ones are beating the drum of war again without even having a second thought...

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Maybe you just got lucky this time. Are u still availabe? Do u reside in Lag?

Why she got married to him in the first place is not clear to me.. I guess she is regretting. My brother, even if you were the one having that same medical issue she will still cheat on you.

After God fear women!

Chineke!!! Ogini bu nya
Anywayz o di ka nwa guy nke chori la n'elikwe!! Ka Chineke gozie ya!
Ha puo m!

"FAMILIARITY not only breeds contempt, it also breeds a hotbed of opportunities for unfaithfulness. The more close-knit a crop of friends are, the wider the chances of swopping partners, albeit discreetly. Tope’s recent experience, however, took the cake when it comes to how far you can go in forgiving a friend who ‘snatched’ the partner you believed you could have married.

A few of us were in a ‘no-party-this-weekend’ drinking and chin-waging session when she suddenly invited me to one of her friends’ house-warming party a few days away. I’d never heard her mention this particular friend and no wonder, because when I asked her who she was, Tope actually looked a bit pensive. “I’ll tell you all about her on the way but I need you to come with me for much needed support.”

We’ve never stood for ceremonies when going out on the spur of the moment. As we nestled in the back seat of the car, Tope told me this friend, Cecilia, was once a close friend in their undergraduate days.

“We did virtually everything together,” she reminisced, “and went to social outings as a foursome with our boyfriends. When I met David, she was the first person I told because she had a knack of assessing people.

We were room-mates then and I was glad David had a lot in common with her boyfriend. He was a freshly employed banker with a very promising future. Whenever either of our men visited, we had this unwritten rule of leaving the coast clear for some privacy. Cecilia did this regularly even when she fell out with her boyfriend.

She was so miserably unhappy that I insisted she came with us on a few outings to take her mind off her grief, David used to grumble about three being a crowd, but I put my foot down.

Cecilia was pathetically grateful to have a semblance of a social life and I was glad to be of help. After all, what were friends for? When she said she was pregnant a few weeks to our final exams, I was shocked. She had no serious boyfriend to speak of, and I asked who the father of her unborn child was.

She said she met him when he recently came to Nigeria on a brief visit and had gone back. She was likely to join him after we graduated. I felt happy for her but was concerned she could jump into a relationship so quickly after her botched one.

Was she on the rebound?

” A couple of months after we graduated, I called on her, hoping to cheer her up and discuss the new job I had just landed. I was intrigued to find David’s car parked in front of her parents’ house. What was he doing there? Her mum let me in and I went straight to her room. I was curious that David wasn’t anywhere to be found.

I cautiously pushed Cecilia’s bedroom door open and the sight that greeted me made my world spin! David was on the bed with my best friend, his naked back to me, his trousers around his knees. They were obviously having a quickie!

“Cecilia, who was lying beneath him in spite of her rounded tummy saw me, her mouth, a shocked ‘O’! of surprise. “You bitch!” I yelled at her in frustrated anger. David turned at the sound of my voice and quickly scrambled to his feet when he saw me, pulling up his trousers as my best friend struggled to get into her clothes.

“l rushed blindly out of the room and ran smack into Cecilia’s mum. She’d heard the commotion and came to find out what was going on. ‘I just caught Cecilia having sex with my fiance!’ I spat at her. She looked shocked.

Was I sure David was my fiance? She obviously was in the dark as to my relationship with him. She said David was the father of Cecilia’s unborn child, that they were getting married in three weeks. Silently, she handed over a copy of the invitation card, still looking confused. It was then I knew what betrayal really was.

I was inconsolable, and my parents were concerned about me. Most of our friends that I called told me they knew about the wedding but didn’t know how to tell me.
“For weeks I couldn’t make the terrible image of what I saw that day go away.

I thought the whole world was laughing at me. David didn’t bother to contact me and neither did Cecilia. I nearly had a break-down when I saw pictures of their wedding in newspapers. A few months after the wedding, Cecilia sent a note through one of our friends. She’d had a baby girl. She wrote: I’ m awfully sorry for hurting you the way I did, it’s happened and you’re still my best friend. Do you think we can get over this?’

“I couldn’t believe she would have the nerve to ask for my blessing after she’d flattened the life I’d dreamt of having. ‘Tell her I would go to the grave hating her!’ I told the friend she sent. Talk about stabbing you in the chest and turning the knife! That was over 20 years ago. I met my husband shortly after and couldn’t have asked for a more successful and understanding man.

David was retrenched by the bank he worked for, and Cecilia now has to struggle to keep the family of three kids together. When the landlord started grabbing them by the throat, they hurried the completion of the bungalow they started building ages ago on the outskirts of Lagos.

“Cecilia shuttled between Nigeria and Britain from time to time and sent in money from her career job through the Western Union so the house could be habitable. I didn’t know all this until I ran into her at a friend’s house. She looked so contrite and despondent that being hostile to her would amount to kicking her when she was down.

“Haltingly, we got talking and she was her friendly self. The chemistry between us gradually returned and there was really nothing to hate about her. She’d put on a lot of weight and was a far cry from the sophisticated room-mate I’d known. Her marriage wasn’t all that happy either, and when she asked for my address and phone number, I gladly gave them to her, convinced she would not have the nerve to call.

“I was mildly surprised when she called at the house about a week later and was glad I lived in such a posh surrounding. It was then she invited me to a house-warming. I don’t think I’ve ever visited that neck of the woods their house is situated but I didn’t want to give the impression of a snob, so I agreed to come.

The driver knows the area, thank goodness.”

After veering off a tarred road and bumping dangerously through the very rough stretch of lane that leads to Cecilia’s bungalow, I really felt sorry for the poor woman. The place still needed to be painted and neighbourhood buildings weren’t impressive. Yet it was home to her family and as we went in, we were ushered in like VIPs. Cecilia was obviously happy to see us. Decked in a very expensive lace material that I’d once seen on Tope, I knew right away that Tope must have given it to her. “What else could I do?” she asked on our way back home.

‘I had so much and she had precious little. You should see how excited and grateful she was when I gave her a few of my clothes that I didn’t really need.
And did you see David? I’m glad that I had this opportunity to see both of them and finally lay the ghost that had hunted me for years. It was like revisiting the scene of the crime! David’s shabby look made me wonder what I ever saw in him.

“Thanks to their supposed betrayal, I found a better man and providence had more than compensated my loss. I intended to do whatever I can to make life easier for her. I mean, but for the grace of God, I would have been in her shoes! If we were useful to each other once, we could be useful to each other again. You can forgive anything if your hurt eventually works in your favour….”

Tolexander:
Is this in Nigeria or Ukraine?

Bros me self weak. It even sounded like one Swedish town too...

You don enter 'one-chance'. Use your head bro...

rearrested again?? o ga o!

Bia, those young chaps don't they have native names? I mean ibo names? Which one be Mia and Eva? Biko, Mikel should not forget his root o!. It seems like the Olga lover (sorry girlfriend) will claim all benefits especially kids custody if Mikel go fv.ck up. Mikel nor dey represent as he is supposed to... Anywayz cute little girls...

Na wa o! The matter don red for Naija! Kidnapping business, hmmm... it will soon trend off then another eyesore business of making money will sprout up just as MMM came and had died a natural death.

The end is here........

esoket1776:
Sales Executive

Okay, thanks

I won't mind gate-crashing in your stead...

esoket1776:
Dear Candidate,

Global Talent Network, a HR consulting company is inviting you for a short test and interview by 12pm, (Monday) June 19, 2017.

Adress: Suit 305/306, 3rd floor (East Wing) Lagos City Hall, Catholic Mission Street, Lagos Island. Kindly reply this with your availability to attend.

Direction: (On getting to Lagos City Hall, ask the security to direct you to LIRS office, Then ask the security you meet at LIRS for GTN)

Please endeavour to come with your CV and other credentials.

GTN Team.

ANYONE WITH ME ON THIS?

What position were you invited for?

StephDamielola:


NIGERIANS AND REACTION ARE LIKE (THAT UNCLE ZUMA'S PICTURE)

BUT ON A SERIOUS NOTE TO ALL LADIES OUT THERE, LIKE I SAID YESTERDAY

EVERY MARITAL UNION IS A DIFFERENT COURSE ENTIRELY IN THE INSTITUTION CALLED MARRIAGE.

WHAT WORKED FOR ANOTHER MIGHT CRASH YOUR MARRIAGE.

THERE ARE SOME LADIES THAT CRAVE FOR SO MUCH ATTENTION, MEANWHILE THERE ARE OTHERS WHO GET IRRITATED IF BEING SHOWN TOO MUCH ATTENTION.


BEFORE YOU BEGIN TO CLAP HANDS FOR TOKE MANKINWA, HAVE YOU READ HER BOOK?

YOU PROBABLY WOULD HAVE REALISED THAT HER EX HUSBAND WAS CHEATING ON HER. OFCOURSE YES! HE WAS FVCKING ANOTHER WOMAN NOT MULTIPLE WOMEN. IT WAS JUST ONE (1) WOMAN.


IF SHE WAS A SAINT AS SHE PORTRAY'S, IF SHE WAS SUPER SWEET, IF SHE WAS SO SO GOOD, HE WOULDN'T HAVE CHEATED.


LIKE MY SISTER WILL ALWAYS SAY "IT TAKES A WOMAN TO BRING ABOUT ANOTHER WOMAN'S NEMESIS"


EVERY FAILED OR SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF BOTH PARTIES INVOLVED, NO ONE SHOULD MONETIZE IT.


TOKE MAKINWA SHOULD NEVER, I MEAN NEVER BE YOUR MENTOR ON MARRIAGE. NOW SHE HAS BOUGHT A RANGE ROVER WITH PROCEEDS FROM HER FAILED MARRIAGE (BOOK)


LET ME TELL YOU ALL THE LATEST SO YOU DONT THINK I AM TALKING RUBBISH.

BY GODS GRACE AND MERCY, I LIVE IN THE FCT AND I AM EXPOSED ABIT. I LIVE THE OUTDOOR KINDA LIFE WITH SOME PEEPS AND I LOVE IT. BUT THAT APART, THE LATEST BUSINESS REIGNING HERE NOW IS

1. NGO

2. BABY MAMA

NOW SEE HOW THEY DO IT (THE LIKES OF TOKE, TONTO ETC)

1. GET INTO A MARRIAGE (REMEMBER, THEY ARE KINDA SELECTIVE).

2. CLAIM THEY WERE ABUSED.

3. RUN TO SOCIAL MEDIA WITH BRUISES ON THEIR FACE AND BODY.

4. GET A FRIEND OR ASSOCIATE TO CLAIM SHE WAS A WITNESS WHEN SHE WAS ALWAYS ABUSED

5. GET DIVORCED OR SEPARATED.

6. RUN BACK TO SOCIAL MEDIA THE NEXT DAY FORMING SLAY QUEEN WITH NO TRACE OF THOSE BRUISES ON THEIR FACE.

7. USE TAGS LIKE THIS #MAMAKING, #FLAWLESS #ACTIONLADY #SMALLGIRLBIGGOD #STRONGWOMAN #SURVIVEDABUSES ETC ON HER PHOTOS

7. FORM AN NGO AND SEEK FOR GRANTS FROM EMOTIONAL AMERICANS.

OR LIKE TOKE MAKINWA, YOU WRITE A BOOK AND THOSE EMOTIONAL AMERICANS WILL BUY IT. BELIEVE ME, FEMINISM PAYS...LOL


THE BABY MAMA STUFF IS ALREADY EXPLAINED FROM DAVIDO'S EXPERIENCE WITH SOPHIA MOMODU (IMADE'S MOTHER) LOL

SHE GOT PREGGIE AND STARTED DEMANDING FOR CARS, MONTHLY UPKEEP ETC .... SHE DOESN'T GIVE A FVCK ABOUT THE HEALTH OF THE BABY THAT'S WHY SHE KEPT ON SMOKING MARIJUANA... ALL SHE CARES ABOUT IS HER NAME BEING ON THE PAYROLL...LOL


GUY'S BELIEVE ME, THIS BUSINESS PAYS LIKE MAD.


I AM A LADY AND I KNOW WHAT WE DISCUSS, LIKE I KNOW HOW WE OPERATE LOL.


#DIARY OF A GIRL

Babe!, you killed and nailed it!... That's an eye-opener...

Waiting for Mercy Aigbe 'Gentry' and Tonto Dike's book

Surely babymamarism, oloshoism and slaymamarism pays!
(in Nollywood noni)

#YeyebritiesDemGang

MzChee:
Just seeing this...try CIPM...their Hq is in Alausa, Ikeja...they have study centers in different locations. You can check them online..their fees are quite affordable...

Thanks dearie... I quite appreciate. Will check them out

MzChee:
Good afternoon house... Please I'm looking for HR internship or assistant in any notable company around VI-Ajah. I am currently pursuing a diploma in HR wanna build a career in it.. I've got my bachelor degree in Humanities. Any info please mention me. Thanks..

Please I'm looking at pursuing a professional course in Human Resources Management/Personnel Management. Anyone knows a good professional body or organisation that offers the best considering cost and location? I reside in Lagos and have over 7 years of Administrative experience.

Thanks

I hope someone helps out with the above question regarding the signs and symptoms.

Thanks

Everyday for the thief one day for..... hmmm

If you can do ilasa or iyana itire it will be better. Proximity to road networks and almost a 24hrs power supply plus good houses located there with serenity and security.

Thank Me Later

The girlfriend has been having pinkish-like discharge 3days ago from June 8 but now she's always feeling wetty stomach pain and fluid white discharge...... The fluid is watery and dark coloured urine almost looks like blood.

Is this a sign that she may be menstruating and not knowing or that her menses will surely come considering the signs/symptoms shared above?

Thanks..

I just finished watchin all the ones mentioned above. More suggestion please

Please Doctor,

I created a thread for this but not getting the answers that can resolve the issue. I would if you can give your professional advice regarding this...

"My girlfriend came to me telling me what her brother's girlfriend is going through. She confessed they had sex severally wothout protection and from her calendar she was supposed to see her menstruation on the 8th of June but to her dismay she hasn't seen it. She has gone for blood test and urine test and it came out NEGATIVE.

She said her boyfriend always does withdrawal when he reaches orgasm and pours out. Now she so worried for the past 3days now and considering going for scan of which she was told to come on Monday.

My girlfriend told her that with the blood and urine test those are enough proofs to show she is not pregnant but the lady in question is scared because she has not seen her 'period'.

Question: Is she really pregnant even with the test results or wait til Monday to know if she is pregnant? What can she do to start seeing her menses again?

Thanks"