Richy4:


Nothing beats having a child that u can call your own? ... Okay buddy please do not adopt my brother if u are not mentally read to regard an adopted child as your own....

The worst thing a man can do to a child is to make him/ her feel different knowingly or unknowingly...

God will bless you and your wife at the appointed time... But while you are waiting for his answers, keep on visiting the doctors... And I believe some medical professionals on this forum might bring some other alternatives as well... Wishing you the best Buddy...

Thank you so much bro, but please don't get me wrong when I said "I feel nothing beats...." its just my personal opinion and my opinion might be wrong; To be fair, adopting a child is not a bad idea but to me having one's biological child feels a bit fulfilling. Steve Jobs was adopted and he turned out to be great.

Iyaebe:
let her try it out.

Okay, thank you so much.

MrBrownJay1:


men like yourself, who value their lives upon the lives of others, will never be satisfied.... if you indeed love your wife and your marriage then stick with it. if your main focus is to get a child at any cost then best start looking for an alternative.

I don't understand the "will never be satisfied" part, looking for an alternative is one of the reasons I came to ask this forum publicly.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Has she done abortions before ??

Going through your statement and with the way you’re sounding, seems you’re hiding something about your wife. Sorry to say, just my observation.

She hasn't had an abortion before

drmuchin:
Go and see an Obs/Gynae

We have done this, 3 different ones sef

Richy4:
The question is did you marry her for procreation purposes only or for the love you have for her?... Having a kid is an added plus in a relationship...no doubt about that but some times definition on why u got married in the first place is very important as well...

Rest of mind sometimes brings couple closer to their goal.. Maybe you can try other options like adoption....No stigma attached anymore... with having a kid to care for, you might not even know when your biological star might start developing right in your wife's womb due to rest of mind...

Putting a burning coal on her and wearing an unpleasant countenance is not the best way to go about it... My honest opinion though...

I have really started considering adoption but I am just not comfortable with it at the moment, I feel nothing beats having a child that you can call your own biologically.

Iyaebe:
Be patient with her,has she ever done some flushing of the fallopian tubes?

I don't think so

Hello fam, Please I need your advice on my issue; My wife and I got married 5 years ago and she has been unable to get pregnant. We have done all tests, which the doctor confirmed that I am fine but she might have a slight issue. We have tried addressing the issue but still no positive result. The thing is I am getting very impatient and feel very unhappy when I see my friends with their family especially their children...my wife is a good woman and honestly at this point I dont know what to do. I am not getting younger and I would love to have kids while I am still very much active... please kindly advise me on what to do because its becoming embarassing at this point.

adexbusta:
kindly state fx that pays pls. and how it works. Thanks

I think he already mentioned it "First Profit", checking them out though!

dogtails:
Trade crypto and get more than 50% monthly...First profit pays 18% monthly sha but I rather trade myself dan invest with anyone

Hmmmn.... Interesting

Hello all,

I am currently in a dilemma. I have a friend who keeps pestering me to come and invest in a platform that supposedly deals in FX and real estate and promises 20% profit monthly. The thing is my friend has invested and has been collecting his profits for the past 4 months, However I remember the days of MMM (which unfortunately burnt my hands) and I am cautiously considering my options. I have some quid to put aside no doubt but I will like to throw this question out to the open. Which investment in Nigeria of today can be paying 20% monthly profits consistently?

Ideas and contributions will be highly appreciated.