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cococandy:
He even has the nerve to open thread about it

very pathetic... People justifying adultery. They fail to read their Bible. God hates adultery so much it can send someone to hell within seconds..

Rivers state youths are something else

Here to read lies...... Well make I go change my brush ....

wunmi590:
I am a microbiologist, so when it comes to hygiene I don't joke with it.

Sometimes one month, and sometimes not even close to that, because majority of the toothbrush they sell now, is nothing to write home about.

And the funniest part of it is that, I buy in bunch, thinking it would be better than what I have been using before, but still go ahead and buy nonsense.

I just pray most of the times to see visitors who would come visit me and need toothbrush to clean their teeth when they sleep over, so that it can finish quickly.

biko where ur house dey

beautydutch:
lmao.. bros u wicked o

lmao.. Person wey never fvck for up to one year dey hold himself na him another guy dey chook prick inside hole anyhow.. Now tell me, why I no go vex

vivavik:
God bless u 1 million times for saying the 'hard truth'

smiles...... thanks sweetheart

Gracidoinlove:
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Wen he's relieved, he'll continue the skin to skin again. Men will never learn. Any hole they see, they enter. Tufiakwa

the thing is sweet na

emeijeh:
Do what bro?

chook prick anyhow

hyb33:
bad guy....see how u made d dude humble like humblesmith.......will u have sex without condom again
no. sirrrrr!!!!

hahahahaha... My brother...the matter funny gan

Benita27:
Shebi, condom no dey break?.

well all the times I have used condom, they didn't break...so...

Thicktemptation:
Please the girl should get treated as well.

lol.. Do you even think she likes her life? That one go just dey distribute the disease to all and sundry

murmee:
Your loss!!!

see this one...

Sunshyne200:
I heard he was shot in Rivers, is it true?

wow... Are u serious?

Lmao ...wtf

IamKashyBaby:
I dunno about this but my target of getting married is after i retired from my work

at age 70 I guess

Nairaland girls who disagree with this post are under 25....

Nothing this people can do that will make me change my mind... Even if them like make dem install glo mast for my house, I can't subscribe to their slow network

countryfive:
wetin u carry for mind daddy freeze pikin?

see you.. Na person like you go come my church if I open my church..

LancelLogan:
I have chronic OCD coupled with other mental issues like ADHD, chronic depression, extreme anxiety, bipolar, Low self-esteem, Perfectionism(OCPD similar to OCD) and the Fantasy Disorder (i waste hours fantasizing about a character rich fantasy world i have created in my head for almost a decade now) and (i don't know) i think i'm autistic... It kills me inside... I have contemplated suicide but i'm afraid it will be too painful or unsuccessful (since firearms are not sold in this country)...

My mental issues started when i was around 5 years (or maybe since child birth)... My depression heightened during my secondary education at a military secondary school (Nigerian Navy Port Harcourt).

I stay in Port Harcourt and school in the University of Port Harcourt (Uniport)... I'm repeating my final year because my mental issues did not allow me focus on my project and two difficult Maths courses.. i find it hard to focus (ADHD) and study... If i am not battling with that ever present inner OCD voice, I'm fantasizing about another world inside my head...

Everybody thinks i'm rude because i am never smiling and i don't know how to talk to or reply people (I'm always anxious even when i'm familiar with the person trying to talk to me)... no matter how i try i will always say something awkward or I wouldn't be able to say anything at all (my heart will always seem to be racing and my speech stuttering)... So i just detach myself from people generally to save myself from embarrassment...

What my OCD and OCPD has obsessed and compelled me to do over the years is just so much i can't write all about it here... It's more than the regular "wash your hand before and after you touch anything if not you will be infected or fall sick" or "if you press the wrong letter while typing a document, you must clear the whole page and start again if not the document file will be corrupted"]... If ever i try to resist the OCD voice, I'll feel so uncomfortable, anxious, disturbed and drowsy... i won't be able to concentrate on anything at all...

Also, it has made me abusive to my younger brother... If he does something I(or the OCD rather) don't(doesn't) like ... Example, if he doesn't wash his hand before touching things in our room or doesn't follow a couple of sequence i normally carry out while cleaning our room... i get so angry, i yell or sometimes(rarely though) physically abuse him... Any little thing he does irritates me even if he is just playing music, making a call or even laughing at a joke he read on his phone... This makes me hate myself but i can't stop this behavior...

Side note:[I have nothing against Christians or religious people... Please, don't be offended] I recently stop believing in religion (Christianity in my case)... I see it as a mechanism implemented to make people behave and make people be motivated to live and enjoy life... I also don't identify as an atheist because most atheist these days are just religious about their non-believe... They will undoubtedly support theories like The Big Bang Theory and yet criticizes Christians for believing in the Creation Story... I don't believe both of the aforementioned theories(stories)... I can say I'm agnostic because i do not know about the origin of existence.. Although, when i was still an ardent Christian, my OCD voice will compel me to give large portions of my personal savings to "God" so that i'll receive a specific blessing or answer to a prayer request... lol...

I have not talked to anyone about my issues because i know they will not understand... during my secondary school days, i told my parents i was contemplating suicide... they beat me up and took me to church for deliverance... lol... so there is no point talking about it to my family...


I will appreciate talking to someone who understands... Please reply or email me...

Thanks...

come to first bank branch Choba, ask of Ben. Let's discuss

SmartchoiceNGR:
She feels they should be better placed in life... and recently reconnected with an exboyfriend having a marital crisis.

she is only spoiling her marriage as far as I am concerned...

Just tap on the "quote" button.

SmartchoiceNGR:
I can't say. But the man claims he also sponsors her younger sister in school. @200k per session. According to him he asks for nothing from her.

so why is she now getting all fierce... Some tigeress we marry as wives though.. He should be a man and shut her up... See I don't like when women take advantage of chances.. They just abuse it.

fhorlar:
Don't mind the poster oo...when guys cheat, it normal and expected of ladies to forgive..but when women cheat,another world war just commenced!!!I still don't understand it.@poster, just take a freaking chill pill , no one is perfect. It's like you fink women too are not flesh and cannot be moved. Not making an excuse for her but shiit happens , learn to forgive! Drop ur ego and move on!
Also,all those your long epistles are unnecessary. You would just gone straight to the point!

But women are strong shaa ooo...when my dad cheated on my mum one time , the whole world did not hear o. Minsk just took it coded and even we children did not know until several years later. And now same mumsi is sick and my popsi has been running upandan to make sure she survives. Now that love and maturity in play.

the long epistles was just a coy to make us blame the woman.. As soon as I read the part where he said he had sex with a girl without remorse, my zeal to continue died that moment.

SmartchoiceNGR:
Wife works in the local government offices. Man claims he gives everything back home. And when he's broke the business buys foodstuffs at home. Only foodstuffs.

so? I asked what has she contributed financially..

What's the wife's contribution ? Has she ever contributed a dime ? Isn't his money being used to cater for the family?

littlewonders:
Bros.... This tithe thing really pain you o..

lol.. Our pastors are rich na...