₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Some man in the past gave a lady money when she asked on the first date, now they all think it's ok

whether he gives or not, your mum taught you never to take Money from strangers .... Even if you know you like the guy , you just sacrifice for that day knowing fully that other days will come after you two have known each other well and you will take cash from him.

See, my ex on the first date, I wanted giving her money for tp, she told me no... She ain't taking... Respect doubled ....

Rebuke:
I am so ashamed yhur behalf right nw.

What a generation! I mean, wherez yhur pride as a lady?

I even doubt if yhu a lady for real. Mayb one of those low guys hiding under a female Monica.

Just in case yhu ar a lady, I say to yhu dat yhu are irresponsible....no value of any sort, no dignity to protect.

I wonder how many men yhu have blown o... hide yhur dirty face.

lol she is even married sef... No self respect.

1Sharon:
You men have enabled these women to be doing this

how? You women just put your blames on men..

Will go and start a new life in Kaduna.

Bintabisiriyu:
Wa for you too, buy me data na

you can borrow data from Airtel now...

Bintabisiriyu:
Free basics no gre me see o

na wa for you

Doesn't make you cheap... What makes you loose is when you beg me for cash on the first date...

Mchew

Esji80:
ok.thanks for the prompt reply

you are most welcome sir.

Who does that... Doesnt he have sense of self respect or what... He didn't even ask of 50k, its almost 90percent of her salary

Esji80:
Hello Mr Dingbang,I have been trying to take KWIKCash loan using firstbank mobile app but whenever I nter my card details,,,d expiry date is 05/20 but it is saying it not correct

my apologies, it must be a network glitch as the bank is working on it, please try sometime later.

Don't hit your wife

UyaiIncomparabl:

I thought as much.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Worrying your life ke?
Abeg o. No cast me falsely.
Just stop justifying your philandering acts.

have we met before?

Lol..

candy:
Been there done that bro...As a matter of fact, I teach my children to respect everybody, regardless of sex, class or ideologies. I have a feeling you are a gentleman yourself, even though you may not support the idea of gender equality. You have put your points across without insults and that's quite impressive!
It's all good.

I support gender equality... But I don't support people abusing privileges.

candy:
True feminism can't thrive in Nigeria, Nigeria is a patriarchal society. I'm a Nigerian, I want gender equality but at best I will call myself a rights activist because I understand the concept of feminism. We are just not ready for it and the male chauvinists are using it to their advantage. I pray we get to the level of Iceland or even Rwanda some day.

ok this is what you should do, when you get married, teach your kids gender equality... Teach your sons to respect women and teach your daughters to respect themselves

UyaiIncomparabl:
Keep justifying your flirtatiousness.

free me na... Wetin ... Why are you worrying my life?

The reason why people cheat is because human wants are insatiable. .

Also , the fear of being cheated on makes one to cheat too.. They would be like, mehn what if he/she finally ends up not marrying me, let me get a side boyfriend or girlfriend.

Babybunny:
Y'all are making it seem as if 2000 is a big money for a lady to pay.

The reason why parties allow ladies to come in free is not because they think women can't pay their bills but so men will be attracted to the party knowing lots of ladies will be there.

Besides female feminists are also ladies.
We have males that are feminists BTW.

can you imagine.. Has there ever been a party in Nigeria where a gatefee was imposed on both sexes and both turned up in a reasonable ratio?

candy:
Hmmm...believe me, I am not much of a feminist and that was why I actually said people don't understand the concept of feminisn in Nigeria. If you go by feminist theories- radical, liberal, cultural and all that, feminism won't really work around here because religion will always be a big factor.

These different types of feminism is what people don't grasp because they have different views. If you call yourself a true feminist, you will frown when women are given soft landing and tested like a weaker vessel(which the bible calls us). I am a gender person, I want equal opportunity for both sexes, even the queer ones I respect their rights to life if they stay on their lanes! I respect the right of children...but I am a Nigerian and a realist- hope you get the drift.

the reason why I like myself is that I put people to test. If you say you are a real feminist and you can't simply assume responsibilities same as men then you should check yourself again. Most ladies who say they are feminists preach it but don't act it. For you to demand equal rights, you have to be an icon for someone else to give you that respect.

vizkiz:
Donstan18


Your father

wetin happen? Una bet?

What kind of stupid love is that? don't piss me off..

I had a friend who died after she graduated from university and she was an ss child...


Unless you want to see your children die early..then you can go ahead and marry him.

Lalas247:
lol it was a bit over ripe

you are forgiven

Well as long as the money is justifiable.

Lalas247:
join me ...
jollof rice and dodo

this your plantain sha...

Me sef dey find cook... Location pH. You will be paid prettily.

Philpham:
There are no husband material left in Nigeria. Any woman that marries them is at their own risk.
Men are nothing but wife beaters and cheaters.
Women should leave any abusive marriage. No man is worth the stress anymore.

candy, is this your definition of a feminist? Look how she goes about downgrading men. I think feminists are uncouth

candy:
A true feminist will not hesitate to pay. A radical feminist will see no reason why men are listed, feminists are listed and ladies are listed.

because the other ladies who aren't feminists have a religion of their own.. Maybe the world hasnt come up with a name to give to women who aren't feminists.

In my office, I prefer a man being the boss, you know why? Because a man is more stable emotionally than a woman. Its not about her qualifications this time around, its just about gender differences. There are things a man can let go and see as not important but a woman , feminist or not, as long as she is a woman will not even let go.. Her emotions will cloud her sense of judgement.

There is a reason why you are a woman, read your bible and find out instead of fighting the cause for female existence

candy:
Feminism is a set of ideologies that seek equality in the opportunities available to both sexes. Feminism is about fighting social structures that restrict and discriminate against women.

Feminism is not saying women should be paid more than men; it is about being judged on the quality of your work and being paid accordingly regardless of sex.
Feminism is not saying men should not head organisations, feminism is saying let him head the organisation because he is the best candidate. Feminism seeks fairness to both sexes, not in anyway anti men, just pro women.

now in a world where ladies will not afford to pay for their dates simply because they feel its the guy who is supposed to pay (they see men as the greater vessels), the feminists amongst them who believe they should be judged equally should be able to assume the responsibilities of a man such as paying for their own bills.

Fine woman...