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Benita27:
It's called God's mercies.
Humans are different.

u are still being presumptuous.... Its a bad habit

Its not wrong.. People only flare up because they feel threatened that you judge them for what they have committed..


Its just an easy sign to let you know she doesn't even practice safe sex in the first place.. So flee from such girls... They are just looking for whom to carry unwanted pregnancy and dump on...



I want to tell you dat it won't work for me... (Op am not referring to u)

Benita27:
I guess you'll end the relationship.

i said in my first comment that its a 50-50 chance.... I may end it or I may not end it.. Not you assuming I will end it.. Or is it ur decision?



Tell me, why do u think u ain't dead yet when u sin against God? Although you know he says sinners will perish.. But u have cheated on him.. Yet u still breathe...


Think

Thanks for this inspiring piece.. I was almost thinking of taking up arms to get my own share of the national cake too...

Benita27:
Are you kidding me?, are couples not committed in courtship?.

courtship my foot..... I won't be surprised if my future fiancee gets shagged by another guy out of my knowledge and after a while I get to know about it.

A nairalander called me tho it was an anonymous call then he told me I was being summoned at the DSS headquarters in abuja... ..

ocheu:
everyone must not work and everyone must not do business. Some ppl may already have a career to build, but the need to work to gather experience and also make some cash. So don't talk him into selling akara, everyone must not sell akara.

if u take this sort of mentality and inculcate it to ur kids, they will never be independent...

ikp120:
Then he will have himself to blame for not asking deep questions. The guy or girl CANNOT even tell you all the ugly things about him or her except you ask am really terrible probing questions.

mehn.... Have u ever been questioned by a prosecutor in a court?

Benita27:
I suppose we're talking of a relationship where both parties are committed.

Marriage is already on the table, transparency is required.

no relationship is a committed relationship until they both take it to the altar!

Nuahall2k14:
Fool! U think say capital dey fall from sky.

you are no better than an ant who hustles for bread

Benita27:
Asking him a question like "will you marry me if i tell you of my past?". Will make you seem desperate for marriage.

Not a good idea.

its not being desperate.. Will u afford telling every tom dick and harry you had a form of rship with in d past and when u both happen to break up, they go on spilling secrets just like I did to barbieklaus? think...

Benita27:
If you don't tell him and he finds out, you come up as a liar, which could make him never to trust you.

I just replied u about what to do next when he finds out

Benita27:
What will happen in a situation he never asked but heard from someone?. Don't forget some past could freak someone out.

then u ask him if he will marry you if u confess all to him.. If he says no, den u tell him u don't owe him any explanation and if he says yes, u tell him all

Ur boyfriend/girlfriend is not Jesus Christ who has mandated you to cast ur burdens on him...



From personal experience its best u do not even let him or her know and pray he or she doesn't even find out..


You only confess when the time arises and whatever happens , you accept it in good faith.. Remember, its always a 50-50 chance.


Peace.

Only the heathen will support adultery and all it forms of it... And yet, when it involves them, they cry and wail about being cheated.



Just look at a woman who says oh she will understand because it involves money... That shows u the level of cheapness and low life attitude she has .


If u don't understand what I just wrote, please do not quote me , for you do not know the intention of the writer and the subject of the message

The society around you, the primary and secondary school as well as yourself is a criteria to determine your skill in spoken and written English.

firstking01:
Hahahaha, seems you have personal issues with pastors, but that's not my business whatsoever...i only asked you to go and verify from your pastore cos i believe they are spiritually placed scriptural wise than us....and i think i gave you a convincing reason to why it's compulsory for a christian to speak in tongues....i wonder why people know the truth but delibrately decide to play ignorance...



We have two baptisms in the bible, the first is baptism by water...

The second is baptism by the holyghost which comes with speaking in tongues...immediately you are immersed into water, after that speaking in tongues follows....stop arguing the bible and believe the bible....ok, have a nice day.

u need deliverance from the lies of satan

firstking01:
Your thread should 've been "can a christian make heaven if he/she doesn't speak in tongues and NOT "is it compulsory for a christian to speak in tongues, and again, yes it's compulsory for a christian who's born again to speak in tongues cos after your physical baptism you'd be baptised spiritually which is the speaking in tongues....benedict you should know these things na, they are too elemtary to debate about…you sef

ogbeni u make me laugh... Beware of the yeast from the pharisees and teachers of the law... I just seem to get amused whey u people come up with all these funny ideas .. One blind man cannot lead another, both of dem will surely fall into the pit.

JeffreyJamez:
Oya you wey sabi,show me where them talk say e compulsory to speak gibberish.

please ask him.. Am just dumbfounded

People go to visit someone who is sick... Me sef want to go and visit buhari

firstking01:
Lol, Brain wash ke?....ask for help and stop wallowing in ignorance jare

don't make me laff nigga...

Lalasticlala

Lol now dis is so funny

JeffreyJamez:
Enter heaven? Lol......Abeg I no wan laugh this morning.

According to tuface Nobody wan die but them wan go heaven

lol d manner in which these mushroom churches have brainwashed faithless youths is just laughable...

Clitx:
Tell them aristos...

lol the deceiver won't be blamed

JeffreyJamez:
Language of the angels indeed...So they're the only ones who can speak it ba? What is the essence of passing a message from the angels by speaking a language that NOBODY understands?.

same question I want to ask guys like firstking01 who thinks one can't enter heaven if he/she can't speak in tongues

firstking01:
It's compulsory for a christian

you must have been brain washed by your pastor ... I can really see that..

JeffreyJamez:
The people who speak in tongues don't really understand what the Bible meant when it said the apostles spoke in tongues. It meant the apostles where able to speak in different languages that people of said languages can actually understand. And this was so that the gospel will be preached in all the land.

But in dear Nigeria, somebody will just start saying rubbish that nobody understands and they'll say pastor is speaking in tongues.. Nonsense noise that's what it is.

I dey tell you... they say this "tongue" language is the language of the angels... I begin to wonder how will the angels be speaking such... I am pretty sure God speaks all languages and not some funny human invented language

This makes me want to go into event management

Woman wey like party wella

It is well..