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Is this all you are worth? Empty noise making and abuse. Is that all you can bring to the table? What kind of kids are you raising with this kind of language? Can you let your children see what you post? Can you proudly show your husband the kind of words you use here? It is either you are pretending here or you just enjoy acting bitchy on forums like this to sound bad and very stubborn! In any case, I will reserve your posts as example of what a good wife must not imitate. Either way you still serve a purpose!

And then you invite me to come and sodomize you. Do you place such a love value on your life? I believe you may be better than you sound, be carefull with what you post. It can negetively affect other peoples lives.

Ah! now I get it finally. So its all a trick. I thought as much. Come to annonymous forum spew rubbish for other foolish women to swallow and crash their marriage while you do the exact opposite at home. I know your type make noise outside come home like a lamb! Fault my argument if you can. The wife was wrong to tear pictures which belongs to her husband without permission. Period! Otherwise take your gutter language to where it belongs! For emphasis people like Chaircover and Mutter remain my heroes in this debate! They have in abudance what you lack - marital insight. You can't fake it. Go and sin no more!

@ poster you never loved her. Love never appears and disappears. You are not a decent person. How can someone invest all she in you for six years and this is how you pay her back. You better chase away those small parasites around you and take your true love to the altar like a proper man should! Don't be an eternal fool, in these days when 70 percent of young girls are practising lesbians while the remainder are single moms and bisexuals you are extremely lucky to find a woman who put her money where her mouth is. Next time I see your thread let it be about your wedding to your babe of six years!

Hardworking and Honest. Infact I have never read about or come across any man as honest as my father. Till date when I hear Christmas song I feel sad as it reminds me about my Dad's exit(he passed on around xmas period). Adieu Papa

Chaircover and Mutter are my heroes! Your husbands are really blessed. @ Ujujoan thats why your boyfriend will never marry you! You think you are smart? How about this? The card was the wife's gift to the husband, so it is now the man's property not her's. The ex- girl friends pix is also the man's property so the man is at liberty to use them any how he deemed fit. If the wife was uncomfortable with the pictures she should just call her husbands attention to it instead of going out of her way to destroy the husbands property. @ Jennkdry and Ujujoan it takes more than being a smart ass to be a good wife. The most important quality is a humble heart! Thats why the good wife apologised! She valued harmonious relationship with her good husband far above your insane women liberation bullshit that have created more lesbians and single mother than I can count!

This is very dangerous. Your son is detatched from reality. Imagine living in denial for three years! Look there is an underlining problem here beyond his academics. Before you do anything, first find out why he kept this kind of situation away from his parents for so long. If you dont sort this out and try to make him communicate more, you may have suspended the problem instead of solving it. Then there are so many things he could do, let him go to the open university, let him get involed with proffessional qualifications like ACCA, ICSAN, ICAN. MCSE etc. Believe me at the end of the day he might come out better than his mates. Pray for divine guidance for you. Goodluck

We warned you! The floodgates are now open! Get ready for all manners of deviancy. The moment homosexuality was accepted all manner of satanic ideas are now flying. Open marriage? Thats a new one!

I had thought that by now many of you have learnt their lesson, apparently it has'nt happened. Let me repeat it again, if elections are held between God and the devil, inspite of our church going the devil may win. Sadly we can shout and whine but do we really want a change? How many are willing to overlook luck and focus on the candidate who has clearly demostrated a capacity to effectively tackle corruption. In Nigeria we prefer luck to hardwork and love for country. For now Buhari remains my candidate.

@Kelz88 go ahead attack the Bible! Iw may get you the much desired popularity. If we do away with the Bible what exactly do we look up to? Your personal mantra book? You would'nt be the first to attack the Bible, many before you have done that but where are they today? My friend, the world is beyond what you can see and touch, bread and butter. There's definitely more to life.

Meanwhile the point of the post is to establish that support for homosexuality would encourage other sexual deviants to try for their 'rights'. Already people are begining to question why incestous couples should not marry. Now you see its not just about homosexuals alone, it is a fight to safeguard the little morality we have left. Stand up and be counted.

@Siena is that the new dont ask dont tell policy? well we know how that ended! it got repealed. Bro you are one step close to full blown endorsement. Nonchalance is tacit endorsement. Let me give an example, the issue of telling lies. Are you saying that as long as the lies being told does not directly affect you, you won't speak up against that vice? Well, that is how you sound! Correct me if I am wrong but that will sound like tacit endorsement for lying.

@Siena ever heard of the term direct psychology? it is simple enough! no pretence.It is either you are supporting homosexuality or not. At least you have ADMITTED that you KNOW the act of homosexuality is wrong BUT you will support it regardless because that is not the only thing wrong in our society. They say the best form of defence is attack. I wont begrudge you for adopting that dictum. Like I said ealier we wont eat you if you own up to your true status.The message is love for all sinners but hatred for the sin.

@ Siena this your accusations about me being a closeted homosexual has finally exposed you! if I were a closeted homosexual I would not be attacking the act. That is a far cry from your attitude . You have been 'wonderfully' pushing the homosexual agenda here that I wonder if you are not one of them. If you are not a homosexual why are you fighting so hard for them? Why are you afraid to declare your true status? I wont eat you if you do! i will only advice you against it because I know that it doesn't pay. Are you suffering from selective amnesia? I have never supported other sins, but in this context , I am speaking about homosexuality. Why are you particular about fighting for those who perpetrate this deviant sexual act? Mr Siena why are you not fighting so hard for other types of sin but only homosexuals? yes all have sinned and come short of the glory of God but that was why Jesus came so that we do not die in our sins. The scripture said "shall we continue in sin that grace may abound"? if you as a christian knows that your body is the temple of the holy ghost, then you will be a lot more careful what you do with it . Your body is not a dump for every kind of sexual depravity, it is a temple where the holy ghost dwells. Please change you ways! Stop fighting for what you know is wrong by saying is that the only wrong thing. Nobody has said that lying is good or comes out to justify it, why are you then trying to justify homosexuality? At least the sinner is supposed to be humble and ask God for forgiveness not arrogant and demand that he is not sinning more than others. The question is Homosexuality a sin? Answer, Yes. then don't support this sin.

You keep confusing issues all the time and keep pretending you dont understand facts. I am certainly not comparing armed robbery to homosexuality, I was merely stating the obvious that other societal ill persists no matter what we say. Why say we should ignore homosexuality because they will carry on regardless of what we say? That certainly is a very very lame excuse? Prostitutes, bestiality and incest are still being practised inspite your opinions should you now throw in the towel and support them because you don't have the spine to speak up? Your arguments are mischevious, you know homosexuality is a sin but you will gladly support homosexuals because thats just one sin among others so whats the point? Whatever I say wont stop homosexuals so why not support them since I am helpless? I will support homosexuals in public forum because I cant stop them but I wont support peadophiles, beastiality etc because my opinions in a public forum can stop them. Does that sum up your stand? Honestly that is very lame even by your own standards! I certainly have no personal grudge but if you know something why do you support it regardless?

I think in terms of sustainance of ideology Ojukwu is far greater. What does Zik represent to the average igbo? Everybody knows what Ojukwu represent- Igbo interest

Again Siena inspite of your views armed robbers still rob, politicians still steal public funds. So because social ills persit inspite of penalties, you will now throw in the towel and support them? That is so lame! It is so spineless. It dosen't matter whether people heed me or not what matters is that I stood up to be counted.

@ Siena the reason for a higher incidence of mouth and throat infection among lesbians is because lesbians are more likely to perform anilingus, cunningus than heterosexual women and lesbians are far more likely to have multiple sex partners than normal. These factors are pivotal in the unusually high incidence of throat and mouth infections in lesbian couples. Please help me pass on the message to lesbians so they can stop! Again

@ Siena, you dont need to go far just google the dangers of lesbian sex. You dont get it do you? Homosexuality is an abomination! A heterosexual couple living together without marriage are guilty of fornication but the moment they are married they are no longer sinning. You cant say the same about homosexuality. You can never get divine approval for homosexuality no matter the consequencies. Like I said in my ealier post evil triumphs when good men and women keep quiet. Like I said ealier some people I came across have been able to kick the habit. The mind is very important in our sexuality and that is why every genuine believer should renew their mind with the word of God otherwise the mind will become a magnet for every deviant imagination. God ordained heterosexual relationship, male and female created he them. It is Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve. Get it Siena this issue is fundamental to the family. Biblicaly speaking who is the head of the home in a homosexual relationship? Scripturaly speaking gay marriage is a nullity! Why must people go through the inconvenience of artificial insemination to have children when there are natural way of doing that. As for MRbrownJAY's argument that people have the right to choose their sexual orientation, don't I also have the right the right to speak up about fundamental societal issues like this. I have never advocated violence against homosexuals, I only insist that they are living an aberrant life style and that they need to rethink their position and change. Anybody is free to make choices but people must also be ready to live the consequencies of their choices. Why would homosexuals demand to adopt children when they turned their back to the natural of having children? If homosexuality is so normal why do they abandon their turf looking for the results of heterosexual relationship - children. Besides, there are other people following my post, whose lives are being touched for the better.

There is place the Bible denied women the use of pant. Deutronomy 22 vs 5 says women should not wear what pertains to a man and viceverca. Now me and you know that their are trousers for women. Again let me make it clear that I disagree with gay lifestyle in totality. Bro I do not just read the Bible I also practice it. A married woman's mission on earth is to be a helpmate to the husband. Very clearly, the husband is the leader(not ruler) of the home?

Knowing therefore the terror of the Lord, we persuade men(2nd Corinthians.5vs11a). Let us be clear on one thing I am persuading homosexuals to turn from an unfruitfull lifestyle. You dont know me at all, but this one thing is clear homosexuality is an abomination before God and man. Leviticus 18:22. Hey MRbrowmJAY people like us dont care about being 'politically correct' we care more about being morally correct. Search any where to see whether I have been moraly sleazy. Inspite of the west and its apologetics like you homosexuality will always remain an abomination. A heinou s crime against God and nature. MRbrownJAY go and sin no more!

Bro dont take it personal! Just say this prayer. Lord Jesus I admit Iam a sinner. Please forgive my sins( at this point begin to mention your sin of homosexuality and so on). I confess you as my Lord and personal Saviour. Please come into my heart.(joyfully) Thank you for saving me! Bro if you said this prayer sincerely wellcome to the kingdom of God! Now my grouse against homosexuality is multifaceted. I am a christian and homosexuality is biblically wrong. Secondly it is against nature. Every organism in nature are male and female. Where does homosexuality come in. Again what exactly is the fruit of homosexual relationship? The couple can never have a child of their own without subjecting themselves to inconvenience of either artificial insemination like animals or adopt children. Statistics show that male homosexual have an unusually high incidence of anal cancer. Also medical experts agree that gay anal sex is the easiest way of contacting HIV from an infected partner. The first instance of hiv was among gay men. Also gay and lesbian people are far more likely to experiment with other forms of sexual deviancies than heterosexuals. Whats more, lesbians have an unsually high rate of throat cancer and are far more likely to contact mouth ulcer and other dangerous STDs in the mouth and throat from an infected partner than heterosexual women.

Why dont you just admit you are gay so I can address you directly. In any case, speaking up this way has effectively put at my last count twenty six ladies from the satanic clutches of Lesbianism and several other guys too. My wife's book on Lesbianism will be out soon. It dosen't matter what you think now eventually you will see the folly of your ways! Sorry bro there are still those who believe in good moral standards. Thank God you have admitted that you have admitted that homosexuality is a sin. Don't also forget what Jesus told the woman who was caught in adultery, ' go and sin no more! I think you should make that the focus of your message to your fellow homosexuals, believe me it will save some souls there! Many people(including you) conveniently quote the first part of Jesus speech' he that is without sin cast the first stone'and then refuse to acknowledge the last part of his speech which is a direct message for the adulterer'go and sin no more'.Note that Jesus never supported the sinner, he gave her a second chance. That's the message I have for you . MRbrownJAY, go and sin no more!

@MRbrownJAY thats exactly the point! Supporters of homosexuals support other sexual deviancies like incest, adultery, beastiality, gay incest etc. That has finally proved my point. Suppport for homosexuality is support for anything goes morality. I hope you will do your daughter one day and say it is not anybody's bussiness? With this kind of arguement paedophiles will be welcome to society very soon cause it is not your damn bussiness! Because it is not your child that is involved. Well I think you are wrong! Homosexuality is a crime against nature. It is a crime against God. It is a crime against good moral reasoning. It is a crime against good conscience. According to the Bible no homosexual will ever make heaven. It will always remain an abomination in the eyes of God.

@johndoe100 thanks balanced homosexual! Inbalance to homosexuals like you is moral resistance to deviant sexual behaviour. Any time homosexuality is mentioned, you abandon your religion and morality so that you be 'balanced' @ MRbrownJAY doing me involves commenting on vital issues like this in public forums. God forbid! What happens the day your adult son walks up to you and announces he's gay? Be honest will you pat him on the back and say welcome to the clubs or will talk sense to him African style? Remember the question Cain asked God in the Bible. Am I my brother's keeper? Commenting on critical social issues like this is part of your social responsibility as a good citizen. Meanwhile, I am just trying to persuade those who have taken this moral low road and reconsider their stand. And my question still remains what is wrong with other forms of sexual deviancy if homosexuality is okay. Incestous can also tell us to mind our bussiness that it's nobody's bussiness what they do in their privacy. In keeping an eye on your environment you are doing you.

Does better life only mean provision of physical infrastructure?

@101 always enjoys your superb analysis but I must say that I dont support any kind of sexual immorality. But Iam this outspoken againt homosexuality because they are the only ones demanding legitmacy among the lot. The rest of them Adulterers, fornicators, incestous couples, paedofiles etc hide in shame to perpetrate their abominable deeds. Homosexuals are trying to hoodwink us with genetics to support them!

And please the question is if we let homosexuals go what moral right do we have to reject incest and bestiality practisioners? The same argument homosexuals advance also favour them. Are we going to open the floodgates and let in every kind of sexual deviancy on the premise of respect of human rights and privacy.