discojug:
Hello fam, Please I need your advice on my issue; My wife and I got married 5 years ago and she has been unable to get pregnant. We have done all tests, which the doctor confirmed that I am fine but she might have a slight issue. We have tried addressing the issue but still no positive result. The thing is I am getting very impatient and feel very unhappy when I see my friends with their family especially their children...my wife is a good woman and honestly at this point I dont know what to do. I am not getting younger and I would love to have kids while I am still very much active... please kindly advise me on what to do because its becoming embarassing at this point.

tensazangetsu20:
Why not adopt if she can't get pregnant since she's a good lady according to you. A child is a child.

Mariangeles:


Most men do not seem to like the adoption idea for some reason(s).
Especially when they’re trying for a child.

That aside, what inspired your moniker?
I almost always try to pronounce it anytime I see it, and it sounds Asian.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Has she done abortions before ??

Going through your statement and with the way you’re sounding, seems you’re hiding something about your wife. Sorry to say, just my observation.

tensazangetsu20:


It is Japanese. If you watch anime it's ichigos bankai from the anime bleach.

discojug:
Hello fam, Please I need your advice on my issue; My wife and I got married 5 years ago and she has been unable to get pregnant. We have done all tests, which the doctor confirmed that I am fine but she might have a slight issue. We have tried addressing the issue but still no positive result. The thing is I am getting very impatient and feel very unhappy when I see my friends with their family especially their children...my wife is a good woman and honestly at this point I dont know what to do. I am not getting younger and I would love to have kids while I am still very much active... please kindly advise me on what to do because its becoming embarassing at this point.

BRATISLAVA:


Are you interested in the 1000 year blood war nowadays?

tensazangetsu20:


Oh yeah. They are continuing the animation this year.

Beremx:
You didn’t say what your wife’s fertility issue is. Nevertheless, why not try traditional means for her to get pregnant. It seems to have worked for many women I know.

It is well with you

Iyaebe:
Be patient with her,has she ever done some flushing of the fallopian tubes?

Richy4:
The question is did you marry her for procreation purposes only or for the love you have for her?... Having a kid is an added plus in a relationship...no doubt about that but some times definition on why u got married in the first place is very important as well...

Rest of mind sometimes brings couple closer to their goal.. Maybe you can try other options like adoption....No stigma attached anymore... with having a kid to care for, you might not even know when your biological star might start developing right in your wife's womb due to rest of mind...

Putting a burning coal on her and wearing an unpleasant countenance is not the best way to go about it... My honest opinion though...

drmuchin:
Go and see an Obs/Gynae

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Has she done abortions before ??

Going through your statement and with the way you’re sounding, seems you’re hiding something about your wife. Sorry to say, just my observation.

discojug:

I don't think so

discojug:
Hello fam, Please I need your advice on my issue; My wife and I got married 5 years ago and she has been unable to get pregnant. We have done all tests, which the doctor confirmed that I am fine but she might have a slight issue. We have tried addressing the issue but still no positive result. The thing is I am getting very impatient and feel very unhappy when I see my friends with their family especially their children...my wife is a good woman and honestly at this point I dont know what to do. I am not getting younger and I would love to have kids while I am still very much active... please kindly advise me on what to do because its becoming embarassing at this point.

MrBrownJay1:


men like yourself, who value their lives upon the lives of others, will never be satisfied.... if you indeed love your wife and your marriage then stick with it. if your main focus is to get a child at any cost then best start looking for an alternative.

Iyaebe:
let her try it out.

discojug:
I don't understand the "will never be satisfied" part, looking for an alternative is one of the reasons I came to ask this forum publicly.

discojug:


I have really started considering adoption but I am just not comfortable with it at the moment, I feel nothing beats having a child that you can call your own biologically.

Nothing beats having a child that u can call your own? ... Okay buddy please do not adopt my brother if u are not mentally ready to regard an adopted child as your own....

The worst thing a man can do to a child is to make him/ her feel different knowingly or unknowingly...

God will bless you and your wife at the appointed time... But while you are waiting for his answers, keep on visiting the doctors... And I believe some medical professionals on this forum might bring some other alternatives as well... Wishing you the best Buddy...

chudyprince:
please, what are the tradition methods, what is the name.
My wife and i are having similar problem

Richy4:


Nothing beats having a child that u can call your own? ... Okay buddy please do not adopt my brother if u are not mentally read to regard an adopted child as your own....

The worst thing a man can do to a child is to make him/ her feel different knowingly or unknowingly...

God will bless you and your wife at the appointed time... But while you are waiting for his answers, keep on visiting the doctors... And I believe some medical professionals on this forum might bring some other alternatives as well... Wishing you the best Buddy...