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This the best time to tell her. At least now that she is grown she will understand if you tell her that you had her out of weddlock. Agree with your husband first. I think your husband should be the one to break the news to her when you are together in a loving way. I recomend he starts by telling how much you people love her and how she has been a wonderful daughter to you(you need to lay it thick here). Then he will now let her know that both of you consider it wise to tell her the circumstances of her birth so that she will not hear it outside and be embarrased. She will ask why you kept it from her for so long. Assure her that you wanted her grown to appreciate the situation better. Before you break the news to her, make sure you pray. Ti's my two cents

Dont mind them jor, most of them cant wipe their ass until America orders so. The west says jump, they ask how high! Pathetic people, though I heard the gay lobby is aggressively seeking support online and offline to the extent of paying otherwise straight people to campaign for them. The gay movement is becoming very powerfull. Thats why the senate voted to make gay gatherings illegal. If you let gay clubs thrive, they will eventually become powerfull enough to upturn the senate's decision. Thats exactly what happened in the west!

I suggest we leave this thread for the obdurate gays Evil brain and his cohort to continue their gay discussion forum. I suggest we leave the thread and open another thread on the wisdom of the senate's decision. Since the senate passed that bill, the gay movement in Nigeria has gone into overdrive in an aggressive drive for support. That's exactly what Evil Brain and co are doing!

No country has any right to deny another country its own right to make laws for its citizens. Obama is just positioning for his second tenure and will definitely need gay votes. it is all about the votes. The gay looby is so powerfull in the west that open antagonism will cost Obama his second term if he tries. The only American president to call the gay bluff was George W Bush. He Depended heavily on the religious right for his second term and it worked. Democrats are far more gay friendly than republicans. It is a question of political necesity. Obama cannot dares gays because they put him in power. Please lets understand the dynamics. The Federal Government and the Senate has won my respect tremendously with their handling of this issue.

@Evil Brain I will upload lots of links tomorrow, I just hope you won't deny them as usual. Note this also gays have shortened life span up to 20 years cos of their life style! Check it out 20 whole years out of one's lifespan just because of insanity. Reprobates

Liar! Lesbians are 4.5 times more at risk of HIV and other STDs than heterosexual women! You can twist arguments any way you like but you cant hide the fact that gay people contribute 65 percent of new hiv cases in the US. Since you have made a career of twisting points to support your insanity.

@ Pee bee Don't mind Evil brain, his precious gay life style is banned and he starts clutching at straws and fighting every foe real and imagined. He is not gay he says but he defends their rights more than open gay. He is a typical case of the outsider who weeps more than the bereaved! Where are the openly gay posters in Nairaland. @ Evil brain why are you fighting for faceless people! Reprobate where is your constituency? Enough of hearing from a paid spokesman like you! Let the real Nairaland gays speak up, lets address them directly! Enough of this silly representation! You can't tell it more than the gays! @ Ova stop aping Evil Brain, how much is worth your beliefs and moral. A few gayish dollars from the US gay community? I believe you are worth more!

I am waiting for you to deny that gay lifestyle is extremely risky health wise. Keep side stepping the issue. Instead of wasting futher time with you here on your self destructive mission, I am opening a new thread on why the anti-gay bill is right! You are prolonging this thread unnecessarily because you have failed to gain the sympathy of posters.

@pee bee I agree with you, lets do away with everything that is not beneficial!

Defender of the constitution, how come it is only gay rights you are fighting for. Show us where you have put up such a spirited efforts for the rights of prostitutes who are harrassed everyday by police? Where have you fought for rights of other minorities? Where have you opened a thread for against other vices? My friend stop being silly! You are suddenly a champion of rights because it involves gays. You heterophobic smallgots(you call us bigots) just dont get it. The passage of the bill enjoys massive crushing majority support. The disease demented reprobate you sent to represent you in the national assembly failed miserably. For now the only options available to your kind is exit visa to the US!

@Evil brain, you said you are not a christian which religiom do you practice? Liar! You will deny your faith to support gay marriage. Pathetic fellow, now that you have grudginly admitted your gay status, we now understand why you are pressing for rights to form your own gay club! Deny your beliefs, deny everything to support your insanity! Gays are not welcome in Nigeria! You are very lucky to be hiding anonymously in Nairaland to spew filth. Nobody hates gays, but we totally abhor the life style. Thats the point. Do you deny the medical facts presented by rymzo or not? Reprobates!

Evil brain is Gay, period! Everyone who dosent havd a reprobate mind knows that the gay life style is extremely risky health wise. @ Evil brain, you are not denying the medical facts presented by rymzo are you? You are so Gay! I hate cowards! You are not proud of your gayism, thats why you hide behind human rights to spew lie to attract sympathy to your insane orientation! Get it into your head gays are not welcome here!

Banning gay marriage will not help our economy but legalising it will immediately skyrocket our GDP and turn us to angels in heaven overnight! Hahaha!!! You homosexual nit wits are begining to sound pathetic and real silly! You are begining to come out gradually in your true colors. May be you were thinking Nigerians would make the same mistake the US made so you can pounce and destroy our moral heritage with your despicable orientation. Sorry bro, we are smarter here! Imagine gays trying to hide behind human right to commit their intimate deviancy.

Smartness to you means support to gay marriage because your master the west says so abi? This just goes on to show how gullible many people are! Trace the history of the gay movement in the US and you will begin to understand why the anti-gay marriage bill is brilliant. Get the point! The senate is trying to discourage the act in its entirety. The law would be extremely weak if they didnt extend the ban to gay associations and clubs. How did this gays recruit people like you ? Empowering gays to form associations and clubs will be counterproductive in the long run because those organisations would seek funding and co-operation abroad to upturn the bill eventually. It is all so simple if your mind is not reprobate. It is like saying the goverment should allow boko haram members to form organisations and clubs to aid, promote and support their activities because you dont want to infringe on their rights! To what end do you think it will be? More or less bombings? Allowing gays to form associations and clubs would have severly weakened that bill as it would allow them to quietly build a formidable lobby to upturn the bill. This is really so simple for natural minds to comprend very difficult though for oblique and reprobate minds to grasp!

All this Nairaland gays self! Wetin concern you with the law if you are not gay. The Bible says the righteous is bold as a lion. I don't get it you are not gay but you are worried about freedom of gays to form clubs and gay organisations. Bunch of hypochrites why don't you declare your true status first. Check this out an anti gay bill is passed, gays go into overdrive seeking the gullibe and unassuming to decieve. Their weapon - human right infringement. Look, we are smarter than that period. We will not let this gay sore to fester!

I will shortly provide details from the centre for disease control in the US to factualise my points

Why are intentionally refusing to see the wisdom of the senate? The bill does not say gay people should not be involved in organisation. Lets be clear before all these nairaland gays railroad us with their lies. The bill rather prohibits any organisation or clubs formed with the aim to support, aid or promote homosexuality. @ Obinoscopy you will not go to jail for treating homosexuals but you will be affected if you form an organisation solely dedicated to promote, aid or support homosexuals in their life style. Stop muddling issues. Unless you admit by yourself that the gay lifestyle is extremely risky healthwise and you are suggesting they should be quarantined! Unless you are seeking to weaken the senates stand as a future springboard for full legal status for gay marriage in Nigeria. Lets stop deceptively aiding what we know to be wrong! It is either you are against gay marriage or not period any buts is a tacit support!

The point of this thread is to demostrated graphicaly if possible the dangers of the gay life style and why the National assembly was so right in prescribing such a harsh sentence for them. 1, HIV AIDS was first diagonised among gay men in 1981 in the United States of America. And till today 80 percent of new HIV cases in the US are among Gay men. Infact one prominent gay man in America said AIDS is the disease of gay men. 2, Anal Cancer, anal sex is the sine aqua non of gay sex and this has contributed in no small measure to alarming rate of anal cancer in gay men, in some instances up to 90 percent. 3, kaposi Sarcoma is a strange form of cancer discovered almost exclusively among HIV positive gay men. 4, Human Papiloma Virus is a strange virus donated by gays to the world. Hold on, i am coming with more info on this repugnant life style.

Y'all fail to understand rymzo's point. What is the essence of denying rights to same sex couples but allowing same sex associations and clubs to thrive? Is that not the same nonsense that happened in the US, before you know it the gay associations has built a powerfull lobby to decriminalize gay marriage and in fact gain legal recognition. Your argurment is a bit like banning terrorist activities of Boko Haram but allowing them to form organisations and clubs for their members. To what end do you think such organisations will be? The senator are simply smart students of history, banning same sex marriage but allowing gay organisations is simply postponing the evil day! Pls. Lets not be silly! And I dont understand why one who does not practice homosexuality would be putting up such spirited defence for them! Gayism is against the tenets of humanity.

The gays are here again! Let me guess, you can hide behind nairaland but you cant organise a march to tell the public what you believe in! Looking for evidence that gay sex is dangerous to health, just google the dangers of gay sex. How come HIV was first diagonised among gay men? Are you unaware that Anal cancer while a rarity among heterosexual couples is a common denominator among gays. What of the rare form of cancer Kaposi Sarcoma that gays donated to the world through their insane practices? Are you so easily decieved by the west? If homosexuality is okay what then is wrong with incest between two consenting adults? Pls stop being silly! The Bible says all proponents of homosexuality are people with oblique reprobate minds! Thats your problem, your minds have suffered a major disconnect! America is the great LovePeddler spoken about in the book of Revelation. Stop following them blindly.

The bill does not infringe on anybody's rights. Each country decides what is acceptable for its citizens rights . For instance, inspite of the noise about human rights in the West, they still deny polygamysts and incestous couples their basic rights to marry. @ Evin brain you guys are begining to sound like errand boys to the west! Just the way polygamy and incest is offensive to the west, the same way homosexuality is offensive to us here! It is simple, let them legalise polygamy and incest before they can make noise about our stance on homosexuality. Secondy, I was an animal farmer(goats) and I never observed same sex activity, what I witnessed was rampant incestous unions among animals. Do we now support incestous relationships, animals practice it too!

The floodgates are now open! Wait for more mad and sickening degeneration of the reprobate western mind. Where are the proponents of gay marriage? Where are those sons of bitches? (pls pardon my language) legalising homosexuality has dealt a terrible blow to america's moral decency. Nigeria beware!

I dont know how true but isnt uche jombo a lesbian? Cos I have heard from several quaters that she's a queen bee lesbian in Nollywood. If thats really th
e case then her heart is not broken!

The husband is not wrong the wife is! check it out. The picture is the husbands property and all the wife needed to do was just to call his attention to the fact that she doesn't like the idea of keeping his ex-girl friends picture. The wife acted irrationally, lets tell ourselves the truth. On the other hand the husband should have asked the wife if she wanted the card kept for posterity. Finally, the husband should be more sensitive to his wife's feeling. that's my take.

Does it mean we cant get anything from you apart from open mouthed abuse and and oblique insight on marital issues? The way you spew filth, does it mean you can only understand gutter language? Are you this poor and dejected inside? What is with you and sexual insults? Are your abuses a real pointer to the real you? Are you really sure you grew up under good parentage? Jennykaydry how much lower are you going to sink before you get it? There are real heroes in Nairaland if you bother to look - people I admire their insight on issues. Unfortunately, you don't belong there but I believe every person can and should aspire to be a source of inspiration to others, whether in an annonymous forum like Nairaland or anywhere else! Comprende?

We don't need fund that will influence our government to every whim and caprices of the west, period. To hell with their Aid!

AYO is a miserable man because he wants to eat his cake and still have it. @ MRbrownJAY the poster has not come out to really say why he is leaving her because very clearly he has no reason. Look I am against taking peoples emotions for granted. I can almost believe that the poster made some assurances to her that gave her the confidence to invest all she had on him. Dont be suprised he may also have proposed marriage to her. Let the poster come out clearly and tell us the true state of things. Remember there are two sides to a story. The poster knows he has really duped the girl emotionally, thats why he can't face her. @ poster, what has changed to make you change your mind? Come clean on this one, we are waiting for you!

@ poster stop clawing at straws! For six year a woman invested all she had on you according to you and you never hated her all this while you were enjoying the goods. Stop giving flimsy excuses. What has changed that made you to change your mind. We want to know! Because it is immoral to sap someone emotionally and financialy for six good years and start telling stories now. You cant justify your betrayal and selfishness. It won't work! If you were able to stay with her for six years without seeing these 'faults' of yours then you might as well marry her and keep doing what you were doing that prevented you from seeing those faults for six good years! This game of coming up with lame and flimsy excuses when you want to dump someone must stop! Have some dignity for Christ sakes!

To love is far better than to be loved, though both of them are really important. When you love, you rediscover yourself. You find yourself doing things you never thought possible. You discover the true meaning of giving your all. It is a beautifull journey! Truly nothing compares to it!

Please keep them coming, I am really curious to see how low you can sink before you regain sanity! Chaircover and Mutter remains my heroes! In terms of marital insight they are light years ahead of you! Mind you, those that throw abuse at every opportunity are usually hiding things about themselves. They use the abuse as a shield and a front so that we cant see through them. Unfortunately, the harder they try, the more their inadequacy shows! Like I said ealier, keep it coming we may yet see a new low for unwise women

I believe you are worth more inspite of your efforts to sound vulgar and shore up your confidence as the enfant terrible of nairaland. Keep talking , I may yet find more use for you! Jennydry, the danger woman of naira! OMG! I am so scared!